Buckle up, folks! 🚨 We've got a doozy of a story for you today! 😱 Meet our 29-year-old baby-faced protagonist, who found herself in a wild situation at a sports bar. 🍻 When the bartender decided to play a little game of "pass the ID" with some random patrons, things took a turn for the worse! 😠 Our gal was NOT having it, but her friend seemed to think it was all just harmless fun. 🙄 So, was she right to stand her ground or should she have just let it slide? 🤔 Let's dive in and find out! 🕵️♀️
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Diply | Diply
🆔 Bartender Blunder: ID Insanity! 😱
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whothatisnow | whothatisnow
Trending
🍻 Bar Banter Gone Bad! 🙊
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whothatisnow | whothatisnow
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👀 Nosy Patrons Prying! 😠
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whothatisnow | whothatisnow
🤲 Gimme Back My ID! 😤
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whothatisnow | whothatisnow
😒 Excuse Me, That's MINE! 🙄
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whothatisnow | whothatisnow
🕵️ ID Inspection Invasion! 😡
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whothatisnow | whothatisnow
🙎♀️ Friend Defends Foolishness! 🤦♀️
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whothatisnow | whothatisnow
🔧 Trent The Tool! 🙄
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whothatisnow | whothatisnow
🆔 License Lunacy: It's Personal! 😠
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whothatisnow | whothatisnow
😅 BF Brushes It Off! 🙄
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whothatisnow | whothatisnow
😰 Stalker Struggles: Never Again! 😖
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whothatisnow | whothatisnow
😤 Bothered Beyond Belief! 😠
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whothatisnow | whothatisnow
☎️ Manager Mania: Taking Action! 😤
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whothatisnow | whothatisnow
🤔 Harmless Humor or Heinous Handling? 🧐
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whothatisnow | whothatisnow
🆔 ID Insanity: Bartender's Blunder Sparks Drama! 🍻😱
Well, well, well... looks like we've got quite the conundrum on our hands! 😅 Our baby-faced heroine found herself in a sticky situation when a bartender decided to play a little game of "pass the ID" with some random bar patrons. 🙄 While she was understandably upset, her friend seemed to think it was all just harmless fun. 🤷♀️ But with a history of stalker struggles, our gal wasn't taking any chances! 😰 She took matters into her own hands and called the manager, much to her friend's dismay. 😤 So, what do you think? Was she right to stand her ground or should she have just let it slide? 🤔 Let's see what the internet has to say about this wild tale! 🌎💬
Bartender crosses the line by sharing private information without consent 👎
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BonifideStoner12 | BonifideStoner12
Bartender shares customer's personal info; commenter advises contacting owner immediately 🔥
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Anewstageinlife | Anewstageinlife
Bartender reveals woman's address at a bar - NTA's reaction 😱
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ChocolateKoko | ChocolateKoko
Bartender's inappropriate behavior called out as dangerous and uncomfortable. NTA.
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KentuckyRootHero | KentuckyRootHero
Protecting privacy is important, NTA for standing up 👍
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[deleted] | [deleted]
Protecting privacy should be a top priority 👍
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TheZZ9 | TheZZ9
Stalking is no joke. Bartender betrayed customer's trust. NTA 💯
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pnb10 | pnb10
Bartender shares personal info with strangers, NTA raises valid concerns 👏
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QuackLikeMe | QuackLikeMe
Doxxed against her will. Friends defending the betrayer. NTA 👍
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carbinePRO | carbinePRO
Reporting a harmful joke to save others 👍
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Logical-Cranberry714 | Logical-Cranberry714
Bartender shows personal info, commenter justifies woman's reaction. 👍
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Cute_Berry_7295 | Cute_Berry_7295
Empathetic comment supports OP's privacy violation experience. 👍
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angelaelle | angelaelle
Bartender betrays customer's trust by handing out her ID 💔
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[deleted] | [deleted]
Bartender crosses the line - NTA saves the day 👏
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NoiseDefiant2542 | NoiseDefiant2542
Sharing personal information is a big no no 👍
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Dearic75 | Dearic75
Bartender's betrayal of trust condemned as unprofessional and unethical 👍
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toofat2serve | toofat2serve
Worst betrayal ever, boyfriend's reaction not enough 🤯
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PlaneEnough3246 | PlaneEnough3246
Bartender shared her personal info with strangers 😱 NTA stands up!
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ohsogreen | ohsogreen
Bartender crosses the line, NTA stands up for privacy 👏
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rollergoddessITM | rollergoddessITM
Betrayal of trust by a bartender raises safety concerns 😱
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PolyPolyam | PolyPolyam
Bartender breaches trust, commenter warns about serious consequences. NTA.
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s1m0n_s3z | s1m0n_s3z
Woman rightfully defends herself after bartender crosses the line 💪
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Superman530 | Superman530
Bartender betrays trust, compromising privacy. NTA for being upset.
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SacredC0w | SacredC0w
Bartender crosses the line, but commenter has her back. NTA 👍
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I-Dont_Like_You | I-Dont_Like_You
Bartender crosses the line, NTA complains to the manager 😱
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OneWithoutaName2 | OneWithoutaName2
Bartender betrays woman's trust by showing her ID to others 😱
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OkPhilosopher1313 | OkPhilosopher1313
Bartender violates customer's privacy, NTA for reporting it. Gaslighting friend.
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No_Stand4235 | No_Stand4235
Bartender breaches customer's trust, friend belittles her. Lesson learned. 😔
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EndlessResets | EndlessResets
Bartender's ID breach sparks outrage and privacy concerns 💥👊
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MsSeraphim | MsSeraphim
Bartender crosses the line, but commenter and OP are NTA 👍
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JustOneMore_Cat | JustOneMore_Cat
Supportive commenter urges legal action against dangerous bartender 🚫💰
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SetiG | SetiG
Protecting personal info is NTA, friend lost cool points 👍
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Anizziepluto | Anizziepluto
Protecting privacy is crucial. Bartender was in the wrong. NTA! 👍
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Ok-Cheetah-9125 | Ok-Cheetah-9125
Customer stands up against bartender's unacceptable behavior. 👏
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PandoraClove | PandoraClove
Bartender's betrayal leads to disrespect from boyfriend and friends. NTA.
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moonspiderxx | moonspiderxx
Standing up for yourself and others against creepy behavior 💪🏼
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Relevant-Candidate-6 | Relevant-Candidate-6
Friend defends bartender's betrayal, commenter stands up for OP 👏
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badadvicefromaspider | badadvicefromaspider
Bartender's entitlement and power play leaves customer vulnerable 😠
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KombuchaBot | KombuchaBot
Bartender's betrayal leads to serious identity threat 💥
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blooger-00- | blooger-00-
Bartender gives out customer's info without consent; commenter supports consequences.
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SnooCats6410 | SnooCats6410
User praises woman's actions and hints at legal consequences 👍👮
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blablamcbla | blablamcbla
NTA stands up to unfaithful bartender 🍸💔
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sarajane95 | sarajane95
Bartender's unprofessional behavior puts woman in danger. NTA for reacting.
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lulububudu | lulububudu
Don't tolerate gaslighting. You deserve better. 👏
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lunasouseiseki | lunasouseiseki
Woman defends herself after bartender betrays her trust 😏
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[deleted] | [deleted]
NTA takes a stand against untrustworthy bartender 👏
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Eridia91 | Eridia91
Bartender's betrayal angers commenter and highlights importance of safety 👊
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KookyNefariousness2 | KookyNefariousness2
Bartender violates customer's privacy, refuses to apologize. NTA.
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Ditovontease | Ditovontease
Supportive comment, condemning toxic behavior and offering hope 👏
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sisterchromatid | sisterchromatid
Bartender violates trust and privacy, gets rightfully fired 👏
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sundroptea | sundroptea
Bartender betrays woman's trust by sharing private information. NTA 👍
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silkat | silkat
Bartender exposes customer's ID, Redditors agree - NTA
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dragonkeeperemme | dragonkeeperemme
Woman expresses distrust of men in wake of betrayal.
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Crunchy_Biscuit | Crunchy_Biscuit
Bartender betrays woman's trust; friends fail to support NTA survivor 😡
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MrFancypants666 | MrFancypants666
Bartender's prank leads to identity theft accusation. Not cool 💯
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HeyWiredyyc | HeyWiredyyc
Bartender's ID 'joke' was harassment and possibly illegal. NTA.
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ButterscotchOk7516 | ButterscotchOk7516
Bartender commits major privacy violation. Commenter suggests legal consequences. 👮👯♀️
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Usagi_Shinobi | Usagi_Shinobi
Bartender betrays woman's trust by passing her license to strangers
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Livinthedream_111 | Livinthedream_111
Woman's safety trivialized by privileged bartender. NTA.
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BigPotato-69 | BigPotato-69
Betrayal of trust: Bartender shares customer's ID. NTA response.
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Illustrious_Guard_61 | Illustrious_Guard_61
Bartender betrays customer's trust, commenters urge pressing charges 💔
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No-Names-Left-Here | No-Names-Left-Here
Bartender gives woman's ID to stranger, commenter suggests revenge prank.
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Trina608 | Trina608
NTA. Safety is no joke. Men need to think this through. 👏
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gcot802 | gcot802
Reporting bad behavior to authority is necessary, NTA comment agrees.
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Transformersaddicto | Transformersaddicto
Protect yourself and your privacy, NTA commenter agrees.
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MongooseLoud | MongooseLoud
Woman rightfully angry after bartender shares her property without consent 👊
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FrostyCartographer13 | FrostyCartographer13
Suggests getting revenge on friend and finding new friends/boyfriend. 🤪
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Puzzleheaded-You7578 | Puzzleheaded-You7578
Bartender breaches privacy, NTA stands up for friend's rights 👏
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BinkBunny | BinkBunny
Report bartender and establishment to ABC. Not okay and illegal. 💯 NTA.
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Edymnion | Edymnion
Worried commenter calls out boyfriend's dangerous behavior with clever burn 🔥
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Malibucat48 | Malibucat48
Bartender crosses the line, commenters not having it 😡
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madmaxextra | madmaxextra
Report the creep to his employer and drop defenders 👍
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