It's Me or the Kid! GF's SHOCKING Ultimatum to BF About His Secret Daughter 💔

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Buckle up, folks! 🚨 We've got a doozy of a story for you today. 😱 Meet Steven, a stand-up guy who's always been there for his bestie, Brenda. 👫 When Brenda and her wife wanted to start a family, Steven stepped up to the plate and became their sperm donor. 🌟 But now, his girlfriend is throwing a major curveball. 😬 She's not too thrilled about Steven's involvement in little Lucy's life and wants him to cut ties. 🙅‍♀️ Yikes! Talk about a sticky situation. 😅 Let's dive in and see how this drama unfolds! 🍿

🤝 Besties Since High School

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👰‍♀️👰‍♀️ Brenda Finds Her Soulmate

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👨‍👩‍👧 A Special Request

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🙏 Honored and Happy to Help

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👶 Welcome to the World, Lucy!

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🤗 Uncle Steven to the Rescue

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💑 Enter the Girlfriend

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💍 Wedding Bells on the Horizon

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🎂 Birthday Bash Drama

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📸 Girlfriend's Cold Shoulder

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😠 The Ultimatum

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🚫 Refusing to Cut Ties

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😲 A Low Blow

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🤷‍♂️ Standing His Ground

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😔 Caught in the Middle

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🤔 Who's in the Right?

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🚨 Girlfriend Demands BFF Breakup! 😱

Well, well, well... looks like Steven's in quite the pickle! 😬 His girlfriend is NOT happy about his close relationship with little Lucy, the daughter he helped bring into the world as a sperm donor for his besties. 👨‍👩‍👧 She's even accusing him of having a secret affair with Brenda! 😲 The audacity! 🙄 Steven's standing his ground, refusing to abandon his pseudo-niece, but his girlfriend is relentless. 🤦‍♀️ She's pulling out all the stops, guilt-tripping him about their future together. 💔 Talk about a rock and a hard place! 😫 Let's see what the internet has to say about this juicy drama! 🌎💬

NTA. Girlfriend gave an unacceptable ultimatum about biological child. Run now. 🚩

Fleurming0z | Fleurming0z

NTA, but incompatible with GF. Choosing GF means ghosting daughter 💔

the_paradox_lounge | the_paradox_lounge

Supportive comment, raises concerns about girlfriend's trust issues.

blue__acid | blue__acid

Loving more than one person isn't wrong. NTA wins 👏

terrapharma | terrapharma

NTA defends BF's right to have relationships outside of girlfriend.

Kettlewise | Kettlewise

Playing devil's advocate, commenter empathizes with fiancee's feelings, suggests positive outlook.

squeezedandstuffed | squeezedandstuffed

Dating someone with a kid isn't for everyone 🤷‍♂️, but good on you for being involved 👏

x5050x | x5050x

NTA gave a thoughtful gift, but GF's ultimatum raises trust issues 👍

dino-pencils | dino-pencils

Supportive comment, encourages maintaining relationship with daughter despite ultimatum 👍

shrug__ | shrug__

Navigating the complexities of sperm donation and relationships 🧐

BrownEyedQueen1982 | BrownEyedQueen1982

Having a relationship with bio dad means a lot 👍

barginmarge | barginmarge

Girlfriend jealous of a 6-year-old is emotionally abusive 🤨

gregarious_kenku | gregarious_kenku

Compromise is key in blended families. Communication is essential 👍

cattermelon34 | cattermelon34

Secret daughter causes shocking ultimatum, NTA calls off wedding.

Gonebabythoughts | Gonebabythoughts

NTA defends himself against girlfriend's unfair ultimatum.

AJsAlternateAccount | AJsAlternateAccount

Defend your family, Lucy and Brenda are your support system 👏

islandgrownwoman | islandgrownwoman

Girlfriend gives ultimatum over secret daughter, commenters advise breakup.

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Red flag alert! GF gives ultimatum about secret daughter. NTA.

Maelandrew | Maelandrew

Defending the dad and praising the positive environment for the daughter 👏

onetruepen | onetruepen

OP is advised to consider the future of his whole family ❤️

asymmetrical_sally | asymmetrical_sally

Theory about GF's sudden ultimatum due to pregnancy hormones? 🤔

Quinn915 | Quinn915

GF gives ultimatum to BF about his daughter, commenter says NTA

wickedwitch9294 | wickedwitch9294

Couples fight over secret daughter and communication issues 🤷🏼‍♀️

LivinLaRickiLoca | LivinLaRickiLoca

Redditors jump to judgement, commenter suggests seeking outside advice.

ThisSpecificCockBag | ThisSpecificCockBag

Dating someone with kids or being a sperm donor has complexities.

tunisia3507 | tunisia3507

Trust issues? NTA given the ultimatum. Good luck, man 👍

atvlouis | atvlouis

OP is the a-hole for not disclosing his family situation sooner. 💔

Phil0s0raptor | Phil0s0raptor

Being a donor and still being involved is healthy for her.

Wet-wood | Wet-wood

A male commenter sympathizes with girlfriend's insecurities and advises decisiveness. 👍

Newly_Timed | Newly_Timed

Advice for OP to handle revealing his secret daughter better ⚠️

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NAH, but it seems like the relationship won't work out.

ThisSpecificCockBag | ThisSpecificCockBag

Heartwarming support for loving relationship with daughter and her moms ♥

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Prioritizing secret daughter over GF receives support from commenters 👍

SnooStrawberries7294 | SnooStrawberries7294

Supportive comment, suggests girlfriend's behavior is a dealbreaker. NTA 👍

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Being a package deal is not a standalone purchase 👍🏻

mischiffmaker | mischiffmaker

GF's possessiveness and control issues may threaten the relationship. NTA.

selenitedelight | selenitedelight

A heartwarming NTA comment about a loving family 🥰

PonderWhoIAm | PonderWhoIAm

Don't let Reddit's 'run' mentality stop you from saving relationship ❤

dragoltor | dragoltor

NTA: Girlfriend can leave but can't ask to cut off relationship.

leaveatrail | leaveatrail

NTA: Being involved in your friend's daughter's life is admirable ❤️

KratosKittyOfWar | KratosKittyOfWar

NTA. GF's ultimatum shows red flags of jealousy and insecurity. 👊

Zenzibear | Zenzibear

GF's trust issues may harm BF's relationship with his daughter 💔

JadorePoutine | JadorePoutine

NTA, prioritize your relationship with your daughter and consider counseling.

BeckyVan | BeckyVan

Girlfriend gives ultimatum about secret daughter, commenters agree NTA 🚫

themarquetsquare | themarquetsquare

Choose family over girlfriend, a**hole-free judgement in comments. 👍

RagaMuffinSun | RagaMuffinSun

NAH. GF upset about secret child, BF committed to daughter. Time to breakup. 💔

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🚫 Break up with her! Insecure over a child? Disgusting ultimatum.

n00rmal | n00rmal

Supportive comment about OP's role with his friend's daughter.

Thr0w1tAllAwayyy | Thr0w1tAllAwayyy

Playing devil's advocate: maybe she didn't fully understand the situation 🤔

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Empathy for GF's doubts on sperm donor situation 😐

alwaysrightusually | alwaysrightusually

Having a secret child is a dealbreaker and it's ESH.

urmalison | urmalison

Accepting partner's relationships is key to a lasting relationship ❤

chickenlyfe | chickenlyfe

GF's ultimatum is cruel and manipulative, NTA for choosing daughter 💔

soccersprite | soccersprite

Navigating complex family dynamics when a child is 'yours but not yours' 🤷‍♂️

Impossible-Raisin | Impossible-Raisin

Supporting a child as a trusted family member 👍

CorgiKnits | CorgiKnits

GF gives ultimatum to abandon biological niece, NTA.

zombiescooby | zombiescooby

GF's jealousy towards friend and daughter puts relationship at risk. NTA 🙅

Magicbean96 | Magicbean96

GF's jealousy of family ties puts daughter in danger. NTA.

aselletee | aselletee

Girlfriend gave ultimatum to cut contact with secret daughter. Commenter disagrees.

Pollypocketful | Pollypocketful

Girlfriend's ultimatum to cut off family is a HUGE red flag 💔

chubbychickadee713 | chubbychickadee713

GF's ultimatum due to personal insecurities, NTA for choosing daughter.

Danny_ODevin | Danny_ODevin

GF gives ultimatum to leave best friend's daughter, NTA.

ciaoravioli | ciaoravioli

Honesty is the best policy YTA 🤥 Be transparent from start

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NTA donor, Lucy's moms, and a jealous girlfriend 🤪

Jdawn82 | Jdawn82

NTA's insightful comment highlights potential jealousy and suggests therapy.

Toetocarma | Toetocarma

Demanding to cut off someone you love is a major red flag 👊

that_dam_baka | that_dam_baka

Girlfriend's ultimatum about secret daughter: NTA for choosing child. 👏

tink630 | tink630

Supportive comment urges BF to reconsider GF's ultimatum.

TheHorniestRhino | TheHorniestRhino

Being incompatible on having kids is a valid reason to split 👍

xforesttree | xforesttree

NTA. Girlfriend's jealousy may lead to damaging behavior towards Lucy. 👍

FlyingGingerMonkee | FlyingGingerMonkee

Supporting NTA, commenter questions GF's ultimatum and criticizes her character.

-Squimbelina- | -Squimbelina-

Support for OP's situation, questioning GF's motives. 🤔

Marzipan_civil | Marzipan_civil

GF's ultimatum jeopardizes more than just relationship with daughter.

giskard90 | giskard90

NTA but she is, big time. Her claiming ownership is a huge a**hole move 👎

Hailie_G | Hailie_G

NTA. Importance of father-child relationship and problematic girlfriend.

stokokopops | stokokopops

GF's ultimatum over BF's daughter - NTA comment defends relationship.

Elegant-Despair | Elegant-Despair

Letting go of previous relationships isn't acceptable. You're NTA 👍

Meii345 | Meii345

Defending a responsible uncle against a malicious ultimatum. 👏

charizardine | charizardine

Partner's ultimatum over secret daughter raises major red flags. #NTA 👍

AiTAthrowitaway12 | AiTAthrowitaway12

Girlfriend jealous of secret daughter? Red flag alert! 🚨

CompanionCone | CompanionCone

Red flag alert! 🚩 Controlling partner demands BF abandon daughter. NTA.

trippykittie | trippykittie

Defending the bond with his secret daughter, NTA, therapy suggested 👍

candanceamy | candanceamy

GF gives BF an ultimatum about his secret daughter. NTA replies support BF's right to have a relationship with his child and warn him about GF's controlling behavior. 👍

ultralame | ultralame

Heartbreaking experience of a daughter and advice for the boyfriend.

shaunajack | shaunajack

NTA. Your girlfriend's ultimatum is unfair and her accusation is disgusting.

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NTA. GF is jealous and petty. Good on you for standing up for your daughter. 👏

scaredchitless | scaredchitless

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