He IGNORED Her PTSD to Set Off Fireworks - Her Reaction Was PERFECT 👏💯

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🎆💥 Buckle up, folks! We've got a New Year's Eve drama that's sure to set off some sparks! 🎇 Our protagonist, a loving mother with PTSD, finds herself in a heated battle with her boyfriend over his plans to light up the night sky with a fireworks extravaganza. 🚀 But here's the catch: both she and her son share a deep-seated fear of sudden, loud noises. 😱 Will our heroine stand her ground and protect her peace, or will she cave to her boyfriend's explosive demands? 💣 Get ready for a wild ride as we dive into this explosive tale of love, fear, and fireworks! 🎢🎇

🏠 Trouble in Paradise: Boyfriend's Fireworks Plan Sparks Conflict! 💥

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👦 Like Mother, Like Son: The Shared Struggle with Loud Noises 😰

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🎉 New Year's Eve Bash: Boyfriend's Party Plans Revealed 🍾

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🎆 Fireworks Fiasco: The Unexpected Arrival of Explosive Boxes 😱

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🚨 Confrontation Upstairs: Reminding Boyfriend of PTSD Struggles 😓

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🎇 Boyfriend's Insistence: "We Need Fireworks on New Year's!" 🙄

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😠 Accusations of Overreacting: Boyfriend Thinks Exposure is Good 🤦‍♀️

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💥 The Tester Firework: Boyfriend Breaks His Promise! 😤

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🏨 Escape to the Hotel: A Last-Minute Decision 🏃‍♀️💨

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📞 Boyfriend's Angry Calls: Accusations of Selfishness and Overreacting 😡

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🏠 "It's His House Too": Boyfriend Claims Right to Party 🎊

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🖕 Heated Exchange: Couple Tells Each Other to "Go F--k Themselves" 😬

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❗ Important Edit: OP Did Not Give Her Son PTSD ❗

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🙅‍♀️ OP's Plea: "I Have Not Transferred My Fears to My Son" 😔

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💔 A Mother's Wish: Wanting to Take Away Her Son's Struggles 😢

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New Year's Eve Fireworks Fiasco: A Mother's Fight for Peace!

Looks like this New Year's Eve celebration turned into a real dumpster fire! Our fierce mama bear stood her ground against her boyfriend's explosive plans, refusing to let her PTSD and her son's fears be ignored. Despite her beau's accusations of overreacting and selfishness, she packed up her little cub and hightailed it to a hotel for some much-needed quiet. But the drama didn't end there! Cue the angry phone calls, heated exchanges, and a lot of "f--k yous" flying back and forth. This couple has some serious issues to work out, but one thing's certain: this mama bear will always put her child's well-being first. Now, let's see what the internet says about this explosive situation.

A perfect response to a gaslighter who doesn't understand consent. 💯

StAlvis | StAlvis

Boyfriend disregards PTSD, son, and pandemic. NTA. Use wisely. 👏

analyst19 | analyst19

Boyfriend disregards mental health and comfort, not a keeper 🙄

aSeaPersonByNight | aSeaPersonByNight

A perfect example of selfishness in a relationship 👍

Snoo-91586 | Snoo-91586

NTA, boyfriend's dismissive behavior is not healthy for relationship 👏

SpitDontQuit | SpitDontQuit

NTA stands up to SO who ignored her PTSD from fireworks 👏

Isolated_Aura | Isolated_Aura

Partner disregarded PTSD, disrespected needs, and cussed out. NTA. 👏

bullzeye1983 | bullzeye1983

Pandemic party foul, not impressed by inconsiderate partner 😑

GreenLetterhead4196 | GreenLetterhead4196

Standing up for yourself and your triggers - NTA victory 👏

watchmewiggle | watchmewiggle

Protect yourself and your son from this selfish jerk 😠

SilentSiren39 | SilentSiren39

Boyfriend disregards boundaries and lies about fireworks, NTA.

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Boyfriend disregards partner's PTSD, choose yourself and leave him 💯

daIliance | daIliance

Ditch him for the kid or suffer the consequences 👎

WineOrDeath | WineOrDeath

NTA's empathetic advice on coping with PTSD-triggering fireworks 👏

rocketbot99 | rocketbot99

Ignoring her PTSD for fireworks? NTA has the perfect response 👏

poeadam | poeadam

Boyfriend disregards her PTSD, NTA for leaving him. 👏

FortuneWhereThoutBe | FortuneWhereThoutBe

Reconsidering relationship after BF ignored her PTSD 🤔

lifeofyou | lifeofyou

Reconsidering the relationship after ignoring her PTSD 🤔

MountainCityDweller | MountainCityDweller

Respectful NTA prioritizes self-care over insensitive partner's fireworks display 👏

kayla_pei | kayla_pei

Partner prioritizes friends over partner's and child's well-being. NTA 👏

KeyoJaguar | KeyoJaguar

Break up while you can. Red flag alert 🚨

DraganTehPro | DraganTehPro

He prioritized his friends over her mental health. NTA.

acrazycatmom | acrazycatmom

A thoughtful comment on learned behavior and fear of fireworks 🤔

thatsnotmyname_ame | thatsnotmyname_ame

"You're over reacting" = "I don't like consequences" 🤷‍♀️

ohdeer7911 | ohdeer7911

NTA, She set clear boundaries, he ignored them, and guilt-tripped her 👏

Graylorde | Graylorde

Fireworks and PTSD: NTA and mutual sympathies 😢

VeterinarianOk9857 | VeterinarianOk9857

Partner ignores PTSD for fireworks, OP NTA

Dearhrider757 | Dearhrider757

Fireworks on New Year's - A nightmare for pets 🐱

triciabobicia | triciabobicia

Ignorance towards PTSD and child's sensitivity. NTA.

TillyMint54 | TillyMint54

Ignoring PTSD for fireworks? Absolutely NTA. Perfect reaction 👏

StrawberryTigerLily | StrawberryTigerLily

Maturely handling PTSD and fireworks, but hotels have surprises 😔

shangib723 | shangib723

Suggests exposure therapy for LO's fireworks phobia. Supportive NTA comment 👍

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Partner disregards PTSD and ignores request to not set off fireworks 🔥

mariogoodboy | mariogoodboy

Empathetic commenter sympathizes with OP and throws shade at her insensitive partner. 👏

PupsMonkey | PupsMonkey

You were accommodating but he got mad? NTA 👏

Flownique | Flownique

Encouraging response to seek therapy for potential PTSD transmission.

holisarcasm | holisarcasm

PTSD sufferer slams gaslighting ex for ignoring boundaries 👊

jordan858 | jordan858

Sensible suggestion for coping with fireworks and PTSD 💪

wtfisthepoint | wtfisthepoint

Partner disregards PTSD, commenter suggests hotel night for comfort. #NTA

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Setting boundaries is important. NTA stood up for herself 👏

Current-Read | Current-Read

Reassessing the relationship: gaslighting, minimizing mental illness, and red flags. 👍

Insipid-Moniker | Insipid-Moniker

Spouse ignores promises, sees partner as 'mom' 😡

TsarinaAlexandra | TsarinaAlexandra

Fireworks aren't necessary for any occasion. NTA wins.

justsomerandomdude16 | justsomerandomdude16

Partner disregarded her PTSD for fireworks, commenter says NTA ✨

Sfb208 | Sfb208

Boyfriend disregards girlfriend's PTSD for fireworks, commenter calls him out

Exia_Gundam00 | Exia_Gundam00

Partner ignores PTSD, sets off fireworks. Commenter calls him out. NTA 👏

KaliTheBlaze | KaliTheBlaze

🎆 Non 4th of July fireworks are so juvenile and insensitive. #NTA

Book_devourer | Book_devourer

Supportive family accommodates child's fear of fire alarms 👏

Redroses4u | Redroses4u

Support for PTSD sufferer and condemnation for selfish person 👏🗤️

Shadow_Guide | Shadow_Guide

Prioritizing mental health over fireworks 👏

Montymikhail | Montymikhail

Respect for boundaries, NTA made a strong stance 👏

StrawberryPoptart808 | StrawberryPoptart808

Fireworks fiasco leads to hotel stay and licensing proposal. NTA.

Artistic_Bookkeeper | Artistic_Bookkeeper

Ignoring her PTSD and her son's needs? He's the a**hole.

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Ignoring partner's PTSD trigger for fireworks makes you the a-hole

ingsara98 | ingsara98

Partner ignores PTSD trigger, thinks child can sleep through fireworks. NTA.

EquivalentTwo1 | EquivalentTwo1

Agreed not to set off fireworks, but did anyways. NTA

furiousfarrah | furiousfarrah

Standing up against partner's sneaky behavior towards PTSD triggers 👏

QuiteFrankE | QuiteFrankE

Unsympathetic partner sets off fireworks despite PTSD. NTA response.

UnicornCackle | UnicornCackle

Re-evaluate your relationship with your boyfriend. 👭💔

biscuitlollipop | biscuitlollipop

Respectful husband helps with PTSD, boyfriend disregards and needs therapy 👏

amfdiat | amfdiat

Break up party time! 🎉 NTA, he's a selfish child 🙅‍♀️

It_frday | It_frday

Don't put up with triggering behavior. Leave him. 👏

gabatme | gabatme

Standing up for mental health is never selfish. 👏

ViolaVetch75 | ViolaVetch75

Partner reneged on commitment to avoid triggering condition. NTA.

Sea_Spirit_55 | Sea_Spirit_55

Dump the a**hole boyfriend and find someone who cares 💔

annakatt | annakatt

Partner disregards PTSD, shows no respect, and needs to go 👎

Computron1234 | Computron1234

Insensitive partner gets called out for dangerous behavior 👏

breebop83 | breebop83

Toxicity alert! Commenter hopes for a healthier relationship for all 👏

MrBigHeadsMySoulMate | MrBigHeadsMySoulMate

Ignoring someone's PTSD triggers is NOT a joke 😠 NTA handled the situation perfectly 👏

Mortem_Lucifer | Mortem_Lucifer

Partner's disregard for PTSD may be a red flag. NTA 👏

Dumpster_fff | Dumpster_fff

Partner ignores PTSD, sets off fireworks. Is NTA justified?

NightShiftSister | NightShiftSister

Setting off fireworks triggered her PTSD, NTA for asking stop.

AnyConstellation | AnyConstellation

32-year-old man ignores partner's PTSD for fireworks, called out for childish behavior.

voxam72 | voxam72

Ex shares similar behavior, don't let him disrespect you and your son 👏

SmallChallenge | SmallChallenge

BF disregards girlfriend's PTSD, friends enable him. NTA stands up.

MOliciousHat | MOliciousHat

PTSD is difficult to comprehend, but NTA for prioritizing safety 👏

CntryDaisy | CntryDaisy

A sister's fear of fireworks and a friend's love for them collide 😨

blerghc | blerghc

Selfish partner ignores PTSD, risking harm. NTA. End relationship.

h_witko | h_witko

BF ignores PTSD, commenter supports OP's stance against fireworks

peppermintvalet | peppermintvalet

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