Her Man Works Late Nights With a Flirty Assistant - How She Reacts is 🔥

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Buckle up, folks! 🚗💨 We've got a juicy tale of two besties with VERY different love lives. 💕 I'm living my best life with my hardworking lawyer boo 👨‍💼, while my BFF "V" is stuck in a toxic cycle with her cheating man. 🚩 When V tries to project her relationship issues onto mine, things get HEATED! 🔥 I may have snapped and said some harsh things, but hey, sometimes the truth hurts! 🤷‍♀️ So, let's dive into this drama and see if I was the a-hole in this situation! 😬

🤔 A Tale of Two Couples: My BFF and I Have VERY Different Relationships! 😅

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👨‍💼 Hardworking Lawyer BF vs. 🙋‍♀️ Work-Life Balance Loving GF

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🤝 Agreeing to Date Despite Different Priorities

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👭 Meanwhile, My BFF "V" Has a Rocky Relationship...

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🚩 V Stays with Cheating BF Despite My Advice

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💼 S Gets a Promotion and a Flirty New Assistant! 😳

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😏 S Notices the Flirting Too, But Promises to Keep Things Professional

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🍝 Dinner with V and a Quick Stop at S's Office

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👀 Spotting S Working Late with His Flirty Assistant

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😠 V Gets Angry and Accuses S of Cheating!

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🙅‍♀️ V Tells Me to "Stake My Claim" on S

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💰 V Accuses S of Not Respecting Me Because He Makes More Money

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🤑 Our Salary Differences and How We Split Bills

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😤 I Snap at V: "Just Because You're a Doormat Doesn't Mean I Am!"

cantdancestilldoit | cantdancestilldoit

🎤 I Drop Some Harsh Truth Bombs on V About Her Own Relationship

cantdancestilldoit | cantdancestilldoit

😔 Feeling Guilty for Being Mean to My BFF

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🎭 The Drama Unfolds: Was I Too Harsh on My Doormat BFF? 😬

Well, well, well... looks like I've found myself in quite the predicament! 😅 My bestie "V" is convinced that my man is cheating on me with his flirty new assistant, all because he makes more money than me. 💰 The audacity! 😤 I trust my boo and our relationship, but V just wouldn't let it go. In a moment of frustration, I may have snapped and called her out for being a doormat in her own toxic relationship. 🎤💥 I know, I know, it was harsh... but sometimes you gotta give your friends a reality check, right? 🤔 Now I'm feeling guilty and wondering if I took it too far. 😔 Let's see what the internet thinks of this juicy drama! 🍿👀

Projection and rudeness - why this person is NTA 👏

worryaboutYOUhoe | worryaboutYOUhoe

Congrats on a mature relationship. Soften the truth, though 💕

martybauer31 | martybauer31

Calling out the hypocrisy 🔥

VaultHunter93 | VaultHunter93

Trust is key 🔑, and projecting insecurities is not okay.

CoffinShark | CoffinShark

Don't let anyone drag you down. Rise above the drama. 💪

T1s1phon3Aaronz | T1s1phon3Aaronz

Both guilty of bad behavior, but her advice was terrible 💯

BowzersMom | BowzersMom

Both parties behaved poorly, friend stood up for herself 🤷‍♀️

whatnowredditworld | whatnowredditworld

Friend projects relationship issues, but calling her doormat is shitty 🤷‍♀️

Zero132132 | Zero132132

ESH, but talking it out is key 👍

Comfortable-Ad-9385 | Comfortable-Ad-9385

Advice taken the wrong way leads to explosive argument. ESH 💯

tomtomclubthumb | tomtomclubthumb

ESH but with good intentions. Apologize for getting personal. 🙏

Wooster182 | Wooster182

Respect and trust are key in a relationship 👍

World_of_Darkness_ | World_of_Darkness_

Friend's man is flirty with assistant, commenter supports her decision

killaninjaginga | killaninjaginga

Judging assholishness in two distinct ways - ESH verdict.

disruptedsolipsism | disruptedsolipsism

Trust is key, NTA for setting boundaries with insecure friend ✌️

[deleted] | [deleted]

OP's friend needs a cold hard backhanded slap with truth 💥

Blobfish_Blues | Blobfish_Blues

Insecurities and jealousy lead to a mutual ESH situation 🤷‍♀️

Friendlyalterme | Friendlyalterme

Trust is key 🔑, NTA stands firm

throwawayValidation1 | throwawayValidation1

NTA stands up for herself and advises on friend's behavior.

RoxanneWrites | RoxanneWrites

Personal shots and a batshit suggestion - ESH in this case 😑

CallMeSisyphus | CallMeSisyphus

Be vigilant! Long hours with opposite sex colleagues can be tricky 😐

Tesla369Universe | Tesla369Universe

Don't let your partner's infidelity affect your relationship. #NTA 👏

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ESH comment gets called out for being overly harsh 🤷‍♀️

myyusernameismeta | myyusernameismeta

Don't forget that friendships can be complicated 🤔

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Don't settle for someone who doesn't treat you right! 💪

kelleh711 | kelleh711

Assistant's 'crush' might just be smart work ethic. NTA.

holisarcasm | holisarcasm

When criticism gets intense, it's time to drop the conversation 🤷‍♀️

Accomplished_Cow_282 | Accomplished_Cow_282

Trust issues from past relationships, be careful and trust gut 😔

Rayne2522 | Rayne2522

User empathizes with the OP and criticizes a harsh comment.

Blade_982 | Blade_982

Setting boundaries in a relationship 👍

aabbccbb | aabbccbb

Respect is essential in a relationship - OP is 100% right 👍

RogueInsanity90 | RogueInsanity90

Supportive coworker defends OP against projecting friend 👏

holysmokesiminflames | holysmokesiminflames

Secure your relationship with a friendly introduction 🤝

Starlight312 | Starlight312

ESH, commenter criticizes friend's boundaries, projecting, and hurtful words. 🤪

chrysavera | chrysavera

Self-respect and trust are vital in a healthy relationship ✨

Princess-Pancake-97 | Princess-Pancake-97

Insightful comment suggests therapy for insecure partner projecting resentment.

aIshwARyAseThurAmAn | aIshwARyAseThurAmAn

Empathetic comment calls out insecurity and offers reassurance ✨

LordHades1380 | LordHades1380

Setting boundaries and respecting them is key. NTA 👏

CheeseRelief | CheeseRelief

Mutual trust is key 👍 - NTA comment highlights importance

liefieblue | liefieblue

Girlfriend defends herself and calls out cheating boyfriend. 💯

NiteGrimwood | NiteGrimwood

Trust and boundaries are key in a relationship ❤

MorgainofAvalon | MorgainofAvalon

Trust your partner, document behavior, and don't take advice from V 👍

giantbrownguy | giantbrownguy

Calling out a hypocrite friend who can't handle the truth 🔥

No_Proposal7628 | No_Proposal7628

NTA sees through flirty assistant's intentions 👍

OftheSea95 | OftheSea95

Trust your SO and don't interfere in their work. NTA 👍

del901 | del901

Bluntly shutting down a drama-creating friend. 👏

jaelythe4781 | jaelythe4781

User defends OP's actions and criticizes unsolicited advice. NTA 💯

WinterBourne25 | WinterBourne25

Confident commenter shuts down flirty coworker with sharp wit 👏

19ShowdogTiger81 | 19ShowdogTiger81

Partner working 80 hours a week? 🤔 Let's discuss norms.

hanyasaad | hanyasaad

Friend gives bad advice, OP suggests apologizing to keep friendship 👍

astrixwisner | astrixwisner

Defending income and shutting down rude friend. NTA 👏

tasksandproceedings | tasksandproceedings

NTA commenter praises communication and trust in relationship.

Mosaic14 | Mosaic14

Friendship advice: Make up with your friend 🙏

MissLizz87 | MissLizz87

Communication breakdown leads to ESH judgment in relationships.

squintintarantino__ | squintintarantino__

Don't let insecurity ruin your friendship. NTA. 👍

tdorn2000 | tdorn2000

Let your partner have their own free agency ✌️

KT_mama | KT_mama

NTA with a stable relationship, friend projecting insecurities, cheat-proof advice 👍

awkarfnar | awkarfnar

Understanding the 37.5-hour week at 85k, NTA seems silly 🤔

[deleted] | [deleted]

Honesty hurts: when sharing truth leads to hurt feelings 😢

Separate-Interview52 | Separate-Interview52

No A-holes here, just two friends who care. 👍

Additional-Link-8201 | Additional-Link-8201

When work becomes a mistress: balancing job and relationship 👨‍👩‍👦

[deleted] | [deleted]

Friend crosses the line with flirty assistant, OP and friend TA 😬

eclectic-up-north | eclectic-up-north

Grand dad’s wisdom prevails - ESH for escalating the argument.

latflickr | latflickr

Cutting drama out of life, glass panel rooms and job security 🤔

KKTide | KKTide

Trust and respect in a relationship are key ❤

Individual_Physics29 | Individual_Physics29

Don't let someone else's insecurities ruin your trust 👍

PolarBun | PolarBun

Breaking free from insecurities: NTA for standing up.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Don't let your friend's insecurities ruin your relationship 👍

Superb_Raccoon | Superb_Raccoon

NTA shuts down unsolicited relationship advice like a boss 😎

kelster13 | kelster13

Don't let your friend's drama ruin your relationship 👍

exhausted-narwhal | exhausted-narwhal

Don't let her insecurities ruin your relationship. 👍

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA commenter thinks cheating girlfriend got what she deserved.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Friend accused commenter, but got called out for projecting 🤡

lorelai_gilmore_20 | lorelai_gilmore_20

Blunt but sassy response to projecting partner, NTA 🙌

CantEatCatsKevin | CantEatCatsKevin

Justified AH comment against insecure friends. 🤷‍♀️

beckwhat | beckwhat

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