Buckle up, folks! 🚗💨 We've got a juicy tale of two besties with VERY different love lives. 💕 I'm living my best life with my hardworking lawyer boo 👨💼, while my BFF "V" is stuck in a toxic cycle with her cheating man. 🚩 When V tries to project her relationship issues onto mine, things get HEATED! 🔥 I may have snapped and said some harsh things, but hey, sometimes the truth hurts! 🤷♀️ So, let's dive into this drama and see if I was the a-hole in this situation! 😬
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🤔 A Tale of Two Couples: My BFF and I Have VERY Different Relationships! 😅
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👨💼 Hardworking Lawyer BF vs. 🙋♀️ Work-Life Balance Loving GF
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🤝 Agreeing to Date Despite Different Priorities
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👭 Meanwhile, My BFF "V" Has a Rocky Relationship...
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🚩 V Stays with Cheating BF Despite My Advice
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💼 S Gets a Promotion and a Flirty New Assistant! 😳
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😏 S Notices the Flirting Too, But Promises to Keep Things Professional
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🍝 Dinner with V and a Quick Stop at S's Office
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👀 Spotting S Working Late with His Flirty Assistant
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😠 V Gets Angry and Accuses S of Cheating!
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🙅♀️ V Tells Me to "Stake My Claim" on S
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💰 V Accuses S of Not Respecting Me Because He Makes More Money
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🤑 Our Salary Differences and How We Split Bills
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😤 I Snap at V: "Just Because You're a Doormat Doesn't Mean I Am!"
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🎤 I Drop Some Harsh Truth Bombs on V About Her Own Relationship
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😔 Feeling Guilty for Being Mean to My BFF
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🎭 The Drama Unfolds: Was I Too Harsh on My Doormat BFF? 😬
Well, well, well... looks like I've found myself in quite the predicament! 😅 My bestie "V" is convinced that my man is cheating on me with his flirty new assistant, all because he makes more money than me. 💰 The audacity! 😤 I trust my boo and our relationship, but V just wouldn't let it go. In a moment of frustration, I may have snapped and called her out for being a doormat in her own toxic relationship. 🎤💥 I know, I know, it was harsh... but sometimes you gotta give your friends a reality check, right? 🤔 Now I'm feeling guilty and wondering if I took it too far. 😔 Let's see what the internet thinks of this juicy drama! 🍿👀
Projection and rudeness - why this person is NTA 👏
worryaboutYOUhoe | worryaboutYOUhoe
Congrats on a mature relationship. Soften the truth, though 💕
martybauer31 | martybauer31
Calling out the hypocrisy 🔥
VaultHunter93 | VaultHunter93
Trust is key 🔑, and projecting insecurities is not okay.
CoffinShark | CoffinShark
Don't let anyone drag you down. Rise above the drama. 💪
T1s1phon3Aaronz | T1s1phon3Aaronz
Both guilty of bad behavior, but her advice was terrible 💯
BowzersMom | BowzersMom
Both parties behaved poorly, friend stood up for herself 🤷♀️
whatnowredditworld | whatnowredditworld
Friend projects relationship issues, but calling her doormat is shitty 🤷♀️
Zero132132 | Zero132132
ESH, but talking it out is key 👍
Comfortable-Ad-9385 | Comfortable-Ad-9385
Advice taken the wrong way leads to explosive argument. ESH 💯
tomtomclubthumb | tomtomclubthumb
ESH but with good intentions. Apologize for getting personal. 🙏
Wooster182 | Wooster182
Respect and trust are key in a relationship 👍
World_of_Darkness_ | World_of_Darkness_
Friend's man is flirty with assistant, commenter supports her decision
killaninjaginga | killaninjaginga
Judging assholishness in two distinct ways - ESH verdict.
disruptedsolipsism | disruptedsolipsism
Trust is key, NTA for setting boundaries with insecure friend ✌️
[deleted] | [deleted]
OP's friend needs a cold hard backhanded slap with truth 💥
Blobfish_Blues | Blobfish_Blues
Insecurities and jealousy lead to a mutual ESH situation 🤷♀️
Friendlyalterme | Friendlyalterme
Trust is key 🔑, NTA stands firm
throwawayValidation1 | throwawayValidation1
NTA stands up for herself and advises on friend's behavior.
RoxanneWrites | RoxanneWrites
Personal shots and a batshit suggestion - ESH in this case 😑
CallMeSisyphus | CallMeSisyphus
Be vigilant! Long hours with opposite sex colleagues can be tricky 😐
Tesla369Universe | Tesla369Universe
Don't let your partner's infidelity affect your relationship. #NTA 👏
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ESH comment gets called out for being overly harsh 🤷♀️
myyusernameismeta | myyusernameismeta
Don't forget that friendships can be complicated 🤔
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Don't settle for someone who doesn't treat you right! 💪
kelleh711 | kelleh711
Assistant's 'crush' might just be smart work ethic. NTA.
holisarcasm | holisarcasm
When criticism gets intense, it's time to drop the conversation 🤷♀️
Accomplished_Cow_282 | Accomplished_Cow_282
Trust issues from past relationships, be careful and trust gut 😔
Rayne2522 | Rayne2522
User empathizes with the OP and criticizes a harsh comment.
Blade_982 | Blade_982
Setting boundaries in a relationship 👍
aabbccbb | aabbccbb
Respect is essential in a relationship - OP is 100% right 👍
RogueInsanity90 | RogueInsanity90
Supportive coworker defends OP against projecting friend 👏
holysmokesiminflames | holysmokesiminflames
Secure your relationship with a friendly introduction 🤝
Starlight312 | Starlight312
ESH, commenter criticizes friend's boundaries, projecting, and hurtful words. 🤪
chrysavera | chrysavera
Self-respect and trust are vital in a healthy relationship ✨
Princess-Pancake-97 | Princess-Pancake-97
Insightful comment suggests therapy for insecure partner projecting resentment.
aIshwARyAseThurAmAn | aIshwARyAseThurAmAn
Empathetic comment calls out insecurity and offers reassurance ✨
LordHades1380 | LordHades1380
Setting boundaries and respecting them is key. NTA 👏
CheeseRelief | CheeseRelief
Mutual trust is key 👍 - NTA comment highlights importance
liefieblue | liefieblue
Girlfriend defends herself and calls out cheating boyfriend. 💯
NiteGrimwood | NiteGrimwood
Trust and boundaries are key in a relationship ❤
MorgainofAvalon | MorgainofAvalon
Trust your partner, document behavior, and don't take advice from V 👍
giantbrownguy | giantbrownguy
Calling out a hypocrite friend who can't handle the truth 🔥
No_Proposal7628 | No_Proposal7628
NTA sees through flirty assistant's intentions 👍
OftheSea95 | OftheSea95
Trust your SO and don't interfere in their work. NTA 👍
del901 | del901
Bluntly shutting down a drama-creating friend. 👏
jaelythe4781 | jaelythe4781
User defends OP's actions and criticizes unsolicited advice. NTA 💯
WinterBourne25 | WinterBourne25
Confident commenter shuts down flirty coworker with sharp wit 👏
19ShowdogTiger81 | 19ShowdogTiger81
Partner working 80 hours a week? 🤔 Let's discuss norms.
hanyasaad | hanyasaad
Friend gives bad advice, OP suggests apologizing to keep friendship 👍
astrixwisner | astrixwisner
Defending income and shutting down rude friend. NTA 👏
tasksandproceedings | tasksandproceedings
NTA commenter praises communication and trust in relationship.
Mosaic14 | Mosaic14
Friendship advice: Make up with your friend 🙏
MissLizz87 | MissLizz87
Communication breakdown leads to ESH judgment in relationships.
squintintarantino__ | squintintarantino__
Don't let insecurity ruin your friendship. NTA. 👍
tdorn2000 | tdorn2000
Let your partner have their own free agency ✌️
KT_mama | KT_mama
NTA with a stable relationship, friend projecting insecurities, cheat-proof advice 👍
awkarfnar | awkarfnar
Understanding the 37.5-hour week at 85k, NTA seems silly 🤔
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Honesty hurts: when sharing truth leads to hurt feelings 😢
Separate-Interview52 | Separate-Interview52
No A-holes here, just two friends who care. 👍
Additional-Link-8201 | Additional-Link-8201
When work becomes a mistress: balancing job and relationship 👨👩👦
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Friend crosses the line with flirty assistant, OP and friend TA 😬
eclectic-up-north | eclectic-up-north
Grand dad’s wisdom prevails - ESH for escalating the argument.
latflickr | latflickr
Cutting drama out of life, glass panel rooms and job security 🤔
KKTide | KKTide
Trust and respect in a relationship are key ❤
Individual_Physics29 | Individual_Physics29
Don't let someone else's insecurities ruin your trust 👍
PolarBun | PolarBun
Breaking free from insecurities: NTA for standing up.
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Don't let your friend's insecurities ruin your relationship 👍
Superb_Raccoon | Superb_Raccoon
NTA shuts down unsolicited relationship advice like a boss 😎
kelster13 | kelster13
Don't let your friend's drama ruin your relationship 👍
exhausted-narwhal | exhausted-narwhal
Don't let her insecurities ruin your relationship. 👍
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NTA commenter thinks cheating girlfriend got what she deserved.
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Friend accused commenter, but got called out for projecting 🤡
lorelai_gilmore_20 | lorelai_gilmore_20
Blunt but sassy response to projecting partner, NTA 🙌
CantEatCatsKevin | CantEatCatsKevin
Justified AH comment against insecure friends. 🤷♀️
beckwhat | beckwhat
