Gay Man's Kids DEVASTATED After Grandma Says They're Not Her 'Real' Grandkids 💔

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Buckle up, folks! 🚗💨 We've got a juicy family drama brewing that's sure to get your blood boiling! 🌋 Meet our fabulous gay dad, a loving husband and devoted father to two amazing kids. 👨‍👨‍👧‍👦 He's always treated his husband's children as his own, sharing the joys and challenges of parenthood. 🍼 But when a family Zoom call takes a shocking turn, with Grandma gushing about "finally becoming a grandma," 😲 our hero is faced with a heart-wrenching dilemma. Will he stand up for his kids and risk a family fallout? 🙅‍♂️ Or will he cave to the pressure and apologize? 🤔 Get ready for a wild ride as we dive into this emotional rollercoaster! 🎢😱

🌈 A Gay Dad's Dilemma: Defending His Kids' Place in the Family 👨‍👨‍👧‍👦

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👨‍👨‍👧‍👦 Stepping Up as a Second Dad: Sharing Parental Responsibilities 🍼

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👨‍👨‍👧‍👦 Co-Parenting Dynamics: Making Decisions Together 🤝

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❤️ Embracing the Kids as His Own: A Loving Family Unit 👨‍👨‍👧‍👦

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🎉 A Family Zoom Call Takes an Unexpected Turn 📞

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😲 Grandma's Hurtful Words: "Finally Becoming a Grandma" 👵

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😢 A Son's Heartbreak: Leo's Upset Reaction 💔

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🤬 Mom's Furious Response: Accusing Him of Ruining the Moment 😡

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🙅‍♂️ Standing His Ground: Refusing to Apologize for Defending His Kids 💪

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🚫 Drawing a Line: No Family Events Until His Kids Are Accepted 🙅‍♂️

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😠 Family Backlash: Pressure to Apologize and Make Amends 🗣️

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🤔 AITA for Refusing to Apologize and Putting His Kids First? 🧐

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🚨 Family Feud Erupts Over Grandma's Hurtful Words! 🚨

Well, well, well... looks like we've got ourselves a good old-fashioned family showdown! 🤠 Our gay dad hero is caught between a rock and a hard place after Grandma's insensitive comments about "finally" having a grandchild. 😤 Despite raising his husband's kids as his own for years, Grandma seems to think they don't count as "real" grandkids. 😡 Ouch! Talk about a slap in the face! 🤦‍♂️ Now, the whole family is up in arms, demanding an apology from our steadfast dad. 🗣️ But he's not backing down, determined to stand up for his kids and their place in the family. 💪 The internet is buzzing with opinions on this juicy drama! 📱 Let's see what the masses have to say about this explosive situation... 🧨💥

Grandma's exclusionary behavior towards step-grandchildren is unacceptable. NTA.

somissmatched | somissmatched

Stand up for your kids! 🌟 NTA has to show their value.

RosieLightbulb | RosieLightbulb

NTA. Prioritizing son's recognition in family over mother's tactlessness.

DorothyZbornaksArmy | DorothyZbornaksArmy

NTA! Shame on your Mom for that BS attitude 👏

gobsmacked247 | gobsmacked247

Grandma's selfishness hurt a child's feelings. NTA. Apologize to Leo.

jennoyouknow | jennoyouknow

User questions OP's family dynamics to understand grandma's perspective.

AnimalLover38 | AnimalLover38

Mother shows favoritism towards brother's biological kids, NTA stands up.

fireflyfly3 | fireflyfly3

You're in the right, no need to apologize. 👍

chronora | chronora

Validating OP's feelings while acknowledging grandmother's perspective. ✌🏻

courtnovo | courtnovo

Grandma denies gay man's kids, demands apology. NTA stands up.

elena374 | elena374

Chosen family is real family 💔

MotherOfMoggies | MotherOfMoggies

Engaging debate on legal rights and parenting dynamics. 🤔

Llamasinthewild | Llamasinthewild

Respectful perspective: NAH, grandma may not feel close to them.

ladysaraii | ladysaraii

Expecting others to adopt our relationships isn't fair, ESH.

Xenogenes | Xenogenes

User questions poster's parental status and offers perspective, leaning towards N AH to Y TA.

Korona123 | Korona123

Grandma's insensitive comment hurts, but OP is NTA for standing up. 🙏

Carys_Vaughn | Carys_Vaughn

NTA commenter defends gay father's family against grandmother's discrimination.

CashieBashie | CashieBashie

Family feud over 'real' grandkids leaves everyone hurt 😔

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Stand up for your kids, shut down toxic family members 👏

EasyEnergy9 | EasyEnergy9

Standing up for son against cruel grandma earns NTA judgement.

MildredNatwick | MildredNatwick

Setting boundaries is important, but you can't force acceptance 👍

CasinoLucky | CasinoLucky

Curious about OP's familial history with stepkids and grandparents 🤔

ellieacd | ellieacd

Step parent defends mother's right to not see step kids as true grandchildren.

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Stepkids vs grandkids debate ends in NAH verdict.

DuineDeDanann | DuineDeDanann

Supportive comment congratulating new dad and warning of family drama 👏

Joyfor | Joyfor

NTA commenter calls out grandma's insensitive phrasing 🤯

J_is_Typing | J_is_Typing

Adopted grandchildren are real, patchwork families are real. 👍

Khalisti | Khalisti

Step-grandkids not real grandkids, NAH, but consider her perspective.

Activity-Unknown | Activity-Unknown

User questions if grandma is ignorant or TA, seeks more info.

wilsonofprussia11 | wilsonofprussia11

Stand your ground! NTA. Demand an apology for hurtful comments.

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Boundaries respected, but biological ties bring joy. NAH.

real_highlight_reel | real_highlight_reel

Empathetic comment reminds to react with love, not spite ❤️

MiksBricks | MiksBricks

Cutting family ties for the sake of happiness 💔

xanif | xanif

Prioritizing adult over hurt child? NTA stands up for compassion.

lifeonthegrid | lifeonthegrid

Support for loving dad after grandma's hurtful comment. ❤️👨‍👧‍👦

j027 | j027

NTA. Your kids are lucky to have you as their dad ❤️

brittwithouttheney | brittwithouttheney

Grandparents should love all grandkids equally, NTA did the right thing 👏

handsofanautomaton | handsofanautomaton

Family is more than blood. Your mom needs to learn that. 👍

Sourpatchtaby | Sourpatchtaby

Heartbreaking story of being excluded as a 'step-grandchild'. 😢

venakri | venakri

Mother's desire for biological grandkids is valid, but hurtful to children 😢

Schoenberg_ | Schoenberg_

Supportive comment validates parent's actions, encourages standing up for family 👍

lotsofgreycats | lotsofgreycats

Adopted grandchild hurt by grandmother's favoritism towards blood relatives ❤️

oylaura | oylaura

Blood doesn't make a family. 💖

beastlydreaming | beastlydreaming

Supportive comment highlights the importance of family acceptance. ❤

stressrelief375 | stressrelief375

Calling out a mean and selfish mother, NTA wins.

mr_sorensies | mr_sorensies

Grandma's hurtful comment leaves family heartbroken. Commenters agree: NTA.

An-Anthropologist | An-Anthropologist

Stepchildren are still children. Express how her words hurt.

ackrite07 | ackrite07

Grandma's hurtful comment may leave permanent damage to grandkids. NTA's advice.

Once-and-Future | Once-and-Future

Chosen family over blood, no tolerance for disrespect. 👊

KayskolA | KayskolA

Blood doesn't make a family ❤️ Stay firm and show love 😍

annjones2012 | annjones2012

Biological relation does not define family. NTA 👏

sanityslipping- | sanityslipping-

Grandma's hurtful words lead to justified removal from their life 💔

CrypticBogBadger | CrypticBogBadger

Step/adopted kids count! Grandma owes apology, NTA! 🙏🏻

ebwoods1 | ebwoods1

Being a good dad means putting your children first 👍

corgihuntress | corgihuntress

Compassionate advice for a dad handling insensitive grandma. 👍

tmccrn | tmccrn

Harsh judgement on gay man for reacting to hurtful comment 😢


Putting your kids first, NTA. Your mom sucks. 👍

lobstermobstermob | lobstermobstermob

Stepmom plays favorites with grandkids, don't let your mom too 👍

ResurrectingSatan | ResurrectingSatan

Standing up for oneself is not about keeping peace ✊

karmagrl31276 | karmagrl31276

Playing favorites with grandkids causes tension and discomfort ❌

minmister | minmister

Supportive commenter praises parent for standing up for kids. ❤️

Soranic | Soranic

Supportive comment applauds OP for standing up to bully grandma.

mycatisanudist | mycatisanudist

Supportive comment, advises to stand ground and demand apology.

misstessie | misstessie

Step-grandma's hurtful comment still impacts after 30 years. NTA.

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Family love is not determined by biology 💜

mrs_krokodile | mrs_krokodile

Adoptive parent shares experience of family embracing their children ❤️

R4catstoomany | R4catstoomany

Putting kids first makes you a great parent 👍

ChazzLamborghini | ChazzLamborghini

Grandma plays favorites, commenter reassures OP they're NTA 👍

Plenty_Dress1 | Plenty_Dress1

NTA's mom needs to apologize and accept grandkids as is ✌️

pugfacekillaaa | pugfacekillaaa

When grandma disrespects your family, NTA to stand up.

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Protecting your child from insensitive behavior. Time for distance.

mxrichar | mxrichar

NTA, leaning towards NAH. Grandmother needs to treat all grandkids equally. 👍

krysteline | krysteline

Using 'real' to describe grandkids is a**hole behavior. NTA.

JayeKimZ | JayeKimZ

NAH. Understandable for grandma to be excited about first grandbaby.

kam0706 | kam0706

Protect your children from toxic family members 💔

Bluebucketandspade35 | Bluebucketandspade35

Supportive comment applauds parent for standing up for kids 🙌

oldcreaker | oldcreaker

Protecting your children from toxicity. NTA 👏


Grandmother playing favorites can hurt kids' feelings. NTA.

SassyHail | SassyHail

Grandma's hurtful comment will stick with the kids forever. NTA.

puggable | puggable

Support for NTA standing up to rude grandmother 👏

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Empathy for the hurting grandkids, none for the grandma 💔

Duckfartstonight | Duckfartstonight

Heartbreaking moment as grandma denies grandkids. NTA stands by.

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Inclusive families are REAL families 👍🏻 NTA, grandma is TA

MayorCleanPants | MayorCleanPants

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