8-Year-Old's Birthday Wish DENIED by Cousin's Girlfriend 💔

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🎉 Buckle up, folks! We've got a juicy dilemma on our hands. 😱 Our main man here wants to treat his girlfriend to a magical Disneyland adventure to celebrate her graduation. 🎓✨ But wait, there's a twist! His aunt wants him to bring along his 8-year-old cousin on her birthday. 🎂🎈 Talk about a party crasher! 😅 Now, he's caught between a rock and a hard place. Should he prioritize his girlfriend's special day or cave to family pressure? 🤔 Let's dive into this drama-filled tale and see how it unfolds! 🍿

🎓 Graduation Celebration or 🎂 Birthday Bash? 🤔

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👩‍👧 Aunt's Unexpected Request 😮

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🧩 Suspicions of a Mental Disorder 🤔

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🩺 Inconclusive Diagnosis Attempts 😕

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🗣️ Comparing Apples to Oranges? 🍎🍊

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🤐 Agreeing to Disagree 🤝

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😰 Not Equipped for Tantrums 😓

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👩‍🎓 Heather's Special Day 🎉

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🙏 Gently Explaining the Situation 😌

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🙊 Passive-Aggressive Social Media Posts 📱

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👪 Family Takes Sides 😬

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🤷‍♂️ Entitled or Justified? 🤔

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Disneyland Dilemma: Graduation Celebration or Birthday Bash?

Well, well, well... looks like our guy is in quite the pickle! He wants to make his girlfriend's graduation extra special with a Disneyland trip, but his aunt is guilt-tripping him into taking his cousin instead. Talk about a family feud! His cousin might have some behavioral issues, and he's not sure he can handle the tantrums. Plus, he wants his girlfriend to have a stress-free day. But now, the family is taking sides, and he's being called a jerk for prioritizing his girl over a kid. The internet is buzzing with opinions on this one! Let's see what the masses have to say about this Disneyland debacle.

Blood doesn't make family. You're NTA for setting boundaries 👏

g33kn1k | g33kn1k

Understanding autism spectrum and boundaries. NTA for OP.

TinyRascalSaurus | TinyRascalSaurus

NTA! Aunt should take her own daughter. No explanation needed 👍

stacity | stacity

Aunt Jennie's priorities questioned. NTA Op! 👏

marydonovan | marydonovan

Suggesting alternatives for the cousin's girlfriend's denial of Disneyland trip 🤔

cubsandpink | cubsandpink

Polite suggestion to decline cousin's girlfriend's request for birthday.

gypsyqld | gypsyqld

NTA for refusing to babysit the cousin's girlfriend's child 🙅. It's not your obligation to handle a child with an unknown condition. Take your GF and enjoy the day 🎉

Veldrin_Dalharil | Veldrin_Dalharil

Aunt wants OP to take her kid to Disneyland, NTA

FunOnAita | FunOnAita

Spending time with GF, not a date with her kid 🙅‍♂️

ZakSherlack | ZakSherlack

Organizing a celebration without interference, NTA 👏

cpagali | cpagali

Responsibility for special needs cousin not OP's, NTA 👍

many_hobbies_gal | many_hobbies_gal

Trip denied by cousin's girlfriend. NTA for saying no.

CrystalQueen3000 | CrystalQueen3000

NTA - You're in the clear, don't let her bully you 💪

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NTA for not taking aunt's kid on adult trip 👏

LouisV25 | LouisV25

Celebrate your girlfriend's graduation without any guilt. 💪

Jazzlike_Humor3340 | Jazzlike_Humor3340

Supportive comment from a parent with ADHD daughter 👏

kelsnuggets | kelsnuggets

Aunt is lazy and dumping her kid on you.

bubblegumwitch23 | bubblegumwitch23

Aunt expects OP to take her misbehaving daughter to Disney 🙅‍♀️

Craftyallthetime | Craftyallthetime

Stand your ground and enjoy your trip with your girlfriend 💪

Puzzleheaded_Dot_960 | Puzzleheaded_Dot_960

Setting boundaries and prioritizing your relationship 👍

Sheisty_Lawyer | Sheisty_Lawyer

Blocking family on social media? 😲 NTA stands their ground

Agreeable-Meat-7219 | Agreeable-Meat-7219

NTA. Free babysitting day for Melanie's mom - not you. 👍

NosyJenni | NosyJenni

Inviting her child on your couple's trip is unfair 👍

Farwalker08 | Farwalker08

Aunt Jennie should take her for her birthday, NTA.

canvasshoes2 | canvasshoes2

Not her kid, not her responsibility. Aunt should teach 'no'.

isthismaddie | isthismaddie

Girlfriend not obligated to take cousin's daughter to Disneyland 🎉

kodak723 | kodak723

Don't take responsibility for someone else's child. NTA 👍

Caribe92 | Caribe92

Defending an autistic kid's birthday wish at Disney. NTA 💪

21stCenturyJanes | 21stCenturyJanes

Aunt's refusal to take child to amusement park justified. NTA

SkrogedScourge | SkrogedScourge

Sassy response to those who won't take Jennie to Disney

murphy2345678 | murphy2345678

NTA for not inviting cousin with complex needs, requires special planning.

maddiep81 | maddiep81

Aunt's bad behavior affects niece's manners. NTA for OP.

MLD4789 | MLD4789

NTA for prioritizing girlfriend's bday & cousin's safety at Disney 🎉

me0mio | me0mio

Clear explanation of boundaries. NTA for denying birthday wish.

Diasies_inMyHair | Diasies_inMyHair

Supportive comment, encouraging OP to prioritize family and stay hydrated 😊

Cute_Blacksmith_9921 | Cute_Blacksmith_9921

Cousin's girlfriend NTA for refusing to handle autistic child. Aunt's manipulation is sad 😢

VeraXavier | VeraXavier

Family drama over 8yr old's birthday wish for Disneyland.

coloradogrown85 | coloradogrown85

Defending OP's decision to celebrate with GF at DL 👏💕

Dragonr0se | Dragonr0se

Aunt wants free babysitting during Disneyland trip, NTA stands up.

WhiteJadedButterfly | WhiteJadedButterfly

Aunt tries to hijack vacation, commenter says NTA 😊

nephelite | nephelite

NTA: No, you're not signing up to babysit. 😍

OhLizaLittleLizaJane | OhLizaLittleLizaJane

Setting boundaries is important, and Disneyland will still be fun 🎉

Maleficent_Wash_934 | Maleficent_Wash_934

Aunt prioritizes avoiding cousin at Disneyland over nephew's birthday 🤔

slendermanismydad | slendermanismydad

Dating someone with kids? Be respectful of their time together 🙏

Working-on-it12 | Working-on-it12

Suggests not taking neuro-typical Heather to Disney. Stand firm. NTA.

lapsteelguitar | lapsteelguitar

Disneyland is a different experience with kids than adults 🎉

Jujulabee | Jujulabee

Aunt wants cousin's GF to take 8-year-old to Disney Land 🎢

Sea_Resolution_7629 | Sea_Resolution_7629

Disney debate sparks confusion and NTA ruling.

Kris82868 | Kris82868

Adults deserve alone time too, NTA for prioritizing relationship 👍

Amiedeslivres | Amiedeslivres

Enjoy your trip to Disneyland without taking care of a kid 🎉

AdelleDeWitt | AdelleDeWitt

Family manipulation shouldn't force unwanted guests. #NTA 👏

Tyberious_ | Tyberious_

Support for NTA's decision to deny birthday wish request.

Ambitious-Tiger-3889 | Ambitious-Tiger-3889

NTA stands up for herself and suggests social media response 👏

LadyIceis | LadyIceis

👩‍👧‍👦 Entitled cousin's girlfriend refuses to grant birthday wish. NTA.

Zookeeper-007 | Zookeeper-007

NTA. Celebrating girlfriend, not a place for a 7yo 👏

Only-Ingenuity7889 | Only-Ingenuity7889

Celebrate your milestones without guilt. NTA 👏

Allonsydr1 | Allonsydr1

NTA commenter defends girlfriend's decision not to babysit.

Helpful_Emotion_1764 | Helpful_Emotion_1764

NTA refuses Disneyland babysitting, a**holes can take their own kid.

astrologydork | astrologydork

Suggests polite response to girlfriend, prioritizing child's experience. 🎊

Dozy_dinosaur | Dozy_dinosaur

Aunt Jennie can take her own kid to Disney 🎉

MyThreeBugs | MyThreeBugs

NTA for not wanting an 8-year-old on a graduation trip 🎉

shontsu | shontsu

NTA defends not taking responsibility for special needs child 🎢

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NTA suggests passive-aggressive response to denied birthday wish 😐

Intelligent_Stop5564 | Intelligent_Stop5564

NTA, boundaries are important. Don't justify or explain your no. 💪

One-Possibility1178 | One-Possibility1178

NTA stands up for 8-year-old's Disney birthday wish 💫

No-Locksmith-8590 | No-Locksmith-8590

Aunt tries to co-opt 8-year-old's Disney trip 🙄

Barrel-Of-Tigers | Barrel-Of-Tigers

Family agrees: NTA for not inviting cousin's girlfriend to trip 🎉

Efficient_Ease_4768 | Efficient_Ease_4768

NTA - Cousin's girlfriend ruins trip by trying to piggyback 🙄

Elfich47 | Elfich47

Aunt should be responsible for her own daughter's bday. NTA 👍

Imaginary-Poetry8549 | Imaginary-Poetry8549

Aunt shouldn't prioritize her plans over a child's birthday wish 👍

Accomplished_Ad1837 | Accomplished_Ad1837

Entitled aunt needs to take responsibility for her own child 👏

TUGrad | TUGrad

Celebrate with your girlfriend without stress! NTA 🎉

Disneyland4Ever | Disneyland4Ever

Supportive comment defends 8-year-old's birthday wish 💪

Pineville7330 | Pineville7330

Go have the most magical day and don't feel bad 🎉

junigloomy | junigloomy

Sassy clap-back to Aunt Jennie's Disneyland denial. #NTA 👏

Damn_el_Torpedoes | Damn_el_Torpedoes

Stand up for yourself and your girlfriend! NTA 💪

spaceyjaycey | spaceyjaycey

NTA! Aunt's emotional manipulation sucks. She can bring cousin herself 🙅

joellemieux4 | joellemieux4

Aunt tries to pawn off Disneyland trip, commenter says NTA 🎉

Alustrianna | Alustrianna

Keep your couple plans confidential and shame on the aunt! 🤐

HeartpineFloors | HeartpineFloors

Controversial comment suggests parental irresponsibility, sparks no replies.

NotKatieKatester | NotKatieKatester

Setting boundaries with entitled family members. 🚫🙅‍♀️

DetectiveResident391 | DetectiveResident391

Aunt Jennie's absence on the kid's birthday sparks controversy 🤔

Accomplished-Week484 | Accomplished-Week484

Girls weekend ruined by surprise visit from friend's child 🤪

HeartpineFloors | HeartpineFloors

A sensitive issue addressed with empathy and personal experience 👏

BTPoliceGirl_Seras | BTPoliceGirl_Seras

Parent denied birthday wish, commenter says NTA. 🎂

QueenMother81 | QueenMother81

Sole reason for trip is birthday girl, NTA confirmed 👍

Ojos_Claros | Ojos_Claros

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