Dad Goes Behind Wife's Back to Keep Daughters Off the Streets 🏠👧👧

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🔥 Buckle up, folks! We've got a juicy tale of a man caught between his current wife and his ex. 😱 This guy left his ex-wife for "petty reasons" (his words, not ours! 🙊), but now finds himself in a sticky situation. His ex is struggling to make ends meet while raising their two teenage daughters. 💸 So, what does our conflicted hero do? He secretly starts sending his ex extra cash behind his current wife's back! 🤫 Uh-oh, this can't end well... 🍿

💔 A Tough Divorce, But No Regrets 🤷‍♂️

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💍 Moving On and Remarrying 👰‍♀️

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💸 Paying Child Support, But Is It Enough? 🤔

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🏥 Family Medical Bills Drain Ex's Savings 😢

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🏠 Daughters' Lives Rooted With Mom 👧👧

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💰 $1500 Child Support Not Cutting It 😬

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🤫 Secretly Sending Extra Money to Ex 🙊

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😡 Wife Discovers the Secret and Feels Betrayed 💔

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💡 Justifying Actions for Daughters' Sake 🙏

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💑 Navigating Combined Finances in Marriage 💸

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😱 Man's Secret Money Transfers to Ex-Wife Exposed! 💸🙊

Well, well, well... looks like our guy's secret couldn't stay hidden forever! 🕵️‍♀️ His current wife eventually caught wind of the extra $2100 per month he was sneaking to his ex. 😬 She's accusing him of having an emotional affair and feels utterly betrayed. 💔 But wait, there's more! Our man claims he was just trying to keep the lights on and food on the table for his daughters. 🏠🍽️ So, is he a caring father or a sneaky a-hole? 🤔 The internet is about to weigh in, and you won't believe what they have to say! 🗣️

Missing information makes it hard to judge, but suspicious.

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Stepmom prioritizes herself over stepdaughters living in poverty 👮🏽👮🏽

Sharksmells | Sharksmells

Dad's decision to secretly support daughters causes marital issue. ESH.

Judgemental_Panda | Judgemental_Panda

Man prioritizes ex-wife's medical bills over current wife's feelings 😕

chopperThehopper | chopperThehopper

Combining finances means no unilateral decisions. YTA 🤢

MaxusBE | MaxusBE

User calls out dad for sending shared finances to kids behind wife's back 😒

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Divided opinions on whether dad crossed a line to help ex's family 🤔

StaceysMomPlus2more | StaceysMomPlus2more

Divorce may be necessary if current wife doesn't understand responsibility 🙅

Veridical_Perception | Veridical_Perception

Shared finances mean YTA for using HER money without consent 👍

TheBreadToYourPigeon | TheBreadToYourPigeon

YTA: Going behind your wife's back was not a good move 😓

wubbly-wump | wubbly-wump

Supporting struggling daughters = NTA, consider new child support plan 💰

Less-Statistician546 | Less-Statistician546

OP is YTA for lying to his wife about helping his children ⚖️

nyancat645 | nyancat645

User calls out OP for lack of respect towards wives

dragon-queen | dragon-queen

Financially supporting ex-wife and neglecting current wife makes YTA 💸

netnet1014 | netnet1014

Everyone's at fault: ex-wife for asking for more money, current wife for jumping to conclusions, and OP for disregarding his current wife's feelings and decision.

Newboi001 | Newboi001

Shared finances, going behind wife's back, and supporting children. ESH.

Nyukorin | Nyukorin

Combined finances = joint decisions. YTA crossed the line 👍

lrhol | lrhol

Financial conflicts arise between husband and wife's ex-wife.

introverted_smallfry | introverted_smallfry

Financial infidelity can ruin relationships. YTA is warned.

TheDevilsAdvokaat | TheDevilsAdvokaat

Financial conflict arises in dad's decision to keep daughters safe

Runny_yoke | Runny_yoke

Divided comment section on a dad's controversial decision 🤔

TheHedonia | TheHedonia

User calls out OP for ignoring wife's say in finances. YTA 🤬

anonego7 | anonego7

Harsh criticism for dad's decision to let ex-wife raise kids

OriginalFinnah | OriginalFinnah

Divorced dad receives criticism for not paying $1500/month child support. YTA.

AndriaRenee | AndriaRenee

A commenter calls out a dad for prioritizing his daughters over his wife, with strong disapproval. 💔

Raging_Dragon_9999 | Raging_Dragon_9999

Lying to your wife is not the solution 🙅. Finding a compromise is key 👌

dessertandcheese | dessertandcheese

Divorced dad's questionable approach to parenting sparks YTA verdict.

AndriaRenee | AndriaRenee

Defending a father's love for his daughters against harsh criticism.

MasterpieceOk4688 | MasterpieceOk4688

User calls out dad for stealing from wife to pay ex.

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Noble intentions, but hiding from your wife isn't right. NTA.

ToxicLogics | ToxicLogics

User calls out dad for stealing from wife's finances 💰

dancingpianofairy | dancingpianofairy

Should the dad take the kids and leave? 🤔

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Financial situation questioned in dad's efforts to protect daughters.

rosered936 | rosered936

Red flags everywhere. 🚩🚩🚩 Don't betray your spouse's trust.

Amazing-Squash | Amazing-Squash

A scathing comment calls out the dad's behavior as deplorable.

bpdsuperstar | bpdsuperstar

Putting your kids first is always the right choice 👨👨

Amythist35 | Amythist35

Financial infidelity - OP betrayed his wife's trust and loyalty 💰💔

FirstFarmOnTheLeft | FirstFarmOnTheLeft

User calls out dad for emotional and financial cheating 💯

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Combining finances without consent? YTA according to comments 🙄

smolrivercat | smolrivercat

Man is called out for secretly giving money to ex-wife.

atreides85 | atreides85

🚨 YTA for betraying your wife's trust and stealing her money

ClubSoda98 | ClubSoda98

Helping your ex is NTA, but going behind your wife's back is YTA 🤷‍♂️

toomuchswiping | toomuchswiping

Joint account breach and excessive child support divides opinion 💪

Godofallu | Godofallu

Going behind your spouse's back with finances is always wrong 👎

SmoothLikeButter13 | SmoothLikeButter13

User questions OP's motives and wonders about missing details 🤔

fgvkfea615 | fgvkfea615

Prioritize your wife's needs, not your ex's. YTA ❌

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Single parent calls out dad's betrayal in YTA judgment 👎

Idontwanttomake1 | Idontwanttomake1

Financial infidelity is worse than old-fashioned infidelity? YTA 🤔

WhackAMoleWings | WhackAMoleWings

User calls dad out for neglecting daughters' needs for ex's bills 👎

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Don't hide things from your partner, YTA 🚫💍

TheAlbatrossVI | TheAlbatrossVI

Money issues and exes causing friction in family finances.

JustMeHere8888 | JustMeHere8888

User calls out dad for going behind wife's back 👍

hibernativenaptosis | hibernativenaptosis

Going behind your wife's back makes YTA, but help your kids if you can 🙏

Angelbaby103 | Angelbaby103

Man spends wife's money on ex-wife, breaks trust. YTA 👎

FunkyAssPenguin | FunkyAssPenguin

Going behind your wife's back and changing direct deposit is disgusting 😠

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Ex-partner's financial issues, comment suggests not helping. YTA.

treborcj | treborcj

Financial decisions behind spouse's back? YTA. Counseling recommended 🙏

Bella_Lunatic | Bella_Lunatic

User calls out OP for disrespecting his wife in secret.

BupiBear | BupiBear

Making tough choices: Commenter calls out dad for not taking legal action 👍

NodakCollector | NodakCollector

Divided opinions on the dad's decision to keep daughters safe.

Goaerne | Goaerne

User calls out YTA for betraying current wife for ex-wife.

mrsmenji | mrsmenji

Money matters. What's the financial arrangement with ex and current wife?

Cocoasneeze | Cocoasneeze

User asks for info to determine if man is an AH

SuperWomanUSA | SuperWomanUSA

Financial infidelity is a no-go. Apologize and hope for forgiveness 💔

greentea1985 | greentea1985

User calls out dad for selfish and disrespectful behavior.


Deceitful dad gets called out for being the a**hole 👎

PurpleReign_1999 | PurpleReign_1999

Going behind her back was wrong 😓 but he does need to support his daughters 👧👧

RyzenTide | RyzenTide

Man accused of stealing from family to please ex-wife 👤👮

Icy-Pay6766 | Icy-Pay6766

Deceptive dad puts daughters first, but loses wife's trust 😕

MidwestMSW | MidwestMSW

Father admits to avoiding wife, commenters call him out for it 😑

AggravatingPatient18 | AggravatingPatient18

Hiding help from current wife - YTA according to commenter.

Antique-Criticism225 | Antique-Criticism225

Going behind wife's back to keep daughters safe - YTA 😕

David5051 | David5051

Stealing wife's money to keep daughters off streets - YTA 👎

Vittaprem | Vittaprem

Co-parenting conflicts arise in comment section 🤦‍♂️

nishelle90 | nishelle90

Going behind your wife's back? YTA according to commenters 🤷‍♂️

jewelsolo | jewelsolo

User calls out OP for disrespecting current wife financially 😒

esmithedm | esmithedm

Helping your ex-wife is great but going behind your wife's back is a**hole move 😑

Interesting-Two946 | Interesting-Two946

YTA for lying about child support, she has a right.

envy-adams | envy-adams

Going behind your partner's back makes YTA, push for custody. 💎

Stunt57 | Stunt57

YTA: Relationship advice and compromise needed 🤔

DubiousPeoplePleaser | DubiousPeoplePleaser

Parent seeks advice on child support and expenses for daughters.

Worth-Trouble2911 | Worth-Trouble2911

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