😢 'Do MORE or Never See Me Again!': Son's UNBELIEVABLE Reaction to Fostering Autistic Cousin

Diply Social Team
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🙋‍♂️ Hey there, folks! Get ready for a wild ride as we dive into the life of a 16-year-old big bro who's got his hands full with a family of six... and maybe even one more! 😱 With two siblings on the autism spectrum and a baby sis who seems to get all the attention, this teen is feeling the weight of the world on his shoulders. 🌍 But when tragedy strikes the extended fam and a cousin with autism ends up in foster care, the parents want to step up and take him in. 💔 The catch? They expect our main man to take on even MORE responsibilities! 😫 Is it fair to ask so much of a teenager? 🤔 Let's find out if he's the a-hole for putting his foot down and setting some boundaries! 🦶

🏠 A Family of Six... Plus One More? 😳

EmotionalSkin1405 | EmotionalSkin1405

🧩 The Challenges of Autism in the Family 💙

EmotionalSkin1405 | EmotionalSkin1405

🎒 Sacrifices for Special Needs Education 📚

EmotionalSkin1405 | EmotionalSkin1405

🍳 Big Bro Takes on Extra Duties at Home 🧽

EmotionalSkin1405 | EmotionalSkin1405

🥘 Cooking Up a Storm for the Fam 👨‍🍳

EmotionalSkin1405 | EmotionalSkin1405

👧 Little Sis Gets All the Attention? 🤨

EmotionalSkin1405 | EmotionalSkin1405

😔 Feeling Overlooked and Underappreciated 💔

EmotionalSkin1405 | EmotionalSkin1405

👶 Prioritizing the Baby of the Family 🍼

EmotionalSkin1405 | EmotionalSkin1405

🧹 Cleaning Duties Fall on Young Shoulders 😓

EmotionalSkin1405 | EmotionalSkin1405

🧒 No Help from the Little Helper? 🙅‍♀️

EmotionalSkin1405 | EmotionalSkin1405

💔 Tragedy Strikes the Extended Family 😢

EmotionalSkin1405 | EmotionalSkin1405

😞 The Heartbreaking Reality of Foster Care 🏚️

EmotionalSkin1405 | EmotionalSkin1405

🛒 More Responsibilities Piled On 😫

EmotionalSkin1405 | EmotionalSkin1405

🚗 Juggling Appointments and Therapies 🗓️

EmotionalSkin1405 | EmotionalSkin1405

😡 Enough is Enough! The Ultimatum 🚪

EmotionalSkin1405 | EmotionalSkin1405

Teen Reaches Breaking Point with Family Responsibilities!

Whew, talk about a pressure cooker situation! Our 16-year-old hero has been juggling cooking, cleaning, and childcare duties for years, all while feeling like his little sis gets all the love and attention. But when his parents want to take in a cousin with autism and expect him to do even MORE, he finally snaps! He agrees to help out until he's 18, but then he's outta there for good! His parents think he's being unreasonable, but is he? Let's see what the internet has to say about this family drama!

Sympathetic NTA comment defends teenager's right to adolescence 🙌

coastalkid92 | coastalkid92

NTA. Commenter advises on how to avoid being parentified. 👍

Remember1959 | Remember1959

🤬 Anger and empathy for commenter's situation, NTA stance.

notforcommentinohgoo | notforcommentinohgoo

Prioritizing personal needs when parents foster a special needs child 👍

Kukka63 | Kukka63

NTA. Have a plan to gain independence or be doomed. 💼

Relevant-Position-43 | Relevant-Position-43

Curious about adoption process in other countries? Let's discuss 🤔

GemueseBeerchen | GemueseBeerchen

Don't blame yourself, you're NTA. Foster care is tough 😔

Rredhead926 | Rredhead926

NTA. Assert your boundaries and prioritize your own well-being. 💪

saltedfish | saltedfish

Sibling shows support for overworked older brother in tough situation 🙏

GaidinDaishan | GaidinDaishan

Escaping abuse: consider contacting the police and trusted friends 🙋�\dffb

Lady_of_the_Seraphim | Lady_of_the_Seraphim

Encouraging NTA comment suggests therapy and standing up to parents 👍

Odd_Welcome7940 | Odd_Welcome7940

Empathetic comment acknowledges parentification, advises to prioritize own life. NTA 👍

Small-Jellyfish-2591 | Small-Jellyfish-2591

Empathetic comment supporting OP's struggle and encouraging future reconciliation.

SlightlyBadderBunny | SlightlyBadderBunny

Family expectations can be overwhelming. 🤯 Stand up for yourself.

BloodyLilith974 | BloodyLilith974

Insensitive comment shows lack of empathy for caregiver's situation 😒

Mindless_Ad_6045 | Mindless_Ad_6045

It's not your responsibility to take care of your cousin. 👍

babydan08 | babydan08

Advice for obedient son to speak up to entitled parents 👍

InternationalGood588 | InternationalGood588

NTA. Prioritize yourself, make detailed plans and backup contingencies. 💪 Your parents abandoned their responsibilities to you.

Significant_Rub_4589 | Significant_Rub_4589

Don't let anyone guilt you into sacrificing your future. 💪

404-hope_not_found | 404-hope_not_found

Encouraging response to a burdensome situation for a responsible teen 🙏

kajinkqd | kajinkqd

Heartfelt support for OP's struggles and advice to not resent siblings.

leanyka | leanyka

Neglected son expresses his feelings about being overlooked in family.

MDL1983 | MDL1983

Unfair workload for teenager fostering non-verbal special needs cousins. NTA.

Professional_Ruin953 | Professional_Ruin953

Heartbreaking comment exposes neglect and pain within the family. 💔

star_b_nettor | star_b_nettor

Empathetic response to NTA's justified comments 🤝👍

PoppyStaff | PoppyStaff

Escape plan advice for OP in difficult family situation. 👍

Andravisia | Andravisia

Taking care of their own kids is a sacrifice too. NTA.

wlfwrtr | wlfwrtr

NTA. Suggest living part-time with best friend's parents to avoid conflict 🙏

Bee5475 | Bee5475

Being the third parent is tough. It's a hard situation 😔

SagalaUso | SagalaUso

🙅‍♀️ NTA. Recognize and escape parentification abuse. Speak to CPS workers.

Cursd818 | Cursd818

👏 Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries is important.

Ok_Code_270 | Ok_Code_270

NTA and a special education teacher advises OP to seek compensation.

MaizeOk8455 | MaizeOk8455

Standing up to parentification - the pain is real 😢

lizzourworld8 | lizzourworld8

Having more children with high needs is deeply irresponsible. Run.

dragon34 | dragon34

Advice to a struggling caregiver on setting boundaries and planning.

katie-kaboom | katie-kaboom

Putting your own needs first doesn't make you a bad person 🙌

Lori_D | Lori_D

Burdensome household responsibilities are hindering teenager's social growth. 🤷‍♀️

anonymousforever | anonymousforever

NTA. Parentification is abusive. You're entitled to a life and childhood 🙌

jmgeo | jmgeo

Heartbreaking comment on parents robbing childhood & selfishness accusations

AlpineLad1965 | AlpineLad1965

Taking control of your own future. 👍

deadlywaffle139 | deadlywaffle139

Heartbreaking comment about being forced into parenthood at a young age 💔

HotSubstance1172 | HotSubstance1172

Prioritize yourself and make a plan to get away 👋

Dogmother123 | Dogmother123

NTA comment suggests researching parentification to understand family dynamics.

brideofgibbs | brideofgibbs

Concerned commenter warns against being burdened with family responsibilities. 👀

Electronic_Wait_7500 | Electronic_Wait_7500

Caring for one autistic child wasn't enough, let's add more! 😑

Cyssoo | Cyssoo

NTA - Commenter empathizes with OP's situation and advises against taking on more responsibilities, suggests calling CPS. 👏

Silverkekoa | Silverkekoa

Sibling relates to OP's struggle with taking care of autistic cousin

DislexicPengin | DislexicPengin

Sharing her own experience, commenter supports OP's decision to set boundaries 💪

hemeonc_nurse | hemeonc_nurse

Don't let your parents guilt you into sacrificing your life. 🙏

Matthius81 | Matthius81

NTA - The commenter advises the person to stand up for themselves and not let their parents take advantage of them, even if it means risking their relationship with them. They remind them that they are entitled to their own life and decisions and that it's not their job to take care of their parents' other kids. 💪

Signal_Historian_456 | Signal_Historian_456

Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries is important. 👍

NoReveal6677 | NoReveal6677

Teen pushed to care for autistic cousin by irresponsible parents. 😔

Mitologia_ | Mitologia_

🚪 Exit now and tell the social worker everything. #NTA

Cat1832 | Cat1832

Heartfelt comment on the challenges of being a parentified child.

ElevatingDaily | ElevatingDaily

Harsh but true. Reporting them might be necessary for safety 😢

WriteAnotherWoods | WriteAnotherWoods

Standing up for oneself against parentification with NTA comment.

StorminWolf | StorminWolf

You're not responsible for their children, NTA 👏

Violet351 | Violet351

Heartbreaking. 🥺 This child needs love and support, not sacrifice.

Jskm79 | Jskm79

Don't be burdened by someone else's choices. You're NTA 👍

porste | porste

Sibling deserves love too. Prioritize education over unasked responsibilities. 👏

Different-Airline672 | Different-Airline672

Empathetic comment applauds OP's decision to prioritize their own wellbeing.

GreedyRacoon187 | GreedyRacoon187

Setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care. NTA.

Penny4004 | Penny4004

Support for fostering, but OP shouldn't be the only solution 👍

Becalmandkind | Becalmandkind

NTA. Helping younger siblings is okay, not being their parent.

bofh000 | bofh000

Take back control of your life. Don't let family guilt you. 👊


Seek emancipation or report neglect/abuse to counselor 🚨

ArkieHiker | ArkieHiker

Don't let your parents parentify you. YTA to yourself.

Frequent-Material273 | Frequent-Material273

Unpaid nanny? That's not fair! #NTA

sA1atji | sA1atji

Harsh comment suggests abuse and advises to stand up for self.

Omnom_Omnath | Omnom_Omnath

Empowering response to abuse with supportive tone 👏

Legitimate_Chicken66 | Legitimate_Chicken66

NTA stands up for themselves and questions unfair treatment.

Calm_Initial | Calm_Initial

You deserve to live your own life. #NTA 👏

darklogic85 | darklogic85

Protect yourself first. Reach out to CPS for help. 🙏

Jmfroggie | Jmfroggie

Don't parentfy your kids. Special needs children are not an excuse 🚫

Heathersd8663 | Heathersd8663

User expresses concern for child's well-being and offers advice.

HeIsCorrupt | HeIsCorrupt

NTA, commenter criticizes parents for not taking responsibility and being unfair.

AVerySmollBrownie | AVerySmollBrownie

NTA. Your parents made decisions and have to accept the consequences. 👍

kapitein-kwak | kapitein-kwak

Supportive comment acknowledges OP's efforts and situation. 👏

Amurana | Amurana

Don't let guilt trip you. Prioritize education and self-sufficiency 💪

Mountain-Page6196 | Mountain-Page6196

Forced parentification is abuse. NTA for wanting your childhood 🙌

Addaran | Addaran

User strongly disagrees with idea of assigning responsibility to eldest.

Accomplished_Ask1020 | Accomplished_Ask1020

Adults failing a 16-year-old, but she's NTA and we're rooting for her! 💪

SuspiciousTea4224 | SuspiciousTea4224

👏 Stand up for yourself and call CPS if necessary.

Own-Cauliflower1843 | Own-Cauliflower1843

Heartbreaking situation of a child forced to be a parent. 💔 #NTA

evilcj925 | evilcj925

NTA, parentification is a form of abuse and can cause trauma. Take care of yourself and say no to doing everything.

opheliasdinosaur | opheliasdinosaur

NTA: Commenter empathizes with OP and calls parents irresponsible.

WomanInQuestion | WomanInQuestion

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