30 Year Old Makes SHOCKING Decision - Moves Out on Sick BFF 💔

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🚨 Buckle up, folks! We've got a juicy roommate dilemma that's sure to get your blood boiling! 😱 Meet our protagonist, a 30-year-old student juggling work, school, and two problematic roomies in the City of Angels. 🌴 With sky-high rent, a chronically ill roommate, and another who's about as helpful as a chocolate teapot, it's no wonder our girl is at her wit's end! 🤯 Should she stay and keep playing caretaker, or should she ditch the drama and move on to greener pastures? 🤔 Let's dive in and see if we can help her sort out this mess! 👀

🏠 Roomie Drama in La La Land! 😱

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🤒 Kay's Chronic Illness Struggles 😢

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🙅‍♀️ Tammy the Troublemaker! 😠

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💩 Poop Emoji Payment?! WTF! 😲

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💸 Chasing Payments is a Pain! 😤

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😞 Coping with Kay's Health Struggles 💔

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🧹 Stuck with All the Chores! 😩

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🚪 Time to Move Out? 🤔

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💰 Higher Rent, Better Location! 🙌

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🛒 Kay Relies on Me for Groceries 😕

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🚨 Kay's Warning: It'll Be Bad! 😰

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🤷‍♀️ WIBTA for Moving Out? 😬

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🚨 Should She Stay or Should She Go? 🏃‍♀️💨

Our protagonist is caught between a rock and a hard place! 😫 On one hand, she feels guilty about leaving her chronically ill roomie, Kay, in the lurch. 😢 But on the other hand, she's drowning in chores, bills, and the constant stress of living with two difficult roommates. 🙇‍♀️ Kay's health struggles are taking a toll, and Tammy's immaturity and irresponsibility are driving her up the wall! 🤬 Now, an opportunity to move out has presented itself, but it comes with a hefty dose of guilt. 😔 Will our girl choose her own well-being, or will she continue to sacrifice her happiness for the sake of her roommate? 🤷‍♀️ The internet has some thoughts on this one, and they're not holding back! 🗣️ Let's see what kind of sage advice and hilarious hot takes they've got in store for our conflicted protagonist! 🍿

Protecting your mental health is important. YWNBTA 👍

randomusername0506 | randomusername0506

Roommate's health not your responsibility. You deserve to live freely. 👏

teresajs | teresajs

NTA commenter suggests Kay find a carer, stop relying on friends.

WavesnMountains | WavesnMountains

Prioritizing your own happiness isn't selfish. NTA 👍

AllandarosSunsong | AllandarosSunsong

You deserve to live your life. NTA 👏

Less_Ordinary_8516 | Less_Ordinary_8516

Not responsible for sick friend - NTA for moving out 👍

SigSauerPower320 | SigSauerPower320

Moving out is tough, but helping sustainably is important 👍

rose_unfurled | rose_unfurled

Compassionate NTA comment acknowledges friend's illness but sets boundaries ❤

catchmeloutside | catchmeloutside

NTA commenter encourages leaving to find appropriate support 🙌

PaisleyPatchouli | PaisleyPatchouli

Take charge of your own happiness, NTA 🤗

Kukka63 | Kukka63

Setting boundaries is hard, but necessary for self-care. 🙌

harleybidness | harleybidness

Take care of yourself first. YWNBTA for moving out 👍

Wild-Home-4337 | Wild-Home-4337

Self-care first, NTA for moving out. Avoid burnout 💪🏻

Izzy_the_penguin | Izzy_the_penguin

NTA for moving out of burdening situation 👏

TipsyBaker_ | TipsyBaker_

Choose yourself first 👍 and leave toxic friendships behind 👌

Suspended_Accountant | Suspended_Accountant

Self-care is important. NTA for leaving toxic situation. 🙌

randomthoughts56789 | randomthoughts56789

Choosing happiness and independence over guilt - NTA 👍

Individual-Theory-85 | Individual-Theory-85

Don't set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm 💯. Roommate needs help or compensation.

Internet_Hugs | Internet_Hugs

Putting yourself first sometimes isn't selfish 💪🏻

wlfwrtr | wlfwrtr

Moving out for your own well-being does not make you NTA 👍

Aggressive-Coconut0 | Aggressive-Coconut0

Don't be anyone's lap dog 👍, it's okay to live your life 😊

SkynetMCP | SkynetMCP

Don't set yourself on fire to keep others warm. NTA 👏

SheiB123 | SheiB123

Plan ahead before moving out to avoid legal and personal problems 🙌

Daveyfiacre | Daveyfiacre

Don't be a doormat. Move out and don't feel guilty. NTA 👍

AmenhotepTutankhamun | AmenhotepTutankhamun

Self-care is important. Don't get burned trying to help. NTA

porkypandas | porkypandas

Prioritizing your own health isn't selfish 👍

Tigger7894 | Tigger7894

Prioritizing oneself over an unpaid caregiving role. #NTA 👏

Spiritual-Bridge3027 | Spiritual-Bridge3027

Putting yourself first isn't selfish. NTA. 👏

AvidLearning | AvidLearning

Not responsible for managing two adults. NTA 👍

UnbalancedDruid | UnbalancedDruid

Roommate not obligated to care for sick BFF. NTA 👍

EnderBurger | EnderBurger

Prioritizing your own well-being isn't selfish. 👍

Slovenlyfox | Slovenlyfox

Living with illness is tough, but live your life first. 👍

Consistent-Leave7895 | Consistent-Leave7895

Roommate not obligated to be unpaid carer for chronically ill friend 🙅 NTA

TheGreenPangolin | TheGreenPangolin

Set boundaries and prioritize your own well-being. Move on 👍

DomesticPlantLover | DomesticPlantLover

Prioritize rest to avoid chronic health problems ✍️

Roaming-the-internet | Roaming-the-internet

Prioritize your mental health and move out. Don't let guilt win. 👍

petitemacaron1977 | petitemacaron1977

You're not the a**hole for moving out on dependent roommate 👏

PeachBanana8 | PeachBanana8

No obligations to roommates, NTA - 🤷‍♀️

scrambledeggs2020 | scrambledeggs2020

Prioritizing own life and health is not being an a**hole 👍

buckettty | buckettty

Don't sacrifice your well-being for your roommate's health. YWNBTA 🙏

Anxious-Routine-5526 | Anxious-Routine-5526

Putting yourself first is not selfish. NTA for moving out 👏

Calm_Nectarine_8329 | Calm_Nectarine_8329

Putting yourself first isn't selfish, it's self-care. NTA 👍

onedayatatime08 | onedayatatime08

Prioritizing mental health is important. NTA for setting boundaries 🙌

lilolememe | lilolememe

Leaving her sick friend may be the tough love she needs 😟

Bearded_empath | Bearded_empath

Being a good friend doesn't mean sacrificing your own health 👍

Bunnyslippered | Bunnyslippered

Put your own well-being first. Leave resources and move out.

bmyst70 | bmyst70

Supportive comment encourages OP to prioritize self-care and move on 👍

LameUserName123456 | LameUserName123456

Prioritize your own health and well-being. NTA 👍

yahumno | yahumno

Prioritize your mental health and future, you're NTA ❤

Stride101r | Stride101r

You're not responsible for them 👏 They need to take ownership.

goddessofspite | goddessofspite

Prioritize your own needs, not your roommates'. NTA 👍

jennifer79t | jennifer79t

Put your mental health first! 👍 Move out guilt-free. 🙌

careful_kangaroo50 | careful_kangaroo50

You deserve a peaceful home. Give notice and move out 🙌

ocassionalcritic24 | ocassionalcritic24

No obligation to suffer for a friend in need 👍

BiteyBabey | BiteyBabey

Self-care first. Not responsible for friend's well-being. NTA 👍

Ok_Lawfulness_7733 | Ok_Lawfulness_7733

Prioritizing self-care over roommates - NTA 🙌

Snoo60665 | Snoo60665

Setting boundaries with a sick friend, it's not easy 😔

New-Material-3503 | New-Material-3503

Live your life! NTA. 🙌 Grocery delivery and housekeepers exist.

hairy_hooded_clam | hairy_hooded_clam

Putting yourself first is not selfish, NTA 👏

Bonkers_25 | Bonkers_25

Self-care is important. NTA for moving out and setting boundaries 👍

au5000 | au5000

Putting yourself first is sometimes the best decision 👍

NotShockedFruitWeird | NotShockedFruitWeird

Roommate's health not OP's responsibility. NTA 👍

Agitated_Extreme | Agitated_Extreme

NTA. Leave and invest in yourself. Don't be manipulated. 👍

babydoll369 | babydoll369

NTA and the commenter provides helpful advice for the situation.

whatisthismuppetry | whatisthismuppetry

Friends don't always make good roommates 🤷‍♀️, but can still be good friends. 😊

terpinolenekween | terpinolenekween

Moving out for personal reasons - NTA according to commenter.

AssociateGood9653 | AssociateGood9653

Prioritizing your own health is important, NTA ✌️

Desertwind16v | Desertwind16v

Take care of yourself first 👍, not responsible for sick friend 🙅

PlasteeqDNA | PlasteeqDNA

Friend needs to seek proper help, you're not the a**hole 👍

Violet351 | Violet351

Prioritize yourself. You're a roommate, not a caretaker. #NTA 👍

giantbrownguy | giantbrownguy

Self-care comes first! Moving out is the right decision 🙌

No-Bad-707 | No-Bad-707

Prioritize your well-being and move out. NTA 👍

marlada | marlada

Friend's problems aren't your responsibility. NTA for moving out 👏

Ok_Childhood_9774 | Ok_Childhood_9774

Choosing happiness over guilt, NTA for moving out ✨

blahisback | blahisback

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