🦃 Ah, Thanksgiving! A time for family, food, and... gender roles? 🤔 Our leading lady spent two days slaving away in the kitchen, whipping up a feast fit for kings! 👑 But when it came time to clean up, the men were nowhere to be found. 🕵️♂️ Instead, they were glued to the football game! 🏈 Is it fair to expect the non-cooking crowd to help with the dishes? 🍽️ Or should our heroine just suck it up and embrace her 'victim complex'? 😒 Let's dive into this turkey day drama! 🍗
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🍗 Thanksgiving Dinner Dilemma: Who Should Clean Up? 🧼
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👩🍳 Women Cooked, Men Watched Football 🏈
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🤷♀️ AITAH for Expecting Fairness? 🍽️
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🍂 Thanksgiving Showdown: Women Cook, Men... Watch Football? 🏈
Our leading lady spent days preparing a delicious Thanksgiving feast, only to find the men glued to the football game while the women cleaned up! 😡 She suggested dividing and conquering, with the men handling the dishes since they didn't cook. 🧽 Hubby agreed... but then pulled a disappearing act! 🤨 When confronted, he accused her of having a 'victim complex' and claimed certain jobs are his because of his testicles. 🥜 Is our heroine an a-hole for expecting fairness, or is this a classic case of gender role BS? 💩 The internet has some thoughts! 🗣️
Wife stands up for herself after husband's lack of gratitude 👏
isdelightful | isdelightful
Spineless husband's sexism leads to douchey behavior 👎
ChonkyJelly | ChonkyJelly
Resourceful woman gets partner to help clean after dinner 👏
Holiday_Horse3100 | Holiday_Horse3100
Partner broke agreement and blamed OP, suggest fair retribution. 👍
Awesome-avocado | Awesome-avocado
Suggests a fun way to assign clean-up duty, cheers with wine 🍷
Ok-Ease-8423 | Ok-Ease-8423
Savage comment, but honestly, who wouldn't be mad? 😏
Garden_gnome1609 | Garden_gnome1609
NTA. Discussion on shirking duties necessary for successful household 🙌
carelesswords | carelesswords
A wise older man calls out sexist excuses for not helping 🚮
Seethinginsepia | Seethinginsepia
Gender stereotypes and unfair division of labor at Thanksgiving 😠
Public-Reach-8505 | Public-Reach-8505
No free rides- everyone should cook or clean. NTA 👏
Misswinterseren | Misswinterseren
Breaking gender roles! Women deserve a break too 🙌
Birdie121 | Birdie121
Take a stand against the patriarchy and stop allowing it 👊
Mehitabel9 | Mehitabel9
Old lady gives obvious but effective advice for sharing chores 👥😎
LaVidaMocha_NZ | LaVidaMocha_NZ
Frustrated OP vents about lazy husband and plans revenge meal 😑
zero0c00l | zero0c00l
Frustrated commenter calls out husband's Neanderthal behavior. 😡
Cael_NaMaor | Cael_NaMaor
🚩 Red flags everywhere! Sexist and manipulative husband 🤢
ElectricBlueOwl | ElectricBlueOwl
NTA. Husband was being a jerk. Having testicles doesn't excuse laziness. 💪
Jodenaje | Jodenaje
Male host does 90% of Thanksgiving cooking, wife defends rest. One comment calls husband cowardly for not pressuring male guests to help.
redbirdrising | redbirdrising
An unexpected act of kindness from the men after dinner ❤
InevitableTrue7223 | InevitableTrue7223
Gender roles and family dynamics are still a struggle. 😔
Maleficent-Cup8722 | Maleficent-Cup8722
Gender roles still exist and it's frustrating 😒
FreekMeBaby | FreekMeBaby
🤦♀️ Men being lazy bums and arguing? Not the a**hole here.
Intrepid-Vehicle2455 | Intrepid-Vehicle2455
Gender roles come into question with this witty comment.
Fibro-Mite | Fibro-Mite
Male Thanksgiving cook frustrated by lack of help cleaning up 😡
DancesWithTrout | DancesWithTrout
Efficient man shares his after-dinner cleaning hack with family 👍
CommonLand414 | CommonLand414
Witty reply to gender bias comment. NTA wins.
DynkoFromTheNorth | DynkoFromTheNorth
Heartwarming comment about a great husband who helps out ❤️
00Lisa00 | 00Lisa00
Empowered woman shuts down husband's lazy cleaning excuse 💪
Doyoulikeithere | Doyoulikeithere
Husband's disrespectful behavior and gaslighting criticized 👏
soimsam1024 | soimsam1024
A retired heavy equipment operator and biker helping his wife clean 😂👏
bigal55 | bigal55
Man calls out toxic masculinity and supports holding people accountable.
Obsidian_wolf_0422 | Obsidian_wolf_0422
Indignant commenter calls out gendered cleaning expectations. 💪
madfoot | madfoot
Men should help with cleaning without having to be asked 👍
cryptocurrently23 | cryptocurrently23
Team work makes the dream work 👍
Saysaywhat91 | Saysaywhat91
NTA. Let your husband cook everything next year! 😊
Josii_ | Josii_
Gender roles causing issues, both need to work as team 👍
Number-2-Sis | Number-2-Sis
Husband used DARVO to avoid cleaning after dinner 😒
RavingNative | RavingNative
71-year-old dad sets an example on Thanksgiving. 👏
AmyandaCrochets | AmyandaCrochets
Husband's insult after she cooked? Misogynistic and not okay! 😡
Casianh | Casianh
Husband's excuse for not cleaning after dinner gets called out 😒
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Breaking gender roles and toxic masculinity, NTA wins.
orangeblossomsare | orangeblossomsare
When everyone helps with cleaning, it's a good Thanksgiving 🎄
P0GPerson5858 | P0GPerson5858
Testicle-based misogyny and unreliable narrators. Trust your gut. NTA.
Confetti-Everywhere | Confetti-Everywhere
Partner broke their word after agreeing to help with chores 😤
Ok_Monitor6691 | Ok_Monitor6691
No cooking, no Christmas! 🎅🏼🍗 Great solution, NTA!
writingisfreedom | writingisfreedom
Sassy comment calls out 'uncool' men & prefers kitchen gossip 😂
StStephen79 | StStephen79
Gender roles don't define chores 🙌
Anxious-Routine-5526 | Anxious-Routine-5526
A husband refuses to help clean after dinner, NTAH verdict.
gyalmeetsglobe | gyalmeetsglobe
Contributing to the meal means cleaning up too. 💪🍽️
dadudemon | dadudemon
Gender roles questioned in hilarious comment. 😂
bannana | bannana
NTA's marriage on the line due to husband's victim complex 😱
Bananas-Ananas-Nanas | Bananas-Ananas-Nanas
Gender roles still persist. NTA and good luck changing mentality. 🙏
martin33t | martin33t
Fairness is key 🔑 in household chores. #RoleReversal
thebigFATbitch | thebigFATbitch
Lead by example, great job! 👍
MasterJediPT | MasterJediPT
Fair division of labor in the kitchen. Don't be lazy 👍
Blackhawk-388 | Blackhawk-388
Full-time house husband debunks gender roles, dishes included. 🍽️
ziggy3610 | ziggy3610
Male commenter calls out sexist behavior and encourages helping out ✊
ikarikh | ikarikh
GF's dad brings one dish, eats dessert first, leaves for game. NTA.
BrightNooblar | BrightNooblar
Don't let mowing the lawn excuse all other house chores 🚫
OneMoreCookie | OneMoreCookie
Breaking gender stereotypes one dish at a time! 😂
Top_Barnacle9669 | Top_Barnacle9669
Outdated man mentality: NTA's husband cleaned every dish, why can't yours? 👏
orangeblossomsare | orangeblossomsare
When promises are broken and blame is shifted 😕
DrawingSlight5229 | DrawingSlight5229
User suggests a hard and fast rule in their house, and offers an interesting solution to their husband's excuse for not cleaning 🍽️💪
Adventurous_Soft5549 | Adventurous_Soft5549
Family meals should be a team effort 👍
squishyg | squishyg
Breaking gender roles in the kitchen is NAH 🙌
realityseekr | realityseekr
Husband prioritizes boys over wife, NTA holds him accountable. 💪
narcoleptic_unicorn | narcoleptic_unicorn
Husband agrees to clean, blames wife for being upset 😒
bettytomatoes | bettytomatoes