😲 Mom Considers ABANDONING Teen Daughter to Move Overseas

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🌎 Buckle up, folks! We've got a doozy of a dilemma on our hands. 😱 Meet the globetrotting family facing a tough choice: drag their 16-year-old daughter halfway across the world 🌍 or let her stay behind with the grandparents? 👵👴 It's a classic case of 'damned if you do, damned if you don't!' 🤷‍♀️ Get ready for a wild ride filled with tears 😢, tough choices 🤔, and a whole lot of family drama! 🎭 Let's dive in and see if we can untangle this messy situation! 🧐

🌎 A Life-Changing Move: Korea Calling! 📞

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🤔 To Go or Not to Go? A Tough Decision... ⏳

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🏘️ Small Town Girl, Big Dreams 💭

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💔 Leaving Behind a Life She's Built 😢

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😇 Not Your Typical Rebellious Teen

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😭 A Heartbreaking Moment 💔

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👵👴 Grandparents to the Rescue! 🦸‍♀️🦸‍♂️

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🙌 Daughter's All In! 👍

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😕 Seeing Both Sides... 🤷‍♀️

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🌎 Family Torn Apart: Teen Daughter Left Behind? 😱

Well, well, well... looks like we've got ourselves a real pickle here! 🥒 This family's facing the ultimate dilemma: 🤔 uproot their 16-year-old daughter's life and drag her to Korea 🇰🇷, or let her stay with the grandparents while they jet off to the other side of the world? 🌍 It's a tough call, no doubt about it! 😓 On one hand, the poor girl's built a whole life in her small town 🏘️, complete with a boyfriend 💑 and friends she's known forever. 👭 But on the other hand, can you really just leave your kid behind while you start a new life overseas? 🤷‍♀️ It's enough to make your head spin! 🌀 Let's see what the internet has to say about this wild situation... 🧐

Financially sound decision for mom to move overseas without guilt.

LaCaffeinata | LaCaffeinata

NTA's decision to move overseas is a pro-parenting move 👌

ReviewOk929 | ReviewOk929

Career vs. daughter's senior year: NTA for choosing career.

SamSpayedPI | SamSpayedPI

Living in Korea at 16 will be lonely and isolating 😢

MutantsAtTableNine | MutantsAtTableNine

Daughter wants to live with in-laws. NTA for considering.

Berkweaving | Berkweaving

NTA and has responsible adults to watch over daughter while away 👍

rak1882 | rak1882

Moving overseas? NTA. 16 yo daughter well taken care of 👍

tsisdead | tsisdead

Teen's independence proposal worked out; suggest legal guardianship documents. NTA 👍

QueenOfTheSnarkness | QueenOfTheSnarkness

Daughter wants to stay, caregivers available. Parents overreacting? 🤔

Key-Ambassador2970 | Key-Ambassador2970

Leaving daughter with family overseas, NAH. Education won't be disrupted.

Spirallama | Spirallama

NTA. Daughter capable of making decisions. No harm in staying.

ShadyVermin | ShadyVermin

Letting your 16-year-old choose to stay or move? NTA 👍

Eastern-Mammoth-2956 | Eastern-Mammoth-2956

Considering all options as a parent 👍

many_hobbies_gal | many_hobbies_gal

Moving overseas would be incredibly difficult for a teenager's education.

HurricaneBatman | HurricaneBatman

Military family's experience shows NTA for mom's decision to move.

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Moving overseas and forcing daughter to switch schools? NTA says commenter

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Moving overseas and abandoning teen daughter? Commenter says NTA

14ccet1 | 14ccet1

Moving overseas for one year of school left? Not cool 😕

Critical-Fault-1617 | Critical-Fault-1617

Moving overseas would deprive her of important memories and experiences. NTA.

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Moving overseas and abandoning daughter? In-laws are not daycare 🤔

aheartthatbends | aheartthatbends

Daughter prefers to stay with boyfriend, mom not abandoning her 👍

PlateNo7021 | PlateNo7021

Encouraging response to mom considering overseas move without guilt.

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Making a tough choice for daughter's benefit 👏

pudge-thefish | pudge-thefish

Moving overseas might expand her cultural horizons. Not the a**hole.

cat4nav | cat4nav

Moving overseas? NTA, as long as everyone's on board 😊

mdthomas | mdthomas

Thoughtful decision, but risky. Hope it works out 🙏

Alarming_Reply_6286 | Alarming_Reply_6286

No downsides to daughter staying. Why abandon her? 😕

PolkadotUnicornium | PolkadotUnicornium

NTA. A win-win situation. Suggests summer vacation in Korea with family.

SatelliteBeach123 | SatelliteBeach123

Supportive comment applauds mother's efforts to find a solution 👏

Swiss_El_Rosso | Swiss_El_Rosso

NTA. Thoughtful decision to prioritize daughter's well-being. 👍

_runs_with_scisssors | _runs_with_scisssors

Moving overseas with family, NTA for considering daughter's schooling difficulties. ✈️

Soon_trvl4evr | Soon_trvl4evr

Putting your child's well-being first. 👏

FluffyCloudMornings | FluffyCloudMornings

Jealous grandparents accuse mom of favoritism, NTA.

SafeLegal4834 | SafeLegal4834

16-year-old daughter better off with mom overseas, NTA.

thisissodisturbing | thisissodisturbing

Letting your almost-adult child make choices is good parenting 👍

Artistic-Lake-970 | Artistic-Lake-970

Putting daughter's well-being first, NTA for considering overseas move.

CaptainMalForever | CaptainMalForever

Moving overseas may be disruptive for daughter's senior year. NTA.

soph_lurk_2018 | soph_lurk_2018

Living abroad vs staying home: NTA for considering either option 🌎

morgaine125 | morgaine125

Living in Korea can be great, but details must be ironed out if daughter stays behind in the States. 🌎

krankykitty | krankykitty

👏 Parent prioritizes child's feelings during overseas move, rare but refreshing

Significant_Rule_855 | Significant_Rule_855

Leaving daughter with grandparents? NTA. Everything in place? ✅

JulesSherlock | JulesSherlock

Letting a 16-year-old decide? Sounds fair to me 👍

No-Locksmith-8590 | No-Locksmith-8590

Supportive comment advises on potential parenting concerns while moving abroad 👍

Superb_Duck3353 | Superb_Duck3353

Letting go is hard, but sometimes it's the best decision. ✨

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Moving overseas to solve family problems? NTA, according to commenter.

Heavy_Sand5228 | Heavy_Sand5228

Distance doesn't mean abandonment 💛 Mutual compromise benefits all 👍

TossOffM8 | TossOffM8

Putting daughter's feelings first by ensuring safe and supportive place 👍

sjw_7 | sjw_7

NTA! Plan visits in advance to avoid future arguments 😊

LikeSnowOnTheBeach | LikeSnowOnTheBeach

Moving overseas against someone's will can be traumatic. 😖

thatdontmatternone | thatdontmatternone

Moving overseas without teen daughter, NTA with regular communication.

Minute_Point_949 | Minute_Point_949

Letting 16-year-old daughter choose living arrangements overseas is reasonable 🙌

scarbunkle | scarbunkle

Great parenting! NTA for considering daughter and including her.

fliccolo | fliccolo

Moving in with grandparents - a fine option! NTA 👍

FauveSxMcW | FauveSxMcW

Considerate NTA mom finds ways to stay engaged with daughter 👍

whichwitch9 | whichwitch9

Supportive comment suggests considering daughter's needs when moving overseas.

HibachiFlamethrower | HibachiFlamethrower

NTA. Moving overseas for stability, support, and success. 👍

baronessindecisive | baronessindecisive

Supportive comment about mother's decision with logical reasoning.

HedgehogAlarmed8853 | HedgehogAlarmed8853

Moving overseas without your teen daughter? NTA according to comments.

Inevitable_Gift_686 | Inevitable_Gift_686

Daughter's wishes respected, mom not the a**hole for moving overseas.

etchedchampion | etchedchampion

NTA suggests leaving teenager with in-laws and not moving schools.

Level-Particular-455 | Level-Particular-455

Plan for daughter to live with you when you move 👍

Wildcar_d | Wildcar_d

NTA. Daughter is almost 18 & happy, visitation possible 👍

Serious-Day5968 | Serious-Day5968

Letting your teen have a say in their life 👏

maypokenewtonaway | maypokenewtonaway

Moving overseas and leaving your teenage daughter behind - NTA

Visual_Balance8617 | Visual_Balance8617

Supportive comment shows empathy and suggests a solution 👍

h0tterthanyourmum | h0tterthanyourmum

Putting daughter first 👏, NTA considering big move overseas 🌎

Murky-Performer-8292 | Murky-Performer-8292

Giving agency to a responsible teenager 🙌🏼 Good solution all around.

dataslinger | dataslinger

NTA, daughter wants to stay, with willing guardians, big adjustment 😊

addymermaid | addymermaid

Moving overseas for work is tough, but NTA for considering.

Short_Equivalent_619 | Short_Equivalent_619

Supportive comment calls out parents, predicts daughter will cut contact.

International-One190 | International-One190

Moving overseas and leaving teen daughter with husband's parents, NTA.

Due-Designer4078 | Due-Designer4078

NTA mom gets support for considering move overseas without abandoning daughter 👍

Dieseldaryl91 | Dieseldaryl91

Moving overseas and leaving teen with grandparents for school: NTA

ChickenNuggetSalad17 | ChickenNuggetSalad17

Empathetic reply to mom's dilemma, suggests visitation and communication plan.

MariaInconnu | MariaInconnu

Supportive comment on mom's tough decision to move overseas.

samanthasgramma | samanthasgramma

NTA. Communication and compromise leads to a win-win situation. 👏

s317sv17vnv | s317sv17vnv

Moving overseas without your teenager doesn't make you an a**hole 😊

SyneRussell | SyneRussell

Choosing to move overseas is understandable and technology helps stay connected.

stuckNTX_plzsendHelp | stuckNTX_plzsendHelp

NTA for respecting daughter's wishes. Let her stay put 🙌

Dogmother123 | Dogmother123

Moving overseas would be super disruptive to your daughter's life.

Ok-Insurance-1829 | Ok-Insurance-1829

Moving overseas to maintain family and career, NTA.

Littlelady0410 | Littlelady0410

Leaving home at 18, NTA. Daughter can visit later 👍

forgetfulsue | forgetfulsue

Mom wants to move abroad. Daughter wants to stay. NTA.

bmyst70 | bmyst70

Responsible concern for daughter's wellbeing, NTA. 😊

lgisme333 | lgisme333

Moving overseas without daughter, NTA. Forcing her to go=AH

jeswalsurprise | jeswalsurprise

Moving overseas without uprooting daughter's life, NTA. 🌏

carton_of_cats | carton_of_cats

Encouraging comment about moving overseas for better opportunities with thoughtful advice.

Acceptable-Stress861 | Acceptable-Stress861

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