Her "Perfect Plan" For Baby SHATTERED By Harsh Reality 😱

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🤰 Buckle up, folks! We've got a juicy tale of two besties, a bun in the oven, and some "perfect plans" that might just go up in smoke! 💨 When my preggo BFF shared her post-baby schedule, I couldn't help but chuckle. 😅 Was I being a total a-hole for not believing in her foolproof plan? 🤔 Let's dive into this baby drama and find out! 👶

🤰 Bestie's Bun in the Oven! 🍼

little_Druid_mommy | little_Druid_mommy

😷 Rough Pregnancy Woes 😢

little_Druid_mommy | little_Druid_mommy

🍼 The "Perfect Plan" Unveiled! 🤔

little_Druid_mommy | little_Druid_mommy

😅 I Couldn't Help But Laugh! 🙊

little_Druid_mommy | little_Druid_mommy

😴 Sleep When the Baby Sleeps! 💤

little_Druid_mommy | little_Druid_mommy

😠 Bestie Gets Upset! 😤

little_Druid_mommy | little_Druid_mommy

🙅‍♀️ They Can Do It! 💪

little_Druid_mommy | little_Druid_mommy

👶 No Doubt They'll Be Amazing Parents! 🌟

little_Druid_mommy | little_Druid_mommy

🚫 Perfect Plans Get Ruined! 😱

little_Druid_mommy | little_Druid_mommy

👴 Wise Words from Experienced Parents 🧓

little_Druid_mommy | little_Druid_mommy

🙏 Update: Apology Accepted! 🤗

little_Druid_mommy | little_Druid_mommy

👶 Baby Shower Planning in Full Swing! 🎉

little_Druid_mommy | little_Druid_mommy

🤞 Hoping for a Stress-Free Day! 🧘‍♀️

little_Druid_mommy | little_Druid_mommy

😱 "Perfect Plans" vs. Reality: Who Will Win? 🍼

So, my bestie's got a baby on the way and she's convinced her and hubby have concocted the ultimate post-baby plan. 👶 But as a mom myself, I couldn't help but laugh at their naivety. 😅 I tried to warn her that even the best-laid plans can go out the window when a little one arrives, but she wasn't having it. 😤 Now, I'm wondering if I was being a total jerk for not believing in their "perfect" schedule. 🤔 Let's see what the internet has to say about this sticky situation! 🌐 Will my friend's plans hold up or will they crumble under the weight of new parenthood? 🍼 The suspense is killing me! 😱

Sometimes the best advice is to just listen 👂

Princess-Soprano | Princess-Soprano

Constructive criticism or tough love? 🤔

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Different experiences, YTA says, but shares how a similar plan worked.

Klutzy-Koala-9558 | Klutzy-Koala-9558

Kindness goes a long way when dealing with pregnant women 🙏

Successful_Emu_6157 | Successful_Emu_6157

Don't rain on her parade! Let her be optimistic 🎉

Halotitan04 | Halotitan04

User calls out condescending comment about motherhood plan. 🔥

ScubaCC | ScubaCC

Giving friends the benefit of experience, NTA 👍


A laughable plan for handling a baby all day? 🤣

life1sart | life1sart

Don't be an a**hole just because your plan didn't work! 🙄

Disastrous-Nail-640 | Disastrous-Nail-640

Supportive advice to apologize and be a part of her plans 👍

Helpful_Librarian_87 | Helpful_Librarian_87

Don't be pretentious towards expecting parents. YTA in this situation 😱

Aggressive-Coffee-39 | Aggressive-Coffee-39

Supportive comment defends similar strategy, condemns shaming new parents 👏

AndiRM | AndiRM

Reality check: perfect plans don't always go as planned 😕

Relevant_Change3591 | Relevant_Change3591

Having a baby is a lottery. You can't plan for everything 🤷‍♀️

rusty0123 | rusty0123

Even with a 'perfect plan', unexpected things can happen 😱

Future_Direction5174 | Future_Direction5174

Parent shames pregnant woman's plan; commenter defends teamwork and kindness

Electronic_Squash_30 | Electronic_Squash_30

Friend called out for being an idiot. Yikes! 🤨

Eve-3 | Eve-3

User calls out commenter for laughing at new mom's plan 😒

Temporary_That | Temporary_That

Babies and plans never mix! NTA for giving good advice 😊

1USAgent | 1USAgent

A supportive mom-of-2 offers best-case scenarios to ease worries 🙌

ChallengeHoudini | ChallengeHoudini

A commenter calls out someone's behavior and receives support.

TransportationNo5560 | TransportationNo5560

Offer empathy and support when plans fall apart. Apologize 💬

NewMumNotCoping | NewMumNotCoping

Don't be an a**hole, support her choices and learn empathy! 👍

mallionaire7 | mallionaire7

A friend's advice could have been more supportive 😔

Fragrant_Tale1428 | Fragrant_Tale1428

Grandmother calls out self-righteous moms, advocates for supportive community 💚

NonniSpumoni | NonniSpumoni

Don't be a parenting know-it-all! 🚫

saillavee | saillavee

Learning from shattered plans. Let's be kind to each other 🙏

Hot-Ability7086 | Hot-Ability7086

Being honest is good, but laughing at someone is not 😔

charlieprotag | charlieprotag

Savage reply to unrealistic criticism. 😂

WalkoffTriple | WalkoffTriple

Don't be a judgy a**hole, be a supportive friend 👍

Ok-Grocery-5747 | Ok-Grocery-5747

Hopeful comment shares success with friend's shattered plan 😊

BlueArachne | BlueArachne

Being supportive is key, laughing in her face hurts more 🤪

Level-Combination914 | Level-Combination914

Low stakes convo with a soft YTA, but ending was rude 🤷‍♀️

SparrowLikeBird | SparrowLikeBird

Mommy shamed for not sticking to her "perfect plan" 😒

Unhappy_Wishbone_551 | Unhappy_Wishbone_551

Don't crush her optimism, she'll figure it out 👍

5naughtycats | 5naughtycats

Friend criticized for laughing at unrealistic baby plan YTA 🤷‍♂️

pastaenthusiast | pastaenthusiast

NTA could have been more supportive. 👍

No_Fig2467 | No_Fig2467

Friend receives YTA judgement for unsupportive behavior 😕

16Jen | 16Jen

Apologize and wish her the best 🙏

cstarh408 | cstarh408

Support your friends, don't shatter their hopes and dreams. 😔

WeirdValuable33 | WeirdValuable33

Encouraging new mom to talk to more experienced moms 👥

Character-Ad3264 | Character-Ad3264

Delivery matters even when you're not wrong 😉

NTX_Mom | NTX_Mom

A reminder to apologize genuinely, and let her figure out parenthood 👍

kingcurtist37 | kingcurtist37

YTA verdict sparks debate on being rude vs honest 🤔

Megmelons55 | Megmelons55

First-time parents deserve to enjoy their hormonal bubble of joy 😊

CJCreggsGoldfish | CJCreggsGoldfish

Expertise vs. Inexperience 🤔

edithwh2 | edithwh2

Successful parenting partnership through shared responsibilities 👨🏻👩🏻👶👬

riritreetop | riritreetop

Navigating parenting choices can be tricky with friends and family 🤔

Tk-20 | Tk-20

Shift work with a newborn? 🤔 YTA rating explained

Melsbells710 | Melsbells710

Friend thinks OP is TA for not listening and mocking.

Conscious-Big707 | Conscious-Big707

A harsh judgment on the commenter's take on the situation 😬

MightyBean7 | MightyBean7

Optimistic reply to criticism with a hint of determination 💪

Gloomy-Difference-51 | Gloomy-Difference-51

Don't underestimate a new mom's plans and support her instead 👍

snowxwhites | snowxwhites

Don't be an a**hole, support your friend's life changes 😕

v_a_n_d_e_l_a_y | v_a_n_d_e_l_a_y

Harsh criticism of parent from friend, YTA. 🤔

BeckToBasics | BeckToBasics

Experienced mom shares successful baby plan, calls OP YTA 😑

GreenTravelBadger | GreenTravelBadger

Parenting struggles are real 😔

actuallycallie | actuallycallie

Learning to keep your opinions to yourself is important 😉

NotAgain1871 | NotAgain1871

A caution against jealousy and bad vibes in success stories 👍

Haunting_Afternoon62 | Haunting_Afternoon62

Empathetic commenter offers a lesson after calling OP a brat 🙏

zotstik | zotstik

Let your friend learn from her own experience 🙏

Super-Temporary2850 | Super-Temporary2850

Stay positive with a Hamilton reference 😊🎶

menfearme | menfearme

Be emotionally supportive of her during her rough pregnancy 😢

cancat918 | cancat918

Support and encouragement are crucial for first-time parents. ❤️

XochiBlossom | XochiBlossom

User calls out commenter for being condescending towards moms-to-be 😒

sideofranch | sideofranch

Condescending laughter at a friend's parenting? Not cool 😑

[deleted] | [deleted]

Even childfree people know that baby plans often go awry 😅

WinEquivalent4069 | WinEquivalent4069

Defensive reply to judgmental comment about parenting plan 🤷

CrabbiestAsp | CrabbiestAsp

Friend gets criticised for laughing at pregnant friend's plan

Emaretlee | Emaretlee

Don't judge their parenting just because of your own experience 🙅


Encouragement and Support go a long way 👍

CherryLeigh86 | CherryLeigh86

A defensive comment defending a parenting plan. YTA vibes.

Resident-Reality50 | Resident-Reality50

A harsh reply to unsolicited advice. 😕 Let people live.

loveurselfnugget | loveurselfnugget

Bitter commenter judges woman's failed plan, suggests keeping quiet 🤪

FlyingSpaceBanana | FlyingSpaceBanana

Don't let a setback shatter hope for your friend 🙏

4travelers | 4travelers

When first-time parents realize babies don't follow plans 😂☕

itsjustme-0 | itsjustme-0

Surprising success stories of 'perfect plans' for having a baby 🤩

Awkward-Ducky26 | Awkward-Ducky26

Don't judge other people's parenting plans 🚫

bee_moll | bee_moll

Friendly reminder to watch our tone when giving advice 🙌

CocoValentino | CocoValentino

Partner's broken promises lead to distrust in relationships. 🤔

millerlite585 | millerlite585

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