Mom BANS Daughter's Boyfriend from Staying in Dorm on Family Vacation 🚫🛏️

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🎉 Get ready for a wild ride, folks! 🎢 We've got a classic tale of family drama, young love, and a sprinkle of good old-fashioned values. 😇 When this mom decided to treat her daughter's boyfriend to a college visit, she never expected it to turn into a battle of wills! 😱 Buckle up, because this story is about to take a few unexpected turns! 🌀

🎉 Exciting Family Trip... With a Twist! 😱

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Steve the Great: A Boyfriend We Adore! 😍

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🎁 Surprise! You're Invited, Steve! 🎉

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Steve's Over the Moon! 🌙 We've Got Him Covered! 💰

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🛫 Flight ✅ 🏨 Hotel ✅ 🍽️ Food & Drink ✅ All On Us! 😊

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😳 Uh-Oh... Our First Disagreement with Steve! 😬

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🚨 Red Alert! Daughter's Roomie is MIA! 🚨

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🙅‍♀️ Mom Puts Her Foot Down: Not On Our Watch! ⛔

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🙏 Call Us Old-Fashioned, But We're Christians! ⛪

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🤨 We Think We're Being Pretty Generous Here! 💸

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😡 Steve's Not Happy: He Tries to Pull the 'Adult' Card! 🃏

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🤷‍♀️ Mom Lays Down the Law: Stay with Us or Pay Your Way! 💸

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😏 You Wanna Stay with Her? Fine, But... 💰

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🍽️ Separate Checks & DIY Travel: The Price of 'Adulting'! 😅

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😢 Steve Can't Afford It... Mom's Ultimatum Stands! 🚫

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😤 Daughter's Upset: "We Embarrassed Him!" 😳

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😱 Family Trip Turns into Dramatic Showdown! 🎭

Well, well, well... looks like this family's generous gesture has landed them in quite the pickle! 🥒 Despite their best intentions, Mom and Dad's old-school values have clashed with the young couple's desire for some alone time. 😏 Steve's not too happy about being relegated to the hotel room, and the daughter's feeling pretty embarrassed by the whole ordeal. 😳 But hey, when you're footing the bill, you get to call the shots, right? 💸 Let's see what the internet has to say about this juicy dilemma! 🍿 Get ready for some sizzling hot takes and a heaping helping of drama! 🔥

User calls out mom for being controlling and judgemental. YTA 🚫

goldenfingernails | goldenfingernails

Controlling parents ban boyfriend from dorm for no reason 😒

ExtendedSpikeProtein | ExtendedSpikeProtein

Offering to pay for trip but restricting boyfriend = YTA 😑

BeardManMichael | BeardManMichael

Engaging in long distance relationships requires work and intimacy too 🤷‍♀️, YTA

Rohini_rambles | Rohini_rambles

Christian parents uncomfortable with daughter's boyfriend staying in dorm.

OldMammaSpeaks | OldMammaSpeaks

Controversial comment on parental control and religion. 🤔

Cautious_Pool_3445 | Cautious_Pool_3445

Daughter wants BF, of 3 yrs, to stay w/ her. Soft YTA.

Bonnm42 | Bonnm42

Red flag raised about control in a religious cloak. YTA.

hellinahandbasket127 | hellinahandbasket127

Controlling with conditions, YTA. Jesus wouldn't approve 🚫🛏️

bearmuffin | bearmuffin

User calls out mom for being controlling, predicts strained relationship

Kagato_NZ | Kagato_NZ

Father's ban on daughter's boyfriend receives mixed reactions.

Low-Huckleberry1882 | Low-Huckleberry1882

Mom bans daughter's boyfriend from family vacation to avoid sex 💔

TheRealReddette | TheRealReddette

Parent's belief system shouldn't control daughter's sex life. YTA 🚫

EddieSevenson | EddieSevenson

Respect your host's rules: a valuable lesson for all generations 🙌

JeepNaked | JeepNaked

Controversial comment calls out moral hypocrisy with religious undertones.

JJQuantum | JJQuantum

Engaging comment defending cohabitation and criticizing religious manipulation.

Neo_Demiurge | Neo_Demiurge

Confusion over dorm room arrangements and alone time

BeardManMichael | BeardManMichael

Parenting boundaries respected, funding adult choices not necessary. NTA 👍

SRose_55 | SRose_55

Harsh criticism for controlling parent, predicting damaged relationship and potential fallout 😠

Ill-Replacement-6344 | Ill-Replacement-6344

Funding trip but banning boyfriend from dorm: NAH, but risky move 🤷‍♀️

ParsimoniousSalad | ParsimoniousSalad

Daughter's boyfriend, his choice to stay at hotel. NTA.

DkLilith | DkLilith

Mom is YTA for imposing conditions on daughter's boyfriend.

familyfued_throwaway | familyfued_throwaway

Let go of judgment and embrace a happy family vacation ✌️😘

yeehawt22 | yeehawt22

Setting boundaries on family vacation, NTA 👍

Wise_Entertainer_970 | Wise_Entertainer_970

NTA, but enforcing separate sleeping arrangements can cause long-term relationship strain 😴

Oubliette_95 | Oubliette_95

User thinks mom is TA for banning daughter's boyfriend 😕

StarTheVagician | StarTheVagician

Supportive commenter defends mother's decision, praises old-school values 👏

TurtleLover9900 | TurtleLover9900

Support for mom's decision to ban boyfriend from family vacation.

ZeroGeoWife | ZeroGeoWife

Mom sets rules for family vacation, comment agrees with NTA.

2_ID_07 | 2_ID_07

Controlling behavior criticized. Let them enjoy vacation together. 🚫🛏️

Alone-Firefighter283 | Alone-Firefighter283

NTA for not funding entitled boyfriend's vacation tantrum 🚫

Scary_Inevitable379 | Scary_Inevitable379

Setting boundaries on family trips is reasonable. Don't hate.


Respectful NTA commenter understands parents' rules on family vacation 🏖️

Forsaken_Avocado737 | Forsaken_Avocado737

Setting boundaries is important. NTA. It's okay to prioritize comfort.

Tired_Apricot_173 | Tired_Apricot_173

Parental control or caring? Debate on YTA judgement.

Buttercup_Bride | Buttercup_Bride

Boyfriend declines free trip over sex, NTA says.

Trainrot | Trainrot

Engaging comment calling out controlling parenting and religion 🙌

Purple_Bowling_Shoes | Purple_Bowling_Shoes

Daughter's boyfriend banned from vacation, comment defends couple's privacy 🤷🏻‍♀️

withlove_07 | withlove_07

Mom's inconsistent objection to daughter's boyfriend staying on vacation 🤔

Icy_Blueness1206 | Icy_Blueness1206

NTA. Lay down the rules for your fully funded trip 👍

JulesSherlock | JulesSherlock

Setting boundaries with daughter's boyfriend on family vacation. NTA.

WelfordNelferd | WelfordNelferd

Let your daughter make her own decisions or push her away 🚫

ZucchiniAcrobatic127 | ZucchiniAcrobatic127

NTA, be generous but he should pay his way 💰

gravegirl48 | gravegirl48

Respect their rules, or stay home. Simple as that. 👍

EconomyProof9537 | EconomyProof9537

Setting a good example for your son. NTA 👍

Ordinaryflyaway | Ordinaryflyaway

Financial leverage over adult children is manipulative and controlling. YTA 🚫

SummitJunkie7 | SummitJunkie7

Parental failures lead to weak relationship with daughter and boyfriend.

lovekeister | lovekeister

A parent's epiphany on giving their adult child privacy 👨‍👩‍👦 and trust 💜.

Beyondoutlier | Beyondoutlier

NTA, let them pay their own way and sneak around 😉

Special-Stage13 | Special-Stage13

Let him stay home 🏠. NTA for valuing self-respect over sex 😏.

Honey_loves_bear | Honey_loves_bear

Parental control over adult daughter's intimacy is YTA 👎

korvisss | korvisss

Mom defends decision to ban daughter's boyfriend from family trip 🚫

Kittylair | Kittylair

User disagrees with mom's decision to ban daughter's boyfriend. YTA.

obiwantogooutside | obiwantogooutside

Controlling daughter's body? This comment sparks a debate. 🤔

korvisss | korvisss

Debate on parents funding a 'sex holiday' for daughter's boyfriend.

scribblerzombie | scribblerzombie

User calls out OP for risking relationship with daughter 💔

ConsiderationFun1530 | ConsiderationFun1530

Setting guidelines for daughter's boyfriend on family vacation 💼

MajorYou9692 | MajorYou9692

Mom's controlling behavior is criticized, YTA according to commenter.

Rebokitive | Rebokitive

NAH. While the mom is generous, her rule lacks consistency.

CuriousJackfruit6609 | CuriousJackfruit6609

Agreeing with the mom's decision to ban daughter's boyfriend. 👍

TieflyTrout | TieflyTrout

Free family vacation with mom, but Steve's banned. Ouch... 🤪

SpaceCadet_UwU | SpaceCadet_UwU

Debate over paying for daughter's boyfriend on family vacation.

HallaTML | HallaTML

Redditor defends OP's decision to not sponsor daughter's boyfriend's 'booty call' 🚫🛏️, suggests setting conditions

Oberyn_Kenobi_1 | Oberyn_Kenobi_1

Teaching kids to lie? 🤥 YTA, letting them grow up.

Sad-File3624 | Sad-File3624

Controlling daughter's sex life? YTA. Listen to criticism 👀

No-Introduction2245 | No-Introduction2245

Allowing privacy is a gift of respect and trust, YTA 🚫

Echolyonn | Echolyonn

Long distance love: YTA or NAH? Let's discuss! 👨‍❤️💋

Ok-Bad-9683 | Ok-Bad-9683

Controversy over separate rooms for daughter and boyfriend in vacation

Ancient-Function4738 | Ancient-Function4738

Daughter's boyfriend banned from family vacation, controlling parents shamed 😡

differentkindofmom | differentkindofmom

Religious beliefs should not control choices of others. 🚫🛏️

TarzanKitty | TarzanKitty

Relationship with your child is important, not boyfriends ♥️

FaithlessnessCool849 | FaithlessnessCool849

A heartwarming story of trust and respect in a similar situation ❤️

Nsg4Him | Nsg4Him

Controlling mom gets called out for banning daughter's bf 🔥

firewifegirlmom0124 | firewifegirlmom0124

Let them figure it out! 🤷‍♀️ Trust your daughter and her boyfriend.

Shalarean | Shalarean

Boyfriend can't handle rules, mom stands her ground. 😎

Maximum-Ear1745 | Maximum-Ear1745

Adult children can make their own decisions. YTA for trying.

moonlightmasked | moonlightmasked

User calls out mom for policing adult daughter's sex life 🤯

Important-Nose3332 | Important-Nose3332

Parental control vs. bodily autonomy. YTA for using money.

elsie78 | elsie78

Let them have some private time 👫🏻💑 and trust your daughter's judgment 💛

strawberrykiki83 | strawberrykiki83

NTA suggests a reasonable request that's not crazy, it's fair. 😊

disco_spider364 | disco_spider364

Acknowledge the reality of young adults living on their own 👍

Chem1st | Chem1st

Parent's religious beliefs shouldn't dictate daughter's dorm guest decisions 💒

cpagali | cpagali

Controlling parent receives YTA judgment for banning daughter's boyfriend. 🚫

EntildaDesigns | EntildaDesigns

Asserting independence and setting boundaries with family. 💪

Different-Secret | Different-Secret

User thinks mom is controlling and not entitled to ban.

LyraSevonar | LyraSevonar

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