She Pays 75% of the Bills But He's FURIOUS About Her Shopping 😠👠

Diply Social Team
Diply | Diply

🚨 Buckle up, folks! We've got a juicy tale of love, money, and some serious shopping sprees. 🛍️💸 Meet our leading lady, a 36-year-old boss babe who's been killing it at work and dropping dress sizes like it's hot. 🔥 But her 43-year-old boyfriend? Not so much. He's been giving her major side-eye for splurging on some well-deserved retail therapy. 😒 Is she the a-hole for treating herself, or is her man just jealous of her fab new wardrobe? 👠 Let's dive in and find out! 🏊‍♀️

💸 Money Troubles in Paradise? 🏝️

drkorsakov | drkorsakov

🏠 Footing the Bills, Solo Style 💪

drkorsakov | drkorsakov

🛍️ New Bod, New Threads! 💃

drkorsakov | drkorsakov

🍽️ Bills Paid, Fam Fed, Emergency Fund Set 🙌

drkorsakov | drkorsakov

🎓 Decade of Dedication vs. 'Boring' Jobs 🤔

drkorsakov | drkorsakov

😔 Guilt Trip over Gucci? 👜

drkorsakov | drkorsakov

💰 Separate Finances, Joint Responsibilities 🏡

drkorsakov | drkorsakov

🤷‍♀️ AITA for Treating Myself? 💅

drkorsakov | drkorsakov

🎭 Drama Alert: Fashionista GF vs. Frugal BF! 😱

Whew, talk about a fashion face-off! 😅 Our girl's been working her booty off, paying the bills, and making sure everyone's taken care of. 👑 But her boyfriend? He's not exactly thrilled about her shopping habits. 🙄 She's lost a ton of weight and needs a new wardrobe, accessories included. 💃 Meanwhile, he's turning down jobs left and right because they're 'boring.' 😴 Now he's making her feel guilty for treating herself, even though she's got all the important stuff covered. 💅 The internet's got some thoughts on this one, and they're not holding back! 🍿 Grab your popcorn, because this is about to get interesting. 👀

Partner refuses full-time job, leeches off 75% paying partner. NTA.

jimrow83 | jimrow83

NTA for spending your own money, build savings and upgrade bf 👏

opinionreservoir | opinionreservoir

NTA shuts down freeloading guy's opinion on finances 👏

Syveril | Syveril

Update on financial counseling and personal evaluation, plus more shoes 😜

DrKorsakov | DrKorsakov

User questions if boyfriend's plan is sustainable without real job 💼

pfashby | pfashby

Don't let him make you feel bad. You go girl! 👏

MadWitchLibrarian | MadWitchLibrarian

Partner upset over shopping when he barely covers his bills 🤔

rmric0 | rmric0

Dump him 👋. He's not adding to your life 👏

[deleted] | [deleted]

Boyfriend wants her to spend all her money. NTA. 🙌🏻

AttentionRoyal2276 | AttentionRoyal2276

NTA who pays most of the bills, needs a celebratory night out 🎉

Embarrassed_Board_15 | Embarrassed_Board_15

NTA for spending YOUR money. He needs a real job 💯

JenicBabe | JenicBabe

Buy yourself some shoes? How dare you! NTA obviously 😂

descentbecomesafall | descentbecomesafall

Financial independence and weight loss bothering him? You're NTA 👏

memorywishes | memorywishes

NTA for now, but YTA for keeping a lazy bum 🤷‍♀️

AvatarMars | AvatarMars

NTA and financial transparency is crucial for a shared life 💰

Ashamed-Ad-263 | Ashamed-Ad-263

Fair split or not? Commenter questions partner's contributions. 🤔

marblefree | marblefree

Partner upset about shopping but NTA for choosing not to work. 😠👠

serume | serume

Harsh truth: dating someone who can't pay 1/4 of rent 🤷‍♀️

[deleted] | [deleted]

Is he feeling insecure because she's out of his league? 🤔

belladonna_echo | belladonna_echo

Contributing 100% but not spending frivolously. Set boundaries! NTA.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Impressed commenter wonders how a busy doctor shops so much 🤔

OromirsHairlessGroin | OromirsHairlessGroin

Don't let him take advantage of you! 👏 Be cautious 👁

VeryStickyPastry | VeryStickyPastry

NTA but does he contribute in other ways? 🤔

karskipellis | karskipellis

Gender bias in financial abuse discourse called out 🔥

Late_Engineering9973 | Late_Engineering9973

NTA, he sounds like a controlling leech 😠

gotacrazyfam | gotacrazyfam

Is it a partnership or a one-sided deal? 🤔

columbidae28 | columbidae28

NTA, commenter suggests losing weight by dumping lazy partner 💪🏽

[deleted] | [deleted]

Celebrate your weight loss and spending habits, you're NTA 🎉

PJfanRI | PJfanRI

Reflect on why you need validation for an obvious NTA.

Old-Advice-5685 | Old-Advice-5685

Partner contributes nothing, complains about not getting fun money. 🙄

ScreamingSicada | ScreamingSicada

Savage comment, zero chill. 😂

jmurphy42 | jmurphy42

Money, freedom, and concern for OP's health. NTA wins! 👏🏻

randauum | randauum

Trying to find teamwork to justify his sense of entitlement.

ChakraMama318 | ChakraMama318

Curious about their love story, suspicious of his motives 🤔

smurfgrl417 | smurfgrl417

Partner lacks financial responsibility, consider legal protections. NTA 👍

CommitteeGullible876 | CommitteeGullible876

Equal gift-giving expectations in a NTA situation 👍

one_night_on_mars | one_night_on_mars

Treat yourself! You're not the a**hole here. 😎

NatashaAndBruce | NatashaAndBruce

Financial independence deserves self-care 👌 #NTA

Penelope_Luc9 | Penelope_Luc9

NTA, your money your rules. Does he help with housework? 🤔☀️🐦

Upstairs-Challenge92 | Upstairs-Challenge92

Gender roles and financial control in relationships discussed. 💰🤔

FamiliarSolid3315 | FamiliarSolid3315

Slaying the financial game 💰🙌

lostalldoubt86 | lostalldoubt86

Lazy partner causing financial strain, not contributing enough 🤔

Suckerforcats | Suckerforcats

Savage response shuts down deadbeat partner, NTA wins 👏

PaleHorseRiderX | PaleHorseRiderX

Money talk causing tension in relationship. 💰💔

Hermiona1 | Hermiona1

Dump the leech and find someone who appreciates your hard work 💪

Slow-Long2143 | Slow-Long2143

BF upset he can't leech more off partner, NTA, dump him 💸

Coco_Dirichlet | Coco_Dirichlet

"Get a full time job!" - Savage response to lazy partner 👊

BatDance3121 | BatDance3121

Questioning the husband's contribution to their finances 🤔

Real-Concert-8304 | Real-Concert-8304

NTA for spending her own money. Requests weight loss tips.

FauveSxMcW | FauveSxMcW

Unfair financial burden causing relationship dissatisfaction 😔

Urbanyeti0 | Urbanyeti0

Encouraging comment about leaving a burdensome partner. 👏

Comprehensive-Gur469 | Comprehensive-Gur469

Don't let anyone shame you for earning and spending your money 💰👏

Brutalwonderland | Brutalwonderland

Dump him 💔 Your money, your rules. NTA.

mrslII | mrslII

Dump the parasite 🚫 You deserve better 💪

Merlin_Smurf20 | Merlin_Smurf20

Empowering response to partner trying to control finances 💪

MindfulTornado | MindfulTornado

Congrats on weight loss! Deadbeat partner complains about clothing choices 😒

EdwinKNill | EdwinKNill

Boyfriend's insecurity over girlfriend's weight loss and shopping habits

geeksheet | geeksheet

NTA comment slams entitled man and sparks no replies.

embopbopbopdoowop | embopbopbopdoowop

Supportive comment encourages OP to leave financially irresponsible partner. 👏

thiswomanneedsafish | thiswomanneedsafish

Frustrated commenter calls out unequal relationship dynamics. 💰

FunStorm6487 | FunStorm6487

Partner contributes nothing but good sex, why keep him? 😏

BarbicideJar | BarbicideJar

Work may be boring, but it pays the bills 💰💄

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA and financially supporting a lazy partner? Time to reconsider. 💯

TheGallopingGhost77 | TheGallopingGhost77

The Offspring would agree, NTA for prioritizing financial independence.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Fair judgement but childcare responsibility needs discussion 👉👨‍👦‍👦

Significant_Knee_163 | Significant_Knee_163

Empathetic comment supporting weight loss and suggesting communication with partner 🙏

Fun-Attorney4071 | Fun-Attorney4071

Curious about her job and work-life balance 🤔

mindlessmarauder | mindlessmarauder

One-sided financial responsibility in a relationship 🤔

Individual_Baby_2418 | Individual_Baby_2418

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