Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy story straight from the therapist’s couch that’s sure to make your jaw drop! Meet our main characters: a devoted husband (40M) and his rock of a wife (37F) who’ve been married for 12 blissful years… or so he thought! Their marriage seemed picture-perfect until they decided to dive into the wild world of couples therapy. Little did they know, this decision would unravel a web of trust issues and hidden feelings that would shake their relationship to its core! Get ready for a rollercoaster ride of emotions, shocking revelations, and a marriage on the brink of collapse!
Marriage on the Rocks: Therapy Session Bombshell!
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Helping a Friend in Need
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Vet Wife Battles Anxiety & Depression
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Couples Therapy: What Could Go Wrong?
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Therapist Uncovers Wife’s Trust Issues
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Childhood Trauma: Dad Sells Her Only Friend
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Despite Past, She’s a Great Mom
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Personality Test Reveals Shocking Results
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Wife Believes People Are Two-Faced
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Kind to Others, But Doesn’t Trust Them
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Helping Strays Despite Feeling Unappreciated
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Wife Admits She Doesn’t Trust Husband Much
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Husband Shocked by Wife’s Perception
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Altered Wedding Vows: No “In Sickness and In Health”
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Husband Contemplates Wife’s Words, Suggests Divorce
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Wife Gets Mad, Says Marriage Is Good
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Husband Feels Marriage Has Been a Lie
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❓ Does She Really Love Him & The Kids?
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Husband Worries About Wife’s Love for Their Children
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Therapy Bombshell Threatens to Tear Marriage Apart!
Well, well, well… it looks like this therapy session opened up a can of worms! Our devoted husband is left reeling after his wife drops some major truth bombs about her trust issues and perception of him. Turns out, she doesn’t think he’s the kind, generous soul he believes himself to be! She even altered their wedding vows, removing the “in sickness and in health” part because she thinks he’d bail if she got sick! Ouch! The husband is now questioning their entire marriage, wondering if it’s all been a lie. He’s even considering divorce! But wait, there’s more! The wife admits she’s not sure if she can even love humans, including her own kids! Talk about a therapy session gone wrong! Let’s see what the internet has to say about this juicy drama!
Get your own therapist to translate your wife’s skewed reality

When your wife has trust issues with humanity, but you’re okay ♂️

Stick with therapy to fix issues, it’s the whole point

A catch-22 situation, can therapy fix the trust issues?

Navigating a partner’s trauma response is challenging but not impossible

Seek therapy before making any sudden decisions about your relationship ♀️

Wife’s honesty about husband’s authenticity leads to questioning everything.

Trauma skews perception. Work with a therapist and find common ground.

Working through issues before divorce may be a better option.

Traumatized commenter relates to wife’s confession, offers insights and support. ❤️

Don’t rush to divorce. Get therapy, communicate better

Supportive comment highlights importance of therapy and challenges of mental illness.
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OP’s wife values him despite her inability to believe in goodness

Anxiety can create imaginary fears and walls that must be broken.

Marriage is about accepting people for how they are, not how you want them to be.

Deeper issues may be at play, but divorce isn’t necessary

Kindness mistaken for weakness, but NAH in this relationship.

Husband’s honesty in question as wife’s confession shocks him

Don’t give up on her for opening up and seeking help

Trust is a rare commodity, cherish it

Commenter suggests husband is being finicky and bailing out on marriage over a hypothetical situation.

Trust in a monogamous relationship is different from trust in friends.

Navigating trust issues in relationships is tough

Discovering you’re the lesser evil? That would f**k anyone up.

Misunderstanding in therapy leads to insecurity, not infidelity.

Her distrust of people in general would be more of an issue.

Don’t let your insecurities ruin a good thing.

Don’t let hurt feelings ruin 12 years of love ❤️

Supportive comment acknowledges trauma and offers best wishes

Miscommunication in marriage, but therapy can help.

Be patient and supportive, your wife trusts you with her vulnerabilities

OP’s wife treats the marriage like a business arrangement.

NTA receives sarcastic support for double standard comparison.

Seeking help beyond Reddit, good luck with therapy

Wife’s confession leaves husband questioning love and loyalty.
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12 years of marriage and she still can’t trust you?

NTA commenter advises taking a breath and working through issues together.

Supportive comment defends husband’s decision to not seek therapy

Divorce might be justified but therapy is recommended

Real talk: Acknowledge your wife’s feelings and work on yourself.

Wedding vows broken. Husband questions wife’s love and intentions.

Sorting beliefs from truth in therapy. Good luck, husband!

Encouraging comment on building trust and highlighting positive qualities
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Address the issue in therapy and understand your spouse’s perspective

Partner’s confession reflects her worldview, NAH, but needs therapy.

Wife’s impossible standards and coping mechanism causing marriage turmoil. Keep therapy.

Engaging with a commenter’s admiration for the wife’s honesty.
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Be patient and supportive as your wife works through her trauma

Encouraging seeking professional help for wife’s serious issues

Trust issues and a preference for animals over people

Don’t throw it all away, she loves you

Therapist’s actions leave husband questioning everything. Get a new therapist.

NTA husband’s feelings are valid, wife’s past doesn’t excuse behavior.

Therapist advises husband to not take wife’s distrust personally

Compassionate response on spouse’s childhood trauma and therapy progress

Dealing with a shocking confession in marriage: divorce or therapy?

Supportive comment advises to give wife time and seek therapy

Trust issues but still trusts wife. Important distinction.

Different perspectives can create misunderstandings. Don’t give up on love

Therapy didn’t cause her to think like this. She’s been suffering.

Understanding trauma’s impact on someone’s definitions of ‘good’ and ‘bad’.

Encouraging advice on navigating a spouse’s traumatic therapy confession

Gender bias in sickness affecting relationships sparks discussion

Can the husband trust his two-faced wife after therapy?

Encouraging words for therapy and growth.

Could autism be the reason behind wife’s confession?

Empathetic comment offers hope to struggling husband.

Don’t jump to conclusions, try reframing her words

Loving humans despite flaws; forgiveness & boundaries = unconditional love ❤

Wife’s trust issues stem from her low self-esteem, not you.

Therapist explains wife’s projection and advises individual therapy first.

Sarcastic comment accuses husband of giving wife trust issues.

Husband in trouble after failing to understand wife’s trauma

Therapy helps re-evaluate faulty beliefs and improve relationships ❤

Don’t take it personally, she was hurt before you. You’re NTA

Therapy is meant to uncover uncomfortable truths, embrace the process

Suggestion to consider wife’s autism and YTA if jumping to divorce.

Healing from childhood trauma takes time and professional help. NAH.

Honesty is key in therapy. Stick with it for improvement. ✨

Supportive comment encourages husband to stand by his wife
