Girlfriend's SELFISH Demand: 'Ditch Your Sick Dad for Me!' 😡

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Buckle up, folks! 🚗💨 We've got a doozy of a dilemma here. 😳 Imagine this: Your dear old dad just had surgery and is stuck on the couch recovering. 🏥🛋️ Meanwhile, the girl you've been seeing is having a rough time with panic attacks. 😰 Talk about bad timing, right? 🙄 So, what do you do when you're torn between being a good son and a supportive boyfriend? 🤔 Let's dive into this juicy story and see if our protagonist is really the a-hole here! 👀

Dad's Surgery 🏥 Means He's Stuck on the Couch 🛋️

fahsalga | fahsalga

Trying to Be a Good Son 👨‍👦 and Help Out

fahsalga | fahsalga

Girl I'm Seeing 👧 Is Having Panic Attacks 😰

fahsalga | fahsalga

She Demands I Prioritize Her 😠 Over My Recovering Dad

fahsalga | fahsalga

She Knew the Situation 🤨 But Still Got Upset

fahsalga | fahsalga

Am I Really the A-hole? 🤔 I'm Torn

fahsalga | fahsalga

The Dilemma in a Nutshell 🥜

fahsalga | fahsalga

She's Mad 😡 I Won't Leave My Recovering Dad

fahsalga | fahsalga

Plot Twist! 😲 She Dumps Me Over Text

fahsalga | fahsalga

I'm Not Even Upset 🤷‍♂️ Family Comes First

fahsalga | fahsalga

Family Drama or Relationship Woes? 👨‍👦❤️👧 You Decide!

Well, well, well... looks like our main man here is caught between a rock and a hard place! 😅 On one hand, he's trying to be a dutiful son and help his recovering dad out. 👨‍👦 On the other, his lady friend is demanding his attention during her panic attacks. 😰 Talk about a no-win situation! 🤦‍♂️ But wait, there's more! She goes and dumps him over text for not prioritizing her! 😲 Ouch, that's gotta sting. 🐝 But hey, at least he's not too torn up about it and is focusing on his dad's recovery. 🙌 Now, let's see what the internet has to say about this wild ride of a story! 🎢💬

NTA. Commenter applauds OP and calls out selfish girlfriend. 👏

JoshDunkley | JoshDunkley

Don't ignore red flags, even for love. 🙅

lilmiscantberong | lilmiscantberong

NTA, and girlfriend is a pain in the a**. Demanding you leave your sick father to prioritize her is a weird power play. 😡

beeeeeebee | beeeeeebee

Don't sacrifice your family for a selfish partner. RUN! 🏃‍♂️

ShakeyBacon | ShakeyBacon

Putting your girlfriend's demand into perspective. 🤔

Straight-Singer-2912 | Straight-Singer-2912

Spot-on observation on girlfriend's self-centered behavior 😎

SJoyD | SJoyD

Don't ditch family for a 'girl you are seeing' 😡. Set healthy boundaries.

Rosie-Disposition | Rosie-Disposition

Balancing priorities in a relationship can be tough. 💔

timothybcat | timothybcat

NTA prioritizes sick dad over selfish girlfriend 🙏

DrMindbendersMonocle | DrMindbendersMonocle

Girlfriend demands he choose: her or sick dad. Commenter says NTA.

WayMoreCowbell | WayMoreCowbell

Priorities matter! A partner should respect them. 👍

Pronebasilisk | Pronebasilisk

Don't ditch your sick dad for anyone! You are NTA 👍

GundyGalois | GundyGalois

NTA. Take care of your dad and set boundaries with gf 🙌

unlovelyladybartleby | unlovelyladybartleby

NTA, prioritize family over selfish partners. 🙌

whatsmypassword73 | whatsmypassword73

Putting your girlfriend first shouldn't mean ditching your sick dad. #NTA 🙏

Daligheri | Daligheri

Supportive comment defends OP's decision to prioritize sick dad 🤗

maroongrad | maroongrad

Not responsible for fixing girlfriend's anxiety attacks. NTA 😊

nope-111 | nope-111

Don't let her use you as an emotional support animal 🚫🐕

The__Riker__Maneuver | The__Riker__Maneuver

Girlfriend demands OP choose her over sick dad - commenters disagree

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Don't ditch your sick dad for a girlfriend 😡

Legal-Goat8110 | Legal-Goat8110

Selfish girlfriend prioritizes herself over your sick dad. NTA.

PrincessBella1 | PrincessBella1

Putting family first and dodging a dramatic, exhausting bullet. 👌

Not-nuts | Not-nuts

Is she really concerned about your dad's health? 🤔

[deleted] | [deleted]

Partner's sick mum or girlfriend? NTA prioritized well 👍

staticdragonfly | staticdragonfly

Choosing a sick dad over demanding girlfriend - NTA 👍

Altruistic_You737 | Altruistic_You737

Accusation of fake anxiety attacks to manipulate, call out toxic behavior. NTA.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Marriage veteran warns of future with selfish girlfriend. 😱

Pjs8200 | Pjs8200

Taking care of dad > pleasing selfish girlfriend 👍

CJsMom2000 | CJsMom2000

Standing up for family care is always the right choice 👏

Significant-Set8457 | Significant-Set8457

Get out of that toxic relationship! You deserve better. ❤️

TheWatermelonDino | TheWatermelonDino

NTA. GF is manipulative and dependent. Don't apologize or grovel. 😡

teresajs | teresajs

Is the girlfriend's anxiety really about attention? 🤔

hmg07 | hmg07

Don't prioritize a selfish partner over your sick dad. #NTA 🙌

ElectronicAmphibian7 | ElectronicAmphibian7

Block her and move on! Mental health matters, not her demands 🙅

RedTalyn | RedTalyn

Don't ditch your sick dad for your gf! NTA 👏

lindylady9601 | lindylady9601

Even the dog knows better. Set boundaries with your FWB 😄

Multi-Facets | Multi-Facets

NTA. GF's demand to prioritize her over sick dad is a red flag. 🚩

LoveThickWives | LoveThickWives

Supportive comment encourages prioritizing family over girlfriend's selfish demand. 👍

SnooRadishes5305 | SnooRadishes5305

Prioritizing sick dad over demanding girlfriend 👍

VermicelliNo2422 | VermicelliNo2422

NTA shares personal experience and calls out girlfriend's selfish demand 🙌

practical-junkie | practical-junkie

Girlfriend demands to ditch your sick dad? Run. 😡

anitarielleliphe | anitarielleliphe

Girlfriend's demand is a selfish power play, NTA.

Impossible_Ad6477 | Impossible_Ad6477

Ditch the girlfriend, not your sick dad! 😡

Usalien1 | Usalien1

👍 Don't let anyone come between you and your family.

grouchymonk1517 | grouchymonk1517

Is it a red flag? 🚩 Keep an eye out

[deleted] | [deleted]

Encourage therapy for girlfriend's anxiety or ditch her? 🤔

PrettyLyon43 | PrettyLyon43

Don't let her manipulate you into neglecting your family. 😡

embracedthegrey | embracedthegrey

Selfish girlfriend demands choice between her and sick dad 🤯

Fahsalga | Fahsalga

Don't let panic attacks be an excuse for manipulation 🙅

bina101 | bina101

Empathetic response to girlfriend's unreasonable demand. 🤔

lil-nan72 | lil-nan72

Is she using her anxiety to manipulate you? 🤔

JerseyJaime | JerseyJaime

Partner jealous of attention to sick dad. NTA needs therapy.

eleanor-rigby- | eleanor-rigby-

Encouraging response to someone dealing with panic attacks 💪

Churchie-Baby | Churchie-Baby

NTA. Encouraging professional help for anxiety management. 🙌

sarashortnfat | sarashortnfat

Don't let a selfish partner steal your attention 🙏

SlinkyMalinky20 | SlinkyMalinky20

Putting your sick dad first is the right thing to do 👍

kb-g | kb-g

Demanding prioritization may be manipulation. Watch out! 🚨

maantre | maantre

Don't let her use panic attacks to manipulate you. Run! 🙌

HPNerd44 | HPNerd44

Prioritizing dad over entitled girlfriend - NTA wins 🏆

thatplantgirl97 | thatplantgirl97

Be cautious of manipulative partners, prioritize family over partners 🙏

eyore5775 | eyore5775

NTA. Prioritizing sick dad > selfish girlfriend. She needs perspective 🤔

purplehippobitches | purplehippobitches

Red flags galore: don't ditch your sick dad for her! 😡

ThatOneChickMeg | ThatOneChickMeg

Don't fall for it! It's a test and a red flag 🚨

BooRoWo | BooRoWo

Being there for family is priority, NTA. 👍

pl0ur | pl0ur

Girlfriend's selfish demand is not justified. NTA for prioritizing dad 👍

Ill-Conversation5210 | Ill-Conversation5210

NTA, GF is selfish and can't see beyond her own needs 😒

[deleted] | [deleted]

Partner's anxiety doesn't excuse selfish demand to abandon sick father 😒

Time_Neat_4732 | Time_Neat_4732

Supporting a sick family member should not lead to punishment.

Several-Jelly4918 | Several-Jelly4918

Girlfriend's selfishness could lead to isolation. 🚫

Mountain_Flamingo759 | Mountain_Flamingo759

Selfish girlfriend demands priority over sick dad. NTA, move on.

cycophuk | cycophuk

Partner's behavior may be manipulative, major red flag 🚩

Obsessed_Til_Death | Obsessed_Til_Death

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