Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a doozy of a story for you today. Meet our protagonist, a Korean adoptee raised by white parents who never quite connected her with her roots. Fast forward to adulthood, and she’s now married to a fellow Korean and the proud mama of a little bundle of joy. But when it comes to naming their daughter, things get a bit… complicated. Will our heroine stand her ground and embrace her culture, or will she cave to the pressure of making others comfortable? Let’s dive in and find out! ♀️
Adopted from Korea, Raised to Believe I Was White

Middle School Realization: I’m Definitely Not White!

College Love Story: Meeting My Korean Husband

Our Little Bundle of Joy Arrives with a Korean Name

Family Meet-and-Greet Turns Sour

️ Mom’s Meltdown: “You’re Setting Her Up for Failure!”

Foreign Names Shouldn’t Be Considered Difficult, Right?

Torn Between Two Worlds: Fearing History Repeating Itself

Family Drama Erupts Over “Difficult” Korean Baby Name!
Well, well, well… looks like we’ve got a classic case of cultural clash on our hands! Our Korean adoptee mama thought she was doing right by her little one, giving her a name that celebrates their shared heritage. But apparently, Grandma just can’t wrap her tongue around it and has the audacity to suggest it’ll lead to a lifetime of bullying! The nerve! Now, our conflicted mama is left wondering if she’s setting her daughter up for failure or paving the way for a more culturally connected future. It’s a tough call, but one thing’s for sure: this family gathering just got a whole lot more interesting! Let’s see what the internet has to say about this juicy drama!
Don’t let others diminish your cultural identity. Stand your ground!

Breaking down racism with a simple quote

Celebrate your heritage and remind your mother of America’s diversity

Defending a unique Korean name against cultural erasure.

Unexpected bullying source: Grandma

Stand your ground and embrace diversity!

Defending cultural names and calling out racism with

Importance of correctly pronouncing names. NTA, empathy matters ❤️

Stand up for your child’s name and demand respect!

Bullies will bully regardless of a name

Embrace cultural diversity! NTA for keeping Korean name.

Unique names can be empowering, NTA made a great point.

Curiosity about the name aside, NTA and cultural erasure sucks

Caring about someone means making an effort to pronounce their name

Grandma is being spiteful, NTA for choosing Korean name

Defying naming norms: NTA for choosing a beautiful name

Naming your child a Korean name in the US: NTA

NTA – Grandma has no say in naming the child. ♀️

Celebrating cultural diversity and calling out ignorance.

Celebrating cultural heritage through names in diverse communities.

Grandma must learn to say the name right or be forgotten

Embrace diversity, grandma needs to learn and respect baby’s name

Bullying is about the bully, not the name. Teach confidence

Defending baby’s name with a spicy clapback

Stand up for your baby’s name, shut down grandma’s bigotry!

Adoptive parents criticized for giving their child a Korean name

Mom’s misguided attempt to protect child from racism. NTA

Naming your child after a culture you’re not a part of? YTA

Unfamiliar names aren’t difficult, grandma needs to get on board.

Phonetic spelling is key, NTA comment is supported.

Cultural literacy in transracial adoptions is crucial for NTA parents

Respect a child’s name, language and culture. NTA.

NTA commenter shares a meaningful essay on names and identity.

Naming controversy shut down with a classical music reference

Celebrating diversity and respecting names is important in our society.

Unique baby names are in, NTA for choosing one.

Grandmother’s bigotry called out, NTA parents supported.

Don’t let racist lazy people bully you into name-changing!
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“If they can pronounce Tchaikovsky, they can pronounce your name”

Grandma can’t pronounce ‘Haru’? Tell her no Christmas visits

NTA commenter shares experience with foreign names in China.

Don’t let toxic culture shame your child for their name.

Respect is key when it comes to pronouncing names.

NTA. Grandma needs to learn to pronounce her grandchild’s name.

Celebrate your daughter’s beautiful and meaningful Korean name!

Foreign names are cool until it’s not a white name ♀️ #NTA

Celebrate diversity! ‘Ethnic’ names should be normalized.

Embrace cultural names, but it’s okay to have a backup

Balancing cultural identity and societal prejudice towards non-Anglo names.

Proudly embracing your culture doesn’t make you an a**hole.

Naming your child a foreign name can result in bullying.

Suggestion to use an English nickname for non-English name

Expecting close approximations isn’t rejection of grandma’s culture

Navigating cultural differences in adoption can be tough

Understanding cultural differences in pronunciation can be challenging

Korean commenter empathizes with cultural sensitivity, asks name pronunciation clarification.

Don’t be a momzilla when someone mispronounces your child’s name

Meaningful name vs. name-calling: family’s racism exposed

Cutting off racist family after baby’s Korean name. NTA.

Naming your kid is fun, but therapy can help too!

Adopted grandma refuses to learn baby’s Korean name. NTA.

Naming baby after heritage: NTA. Commenter relates to loss of culture.

Adopted child’s name causes tension between parents and in-laws

Mom can learn baby’s name, NTA for choosing it

Non-native English speaker struggles with pronunciation, but parents are being jerks.

Don’t underestimate grandma’s ability to learn Korean names

Empower grandma to pronounce the name correctly with Uzo Aduba

Don’t be lazy, learn to pronounce foreign names.

Defending cultural identity against racism

Foreign names not a big issue for kids, don’t worry!
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Defending a Korean name: NTA. Mom’s being a**hole.

Celebrate diversity and don’t let anyone dim your light!

Celebrate cultural diversity & identity with your child’s name!
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Don’t worry about the name, K-pop and Asian-American culture will help

Embrace your ethnic identity, NTA!
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Unconventional names are becoming more common and accepted.

NTA comment praises effort to learn Korean names in Squid Game.

Naming your child shouldn’t be about pleasing others. NTA

Supportive comment for baby’s name, hope for change in future.

Mom’s projecting insecurities on OP’s choice of baby name

Pronouncing names isn’t that hard! NTA ♀️

Having a difficult name can be tough, but it’s not everything. NAH
