My BFF Blindsided Me: PREGNANT & Expects Me to Pay! 😠💸 I Refuse!

Diply Social Team
Diply | Diply

🚨 Buckle up, folks! We've got a juicy roommate drama on our hands! 🍿 Meet our 19-year-old besties who decided to take their friendship to the next level by moving in together. 👭 Little did one of them know, her roomie was hiding a big secret... a baby bump! 🤰 Now, with a boyfriend and baby on the way, things are getting messy. 😱 Is our girl an a-hole for wanting to jump ship? 🚢 Let's dive in and find out! 👀

🏠 Roomie Drama Alert! 🚨

flytrapgarden | flytrapgarden

👭 Besties for Over a Decade! 💕

flytrapgarden | flytrapgarden

🖊️ Signing on the Dotted Line 📝

flytrapgarden | flytrapgarden

🤰 Surprise! She's Pregnant! 👶

flytrapgarden | flytrapgarden

🤯 5 Months Along and Boyfriend Moving In! 😱

flytrapgarden | flytrapgarden

🙅‍♀️ I Didn't Sign Up for This! 🚫

flytrapgarden | flytrapgarden

🏠 Seeking Peace and Quiet 🤫

flytrapgarden | flytrapgarden

😡 Roomie Gets Mad! 😠

flytrapgarden | flytrapgarden

🤝 No 'Baby Contract' in Place! 📜

flytrapgarden | flytrapgarden

😔 Feeling Like an Awful Friend 😢

flytrapgarden | flytrapgarden

💸 Low on Savings and Expecting 👶

flytrapgarden | flytrapgarden

🤔 AITA for Leaving My Pregnant Roomie? 🤰

flytrapgarden | flytrapgarden

🤰 Pregnant Roomie Bombshell Leads to Lease Drama! 💥

Our girl's roomie dropped a baby bombshell 👶💣 and now she's ready to peace out! 🏃‍♀️ Can't say we blame her though, who wants to live with a crying baby and some random dude? But her preggo bestie is NOT happy 😡 since she was counting on that rent money while on maternity leave. 💸 Talk about a sticky situation! 😬 Is our girl an a-hole for wanting to break the lease and leave her friend high and dry? 🤔 Or should her roomie have been upfront about her baby-making plans from the start? 🤰 Let's see what the internet has to say about this baby mama drama!

Friend expects money for surprise pregnancy, commenter calls out manipulation

fiofish | fiofish

Friend wants me to pay for her pregnancy? No way! 🙅‍♀️

Wonderful-Chemist991 | Wonderful-Chemist991

Friend sneaks in two humans and expects me to pay? NTA.

mnbvcxz1052 | mnbvcxz1052

Beware of the baby trap 😠 NTA stands their ground.

Michalusmichalus | Michalusmichalus

Friend signed lease under false pretenses, NTA for moving out.

MulticoloredMonday | MulticoloredMonday

Friend wants rent money for baby. Commenter thinks she's NTA.

hyper12 | hyper12

Friend tries to 'baby trap' roommate for money. NTA wins!

PeaPod117 | PeaPod117

Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries is important. NTA 👍

RedditDK2 | RedditDK2

Friend expects payment for her pregnancy but OP is NTA

Pistalrose | Pistalrose

Friend tried to trap OP into lease for baby, NTA wins 💯

nhannon87 | nhannon87

Friend hid 5-month pregnancy, expects BFF to pay rent. NTA.

Inner_Goose4664 | Inner_Goose4664

Don't be obligated in a mess of her own making. Run!

Noah_Comprendo | Noah_Comprendo

Sensible suggestion for lease takeover by roomie's BF. 👍

Dromnakk | Dromnakk

Friend lied about pregnancy and plan, NTA for refusing payment 👍

HannaaaLucie | HannaaaLucie

Compassionate response to deceptive friend who is TA. NTA 👏

corgihuntress | corgihuntress

Roommate got pregnant and expects me to pay? NTA, break contract 🚫💰

OutpostEcho | OutpostEcho

Best friend secretly pregnant and expects me to pay rent? NTA 💰

WiseBat | WiseBat

Friend used OP for rent, signed lease under false pretenses. NTA 👍

Fugly0the0first | Fugly0the0first

Friend hides pregnancy & BF moving in, traps OP. NTA 👏

voluntold9276 | voluntold9276

Don't fall for the bait and switch! NTA 👍

anxiouslypremed | anxiouslypremed

Moving in boyfriend violates lease, NTA but may have to leave 🤷‍♀️

UrsinetheMadBear | UrsinetheMadBear

Friend gets pregnant, expects BFF to pay rent. NTA stands firm.

VanillaFam | VanillaFam

Escape the baby drama! NTA for refusing to pay 🙅‍♀️👶


Friend tricked her into living with baby daddy. NTA.

melympia | melympia

Agreed to split apt. with friend, not BF and baby. NTA 👍

hoopadinga | hoopadinga

Unexpected roommates and deceitful rent-sharing. NTA for refusing.

TriumphAnt462X0 | TriumphAnt462X0

Roommate's unexpected pregnancy: NTA, not your responsibility. 🙅🏻

ComprehensiveBand586 | ComprehensiveBand586

Friend admits to mooching off money, NTA for refusing 🤑

Most_Disaster_79 | Most_Disaster_79

User warns of potential manipulation and con in paying for friend's child expenses.

iloveesme | iloveesme

Not a good friend, shouldn't feel guilty about breaking lease 🙅

LifeAsksAITA | LifeAsksAITA

Tricked into signing lease by pregnant friend, NTA for leaving. 👍

Amegami | Amegami

Friend lied & manipulated to make me pay for her baby 💰🤰🏻‍♀️ NTA, run away!

[deleted] | [deleted]

Supportive without finances, but potential future drama awaits 😠

Outrageous-Program30 | Outrageous-Program30

Setting boundaries with a pregnant friend. Good for you! 💪

Tuesday_TauRus_Child | Tuesday_TauRus_Child

Friend expects me to pay for baby too? NTA, set boundaries.

bizianka | bizianka

Friend expects payment for pregnancy and moving boyfriend in? NTA.

River_Song47 | River_Song47

Sh*tty friend traps BFF into paying for baby. NTA for leaving. 👏

usernaym44 | usernaym44

Friend uses deceit to make you pay for her pregnancy 😠💸

oldcreaker | oldcreaker

Friend hides pregnancy, expects BFF to pay. NTA stands firm.

Dark__peaches | Dark__peaches

Concealing the truth then emotionally manipulating you? Not ready parent 🙄

Murka-Lurka | Murka-Lurka

Friend deliberately hid pregnancy to exploit your resources. NTA 👍

Apprehensive-hippos | Apprehensive-hippos

Don't be a full-time babysitter and ATM. Get out! 🚫

pixelated__pixie | pixelated__pixie

Clear intentions and good for you for getting out! 💯

Extension-Release-30 | Extension-Release-30

Friend wants me to pay for her baby? NTA, definitely not.

gelibsu | gelibsu

Friend plans pregnancy and expects payment, commenter refuses. 💯

Rebekah_Dawkins | Rebekah_Dawkins

Friend deceived OP, NTA for not wanting to live with newborn 👍

Cocoasneeze | Cocoasneeze

Friend expects me to pay for her baby, NTA for refusing.


Friend gets pregnant and expects payment, commenter advises on lease

lkowg | lkowg

NTA. Suggests Section 8/Housing for financial stability 🏠

MsBiss | MsBiss

Friend wants me to pay for her pregnancy, NTA refuses. 😠💸

imvotinghere | imvotinghere

Friend lies to trick you into lease, will trick you more. NTA

moxieinaboxie | moxieinaboxie

Friend wants money for pregnancy, NTA. Don't let her guilt-trip you.

Aetherfox13 | Aetherfox13

Friend lies and manipulates, expects OP to pay for baby? NTA!

Ema630 | Ema630

Not a bad friend. Didn't sign up to live with baby. 👍

ButLikeSeriously | ButLikeSeriously

Friend's pregnancy bombshell leads to tough decision. NTA.

Unsolicitedadvice13 | Unsolicitedadvice13

Friend lied about pregnancy, NTA for refusing to pay. 😒

thechipperhalf | thechipperhalf

Friend expects free rent, commenter says NTA. 🙄

that_was_way_harsh | that_was_way_harsh

Friend lies about pregnancy and expects money. You're NTA.

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA for refusing to financially support your pregnant roommate. Moving out is the best decision to salvage your friendship.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Fraudulent lease? NTA - You shouldn't have to pay anything. 🙌

theDagman | theDagman

Friend made big decisions without telling you. NTA for refusing.

ScarletDarkstar | ScarletDarkstar

Friend expects me to pay for her baby? NTA, tough luck 💰🚫

TheSirensMaiden | TheSirensMaiden

Friend's pregnancy reveal traps OP into paying. NTA for refusing.

MariaInconnu | MariaInconnu

Honesty is key, NTA. Set boundaries and move on 👍

FairyFartDaydreams | FairyFartDaydreams

Don't have children if you can't afford them 👍 NTA

effinperfect2012 | effinperfect2012

Friend blindsided by pregnancy, expects rent? NTA says comment.

Dammit_Janet5 | Dammit_Janet5

Friend pulls bait-and-switch on pregnancy payments, NTA bows out. 👍

QuinGood | QuinGood

Logical solution: her boyfriend takes over your half of lease 🤔

dromaeovet | dromaeovet

Friend hid pregnancy and motive for moving in. NTA.

[deleted] | [deleted]

"Support your friend, but don't break the lease yet" 👍

RoseTyler38 | RoseTyler38

Friend takes advantage of OP's kindness. NTA.

Calm_Administration2 | Calm_Administration2

Cut your losses, move out and don't look back. NTA 👍

Fit-Analysis6602 | Fit-Analysis6602

Financial responsibility before having kids 🤑💰 She lied, NTA.

becauselifeis | becauselifeis

Supportive comment advises OP to prioritize their own well-being.

Wild_Story_3256 | Wild_Story_3256

Choose your living atmosphere, not your friend's pregnancy mood swings.

boiledpenny | boiledpenny

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