Woman's $70 Grocery Run Sparks MAJOR Drama with Controlling BF! 😱💸

Diply Social Team
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Moving in together is a big step for any couple, but it can come with its fair share of challenges! 🏠💑 When this gal and her boyfriend decided to take the plunge and get a joint account for groceries, they thought they had it all figured out. 💰🛒 But little did they know, a simple $70 spend would turn into a dramatic showdown that left her questioning everything! 😨 Get ready for a rollercoaster ride of emotions, misunderstandings, and the age-old question: who's the a**hole in this situation? 🤔🍿

🏠 Moving In Together: A New Chapter! 💑

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💰 The Grand Plan: $420 for the Month! 🛒

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🥚 Running Low on Staples: Time to Stock Up! 🥛

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💸 The Dreaded $70 Spend: Uh-Oh! 😬

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😨 The Ominous Message: What Did I Do Wrong? 📩

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💔 Instant Panic Mode: Heart Racing, Feeling Sick! 😰

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🍰 Explaining the Weekend Prep: Snacks, Staples, and More! 🍿

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🥐 Breaking Down the Costs: Milk, Eggs, Flour, Oh My! 🧈

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😕 Confusion and Hurt: I Wasn't Being Rude, Was I? 🤨

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😔 Left with an Awful Feeling: Is This Our Future? 😢

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🙅‍♀️ Not Wanting That Dynamic: Please, Anything But That! 🚫

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🤔 AITA for Spending the Money? I Need to Know! 🙏

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📝 EDIT: Breaking Down the Spend - $30 for Weekend, Rest for Necessities! 💸

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🎥 A Movie Weekend for Both: Our Share, Our Account! 👫

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🍿 The $70 Showdown: A Tale of Love, Money, and Movie Marathons! 💸😱

This gal thought she was doing the right thing by stocking up on essentials and treats for a fun movie weekend with her boyfriend and family. 🍰🥐 But when her boyfriend saw the $70 charge, all hell broke loose! 😱 He accused her of being rude and disrespectful, leaving her confused and hurt. 😕💔 Now she's left wondering if this is the beginning of a toxic dynamic she's seen in her own parents' relationship. 🙅‍♀️😢 Let's see what the internet has to say about this dramatic turn of events! 🌐👀 Is she the a**hole for spending the money, or is there more to this story than meets the eye? 🤔💰 Grab your popcorn, because this is about to get juicy! 🍿😋

Red flag! OP should re-examine her relationship with controlling BF. 🚨

prairiemountainzen | prairiemountainzen

Partner shouldn't control grocery spending. Communicate respectfully like adults. NTA 👍

Parsimonycake | Parsimonycake

Get out of there! 💪 Your mental health is more important. ❤️

littlemissadams | littlemissadams

Financial abuse is a red flag. NTA. Set boundaries. 👍

Ennah_Schemer | Ennah_Schemer

Red flag alert! Concerns about abusive behavior and financial control. 🚨

tlf555 | tlf555

Get out of the emotionally abusive relationship, seek help 🙉

capmanor1755 | capmanor1755

Controlling boyfriend causes drama over grocery shopping 🍕

TrayMc666 | TrayMc666

Is the BF controlling? INFO needed. 🤔🔔

2ReddYet | 2ReddYet

Take him grocery shopping 📲 to see how much things cost! 👀

postcardstocali | postcardstocali

Dating your dad? 🤯 Time to end it ASAP. NTA.

tipareth1978 | tipareth1978

Red flag alert! NTA for grocery expenses. Concerning response from BF.

-sallysomeone- | -sallysomeone-

Believe him when he shows you who he is 👍

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Partner's controlling behavior over groceries sparks support for OP. 👏

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NTA! Have a reality check talk with your controlling BF 👍

reappearingthread | reappearingthread

Partner's accusatory behavior raises red flags. NTA. 👍

Sodonewithidiots | Sodonewithidiots

Clarifying the breakdown of grocery expenses. 👍

TangeloMain9661 | TangeloMain9661

Partner's verbal abuse over groceries is not okay 😡

jsk1987 | jsk1987

Avoid joint accounts with controlling boyfriend. NTA 👍

jjj68548 | jjj68548

Controlling boyfriend scares partner over $70 grocery run. #NTA 😱

JCBashBash | JCBashBash

Controlling BF causes drama over grocery shopping. NTA.

wfowfo | wfowfo

🚩 Massive red flag! Reassess the situation, he's controlling. NTA.

Particular-Set5396 | Particular-Set5396

Red flags in controlling behavior, clear communication and boundaries needed. 👍

Snowconetypebanana | Snowconetypebanana

Engaging comment challenges assumptions and seeks clarification. 🤔

KaldaraFox | KaldaraFox

NTA. The commenter advises the OP to cut and run, as the boyfriend's behavior might become too controlling. They suggest withdrawing their contribution from the joint account and setting ultimatums for the boyfriend to pay for his share of the groceries or stay home. 🛍️💰

Djhinnwe | Djhinnwe

Time to move on from controlling partner. 👋

ERK1022 | ERK1022

Recognizing signs of abuse in relationships 🚫

Diasies_inMyHair | Diasies_inMyHair

Don't let him control your money! NTA 👏

BoxOfGoodies13 | BoxOfGoodies13

Defending the OP's $70 grocery run amidst food price hikes 👏

AbelMonsoon | AbelMonsoon

Take control of your finances, dump the controlling ex 💸

depressivedarling | depressivedarling

Trusting your partner with grocery shopping is a relationship must 💑

purplehippobitches | purplehippobitches

Partner's controlling behavior over groceries raises red flags 🚨

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Surviving on $420 for groceries? 😱 How do you do it?

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Don't ignore the red flags, it's time to move on! 💔

AKA_June_Monroe | AKA_June_Monroe

Grocery prices shock controlling boyfriend. 😱🍝

cyn507 | cyn507

Controlling behavior and emotional abuse in relationships not okay. 😔

eepithst | eepithst

Financial abuse warning in controlling relationship. Consider ending it. 💸

Dotty_Ford | Dotty_Ford

Does $70 put you in financial danger? Controlling BF?

Oxfordcomma42 | Oxfordcomma42

Suggests discussing budget but lacks empathy for her situation 🤔

Sleepy_Kat2596 | Sleepy_Kat2596

Take charge of grocery shopping, question him on purchases. #EqualPartners 👍 #NTA

Realistic-Animator-3 | Realistic-Animator-3

Controlling partner over $70 grocery money is a major red flag 🚨

Clear-Owl-378 | Clear-Owl-378

NTA spent $70 on groceries for both, BF is TA ❌

stone_the_crows | stone_the_crows

Listen to your body and reconsider your controlling partner 🙏

khcarter68 | khcarter68

Financial abuse? Red flag! Don't let him control you 💪

ConsitutionalHistory | ConsitutionalHistory

Joint account and trust: keys to a healthy relationship 👍

kheltar | kheltar

Stand up for yourself! NTA for wanting financial independence 👏

SheiB123 | SheiB123

Partner's controlling behavior is a red flag. NTA.

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Red flag alert: Fear and anxiety in a relationship 🚨

Mabelisms | Mabelisms

NTA but controlling behavior is a red flag 👍

DiggityGiggity8 | DiggityGiggity8

Escape the controlling boyfriend and his financial abuse. #NTA 👏

MyLalaRocky | MyLalaRocky

BF needs a reality check on grocery prices! 🤔

Whiskeygirl81 | Whiskeygirl81

Take control of your finances and relationship 💪

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NTA for buying essentials, strange reaction from controlling BF! 👏

Sailor_Pandora | Sailor_Pandora

Empowering response to controlling partner. 💪

OkAdministration7456 | OkAdministration7456

Demand respect and leave him! 🙌

EnvironmentalMenu336 | EnvironmentalMenu336

Separate accounts are better. Don't be afraid of your partner 👍

Silent_Syd241 | Silent_Syd241

Serious advice on leaving abusive relationships. Stay safe ❤

cheezitapplepie | cheezitapplepie

Maintaining financial independence in marriage, with grocery receipts as proof.

Puzzleheaded_Ad_6681 | Puzzleheaded_Ad_6681

OP's BF gets mad over shared grocery account. 🤦‍♀️

zenozkrga | zenozkrga

Take control of your finances and your life. Dump him. 💪🏼

HorrorAvatar | HorrorAvatar

Partner should make you feel safe and prices go up. NTA.

Too_much_audacity | Too_much_audacity

Listen to your heart ❤️. NTA for prioritizing groceries.

BubbaC619 | BubbaC619

Take control and run, girl! 🏃‍♀️💰 You're NTA.

TLGinger | TLGinger

Partner's controlling behavior is a red flag. Leave. 👍🏻

yeah_right_4685 | yeah_right_4685

Controlling BF conditioning partner to fear communication. Unhealthy relationship. 😢

lecorbeauamelasse | lecorbeauamelasse

Controlling BF shames GF for buying groceries? NTA, dump him! 💪

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Controlling boyfriend scares OP over grocery run. NTA.

Dogmother123 | Dogmother123

Food shopping is not a crime! NTA 😊🍕

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Take control of your finances 💰💪! Get your own account.

novaSky8 | novaSky8

Listen to your body, NTA. Controlling behavior is a red flag! 👍

Blonde2468 | Blonde2468

Signs of financial abuse? Concerned about boyfriend's controlling behavior 😔

GollyismyLolly | GollyismyLolly

Joint account for personal expenses? YTA according to comment.

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Standing up for basic necessities amidst controlling behavior. 💪

olderbutnotwiser31 | olderbutnotwiser31

NTA's $70 grocery run sparks red flags in controlling BF 😱

Commercial_Yellow344 | Commercial_Yellow344

Take control of your own life, seek therapy, and prioritize safety. 👍

CheckIntelligent7828 | CheckIntelligent7828

Trust your gut and don't seek validation from controlling partners 👍

mayfeelthis | mayfeelthis

Escape the control! 💪 NTA. 👏

Appropriate_Speech33 | Appropriate_Speech33

Controlling BF shames woman for $70 grocery run during pandemic. NTA.

Kernowek1066 | Kernowek1066

Controlling partner uses real name, NTA asks if there's more abuse.

Green_night_owl | Green_night_owl

Take control of your life! You deserve better! 💪🏼

Latter-Register5038 | Latter-Register5038

Controlling boyfriend tries to punish girlfriend for joint account use 😱

SimpleTennis517 | SimpleTennis517

Run for your life! 💪🏼

bloonfroot | bloonfroot

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