7 Kids, 7 Dads, 0 Help: Daughter's ENOUGH Being the Family ATM! 🙅‍♀️

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Diply | Diply

🤱 Imagine being forced into the role of a mother at a young age, raising your siblings while sacrificing your own childhood and education. 😢 That's the reality for our protagonist, a 26-year-old woman who grew up with 7 siblings and an unstable mother. 🙍‍♀️ Despite the challenges, she's managed to build a successful life for herself. 💪 But now, her mom is asking for handouts, and our heroine is faced with a tough decision. 🤔 Should she help the woman who never supported her, or stand her ground? 🧐 Let's dive into this emotional rollercoaster of a story! 🎢

🚼 Forced into Motherhood at a Young Age

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👶 Raising My Siblings While Still a Child Myself

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🧹 Juggling Household Chores, Work, and School

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🚗 Siblings Got Cars, I Got Nothing

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🎓 No Help for College, Despite Sacrifices

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💼 Thriving Despite the Odds

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💸 Mom Wants Handouts, I Say No

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😠 Mom Flips Out When I Refuse

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🎭 Accused of Being a Drama Queen

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😤 Eldest Daughter Fed Up with Mom's Favoritism!

Our protagonist, the eldest of 8 siblings, was forced to take on the role of a mother at a young age. 🍼 She sacrificed her childhood and education to raise her siblings, while her mom never offered her the same support she gave to the other children. 😔 Now that our heroine is successful, her mom is asking for handouts, but she's putting her foot down. 🙅‍♀️ When confronted about the unfair treatment, her mom accused her of being a drama queen! 😲 The internet is buzzing with opinions on this juicy family drama. 🐝 Let's see what they have to say about this emotional rollercoaster ride! 🎡

Daughter stands up to mom's financial manipulation. 💪

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NTA. You're more adult than your mom. Live your life 👌

Bug_a_boo_Mama | Bug_a_boo_Mama

Daughter not the a-hole for not helping mom with finances 💸

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Boundaries are important. NTA but you need to distance yourself. 🙅‍♀️

McSuzy | McSuzy

Congrats on being a strong and capable woman! 💪

ArumtheLily | ArumtheLily

Childhood labor bill: give it to mom. 💰 NTA

Dana07620 | Dana07620

Don't be the family ATM! NTA and stay strong. 💪

Pooky582 | Pooky582

Toxic mom? Cut her off! NTA, take care of yourself 🙅‍♀️

SpiderSilk666 | SpiderSilk666

Daughter uses and gaslights OP, NTA but daughter is TA. 🙅‍♀️

PaladinWolf777 | PaladinWolf777

No confusion here - OP is clearly NTA 👍

DoreyCat | DoreyCat

Mother's lack of appreciation hurts, but keep being a badass 🤝

Smeli_meli2 | Smeli_meli2

Daughter deserves payback for years of unpaid labor. NTA 💯

anonymous_chaos_ | anonymous_chaos_

Heartbreaking comment on parentification and neglectful mother.

Ladyughsalot1 | Ladyughsalot1

Mom can afford college and cars, but begs for $200? 😳

flukefluk | flukefluk

Questioning the mother's questionable financial status and choices 🤔

JournalisticDisaster | JournalisticDisaster

Daughter stands up to mom's bitterness and dependency. #NTA 👏

MageVicky | MageVicky

NTA stands up for herself against false accusations 👏

amitathrowa | amitathrowa

Confusing timeline aside, commenter agrees OP is NTA 👍

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Standing up to abusive parents and setting boundaries. 💪

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Empathetic commenter congratulates OP, questions funding of siblings' tuition.

Lameador | Lameador

Protect your credit from family abuse. NTA.

Viperbunny | Viperbunny

Curious about the mom's role in this situation 🤔

Shadowdrone247 | Shadowdrone247

Controversial comment sparks no sympathy and NTA response. 🤬

NatethegreatAZ | NatethegreatAZ

NTA took care of 7 siblings, missing out on youth and education. Don't give entitled mother anything. Live for yourself now! 💜

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Break free from abusive parentification, you owe her nothing! 👊

throwawayaitadiscord | throwawayaitadiscord

Harsh judgment on large family sparks agreement in comments.

TopInvite8609 | TopInvite8609

Daughter claps back at her mom's lack of parenting skills 💯

HunterRoze | HunterRoze

Becoming a parent to your siblings is not okay. NTA 👍

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Daughter not the a**hole for mother's abuse and grandma's misogyny.

JournalisticDisaster | JournalisticDisaster

"NTA. I already had to play Mommy to your kids..." 😂

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Curious about how the mom saved for siblings' college funds?

mini-me-take3 | mini-me-take3

Childhood abuse is not parenting. You owe her nothing 🙅‍♀️

River824 | River824

Confusion over timeline of events in the family. 🤔

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Daughter needs to take responsibility for her choices 🙅‍♀️

the_last_basselope | the_last_basselope

You're not the a**hole. Mom needs to take responsibility. 👏

SadlyNotPro | SadlyNotPro

Celebrate Mother's Day like it's your birthday 🎉

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Mother's irresponsibility robbed daughter's childhood. NTA for setting boundaries. 👏

Amara_Undone | Amara_Undone

Touching comment brings a cowboy to tears. 😢

piratecat666 | piratecat666

NTA. Boundaries matter, even with family. 👍

FireAsh47 | FireAsh47

Parents' narcissistic behavior - NTA takes a stand 🙌

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Support for standing up to a parent who made her parent too young 👏

that_hapa_bitch | that_hapa_bitch

You go girl! Encouraging comment with positive vibes ❤

shoopshoop87 | shoopshoop87

Don't be her ATM! NTA. Watch out for gaslighting tactics.

bad-attidude | bad-attidude

Set boundaries early to avoid guilt and therapy later. 🙏

SkeevedKeev | SkeevedKeev

Daughter praised for being a great mom to her siblings 🙌

Samhain34 | Samhain34

NTA. The struggle of feeling underappreciated as a child 🙅‍♀️💸

ilikeyourbeardo | ilikeyourbeardo

Empathetic NTA comment validates OP's decision to cut off family.

ohnosmithers | ohnosmithers

User shares personal story and advises seeking counseling for resentment 👍

jackjackj8ck | jackjackj8ck

You deserved a childhood. NTA for refusing to support her.

CrimsonRaine777 | CrimsonRaine777

Standing up to parental abuse - NTA. 👏

lastwesker | lastwesker

Honesty hurts 😢 but it's not your fault. NTA

iluvcats17 | iluvcats17

Questioning her responsibility and spending habits 🙉

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Encouraging comment suggests therapy and moving forward. 💪

WingSuspicious1203 | WingSuspicious1203

Cutting off toxic family: empowering and necessary 💪

Yebizi | Yebizi

Don't give her any more money. Get therapy. You're amazing! 🙌

ProfGoodwitch | ProfGoodwitch

Family favoritism and personal finances - Navigating a tricky situation 👍

DSQ | DSQ

Saying no can be tough, but it's okay to prioritize yourself 👍

KoalasAndPenguins | KoalasAndPenguins

Favoritism sucks. Empathizing with OP's 10-yr-long struggle.

wariowars | wariowars

Breaking free from a toxic family dynamic 💪

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Advice on dealing with a narcissistic mother. Don't be her slave 👍

phfenix | phfenix

Daughter's NTA for refusing to be family ATM 👏

TheDevilsAdvokaat | TheDevilsAdvokaat

Breaking the cycle of abuse and enabling. You go girl! 💪

FrugalForLife | FrugalForLife

Don't let guilt force you to be your mom's ATM 💸

rexmaster2 | rexmaster2

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