Buckle up, folks! 🚨 We've got a juicy tale of school drama, invasive questions, and a serious case of oversharing! 😱 When I went back to school at 28, I never expected my husband's private medical info to become the talk of the class. 🙊 But thanks to my nosy classmate, Jess, that's exactly what happened! 🤦♀️ Now, months later, Jess is in a tough spot and wants my help. ⚠️ Should I put aside my grudge and lend a hand? 🤔 Or is it time for Jess to face the consequences of her loose lips? 💄 Let's dive in and unpack this messy situation! 🧳
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🏫 Back to School Drama: A Classmate's Invasive Questions 🤨
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💊 Picking Up Meds, Sparking Curiosity 🤔
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👀 Nosy Classmate Spots the Meds 😲
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🤐 Trying to Keep Things Private 🙊
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🧐 Jess Pries Further, Crossing Boundaries 😠
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😱 Jess Reads the Label, Puts Me on the Spot 😰
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🙏 Pleading for Discretion, Trusting Jess 🤞
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😱 Jess Spills the Beans, Classmates Pry 🗣️
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💔 Adam's Devastation, Classmates Ogle 😢
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🤒 Jess Falls Ill, Misses Classes 🤧
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🎥 I Record Lectures, Jess Wants Access 📹
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🙄 Jess Pesters Me, I Reach My Limit 😤
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😡 Jess Airs Dirty Laundry in Class Chat 📱
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🤷♀️ My Stance: No Help for the Outer 😠
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🤔 Classmates' Take: Help Jess Despite Her Actions 🆘
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🚨 Classmate Conundrum: To Help or Not to Help the Gossip? 🤔
Well, well, well... looks like Jess is in quite the pickle! 🥒 After blabbing about my husband's private business to the whole class 🗣️, she's now begging for my lecture recordings. 🎥 The audacity! 😤 My classmates think I should take the high road and help her out, even though her loose lips caused some serious drama. 😱 But honestly, I'm not feeling too generous after the way she violated our trust. 🙅♀️ It's a real moral dilemma, folks! 🤔 Should I be the bigger person and throw Jess a lifeline? 🆘 Or let her face the music and potentially fail her assignments? 🎵 One thing's for sure, this situation is messier than a toddler's finger painting! 🎨 Let's see what the internet has to say about this juicy tale of school scandal and secret-spilling! 🌐
Privacy violation? Cut them off! NTA wins the day 🎉
WelshRareDit | WelshRareDit
ESH for outing husband, no obligation to help classmate 🤷♀️
deeyenda | deeyenda
Outed husband, now facing consequences. ESH except husband 👍
Dull-Community | Dull-Community
Supportive comment: Outing someone in 2020? Not cool 😡
vengancewitch | vengancewitch
OP criticized for outing husband, but Jess is still AH. ESH 🤷♀️
angrymom284710394855 | angrymom284710394855
Both parties are at fault, but classmate is still TA 👎
RoboCat23 | RoboCat23
NTA for not helping classmate who outed trans husband.
vicevans01 | vicevans01
Outed trans husband, but still ESH for not helping.
mykmykosia | mykmykosia
Outing her husband was bad judgement, but classmate is nosy YTA.
SaltMarshGoblin | SaltMarshGoblin
Outing someone is never okay. Both parties are at fault.
Toothlesshat | Toothlesshat
You told on your friend's trans identity? ESH.
PotentJelly13 | PotentJelly13
You have no obligation to help after invasion of privacy 🙄
Itherial | Itherial
NTA commenter suggests a lecture on privacy invasion and betrayal.
Korrin | Korrin
Trans man praises OP for handling situation well, but expresses anger.
TaterThotsandRavioli | TaterThotsandRavioli
Outing someone without consent is never okay, ESH.
purple235 | purple235
Outing someone is never okay. YTA for doing so.
mistycatleaves | mistycatleaves
Outing your own partner and refusing help makes everyone suck.
m52b25_ | m52b25_
Reader calls out commenter for outing her trans husband. ESH.
Nomanodyssey | Nomanodyssey
Respecting boundaries and trust: NTA in this situation 👍
Agent_Ayru | Agent_Ayru
Betrayed trust and lack of communication leads to conflict. ESH 😑
Carliebeans | Carliebeans
Both parties made mistakes, burning bridges won't solve anything 🤔
Johnny2256 | Johnny2256
ESH for being invasive, outing, and being petty. Give recordings.
fryingsaucepans | fryingsaucepans
Boundaries respected. No help needed. NTA 👍
n0shmon | n0shmon
NTA doesn't feel bad for sick classmate who outed husband 🤨
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ESH for outing husband, Jess also an a**hole
sitonachair | sitonachair
Outing is never okay, but educating is important too. ESH.
3BeanCasserole | 3BeanCasserole
Multiple parties at fault for outing trans husband. 🤐
SnapePotions34 | SnapePotions34
Handling nosy questions can be tough, but outing someone's identity is not okay. 🚫
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Keeping promises is key 👍
03throwaway03 | 03throwaway03
Don't feel bad, she could have asked someone else 🙄
wrong_address | wrong_address
Friend outs trans husband, commenter NTA for being upset. 😱
crybabythot | crybabythot
Support for trans husband and anti-outing sentiment. 👏
Pelkot | Pelkot
Outing her husband was wrong, but wife is also awful 😒
9mackenzie | 9mackenzie
Invasive questioning leads to outing a trans person. ESH.
carissadraws | carissadraws
Classmates deserve no help after outing trans husband. NTA. 👍
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Classmate outs trans husband, commenter shares blame, everyone sucks here.
kanna172014 | kanna172014
Outing trans husband leads to ESH judgement in comments.
barlosfigueroa | barlosfigueroa
Outing your trans partner to an acquaintance makes everyone suck here 🤷♀️
Namron06 | Namron06
Refusing to help the classmate who outed her trans husband!
Bug_a_boo_Mama | Bug_a_boo_Mama
Practice responding to rude questions with “Why do you ask?”
skyeboatsong | skyeboatsong
Choosing personal values over helping someone who hurt a loved one. NTA
lislunas | lislunas
Defending against invasive questions about trans spouse. Stand your ground! 💪
supermouse35 | supermouse35
OP should have handled the situation better. Both parties at fault. 😐
Iwritepapersformoney | Iwritepapersformoney
No obligation to help after her shitty behavior. NTA 👍
emersj | emersj
Betraying husband's confidence led to outing, NTA but irresponsible 💔
jobrummy | jobrummy
Respecting privacy is a two-way street. NTA 🙅♀️
miasabine | miasabine
Standing up to bullies and refusing to give them power! 💪
ZoeAWashburne | ZoeAWashburne
Choose kindness over spite, even towards an idiot NPC. ❤️
greyetch | greyetch
Suggests a clever way to handle disclosing husband's trans status. 👍
dbDarrgen | dbDarrgen
Spreading gossip? ESH except Adam, but cover up better!
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OP gets called out for excluding transphobic classmate. YTA. 🔥
thrown666928492 | thrown666928492
Blocking is the way! No room for betrayal 👍
gemw2101 | gemw2101
Helping out of obligation? NTA draws the line
kahootofficial | kahootofficial
Defending against transphobia on social media, NTA receives backlash
BookWormWolf888 | BookWormWolf888
Setting boundaries is key. NTA for protecting privacy 👏
jazzinitup | jazzinitup
Trans commenter sympathizes with NTA, suggests privacy approach next time.
dezwillis | dezwillis
Outing someone is unacceptable. NTA for not helping.
karigan_g | karigan_g
Stand up for yourself and report the harassment 💪
Viperbunny | Viperbunny
NTA commenter advises to ignore and not share recordings with betrayer.
chyaraskiss | chyaraskiss
Setting boundaries with a classy response. NTA 🙌
OkapiEli | OkapiEli
Don't mess with a trans person's spouse or you're NTA 🏳️⚧️
CleverNameIsClever | CleverNameIsClever
ESH: Commenter points out the outing and questions the pharmacy's transparency.
ripndipz | ripndipz
ESH situation, but OP could've ignored and avoided further drama.
SallyDaisy | SallyDaisy
Trans woman stands up to classmate who outed her husband 🙌
drfarren | drfarren
Setting boundaries after betrayal can be a healthy choice 👍
bigtenweather | bigtenweather
Don't let her guilt-trip you, NTA. She's the real B!tch 👍
chyaraskiss | chyaraskiss
Be careful with recording policies, but NTA for standing up.
diabolicalchicken | diabolicalchicken
Reporting to school admins about medical info harassment 🚨
Maggie_Mayz | Maggie_Mayz
Don't give in to blackmailers. 🙌
End_Maleficent | End_Maleficent
Setting boundaries is important, but don't let it consume you.
TheBaddestPatsy | TheBaddestPatsy
Telling Jess about testosterone was a mistake, but ESH.
kalospkmn | kalospkmn
OP not the a**hole for refusing to help classmate who outed her trans husband 🙅♀️
lastwesker | lastwesker
Karma strikes! NTA, don't interfere with cosmic justice 💯
StormySands | StormySands
NTA! Commenter thinks the wife should suffer consequences for outing.
blinddread | blinddread
Sh*tty behavior leads to repercussions. NTA takes a stand. 🙌
WineAndDogs2020 | WineAndDogs2020
