Get ready for a rollercoaster ride of emotions! This story is about a man who lost his childhood sweetheart and fiancee to a devastating brain tumor. In her final days, he gifted her a diary to pour her heart out, and it became his most cherished possession after her passing. But now, with a new love in his life, boundaries are being tested, and trust is on the line. Buckle up, because this tale is about to get bumpy!
A Tragic Love Story Cut Short

Fighting a Losing Battle

The Diary: A Thoughtful Gift

✍️ Pouring Her Heart Out

Coping with the Loss

A New Chapter, A New Love

Some Things Are Better Left Unsaid

♀️ Respecting Boundaries… Or Not?

Pushing the Limits

Betrayal and Disrespect

Boundaries? What Boundaries?

The Silent Treatment

Diary Drama: New Fiancee Crosses the Line!
Well, well, well… looks like someone needs a crash course in respecting boundaries! Our heartbroken hero thought he’d found love again after losing his childhood sweetheart to a brain tumor, but his new fiancee just couldn’t keep her nose out of his late love’s diary! Talk about a betrayal of trust! He made it crystal clear that the diary was off-limits, but she just couldn’t resist the temptation. Now, the silent treatment is in full effect, and she’s playing the victim card at her friend’s place. Let’s see what the internet has to say about this juicy drama!
Boundaries were crossed. NTA. Breakup worthy offense.

Private diary breach of trust, NTA’s reaction says it all

Red flag alert! Commenter shares personal experience with similar behavior

Fiancée violates privacy, blames BF for reaction. NTA engagement dealbreaker.

Fiancée violates boundaries by reading diary with no right. NTA.

Respect boundaries! Private diary is off-limits
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Partner reads deceased’s diary, disregards boundaries. NTA.

Concerned commenter urges OP to prioritize mental health and boundaries.

New fiancée betrayed trust by reading late fiancé’s diary

Respectful defense of privacy invasion with clear verdict.
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Find someone who respects your late wife’s memory

NTA but needs to move on from past relationship before committing again

Fiancée violates boundaries by reading late fiancée’s diary. NTA.

Setting boundaries is important in a relationship

Respect the dead’s privacy. NTA for reconsidering marriage

Fiancée’s invasion of privacy is a deep violation of emotions

YTA for proposing without being emotionally ready to share.

Navigating trust and communication in a delicate situation

Reading someone’s diary without permission is a violation of trust

Invasion of privacy or insecurity? Sorting out before marriage

Fiancée reads late fiancé’s diary, but OP is NTA for being upset. Suggestions for therapy and talking it out.

New fiancée can’t live up to late fiancée. Break up?

Fiancée violates privacy, shows no remorse, and blames partner. NTA.

Fiancée disregards boundaries, plays victim after reading private diary. NTA.

Moving on from a tragic loss can be difficult for some

NTA but could have reassured and shared some parts of the journal

Fiancée violates boundaries by reading late fiancée’s diary. NTA

Respect boundaries. Reading private diary is unforgivable. NTA.

Reading late fiancée’s diary without permission: NTA’s fiancée behaves badly

Respect and autonomy are essential in a relationship. NTA.

Fiance’s fixation on deceased ex-fiancee’s diary is unhealthy behavior. NTA.

Reading late fiancée’s diary is a violation of boundaries. NTA.

Setting boundaries in a relationship: When is it too much?

Seeking advice without full context may skew responses

Ex-fiancé reads private diary, commenter says NTA for breaking up.

Red flag alert! Violating privacy and playing victim. RUN.

Reading a dying woman’s diary without permission is disgusting. Dump her.

Setting boundaries is important and you did the right thing.

Ex-fiancée invaded private diary, NTA for ending relationship
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Betrayal of trust. NTA for refusing to show the diary.

Respect boundaries in relationships ️, or move on!

Understanding and empathy can strengthen a relationship ❤
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Advice and concern for OP in preserving late fiancé’s diary

Respectful boundary-setting leads to justified NTA judgement.

Fiancée reads deceased fiancé’s diary, gaslights and betrays partner. NTA.

Reflecting on past tense appreciation: relationship over or in trouble?

Red flag alert! NTA should reconsider this relationship.

Respectful approach towards partner’s past relationship
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Private diary breach before marriage raises red flags

Respecting boundaries is crucial in a relationship

Respect privacy in relationships.

Current fiancee’s request shows lack of respect for your wishes

Fiancée crosses boundaries by reading late fiancé’s diary, relationship advice.

Protect the Diary: NTA’s current fiancee is jealous of his past.

Boundaries matter! NTA for being concerned about her belief.

Grieving commenter offers support and advice to poster, condemns gaslighting

Respect boundaries! NTA, but therapy is needed for reconciliation

Respecting boundaries in a relationship – NTA for setting limits

Respecting boundaries is important in a relationship.

Sarcastic NTA comment sparks no replies, just agreement

Massive breach of trust. Move on.

Doubts raised over fiancée’s character after private diary breach

Respecting boundaries is crucial in relationships
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Respect boundaries and memories. NTA for holding her accountable.

Respecting privacy is key. NTA for keeping promise.

Reading late fiancé’s diary is heartless. NTA.

Fiancée reads deceased partner’s diary, steals her thoughts. NTA, leave.

NTA. A supportive commenter advises OP to show his fiancée the post to make her realize her wrongdoings and change, or prove that she will never listen to reason.

Respect the privacy of your deceased partner’s diary. NTA

Understanding motive: a necessary condition for trust in relationships

Intriguing questions about keeping a late fiancée’s diary and discussing it with a current partner

Reading someone’s private diary is a violation of trust. NTA.

Red flag alert! Reconsider the relationship. NTA though.

Trust is key and that wall of red flags is daunting.
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Respecting boundaries is key, snooping through diary is wrong
