My Boyfriend LIED About Being Out...Now He Wants Me to Play Straight! 😱

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Buckle up, folks! 🚗💨 We've got a juicy tale of love, lies, and family drama that'll have you on the edge of your seat! 😱 Meet our dynamic duo: two twenty-something lovebirds 🕊️ who've been shacking up for a year in their cozy California pad. 🏠 But wait, there's a twist! 😲 Our protagonist thought his beau was out and proud, but boy, was he in for a surprise when the parents came to town! 👨‍👨‍👦 Get ready for a wild ride filled with secrets, betrayal, and a whole lot of awkward moments! 😅 Will our hero stand his ground or cave to the pressure? 🤔 Let's dive in and find out! 🏊‍♂️

🏳️‍🌈 Surprise! My Boyfriend's Not Out to His Parents! 😱

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🤔 I Thought He Was Out... Apparently Not! 🙈

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👨‍👨‍👦 Meeting the Parents... As Roommates?! 🤨

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🛏️ Why Is My Stuff in the Spare Room? 🤷‍♂️

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😳 Uh Oh... He Wants Me to Pretend I'm Just a Roommate! 🙊

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🤥 Surprise! I'm Supposed to Sleep in the Spare Room! 😠

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😲 Plot Twist: His Parents Think He's Straight! 🤯

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🎭 He Wants Me to Play Along... I Said No Way! 🙅‍♂️

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😤 I Thought He Was Out for Ages... I Feel Lied To! 😞

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🤔 Is He Gonna Ask a Girl to Be His Beard Too? 🧔‍♀️

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🚫 I Won't Play This Game... I'm Out! 🏃‍♂️💨

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🤨 Tell Them the Truth or I'm Gone! 🛫

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😡 He Says I'm Forcing Him... I Say I've Been Lied To! 🤥

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🤷‍♂️ Fair Enough, But He Told Me He Was Out! 😤

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🏃‍♂️ Update: I'm Staying with a Friend Until His Parents Leave 🛌

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😱 Boyfriend's Shocking Closet Case Leaves Partner Reeling! 🙊

Well, well, well... looks like our lovebirds 🕊️ have hit a major roadblock in their relationship! 😬 Our sassy protagonist is left feeling betrayed and lied to after discovering his boyfriend's been keeping a pretty big secret from his family. 🤐 Talk about a plot twist! 😲 Now, with the parents on their way and the pressure mounting, our hero has to decide whether to play along with this charade or pack his bags and hit the road. 🛣️ It's a classic case of family drama meets relationship woes, and the internet is buzzing with opinions! 🐝 Let's see what the masses have to say about this juicy dilemma! 🍿

NTA catches lying boyfriend who wants her to pretend to be straight 🤷‍♀️

hannahsflora | hannahsflora

NTA. BF needs to come clean with parents. Forcing you to pretend is offensive. 😒

brownbird8888 | brownbird8888

NTA- Boyfriend lied about being out and now wants you to play straight. No trust, no relationship. 🙄

qshak86 | qshak86

A hilarious typo turned a serious situation into a quest room.

DionFW | DionFW

The struggle of loving someone who won't acknowledge you publicly. 😢

BitchThunder | BitchThunder

Supportive comment suggests discussing coming out with boyfriend's parents.

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Lying about sexuality, then forcing partner back in closet? NTA.

artemisreid | artemisreid

Straight ally defends love; calls out homophobic parents. ❤️💯

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Boyfriend lied and wants her to lie to his parents.

ancientmob | ancientmob

Dealing with a lying boyfriend. Was being openly gay a dealbreaker?

belleandbean | belleandbean

Being lied to is not acceptable, but outing him isn't either.

foulbachelorlife | foulbachelorlife

A spare room for quests? That's some serious dedication! 😎

ms-anthrope | ms-anthrope

OP's boyfriend is trying to force him back in closet 🤷‍♂️

adamfnj | adamfnj

Being in the closet is his choice, not yours 👏

ScienceNotKids | ScienceNotKids

Boyfriend tried to get female friends to pretend to date him 😒

HumbleInstruction4 | HumbleInstruction4

Partner lied, wants me to play straight, not my fault. 😒

emanresuelbaliavayna | emanresuelbaliavayna

Lying about being in the closet? 🤥 NTA for sure.

ChiaraSs7 | ChiaraSs7

Curious about the quests in spare bedroom/office 🤔

DieseljareD187 | DieseljareD187

NTA. Boyfriend lied about sexuality, can't guilt you into playing along.

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Betrayal and lies are never okay. You're not the a**hole.

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Partner lied about being out, now wants you to play straight. NTA. 😱

chokeychokey | chokeychokey

Partner lied, wants me to act straight. NTA, move on.

portlandtrees333 | portlandtrees333

Gay man advises on coming out - NTA for ultimatum 👍

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Partner's lie jeopardizes honesty in relationship. NTA for feeling betrayed.

OzemirtheBard | OzemirtheBard

NTA. Boyfriend lied and wants you to play straight. Stand firm.

Avistew | Avistew

Moving OP's things out of their own bedroom is invalidating and demeaning. NTA.

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Movie recommendation to teach boyfriend a lesson. 😂🍿

nobracketsociety | nobracketsociety

Be understanding, but don't out him. Leave if uncomfortable. 👍

fantasticox | fantasticox

Being closeted is fine but he lied and sprang an inconvenience. 😒

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OP is NTA for not wanting to lie about relationship.

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Why is he pretending? Parents' homophobic values to blame.

Donthurlemogurlx | Donthurlemogurlx

Lesbian user shares experience of dating someone in the closet.

marcymurray15 | marcymurray15

Being kept a secret is not fun. NTA for being upset.

digi-cow | digi-cow

Partner lied for years. Can you trust him now? 🤔

the_great_zyzogg | the_great_zyzogg

Deception for 2 years is unacceptable. NTA 👏

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Choose honesty over hiding 👍❤

Goatlessly | Goatlessly

Partner lied about being out to parents, NTA for considering breakup.

superfastmomma | superfastmomma

Southern mother advocates for accepting oneself and not living a lie 👍

RoseyOnTheOtherSide | RoseyOnTheOtherSide

Insightful story about cultural differences and honesty in relationships. NTA.

not_court_ | not_court_

Being true to oneself is more important than pleasing others. 🙌🌈

Chicho77 | Chicho77

Setting boundaries and not the a-hole! 👏

lets-get-dangerous | lets-get-dangerous

Honesty is key 👍. Don't let him pressure you to play straight.

SantaPachaMama | SantaPachaMama

NTA. Your boyfriend lied and wants you to play straight 🤯

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Lying to SO's family is emotionally draining, NTA.

Ramguy2014 | Ramguy2014

Partner lied about being out and wants me to play straight.

jgcrawfo | jgcrawfo

NTA: Partner lied about being out, wants to play straight now 😕

ilovepancakes134 | ilovepancakes134

NTA: Boyfriend lied about being out, but fear of coming out is understandable.

ladylee233 | ladylee233

Being out is hard, but honesty is key in relationships. NTA.

happy-case | happy-case

NTA. You're entitled to not want to date a liar. 🙌

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Honesty is key in any relationship 💫

thrussy99 | thrussy99

Lying partner gets called out for hypocrisy and deception 😒

LjIzTheCrew | LjIzTheCrew

BF lied, but is it worth fighting over? Find a compromise 😐

shoopshoop87 | shoopshoop87

Boyfriend lied about being out and now wants you to play straight? NTA!

iwassayingboourns12 | iwassayingboourns12

Supporting the closeted partner, but outing isn't okay. 😢

Bucketbotgrrrl | Bucketbotgrrrl

🚨 He lied about being out. NTA for feeling betrayed. 🚨


Communication is key - he should have talked before moving.

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Partner lies for 2+ years about being out to family 😔

unkindlyterror | unkindlyterror

Lying boyfriend puts partner in closet, NTA for leaving 👍

emeriouss | emeriouss

Standing your ground! 💪🏼 Good for you! 🙌🏼

swimswimswimswimer | swimswimswimswimer

Standing up for LGBTQ+ rights in the face of discrimination 🌈

CallTheCode | CallTheCode

A compassionate take on forgiving a lying boyfriend. 💜

plaianu | plaianu

Lying boyfriend wants her to play straight? NTA, leave him!

iluvcats17 | iluvcats17

Coming out is hard, but lying isn't the solution. NTA.

pumpkin_marshmallow | pumpkin_marshmallow

Boyfriend lied about being out and wants me to play straight 😱

ElectricalInflation | ElectricalInflation

Trust is broken, forcing to play straight is unacceptable. #NTA

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Boyfriend lied about being out to family, NTA for reaction 👏

goomba1000 | goomba1000

Lying to GF about being out makes him an a**hole. NTA.

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A supportive father seeks advice to make his kids feel comfortable ❤️

Whyuknowthat | Whyuknowthat

Partner wants me to play straight after lying about being out 😞

Mrs_ChanandlerBong_ | Mrs_ChanandlerBong_

Boyfriend lied and wants to play straight, NTA calls out.

VSbraBlues | VSbraBlues

Hiding one's sexuality can have dire consequences 😢


Boyfriend lied about being out for years and blames partner.

LodgedSpade | LodgedSpade

NTA for wanting honesty, 2 options: forgive or dump 🤷‍♀️

angrymom284710394855 | angrymom284710394855

Compromise with empathy and communication. NTA.

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Moving in as openly gay couple, no one should be lied to

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Break up with him and be his male roommate. 🙌

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