UNBELIEVABLE: Boyfriend Demands GF Pay His Bills After Blowing Paycheck at the Bar! 🍻💸

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🚨 Buckle up, folks! We've got a juicy tale of love, money, and questionable spending habits. 💸 Meet our couple: they work together, split bills, but have VERY different approaches to managing their cash. 🤑 He's got expensive taste and a knack for blowing his paycheck, while she's the sensible saver. 😬 When he runs out of money (again) and expects her to bail him out, she puts her foot down. 🙅‍♀️ Is she an a-hole for refusing to enable his overspending? Let's dive in and find out! 🍿

💸 Money Troubles in Paradise 😬

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🏠 Splitting Bills, But Not Responsibilities 🤨

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💰 Leftover Loot: $400 vs. $240 💸

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🚨 Warning: Spend Wisely! 🚨

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🔁 Repeat Offender: Blowing Cash on Food & Drinks 🍔🍻

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🤝 Buddy's Promise: Dinner & Gas Covered 🚗

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🥴 Trashed & Uber'd Home at 4AM 🚕

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💸 $140 Down the Drain + $30 in Gas 😡

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💸 Down to His Last $40 💸

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🥪 Expensive Taste: $18 Body Wash & $15 Toothpaste 🙄

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🥪 2-3 Gourmet Sandwiches for Work 🤑

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💇‍♀️ Sister's Wedding vs. Bailing Out BF 👰

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🙅‍♀️ Putting Her Foot Down: No More Bailouts! 😤

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🤨 "I Would Do This For You" ... Really? 🤔

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🤷‍♀️ AITA for Refusing to Enable His Overspending? 🤔

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🚨 Boyfriend Blows Paycheck, Expects Girlfriend to Foot the Bill! 💸

Well, well, well... looks like we've got a classic case of 'I spent all my money, now you need to bail me out!' 🙄 Our girl warned her boyfriend not to blow his cash on a night out with the boys, but did he listen? Of course not! 🤦‍♀️ Now he's expecting her to shell out for his fancy sandwiches, $18 body wash, and $15 toothpaste. 🥪💸 The audacity! 😤 She's got her sister's wedding coming up and wants to get her hair done, but that won't happen if she keeps enabling his irresponsible spending. 💇‍♀️ So, she put her foot down and said no more bailouts! 🙅‍♀️ But wait, he says he'd do the same for her... really, though? 🤨 She's never needed his help because she's got her finances in check. 💁‍♀️ The internet has some thoughts on this one, and they're not holding back! 🍿😂

Supportive comment with a twist. Drop the deadweight 💯

red_cricket7 | red_cricket7

Dump him! He's irresponsible and won't get better soon. 👋

DarkAthena | DarkAthena

NTA commenter jokes about the exorbitant prices of the boyfriend's body wash and toothpaste, questions the nature of the mystery fines, and advises the girlfriend not to financially support his foolishness. 😂

Mr_Ham_Man80 | Mr_Ham_Man80

Don't let him guilt-trip you, stand your ground! 💪

jenneybearbozo3 | jenneybearbozo3

NTA suspects BF lied to party and demands money. 🤔

Ardeeke | Ardeeke

Get out of this toxic relationship! You deserve better! 💪

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NTA: Red flags in relationships should not be ignored 👍

Zictor42 | Zictor42

Gas prices aren't the only thing this guy is inflating. 🤦‍♀️ NTA.

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Supportive comment reminds boyfriend to make better choices. 👍

GrWr44 | GrWr44

Actions have consequences 💸🚫 But seriously, why are you with him?

IAmGettingThePig | IAmGettingThePig

Smart move! Keep your finances separate. Don't change that.

aussietex | aussietex

NTA - Boyfriend's childish behavior prompts evaluation of future together.

Babsgarcia | Babsgarcia

Good advice and a warning about financial incompatibility.

PleaseCoffeeMe | PleaseCoffeeMe

Financially incompatible. 🤔 Is it worth the fight?

shuckaladon | shuckaladon

NTA, don't be his mom, he needs to learn 🤦‍♂️

Empty_Amoeba9927 | Empty_Amoeba9927

User advises breaking up with careless boyfriend due to red flag 👍

CallDesperate6242 | CallDesperate6242

Expensive toothpaste and not the a**hole for not paying bills 💸🦷

omgtuttifrutti | omgtuttifrutti

Cost of transportation discussed in comments. 🚡

Jukkobee | Jukkobee

User questions boyfriend's financial decisions and priorities.

nursephilipina | nursephilipina

Dump the loser! 🚮 You deserve better than a leech.

Cant-think-about-it | Cant-think-about-it

NTA calls out boyfriend's antics with Dial and Spam.

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NTA, but time to break up and prioritize your financial future. 💰

capmanor1755 | capmanor1755

Don't settle for a financial leech. You deserve better 💸

puppyfarts99 | puppyfarts99

Don't buy him anything. Let him learn his lesson 👍

sohereiamacrazyalien | sohereiamacrazyalien

GF is encouraged to cut off her financially irresponsible boyfriend.

shadow-foxe | shadow-foxe

NTA suggests setting boundaries and humorous alternatives without paying.

just_curius | just_curius

Encouraging advice for navigating life and avoiding toxic situations.

JScarlott | JScarlott

Dump the deadbeat, girl! 👋💯

financiallysoundcat | financiallysoundcat

Boyfriend blew his paycheck, GF won't cover expenses. NTA.

Stranger0nReddit | Stranger0nReddit

Drop him like he drops cash 💸💔

Consistent_Ninja_235 | Consistent_Ninja_235

Boyfriend expects GF to pay his bills despite blowing paycheck 💸

binzoma | binzoma

Don't enable bad spending habits. 💵 NTA.

Kirstemis | Kirstemis

NTA - BF is abusive ❌. Look for a new roommate. 👍

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Dating a 'hobosexual'? 🤔 Long-term prospects don't look good.

SmellTheFoxglove | SmellTheFoxglove

NTA suggests not helping BF and buying from dollar store 💸

Late-Impact-9571 | Late-Impact-9571

Respect yourself and end the relationship, money issues only escalate. 💰

K33183 | K33183

Think twice before marrying a man with financial irresponsibility. 💰💔

Hawk833 | Hawk833

NTA. Boyfriend's poor spending habits don't justify his entitlement. 🤷‍♀️

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NTA GF tries to support but BF manipulates her to pay bills. 💸

MauiValleyGirl | MauiValleyGirl

Girlfriend not responsible for boyfriend's financial irresponsibility. NTA.

Careless_Mango | Careless_Mango

Leave him ASAP! 🚫 You deserve better. 👏

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Financial incompatibility can ruin relationships. NTA. 👏

mathwin_verinmathwin | mathwin_verinmathwin

NTA. You're being a real a**hole to yourself by letting him use and disrespect you. 🤯

TallCombination6 | TallCombination6

Confused commenter seeks clarification on boyfriend's bar expenses. 🤔


Don't enable his behavior. Let him fail and learn. 👍

Blonde2468 | Blonde2468

Smart move! NTA girlfriend teaches boyfriend a lesson 💪

Glitterasaur | Glitterasaur

Insightful question to consider before passing judgement. 🤔

OldPolishProverb | OldPolishProverb

Girlfriend suggests petty revenge on freeloading boyfriend. 🤪

SubRedditLurker08 | SubRedditLurker08

Friend calls out boyfriend's expensive taste and smoking habit.

varbie_96 | varbie_96

GF makes more, calls out BF for irresponsible spending. #NTA

edwadokun | edwadokun

Confused Australian questions outrageous bar tab in hilarious way.

mustlove-cats | mustlove-cats

Comparing spending habits and salaries, no judgement though 🙂

Banana_Havok | Banana_Havok

Boyfriend blows paycheck, demands GF pay bills. NTA sees through lies.

only_half_evil_333 | only_half_evil_333

NTA advises GF to reconsider relationship with financially irresponsible boyfriend.

Calm_Memories | Calm_Memories

Dump him! NTA deserves better than a childish boyfriend. 👍

lilyofthevalley2659 | lilyofthevalley2659

Humorous suggestion for basic essentials, NTA comment with no replies.

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🚩 Red flag 🚩: NTA advises discussing financial habits with BF.

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Stand your ground! Don't pay his bills and teach him responsibility! 💪

Disastrous-Put6818 | Disastrous-Put6818

Toothpaste is not an essential? 🤔 NTA wins this one.

NotShockedFruitWeird | NotShockedFruitWeird

NTA, but a job that pays a living wage is crucial 💰

UsernameTaken93456 | UsernameTaken93456

Concerned commenter questions sudden change in boyfriend's behavior.

DameofDames | DameofDames

NTA commenter offers relationship and financial advice to GF.

Sweaty_Bluebird_9181 | Sweaty_Bluebird_9181

GF stands up for herself against demanding and irresponsible boyfriend. 💪

georgiajl38 | georgiajl38

OP's boyfriend shows financial irresponsibility and takes her for granted. NTA.

tmchd | tmchd

Therapist advises to not mistake love for pity. NTA wins!

queen_azulaa | queen_azulaa

Don't let someone take advantage of your kindness. 👍

Academic-Composer926 | Academic-Composer926

Dump him! You deserve better than a manipulative, irresponsible boyfriend. 💥

The-Moocat | The-Moocat

GF refuses to pay BF's bills and calls him out. NTA 💯

Caliesehi | Caliesehi

Establishing ground rules is crucial for a healthy relationship 👭

ConsitutionalHistory | ConsitutionalHistory

A penny-pinching solution to a lazy boyfriend. 👍

IzzzatSo | IzzzatSo

Avoid financial incompatibility: NTA chooses to end relationship.

WhoSc3w3dDaP00ch | WhoSc3w3dDaP00ch

Dump him! 🚮 Not worth your time or money. 💸

LivSaJo | LivSaJo

NTA suggests petty revenge against BF for blowing paycheck 👍

WhatsWr0ngWithPe0ple | WhatsWr0ngWithPe0ple

NTA, but it's time to leave this man 👋🏼

mindkill91 | mindkill91

Dump the loser before he drains your wallet too. 💯

Unable_Sympathy_9433 | Unable_Sympathy_9433

NTA: 🚹🍺💸 Boyfriend blew paycheck at bar, wants GF to pay bills

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Don't sacrifice your savings for his recklessness. 💵👍

breakingthebig | breakingthebig

Run! 💨 NTA advises to leave boyfriend with bad money management.

Icy-Dream5794 | Icy-Dream5794

NTA sticks to boundaries with financially irresponsible boyfriend. 💸

SweetxMuff1n | SweetxMuff1n

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