Daughter's BOLD Move Leaves Mom in Tears: 'You Excluded Me!' 😢

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🎓 Graduating early and starting college is a huge milestone, but for this 18-year-old, the journey has been far from smooth sailing. 😔 Living with her mom, stepdad, and half-siblings, she's faced constant exclusion from her stepdad's family. From being left out of holiday gatherings to being forgotten on Mother's Day, the hurt runs deep. 💔 Now, as she embarks on her college adventure, a decision to move in without her mom has sparked a family drama that has her questioning if she's the a-hole in this situation. 🤔 Buckle up, because this story is a rollercoaster of emotions! 🎢

🎓 Graduating Early and Starting College! 🎉

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👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Living with Mom, Stepdad, and Siblings

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😔 Feeling Excluded by Stepdad's Family

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🍽️ Holidays: A Seat at the Table, But No Inclusion

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👶 New Siblings, Same Old Exclusion

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🚗 Left Behind on "Family Outings"

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💔 The Mother's Day Locket Incident

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😢 Mom's Silence Spoke Volumes

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📦 Packing Up and Moving Out

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👨‍👧 Dad to the Rescue on Move-In Day

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😠 Mom's Reaction: Hurt and Upset

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🗣️ Calling Out Mom's Hypocrisy

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😕 Second Thoughts: Am I the A-hole?

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ℹ️ Additional Info: Attempts to Address Exclusion

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📅 Move-In Date Mentioned, But Forgotten

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🎓 College Move-In Day Drama: Did I Go Too Far? 😢

After years of feeling excluded by her stepdad's family, this 18-year-old took matters into her own hands and moved into her college dorm without telling her mom. 🚗💨 While her dad was there to support her, her mom was left hurt and upset by the decision. 😔 The young woman felt justified at first, given the years of exclusion she'd faced, but now she's starting to wonder if she went too far. 😕 Did she have the right to exclude her mom from this big moment, or should she have risen above the past hurt? 🤔 The internet is about to weigh in on this family drama, and it's sure to be a wild ride! 🎢 Get ready for some hot takes, because this story is sparking all kinds of emotions! 😳🔥

Mom fails to be there for her child, daughter stands up. 👏

Inallea | Inallea

Mom's selective parenting gets called out by daughter. #NTA 👏

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Supportive comment encourages finding chosen family ❤️

Ok-Macaron-6211 | Ok-Macaron-6211

Moving day drama! Commenter supports daughter's bold move. 🎉

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Mom's exclusion backfires, commenter cheers for daughter's success 👏

SassyfacedKitten | SassyfacedKitten

Ex-college advisor empathizes with daughter, encourages forming new family bonds. 🙌

Fantastic_Nebula_835 | Fantastic_Nebula_835

Honesty is the best policy. 🤝

CarrieCat62 | CarrieCat62

Mom's late realization not OP's guilt to carry 🙏

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Supportive mom shares similar experience, encourages OP to lean on dad.

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Empathetic comment encourages conversation and reconciliation. 🙏

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Daughter stands up for herself against uninvolved mother. 🙏

Sea-Confection-2627 | Sea-Confection-2627

Mom's neglectful behavior backfires. Daughter not responsible for her growth. 👍

hetanos | hetanos

Mother prioritizes stepfather and deserves low contact/no contact. NTA.

Old_Mintie | Old_Mintie

Did the mom neglect or was it miscommunication? Counseling recommended. 🙏

One_Woodpecker7328 | One_Woodpecker7328

Daughter stands up to mom's exclusion and wins. 💪

Munchkins_nDragons | Munchkins_nDragons

Don't suffer in silence. Communication is key in any relationship.

liselov | liselov

Set boundaries, don't let toxic family ruin your milestones. 🙏

HairTop23 | HairTop23

Neglected child stands up to mom, internet cheers. 👏

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Neglected daughter stands up to emotional neglectful mother. 🙌

emm_summer | emm_summer

Mom chose her husband's family over her own kid. NTA.

SkrillaSavinMama | SkrillaSavinMama

NTA. You took the high road and behaved rationally 👏

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Supportive comment applauds daughter for standing up for herself. 👏

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Daughter stands up to exclusionary mom, gets validation from others.

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Neglected mom stands up to daughter, gets support from commenters ✊

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Supportive comment acknowledges mom's tough situation and offers empathy.

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Daughter excluded mom, can't demand milestone events. NTA. 🙌

JCWa50 | JCWa50

Moving day is a huge emotional deal, and you nailed it! 👏

MariContrary | MariContrary

Sympathy for daughter excluded from mother's new family 😢

Mansegate | Mansegate

Moving out for college, NTA. Take a break and enjoy! 🎓

PleaseCoffeeMe | PleaseCoffeeMe

Inclusive NTA response to family exclusion 🙌

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Putting a dick before your own child? NTA wins!

Ok_Jaguar1601 | Ok_Jaguar1601

Congrats on the bold move! NTA needed to hear it 👏

bokatan778 | bokatan778

Daughter stands up to absentee mom, internet cheers. 👏

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Empathetic comment offers perspective and hope for reconciliation 🙏

Team_Captain_America | Team_Captain_America

Mom's emotional neglect? NTA says she's not responsible for her mom's sadness. 😢

giantbrownguy | giantbrownguy

Mom's neglectful behavior exposed: Daughter's NTA move leaves impact. 😢

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Adult child stands up to neglectful parent. You go!

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Daughter confronts mom for failing to protect her, sends wake-up call 😢

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Setting boundaries with family: sometimes necessary for self-care. 🙏

ThatsItImOverThis | ThatsItImOverThis

Setting boundaries with family can be tough, but necessary. 🙏 NTA.

hard_tyrant_dinosaur | hard_tyrant_dinosaur

Mom chooses partner over daughter, gets upset when daughter distances.

solitarybydesign | solitarybydesign

Sibling support after mom's exclusion. NTA wins hearts 👏

Special8043 | Special8043

"NTA. Ryan treated you like crap, and your mom enabled it." 👏

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You stood up for yourself 💪, don't let them bring you down 🙅‍♀️

redtaildrummer | redtaildrummer

Enjoy campus life and don't let her guilt or gaslight you 😊

eyore5775 | eyore5775

Daughter stands up to mom's exclusion, internet agrees: NTA 👏

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Mom's exclusion led to daughter's college decision. NTA 💯

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Daughter's heartbreakingly honest response to being excluded by mom. 💔

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Supportive comment for excluded daughter, good riddance to ex.

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Empathetic reply asserts NTA and encourages self-reflection. 👍

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NTA, glad your dad supported you after your mom's hurtful actions 🙏

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Supportive comment calls out mother's behavior, earns NTA judgment. 👏

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Standing up to neglectful mother and stepfather. NTA 👏

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Supportive comment validates daughter's actions, acknowledges family dynamics. 👏

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Excluded daughter seeks therapy after mom's favoritism. NTA.

Androstarr | Androstarr

Daughter stands up to mom who excluded her, NTA 👏

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Daughter's wedding creates tension between mother and child. NTA.

Moonydog55 | Moonydog55

Heartfelt support for OP, encouraging to find true family. ❤

targaryenmegan | targaryenmegan

OP's mom's behavior called out, support given. NTA! 👏

RoyIbex | RoyIbex

Empathetic comment supports OP's decision to exclude toxic family member.

HiddenDestiny251 | HiddenDestiny251

Mom's exclusion justified? NTA says she deserves none. 😒

Creatureteacher86150 | Creatureteacher86150

Mother chose her boyfriend over daughter and now regrets it. 😢

nickis84 | nickis84

Passionate comment defending daughter's actions against neglectful mother. 💪

VehicleAltruistic236 | VehicleAltruistic236

Finding family beyond blood ties 💕

chocolatedoc3 | chocolatedoc3

Rebreaking the bone: A necessary step towards healing. 💪🏼

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Supportive comment: You're NTA and don't need to fix your mom's hurt feelings 🙌

morgenmuffelin | morgenmuffelin

Invest in people who love and care for you 👍

Ok-Physics7878 | Ok-Physics7878

Step-grandparents favoring bio grandkids prompts NTA response and family cut-off.

holypooitsame | holypooitsame

Daughter's heartwarming question brings mom to tears. NtA.

Tazdude24 | Tazdude24

Setting boundaries with a difficult parent. Good for you! 💯

gia_sesshoumaru | gia_sesshoumaru

Empowering comment encourages setting healthy boundaries with family. 💪

RSkritt | RSkritt

Empowering comment. Stand up for yourself and your feelings. NTA 💪

Expensive-Network-93 | Expensive-Network-93

Mom chooses man over daughter: commenters side with daughter 👏

ArmChairDetective38 | ArmChairDetective38

Speaking your truth can be difficult but liberating. 👏

BatDance3121 | BatDance3121

Daughter stands up to mom's exclusion, receives support from dad. ✊

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