Woman Refuses to Defend Cheating Ex Accused of Misconduct - Job & Reputation on the Line! 😱

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Buckle up, folks! 🍿 We've got a juicy story of a nasty divorce, a crazy stalker, and a man begging his ex-wife to save his a**! 😱 After 20 years of marriage, this woman's hubby cheated with not one, not two, but THREE coworkers! 🙈 Now, years later, he's facing some serious accusations and wants his ex to vouch for his character. 🙏 Should she help the man who broke her heart? 💔 Let's dive in and find out! 👀

💔 A Nasty Divorce After 20 Years of Marriage 😢

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🙅‍♂️ Our Son Doesn't Talk to His Cheating Father Anymore

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👶 Ex and New Wife Expecting Their First Child Together

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😱 Scary Stalker Sends Threatening Messages

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🤪 Ex Claims Woman Went 'Batsh*t Crazy' Over Unrequited Love

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📱 Ex Showed Me Her Messages, I Believed His Story

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⏰ Flashback: This All Happened 8 Years Ago

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🔥 Ex Burned Bridges, Lost Friends After Company Lawsuit

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🙏 Ex Begs for My Help, Wants Me to Vouch for His Character

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⚖️ My Testimony Could Make or Break His Case

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🤐 Ex Wants Me to Call Him a 'Good Man', Mention Stalking

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🙅‍♀️ I Refused to Get Involved in His Mess

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🤷‍♀️ We're Divorced for a Reason, I Don't Know If He's Innocent

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🙈 I Don't Know This Man at All, Want to Remove Myself From His Issues

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😡 Ex Calls Me 'Horrible', Says I'm Punishing His Unborn Child

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🚨 Ex-Hubby's Desperate Plea: AITA for Refusing to Defend Him? 😬

Well, well, well... looks like this woman's cheating ex is in quite the pickle! 🥒 Years after their nasty divorce, he's facing serious misconduct allegations and wants her to swoop in and save the day. 🦸‍♀️ But here's the thing: she doesn't even know if he's innocent! 🤷‍♀️ Plus, they're divorced for a reason, and she wants nothing to do with his mess. 🙅‍♀️ Now, he's guilt-tripping her, saying she's punishing his unborn child. 😢 Talk about a sticky situation! 😬 Let's see what the internet has to say about this juicy drama! 🍿👀

Ex accuses woman of misconduct, she refuses to defend him. NTA 👍

Technobliss77 | Technobliss77

Standing up for honesty and integrity, even in difficult situations. 💪

Iamthelube | Iamthelube

Standing up against cheating ex, job & reputation saved! 💯

a-base | a-base

Ex accused of misconduct, woman refuses to defend cheating ex. NTA 👏

knitmyproblem | knitmyproblem

Ex cheated with 3 coworkers, accused of misconduct. NTA.

DaiZzedandConFuZed | DaiZzedandConFuZed

NTA. Comment suggests considering the evidence and lawyers' involvement 🤔

bridewiththeowls | bridewiththeowls

Ex's lawyer may subpoena woman despite NTA response 🤔

MelkorHimself | MelkorHimself

Ex-husband is a s**thead, but stalkers are bad. ESH.

DonrajSaryas | DonrajSaryas

Divorced woman advises to stick to facts while avoiding personal feelings 🤔

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Don't lie for your cheating ex-husband, but tell the truth.

chop1125 | chop1125

Ex cheated and accused of misconduct, no defense from ex-girlfriend.

Gwendolynftw | Gwendolynftw

You owe him absolutely nothing 💁‍♀️

lemonnleaf | lemonnleaf

Ex burned too many bridges, reaped what he sowed 👍

Kittytigris | Kittytigris

Ex's cheating and lying behavior would make his misconduct clear. NTA 👍

Ukulele__Lady | Ukulele__Lady

User argues YTA for not providing relevant information to police.

Mischief_Makers | Mischief_Makers

NTA suggests ex may have slept with accuser, raises doubts.


Ex accused of misconduct with multiple mistresses. Woman not defending.

flipityflopityfukoff | flipityflopityfukoff

Standing up against a manipulative narcissist ex 👏

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Questioning the ex's innocence and credibility, NTA.

RX-18-67 | RX-18-67

Ex's lack of character witnesses speaks volumes. NTA.

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NTA. Don't defend a cheating ex accused of misconduct 😒

SlapCracklePlop | SlapCracklePlop

NTA refuses to defend cheating ex accused of misconduct 😱

Dogismygod | Dogismygod

No obligation to defend cheating ex, honesty is the best policy 👍

devedander | devedander

Ex tries to use ex-girlfriend as character witness, gets denied. 😂

ElizabethIsabelle | ElizabethIsabelle

Ex accuses woman of being crazy after alleged misconduct

she-tempest | she-tempest

Ex accused of misconduct, woman refuses to defend him. NTA 👍

jaywinner | jaywinner

Ex-husband's actions cost him friends and reputation. NTA.

marigoldfroggy | marigoldfroggy

Ex-wife advises not to lie in court for cheating ex. NTA 😊

MyBroPoohBear | MyBroPoohBear

Ex cheated multiple times, NTA for not defending him. 👍

RudyRoo2017 | RudyRoo2017

Ex's misconduct puts woman in tough spot, but she's NTA 👍

turningmyluckaround | turningmyluckaround

Ex cheated, lost job, and reputation. NTA for not defending him.

NeuronFirer | NeuronFirer

NTA advises to stay away from the blackmailing shitshow 💯

ValkyrieEternal | ValkyrieEternal

No responsibility to cheating ex accused of misconduct. NTA 👏

here_4_cat_memes | here_4_cat_memes

Ex's manipulative behavior and predatory actions exposed. NTA 👏👏

nononanana | nononanana

Honesty is the best policy when forced to be a witness 👍

lizzietnz | lizzietnz

Refusing testimony could ruin potentially innocent man's life. 🤷‍♀️

sdric | sdric

Don't defend a cheating ex accused of misconduct. NTA. 🤩

AKABeast18 | AKABeast18

Woman refuses to defend cheating ex, advises honesty. NTA 👍

mabshier812 | mabshier812

Ex accused of misconduct, woman has evidence but refuses to defend. YTA

cocoagiant | cocoagiant

Ex cheated, accused of misconduct & wants help? NTA, ignore him

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Ex cheated and accused of misconduct. NTA for not lying.

imabanddork | imabanddork

Don't defend your ex's misconduct, testify truthfully if needed. 💯

oneyaebyonty | oneyaebyonty

Speculation about husband's infidelity and blackmail. NTA.

KaijuAlert | KaijuAlert

Getting revenge on a cheating ex accused of misconduct 😈💰

ElenaBad | ElenaBad

No sympathy for cheating ex, empathy for innocent victims. NTA 👏

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Refusing to defend a cheating ex is not being the a**hole 😍

TheGreatNyanHobo | TheGreatNyanHobo

Standing up against a cheater, job at stake. #NTA

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Refusing to defend cheating ex accused of misconduct 🙌

cyberllama | cyberllama

Defending a cheating ex? NTA, you have the right to refuse.

ForTheMeatEaters | ForTheMeatEaters

Ex's misconduct, not her problem. NTA for not defending him

grimeybrat4004 | grimeybrat4004

Ex cheated, accused of misconduct, wants defense; commenter says NTA 👍

TwistOfLime900 | TwistOfLime900

Documenting ex's demands can save OP's job and reputation! 😊

Ragingredblue | Ragingredblue

No obligation to defend cheating ex? NTA, say Redditors. 👍

coffee_sleep_repeat | coffee_sleep_repeat

Breaking up with a cheating ex is a win-win situation! 👏

Linfraz | Linfraz

Believe him, he's shown his true colors 😒

ElvisQuinn | ElvisQuinn

NTA - 'He made his bed, now has to lie in it'. 😂

starri_ski3 | starri_ski3

Don't let your cheating ex dictate your moral compass 🙌

mentalgopher | mentalgopher

Ex accused of misconduct, NTA refuses to defend cheating ex 😱

left_tenant | left_tenant

Cheating ex accused of misconduct, NTA refuses to defend. 😱

ThE_LaDy_LoTuS_ | ThE_LaDy_LoTuS_

Spouse refuses to defend ex's misconduct in court. Savage AF 😎

And_A_Fortitude_Save | And_A_Fortitude_Save

Ex's cheating with co-workers raises suspicion of his behavior. NTA.

mamachonk | mamachonk

Ex-spouse as character witness: YTA or NTA?

Throwaway73310009 | Throwaway73310009

Don't perjure yourself for a cheating ex 😱 You're NTA!

dwightsteel | dwightsteel

Moving on, not her responsibility. NTA 👏

whita309 | whita309

NTA refuses to defend cheating ex accused of misconduct.

katlady1961a | katlady1961a

Ex's affair history exposed in court after stalking incident testimony 🤔

Jenh66 | Jenh66

Supporting facts is fair, lying about character is not. 🙅

Ravenclaw79 | Ravenclaw79

Standing up to ex's misconduct accusation without testifying. 👏

Minalexiss | Minalexiss

Ex accuses woman of punishing unborn child, defends cheating. NTA.

notastepfordwife | notastepfordwife

Ex accused of misconduct, defending him won't save your job! 🤷‍♀️

More-Like-Psitta4Me | More-Like-Psitta4Me

Standing up against a cheating ex accused of misconduct. 💪

Queenrb92 | Queenrb92

Ex cheats, gets accused of misconduct, and expects help? Nope, NTA.

winterbird | winterbird

No obligation to defend cheating ex, possible narcissist. NTA 👍

historyguru1776 | historyguru1776

Ex accused of misconduct, but NTA won't defend him. Nemesis?

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Standing up to a cheating ex and not responsible for him 🙅‍♀️

celinecritch | celinecritch

Choosing not to defend ex's character amidst misconduct accusations.

IsThisRealLife201520 | IsThisRealLife201520

Cheating ex accused of misconduct, woman refuses to defend. NTA 👏

drfuzzysocks | drfuzzysocks

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