They Called Her a "Bastard Child"...Now They Want to Be PROUD?! 😠

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Buckle up, folks! 🚨 We've got a doozy of a family drama for you today. 👨‍👩‍👧 Meet our protagonist, an 18-year-old girl who's been dealt a tough hand in life. 🃏 Born to teenage parents who couldn't stand each other, she's been labeled the "bastard child" by her dad's appearance-obsessed family. 😢 But wait, there's a glimmer of hope! 🌟 Her papa, the only one who ever treated her like family, was her rock... until he passed away a year ago. 💔 Now, she's facing a court-mandated visit with the fam, and things are about to get HEATED! 🔥🍿

🍼 The Bastard Child: Born to Teenage Parents 😢

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👨‍👩‍👧 Dad's Family: All About Appearances 🙄

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👴🏻 Papa to the Rescue: The Only One Who Cared ❤️

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🇺🇸 Papa's Legacy: A True Hero 🙌

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🚒 Cherished Memories at the Fire Station 🔥

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👨‍👩‍👦 Court-Mandated Visit: Praising the Cousin 🙄

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🎓 My Plans: Joining the Army for College 💪

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😲 Suddenly Proud: Following in Their Footsteps? 🤨

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🤬 Losing It: Take Your Pride and Shove It! 😠

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😤 Setting the Record Straight: I Don't Care About Your Opinion 💁‍♀️

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😢 The Only Opinion That Mattered: Papa's 💔

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🗣️ My Own Opinion: Formed by 18 Years of Favoritism 😒

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🤔 Conflicting Opinions: Mom vs. Friends 🗳️

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📜 Custody Agreement: Visitations Until Graduation 🎓

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👴🏻 Papa's Wisdom: Telling Dad to Man Up 🙍‍♂️

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😱 Plot Twist: Bastard Child Joins Army, Tells Dad's Family to F--k Off! 🖕

During a court-mandated visit, our protagonist drops a bombshell: she's joining the Army to pay for college! 💣 Suddenly, her dad's military-obsessed family is all proud and excited. 😲 But our girl isn't having it! 😤 She calls them out for 18 years of neglect and favoritism, telling them to shove their pride where the sun don't shine. ☀️ Grandma starts crying, 😢 dad plays the "your mom poisoned you against us" card, 🙄 but our heroine stands her ground. 💪 She's forming her own opinions, thank you very much! 💁‍♀️ Now, the internet is divided: was she justified in her epic clapback, or did she let the past cloud her judgment? 🤔 Let's see what the masses have to say about this juicy family feud! 🍿🗳️

Not the a**hole for not following in their footsteps! 🙌

Haiboiss | Haiboiss

Navigating family loyalty and personal values after mistreatment. 🤔

SimplyBewildered | SimplyBewildered

Love wins, not marital status. ❤️

Bluellan | Bluellan

Why stick around if you hate them? Wise advice given. 🙌

graywisteria | graywisteria

Family's devaluation followed by self-praise, NTA stands clear 😠

lorealitti | lorealitti

18 years too late for them to play the caring family.

DivineTarot | DivineTarot

Family can't pick and choose when you're family 👬

improblytheasshole | improblytheasshole

A fellow bastard child empathizes and celebrates chosen family ❤️👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

synesthesiah | synesthesiah

Grandfather only cared about 'his name' on law firm. NTA 👏

Laelia16 | Laelia16

User is angry at parents who now want to be proud.

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Don't stoop to their level 👍, keep your integrity and walk away 🙌

Ineedavodka2019 | Ineedavodka2019

Excluded by family, now they want a piece? #NTA 😠

katbutdislikescats | katbutdislikescats

Live for yourself and be proud. Others' opinions are irrelevant! 🙌

plawwell | plawwell

Unconditional love shouldn't come with strings attached. 💜

yikezbikes | yikezbikes

Navy member wishes OP luck in building 'issued family', NTA 🙌

Shieby1234 | Shieby1234

Curiosity on why grandparents helped despite being embarrassed of her.

annoyedbyeveryone | annoyedbyeveryone

A heartwarming comment on being proud of your role model ❤️

cridhebriste | cridhebriste

NTA adult child questions custody, seeks legal advice 😎

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One person's love can mean the world ❤️

Kmia55 | Kmia55

Forgiveness is hard when basic kindness was never given 💔

adotfree | adotfree

Breaking free at 18! NTA 🙌

Eletal | Eletal

NTA shuts down absent father in scathing comment. 💯

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Judging someone by their past, NTA calls it out 🙌

lantech | lantech

Cutting off family for only taking interest in success. 👍

jlpulice | jlpulice

Cutting toxic family ties 🚫👋

Henniferlopez87 | Henniferlopez87

Standing up against hypocrites and making your Papa proud 👏

starwarschick16 | starwarschick16

Owning your feelings and shutting down family nonsense 👏

ruthmbx | ruthmbx

Family dismissed OP's feelings, now upset OP expressed them. NTA 👍

area51suicidalfunrun | area51suicidalfunrun

Southern image standards are messed up; good for calling them out 💯

Doobledorf | Doobledorf

Southern pride in military service boosts family reputation 😎

amasmartbot | amasmartbot

NTA. You do your time, get your degree(s), and live your life like a badass. Go forth and kick ass, my dude.

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NTA shuts down outdated stigma on children born outside marriage 😊

lissapond | lissapond

Questioning the legality of court-mandated visits 👀

drdrillaz | drdrillaz

Why force an 18yo to visit their father? 🤔

pottymouthpup | pottymouthpup

Family only accepting her success after treating her like an outcast? 😠

Annekker | Annekker

NTA (leaning towards ESH) - Family's selective acceptance is unacceptable. 😔

UsekoPai | UsekoPai

Building a relationship after years of neglect takes effort 👍

veastt | veastt

Toxic family only acknowledges achievements, NTA for joining Army 👊

CheshyreCat46 | CheshyreCat46

Cutting toxic family ties and finding strength. 💪

Nolan_101 | Nolan_101

Family's approval means nothing when they were never there for you. 😠

TiredSoul97 | TiredSoul97

Standing up to family takes courage, NTA for doing so 👏

rouge_fang | rouge_fang

Proud of being a 'bastard' child. It's not your fault.

mjfsuperstar92 | mjfsuperstar92

Family's callousness towards her past justifies OP's outburst. NTA 👏

CoupGlow | CoupGlow

Strangers unite in support of NTA against hurtful comments 👏

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You're an adult, do what you want! 💪

Damien__ | Damien__

NTA, mandatory visits not valid after 18, decision is yours 😊

taway425698 | taway425698

Stand up for yourself and close the door in their faces 👊

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NTA. Heartbreaking situation with unsupportive ex's family. Wish you well 💖

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Cut toxic family out and take credit for your hard work! 💪

Millie_Meth | Millie_Meth

Late to the party and no apology? Not buying it. 🙄

mama_llama44 | mama_llama44

Legal advice for visitation rights. NTA for not going.

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Growing up as a 'bastard child' is tough, but staying strong pays off. 🙌

External-Razzmatazz | External-Razzmatazz

Absent father and enabling grandmother get called out. 💪

AlmicarTheBoar | AlmicarTheBoar

Taking credit for someone else's achievements? Not cool. 😑

JustPlainSari | JustPlainSari

NTA calls out absentee parents, refuses reconciliation. 👏

snozberrywineat17 | snozberrywineat17

NTA shares their story of being the black sheep. Know your worth 👏


"Proud" or "impressed"? NTA's favorite band has spoken. 🎶

taketwotheyresmall | taketwotheyresmall

Breaking free from toxic family is liberating. You deserve better.

theONLYbadguy | theONLYbadguy

NTA comment exposes family's hypocrisy and fake pride 😠

redestpanda | redestpanda

Stand up for yourself like a boss! You're NTA 💪

EDJardin | EDJardin

Strangers are proud of you when your own friends aren't 🙌

SpuddleBuns | SpuddleBuns

Families can be complicated 🤪 NTA takes control.

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Growing up with a distant father is tough. 💔

Moon-on-my-mind | Moon-on-my-mind

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