🌟 Get ready for a wild ride, folks! 🎢 Meet our fierce protagonist, a 28-year-old big sis who's got her hands full with her 19-year-old little sis, Noel. 👭 But here's the twist: Noel's got a genetic condition that makes her stand out from the crowd, and not always in a good way. 😢 Big Sis is determined to protect her lil sis at all costs, even if it means putting potential boyfriends through the wringer! 🕵️♀️ But when one guy calls her out on her "interrogation tactics," she's left wondering: is she being an a-hole, or just a kick-a** sister? 🤔 Buckle up, 'cause this story's about to get bumpy! 🎢
She DUMPED Him After His VILE 'Jokes' About Her Disabled Sister 😡 Now She Vets EVERY Guy!
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🌟 Meet the Dynamic Duo: Big Sis & Lil Sis! 👭
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😢 Noel's Struggle: Sensitive About Her Condition
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🏙️ Cramped City Living: Making It Work Together! 🤗
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🍽️ Dinner Disaster: Meeting the Ex-BF Gone Wrong! 😱
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🚫 Ignoring the Pleas: Ex-BF Crosses the Line! 😡
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💔 Instant Breakup: Sis Comes First! 👊
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😤 Ex-BF's Tantrum: Too Bad, So Sad! 🤷♀️
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🙏 Noel's Gratitude: Appreciating Big Sis's Support 💕
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❓ The Dating Quiz: Vetting Potential BFs 🕵️♀️
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🤔 The Questions: Are You Ready for This Duo? 👭
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🚫 No Luck: Guys Fail to Make the Cut 😕
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💑 Valentine's Day Drama: New BF Calls Me Out! 😲
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😡 New BF's Outburst: Am I an A-hole? 🤬
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🤷♀️ Brushing It Off: Another One Bites the Dust! 💨
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🤔 AITA? Protecting Lil Sis at All Costs! 🛡️
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😱 Big Sis vs. Bad Boyfriends: The Ultimate Showdown! 🥊
Well, well, well... looks like our Big Sis is in quite the pickle! 🥒 After a disastrous dinner with an ex-BF who couldn't keep his mouth shut about Noel's condition, she's been putting potential suitors through a rigorous "sister test" before they even step foot in her apartment. 🏠 But when her latest Valentine's Day date calls her out on her "interrogation tactics," she's left wondering if she's being an overprotective a-hole or just a fierce mama bear. 🐻 The internet's got some thoughts on this one, and they're not holding back! 🗣️ Let's see what kind of spicy takes they've got in store for our conflicted protagonist. 🌶️ Grab your popcorn, 'cause this comment section's about to get wild! 🍿
Be careful not to come off as aggressive when vetting dates 🤔
FloodAndFire | FloodAndFire
Engaging in early conversations about package deals can be overbearing 😬
ks_789 | ks_789
Engaging with dates: Heads up vs. Quizzing 🤔
stateofgrace17 | stateofgrace17
Be gentle and give a heads up about your disabled sister 👥
Opening-Lecture | Opening-Lecture
YTA: Commenter criticizes OP's approach in vetting guys for insensitivity.
ResurgentRS | ResurgentRS
Don't lay it on too thick when vetting dates! YTA.
marheena | marheena
Balancing assertiveness while vetting partners for sister with disability. 🙂
Tak_Jaehon | Tak_Jaehon
🤔 Commenter questions OP's approach to dating with sister's disability.
CatalinaChang | CatalinaChang
Get a friend's opinion before grilling potential partners 🤔
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Suggests showing pics of sister to judge reaction, not 'quizzing'.
philmcruch | philmcruch
Being a supportive sibling and asking important questions upfront 👍
ilovepancakes134 | ilovepancakes134
Navigating the dating game with a disabled sibling. 👨🏽🧭 Communication is key.
DinosaursOvrEvrythng | DinosaursOvrEvrythng
Asking for a transcript of the interview. Reasonable or aggressive?
fakeaccount113 | fakeaccount113
User advises being cautious with vetting due to past experiences 💔
mdisomwnaje | mdisomwnaje
Curious commenter asks about how she vets potential partners 👀
slidesguy | slidesguy
Being responsible for disabled sibling, it's fair to vet partners 👍
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Communication is key when vetting potential partners, not aggression. 👍
bpines | bpines
Explaining rather than interrogating would be better. YTA.
BobLoblaw24601 | BobLoblaw24601
Approach with caution but don't grill them - good sibling move 😊
darkprincess98 | darkprincess98
Be protective of your sister but don't scare away potential partners. 😊
missplaced24 | missplaced24
Don't let one bad experience ruin your dating life 👍
Possibly_naked | Possibly_naked
Protecting her sister comes first. NTA for vetting dates. 👍
atseasheiscalm | atseasheiscalm
Wait until relationship established to mention disabled sister deal breaker 💔
Fearonika | Fearonika
Caring for sister doesn't make you miserable 😊 Give new guys a chance 👍
mikeyj198 | mikeyj198
User suggests OP might be too aggressive with vetting guys 👀
jackie0h_ | jackie0h_
Kindly approach the subject and avoid extreme vetting. 🙏
Cloudinterpreter | Cloudinterpreter
Setting boundaries without being too intense on dates. NAH.
RexPluribus | RexPluribus
User calls out OP for being too harsh on potential partners.
JoeJoegamR | JoeJoegamR
Vetting guys aggressively - a red flag or necessary precaution?
Nerfixion | Nerfixion
Questioning guys for cruelty to family shows poor taste 🙄
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"Package deal" or deal breaker? YTA comment sparks debate.
TatianaAlena | TatianaAlena
Look for a kind and compassionate soul, not just red flags. 💗
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User calls out OP for aggressive behavior during dates 💔
Ocean_Spice | Ocean_Spice
User accuses commenter of being the a-hole for prioritizing sister
ThatOneHumanThing | ThatOneHumanThing
Being protective of sister, but overly aggressive. YTA for that •
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A commenter advises on dating dealbreakers and communication skills. 👍
clbrownn | clbrownn
Sharing information about a disabled sister while getting to know someone.
mommak2011 | mommak2011
Giving NTA but advising to reconsider the test and package deal.
Iridium_Pumpkin | Iridium_Pumpkin
User questions poster's criteria for vetting guys and suggests not being too aggressive.
ElBatDood | ElBatDood
Balancing sister's needs and dating prospects: how much is too much?
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Asking the tough questions: How to vet potential partners 🤔
smellygymbag | smellygymbag
Dating should be casual, but awareness and mindfulness are important. 👍
efiality | efiality
Curious commenter questions quiz and guy's reaction to vetting process.
Emi_Ibarazakiii | Emi_Ibarazakiii
Protecting family always comes first 💚
RawrRRitchie | RawrRRitchie
Mixed reactions on whether commenter is NTA or TA.
cross-eye-bear | cross-eye-bear
Balancing protecting sister with not scaring off potential partners 😐
bubblegrubs | bubblegrubs
Engaging in grilling is not the best way to vet guys 😒
gemininature | gemininature
Being cautious is important but don't assume everyone's an a**hole 😉
HELLFIRECHRIS | HELLFIRECHRIS
Protective but aggressive sister receives feedback on vetting approach.
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A guy asks for vetting questions to see compassion in partners 💕
_Volly | _Volly
Discussing a 'package deal' too soon? NTA's dilemma. 🤔
gdubh | gdubh
Dating someone with a disabled sibling can be tricky. 💔
mrmaskfawkes | mrmaskfawkes
Being honest about protecting your sister can scare potential dates.
mermicide | mermicide
Casually introducing her sister as roommate with a heads up 🤫
awkwardly_competent | awkwardly_competent
Dodged a bullet or not? NTA gets a not-so-nice response 😬
CJsopinion | CJsopinion
Prioritizing sister: YTA, but interrogating partners: NAH 🤔
GloeSticc | GloeSticc
Prepping a date for a special needs sibling 🙌 #NTA
LotBuilder | LotBuilder
Balancing respect for family with not being too intense. 😬
Clickclacktheblueguy | Clickclacktheblueguy
Asking about a partner's disabled sibling: how to approach? 🤔
HELJ4 | HELJ4
NTA for standing up for your sister but YTA for misleading dates. Be honest about her condition and past experiences 👍
jilly_is_funderful | jilly_is_funderful
User calls out OP's behavior and lack of self-awareness.
lifeiscooliguess | lifeiscooliguess
Communication is key in relationships, not tests 👍
WatInTheForest | WatInTheForest
Casual dating ultimatums: YTA, but some guy will pass eventually. 😊
Margot-hates-me | Margot-hates-me
Protecting family comes first 💖
thesnapening | thesnapening
Honesty is the best policy in relationships ❤️
Certifiably_Quirky | Certifiably_Quirky
Accepting a partner's conditions is key to a healthy relationship ❤️
xXMissJXx | xXMissJXx
Advice to be more tactful when vetting dates for disabled sister.
DelsinMcgrath835 | DelsinMcgrath835
Defending her actions, commenter calls out ex-boyfriend's emotional intelligence.
WinterLily86 | WinterLily86
Looking out for sister is okay, but men may see red flags 🤔
TravisCM2010-24 | TravisCM2010-24
Being upfront about vetting partners is a smart move 💪
Hippygma | Hippygma
Maybe it's time to look at the guys who didn't make it 🤔
your_moms_a_clone | your_moms_a_clone
Being upfront about family issues while dating is important. 🤝
gi_j0e | gi_j0e
Vetting guys is important but don't scare off good ones 😬
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Protecting her disabled sister and setting boundaries. 🙌
showercowcap | showercowcap
A thoughtful response on how to handle introducing a disabled sibling 🙏
dameggers | dameggers
Setting boundaries versus quizzing guys: the debate continues. 🤔
about2godown | about2godown
Exploring possible communication issues with dating and sister's disability. 🤔
njx6 | njx6
Don't let one bad apple spoil the bunch 🍎🙅♂️
Dad_pancakes | Dad_pancakes
