Ungrateful Friend Wants FREE Fun, Skips Out When Organizer Delivers! 🙄😡

Diply Social Team
Diply | Diply

🤔 Organizing a social group can be a tricky balancing act, especially when trying to accommodate everyone's budgets and preferences! 💸 As the fearless leader of this fun-loving crew, I've tried my best to plan a variety of activities that'll keep everyone entertained and engaged. 🎉 But when one member started constantly reminding me to schedule "FREE" events for those on a tight budget, things got a little... complicated. 😅 Buckle up, because this story's about to take you on a wild ride of penny-pinching, not-so-free fun, and a whole lot of drama! 🎢

🤝 The Organizer's Dilemma: Balancing Fun and Finances! 💸

greenturtle36 | greenturtle36

🍕 From Eating Out to Potlucks: The Variety of Group Activities! 🎳

greenturtle36 | greenturtle36

💰 The Penny-Pinching Participant: A Plea for Free Fun! 🆓

greenturtle36 | greenturtle36

😤 The Organizer's Patience Wears Thin: Constant Reminders for Free Fun! 🗣️

greenturtle36 | greenturtle36

🌾 Farmer's Market Fiasco: Is Window Shopping Really Free? 🤔

greenturtle36 | greenturtle36

🚲 The Bike Ride Blunder: To Pizza or Not to Pizza? 🍕

greenturtle36 | greenturtle36

🥵 The Hot Climate Conundrum: No Refreshments, No Riders! ❄️

greenturtle36 | greenturtle36

🥘 The Potluck Predicament: Not Quite Free After All! 💸

greenturtle36 | greenturtle36

😠 The Organizer's Breaking Point: 50 Million Reminders Too Many! 🗣️

greenturtle36 | greenturtle36

🌳 The Picnic in the Park: A Not-So-Free Fiasco! 🧺

greenturtle36 | greenturtle36

💸 The Organizer's Investment: Grill and Chill, But at What Cost? 🍖

greenturtle36 | greenturtle36

😕 The Penny-Pincher's Perspective: TMI on the Organizer's Expenses? 💰

greenturtle36 | greenturtle36

🤷 AITA for Scheduling Not-Quite-Free Activities? 🆓

greenturtle36 | greenturtle36

💸 AITA for Revealing the True Cost of "Free" Fun? 🤐

greenturtle36 | greenturtle36

🌟 The Great Debate: Is the Organizer an A-Hole for Revealing the True Cost of "Free" Fun? 🤔

Well, well, well... it seems like our intrepid organizer has found themselves in quite the pickle! 🥒 On one hand, they've gone above and beyond to plan activities that could be free for the budget-conscious member, only to have her bail because they weren't 100% cost-free. 😒 On the other hand, the organizer may have crossed a line by revealing just how much these "free" events were costing them personally. 💸 The internet is buzzing with opinions on this one, so let's dive in and see what the masses have to say about this not-so-free fiasco! 🌐 Is the organizer an a-hole for trying to accommodate everyone's needs, or should the penny-pinching participant be more appreciative of the efforts made? 🤔 The drama is real, and the stakes are high! 😱 Get ready for some hot takes and hilarious commentary as we explore this social group showdown! 🔥

Turn the tables on entitled friend with some responsibility 🤔

airazaneo | airazaneo

Translation: 'I want a handout' 🤑 Just block and move on

[deleted] | [deleted]

Cut the ungrateful friend out of the group. 👍 NTA

tippytappy04 | tippytappy04

Friend skips free events, can't complain about financial investment. NTA 👍

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA. Organizing fun activities is hard enough without ungrateful friends 🙄

HenriettaHiggins | HenriettaHiggins

Volunteer organizer not obligated to satisfy one ungrateful member. 🙄

greenturtle36 | greenturtle36

Putting in effort for free fun but dealing with a choosy beggar 😡

KaliTheBlaze | KaliTheBlaze

Tips for finding free museum days with crowds noted 🌍

StraightAd7930 | StraightAd7930

Reasonable effort made, time for ungrateful friend to contribute 😊

SaltywithaTwist | SaltywithaTwist

Organizing social events can be draining, and entitlement doesn't help. NTA.

Emessick | Emessick

Discussing poverty and moochers in group outings, seeking solutions.

Then_Scallion_1902 | Then_Scallion_1902

Supportive comment defends organizer against entitled friend's demands. 👏

fallingfaster345 | fallingfaster345

Friend wants free fun but not free for everyone, NTA.

StruckeyHasLoxed | StruckeyHasLoxed

The pain of window shopping and missing out on fun.

cornerlane | cornerlane

Create your own group or find one that suits you! 👍

fakingandnotmakingit | fakingandnotmakingit

Friend complains about cost but won't skip pizza, NTA.

dragonkittypanda | dragonkittypanda

Organizing events can be tough, but unsolicited advice is tougher 🤔

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA claps back at ungrateful friend who skips free events.

raesayshey | raesayshey

Suggest free activities and shut down self-entitled attitude. 👍

No-Net8938 | No-Net8938

Beware of the takers who play the pity party 🤨

SnooSketches63 | SnooSketches63

User argues that friend was faking poverty and was just a difficult vegan 🤔

greenturtle36 | greenturtle36

You owe her nothing. She hasn't offered to help.

Cryptomnesias | Cryptomnesias

Cut the negativity, let her find her own group 👍

[deleted] | [deleted]

Don't let her ruin the fun! Keep doing what you enjoy 🙌

ContentedRecluse | ContentedRecluse

Potluck paradox: friend wants free meal but not for all. NTA.

Laraisbored | Laraisbored

Organizing events is tough, but a farmers market isn't free 🤷‍♀️. Some free ideas listed 👍

nathashanails | nathashanails

Friend complains about free activities, skips out on planned events. NTA.

rapt2right | rapt2right

Generous organizer deals with ungrateful friend 🙄😡

PurpleJager | PurpleJager

Potlucks aren't free. NTA for not hosting entitled friend.

Marzipan_civil | Marzipan_civil

Suggesting friend to start her own group, not the a-hole. 👍

dogmatx61 | dogmatx61

Suggesting friend plan free activities to put issue to rest 👍

Suchafatfatcat | Suchafatfatcat

Start your own group for free fun activities! NTA 👍

Reasonable_racoon | Reasonable_racoon

NTA skips buying anything to meet people, reasonable!

FixinThePlanet | FixinThePlanet

Group leader refuses to pay for friend's fun activities. 💰

RunOnGasoline_ | RunOnGasoline_

Share the planning duties and start with Ms. "I want everything for free". 🤷‍♀️

Responsible_Post_388 | Responsible_Post_388

Suggesting to put the complaining member in charge 🤔

Leading-Knowledge712 | Leading-Knowledge712

Friend wants free fun, but didn't show up. NTA.

mynameisnotsparta | mynameisnotsparta

Organize paid events, let friend handle free ones. NTA.

thatweirdthingwhat | thatweirdthingwhat

Drama-loving member complains, but OP is NTA 😊

Jaded-Permission-324 | Jaded-Permission-324

Complaining friend refuses to be part of solution 🙁

No-Persimmon7729 | No-Persimmon7729

Step up or shut up: NTA offers free fun options. 😎

General_Ad_4971 | General_Ad_4971

Suggests potluck but doesn't host? NTA calls her out 😎

JustKaren13 | JustKaren13

Organizing events can be tough when people want freebies 😕

amalgamas | amalgamas

Organizer is justified in not wanting to plan for friend.

Miss_Bobbiedoll | Miss_Bobbiedoll

Struggling with poverty can be paralyzing, but reality bites 😔

Chavante83 | Chavante83

Organizing group activities is hard work. NTA for setting boundaries.

TXRedheadOverlord | TXRedheadOverlord

An entitled friend ruins group fun, leading to group exodus.

Diesel07012012 | Diesel07012012

Blunt but professional response shuts down entitled friend's demands.

NopeRope777 | NopeRope777

Being broke doesn't excuse being ungrateful. NTA takes charge.

Any-Low283 | Any-Low283

Friend wants free fun, but won't organize. NTA wins.

SheiB123 | SheiB123

Organizing free events is tough, ignore complainers & invite helpers 👍

Legitimate-Tower-523 | Legitimate-Tower-523

Budget for social activities or stay home and Reddit for free

Longjumping_Wish6803 | Longjumping_Wish6803

Friend expects free fun and no effort, kick her out! 👍

JCBashBash | JCBashBash

Suggests finding another group or starting her own. NTA.

OhioGirl22 | OhioGirl22

Single mom saves for days to attend events, not the a-hole 💪

Mirbugs | Mirbugs

Setting boundaries with ungrateful friend 🙌🏻

ChameleonMami | ChameleonMami

Ungrateful friend causing extra work. She's NTA.

cheezitapplepie | cheezitapplepie

Organizer being too nice to ungrateful friend who skips events

ThereWentMySandwich | ThereWentMySandwich

Choosing to join a group and then complaining? NTA has spoken 👏

sosada1 | sosada1

Don't let ungrateful friends take advantage of your kindness. NTA!

SaraAmis | SaraAmis

Organizer not obligated to provide free fun. NTA 👍

AshdoesArtandAmi | AshdoesArtandAmi

Setting up free events for ungrateful friends? NTA, obviously.

Minimalist_Butterfly | Minimalist_Butterfly

Running a meetup group is not Walmart. Focus on group activities.

Ecofre-33919 | Ecofre-33919

Politely setting boundaries and letting friend plan her own activities. 👍

Worth-Season3645 | Worth-Season3645

Keep organizing events and tell her to come up with ideas 👍

Maximoose-777 | Maximoose-777

Supportive comment on meetup group, no conflict or drama.

vanastalem | vanastalem

Free fun rejected? NTA kicks ungrateful friend from group! 🙄

[deleted] | [deleted]

Being on a tight budget != taking advantage of others 👍

Known-Share5483 | Known-Share5483

When is it time to kick out a problematic friend? 🤔

stiletto929 | stiletto929

How to deal with a freeloading friend? Tips inside! 😊

glynndah | glynndah

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