🔥 Buckle up, folks! We've got a juicy tale of family drama, favoritism, and a rebellious little sis who's found herself in quite the pickle! 😱 Our protagonist, the ever-responsible big sis, is caught between a rock and a hard place. 🪨 Should she take in her troubled sibling, or stick to her guns and prioritize her own mental health? 🤔 It's a classic case of tough love vs. family loyalty, and we're here for the ride! 🎢
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Well, well, well... looks like our big sis is in quite the conundrum! 🤯 Her little sis has really gone and done it this time - getting knocked up, testing positive for HIV, and burning bridges left and right! 🔥 Now, the family is in shambles, and big sis is left to pick up the pieces. 😩 Should she take in her wayward sibling, or stand her ground and prioritize her own well-being? 🤔 It's a classic case of tough love vs. family loyalty, and the internet has some thoughts! 💭 Let's dive into the juiciest responses and see what pearls of wisdom the online community has to offer! 🍿
Suggestion to seek therapy for anger towards family's differing treatment.
kucky94 | kucky94
Favoritism in families can be hurtful. NTA for setting boundaries.
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Sister stands up for sibling disowned by parents. 👏
DaiZzedandConFuZed | DaiZzedandConFuZed
Sibling conflict over disowned sister with HIV needing help 😖
getstrongandlean | getstrongandlean
Fighting stigma: Commenter calls out family for disowning HIV+ daughter.
rcmjnbnoe | rcmjnbnoe
Sibling advice on dealing with parents and HIV-positive sister. 👥
Chikinuqqet | Chikinuqqet
Blood isn't always thicker than water. NTA for distancing.
Zoe-the-snekkkk | Zoe-the-snekkkk
Confused readers seek relevance of fuzzy spiders in comment.
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Don't take her in, or she'll do to you what she did to your parents. 😳
tumbleweedLC | tumbleweedLC
Sister leans towards NTA, but needs to support HIV positive sibling 🙏
AyenDrkwing | AyenDrkwing
Navigating family expectations and resentment in a tough situation. 🙏
[deleted] | [deleted]
Not the a-hole for not wanting to take in someone without job/rent.
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Compassionate commenter offers advice for HIV-positive sister's care. NTA.
Whimsical_Mara | Whimsical_Mara
Rejecting her for having HIV is wrong. Stigmatizing tone noted. 👏
jogam | jogam
Families should support, not shun. HIV is not a moral failure. ☹
dragonsnap | dragonsnap
Choosing self-care over toxic family relationships. 👍
kayfeif | kayfeif
Mom blames older child and excuses bad parenting. NTA.
FireEbonyashes | FireEbonyashes
Deflecting resentment onto vulnerable sister with HIV during pandemic 😳
[deleted] | [deleted]
Balancing family support and personal boundaries 👥
ultradip | ultradip
Parental discrimination due to HIV causes family rift. Sister's perspective.
unsafeideas | unsafeideas
Reject actions, not medical health. Don't judge for others' actions. 🙏
MyFaceSaysItsSugar | MyFaceSaysItsSugar
Sister not responsible for HIV+ sister's poor choices. 🙏
MandeeLess | MandeeLess
Sister defends OP's decision to not take responsibility. 🤝
KaijuAlert | KaijuAlert
Sister's anger towards her HIV positive sister stems from childhood trauma.
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Prioritize your mental health and seek therapy to work through.
ItsaJello | ItsaJello
Sister punished for parents' actions - ESH but sister 🤷♀️
Leo_BigSad | Leo_BigSad
Not your responsibility, don't let them make it your problem 👍
poopsiedaisie | poopsiedaisie
Empathetic commenter suggests family intervention for struggling sister. 😢
eboseki | eboseki
Sibling struggles with decision to help HIV+ sister with bad life decisions. 💔
AncientCupcakeFever | AncientCupcakeFever
NTA for building your own life and not being encumbered. 👏
[deleted] | [deleted]
Sister's past behavior could affect judgment on disownment. 🤔
Schlem22 | Schlem22
HIV diagnosis during pregnancy, sister's disownment, and family drama. 😳
LoveBulge | LoveBulge
Family disowns daughter with HIV, sister not responsible for her.
ninja_talli | ninja_talli
Sister stands up for herself and calls out toxic family culture 💪
Age_of_the_Penguin | Age_of_the_Penguin
Sibling offers NTA judgment and recommends therapy for frustration.
mintyycosplay | mintyycosplay
Fuzzy spiders or a parasitic sister? NTA prioritizes own wellbeing. 💋
LibraryLuLu | LibraryLuLu
Supportive comment on family disowning daughter, encouraging independence and self-care ⭐
Hanxa13 | Hanxa13
Encouraging response to sister's refusal to change 👍
ZacheriahThomas | ZacheriahThomas
Sister supports disowned HIV-positive sibling in NTA comment 👏
Monkey_Face93 | Monkey_Face93
Compassionate yet firm NTA advice for helping struggling sister 🙏
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A heartwarming comment on OP's maturity and positive cultural influence ❤️
highunicorns | highunicorns
When a comment takes an unexpected turn 🤨
Bugsy0508 | Bugsy0508
Blood doesn't equal family, but offer resources for help. NTA.
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NTA. Don't punish sister for parents' mistakes. Consider boundaries and therapy. 👍
strnbll | strnbll
Rejecting for behavior, not HIV status. NTA 👍
AHairlessChicken | AHairlessChicken
Compassion urged for HIV-positive daughter disowned by family 😢
robertjohn014 | robertjohn014
Sister's failure leads to disownment. She's the a**hole, right? 🤔
kepz3 | kepz3
NAH. Commenter empathizes with the situation and encourages therapy.
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Sage advice to seek professional help instead of Reddit comments.
Pro-Masturbator | Pro-Masturbator
Stand your ground and set boundaries, NTA. 💪
Savethedance | Savethedance
Overcoming resentment towards sister after family disowns for HIV. 👍
Whisky-In-Teacup | Whisky-In-Teacup
Including your roommate in household decisions is crucial. NTA.
fallen_star_2319 | fallen_star_2319
Sister's good intentions may lead to financial burnout 🤔
SquirmyBurrito | SquirmyBurrito
Sibling taking advantage of kindness, needs to learn responsibility. NTA
KayskolA | KayskolA
Don't let them eat you up alive. Stand your ground. 💪 #NTA
svnnybvn | svnnybvn
Compassionate comment urges help for homeless HIV-positive minor with child.
bunkbedgirl1989 | bunkbedgirl1989
NTA but shaming your sister for HIV is disgusting 😭
Dredge917 | Dredge917
Navigating favoritism and strict Asian parenting as a sister, and the difficulty of supporting a pregnant sister disowned for HIV. 💔
SeaBlubber | SeaBlubber
Support your sister, don't ostracize her. YTA, sadly.
kcalb89lem | kcalb89lem
Stand your ground. Don't let their bigotry affect your life. 💪
Laughorcryliveordie | Laughorcryliveordie
Overbearing parents and entitled sister leave HIV+ daughter homeless. ESH.
thelastseven | thelastseven
Cutting off toxic family members for self-preservation 🤪
AndrewWaldron | AndrewWaldron
Can't handle her in your house? You'll be uncomfortable forever. 🤔
firefox994 | firefox994
Pressure to be the responsible daughter, but prioritize yourself first. NTA 👏
Cute-Video | Cute-Video
Be true to yourself, not to toxic family expectations. ✨
younghungwon88 | younghungwon88
Sister and commenter agree parents need to step up parenting game 👍
phdoofus | phdoofus
NTA and sister's entitlement is not your burden to bear 👏
batosaur17 | batosaur17
Sibling stands up for family member's right to choose support. 💪
superfunnyredditname | superfunnyredditname
Taking in sister with HIV and baby? NTA says commenter.
randomperson20001 | randomperson20001
NTA commenter suggests parents are dumping financial burden on sibling.
DanerysTargaryen | DanerysTargaryen
Parents gave her leeway, not your responsibility. 🙏
lonedog30 | lonedog30
Struggling with Asian family dynamics, but NTA for setting boundaries. 🙏
Momorara | Momorara
Sister not responsible for HIV+ sibling. NTA 👍
RedFawn00 | RedFawn00
Offering empathy and practical steps to help sister and self.
Clove | Clove