Family DISOWNS Daughter for HIV - Sister's Reaction? 😳

Diply Social Team
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🔥 Buckle up, folks! We've got a juicy tale of family drama, favoritism, and a rebellious little sis who's found herself in quite the pickle! 😱 Our protagonist, the ever-responsible big sis, is caught between a rock and a hard place. 🪨 Should she take in her troubled sibling, or stick to her guns and prioritize her own mental health? 🤔 It's a classic case of tough love vs. family loyalty, and we're here for the ride! 🎢

🧪 The Test-Trial Child 👧

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👑 The Favored Princess 👸

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🎉 Rebellious Teen Years 🍺

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😠 Angry Asian Parents 👨‍👩‍👧

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🎓 Graduation Betrayal 🙅‍♀️

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🏃‍♀️ Escaping the Toxicity 🧘‍♀️

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💔 The Straw That Broke the Camelbacks 🐪

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🕷️ Fuzzy Spiders Excuse 🕸️

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💰 Valuing Money Over Family 💸

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🛋️ Sleeping on a Friend's Couch 😴

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😢 Memories of Favoritism 😞

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🕷️ Fuzzy Spider Roommate Advice 🕸️

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🤔 AITA for Rejecting My Sister? 🙋‍♀️

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🙏 Thank You for Your Thoughts 🤗

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👭 Distant Sisters 💔

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🕷️ Mystery Fuzzy Spiders 🕸️

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💔 Loving Her as Family, Not as a Person 👩‍👩‍👧

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😩 Tired of Being the Caretaker 😴

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👵 Aunt Caught in the Middle 👨‍👩‍👧

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🤷‍♀️ No Plan to Help 😕

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😞 Realizing the Hate Within 💔

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👧 What Big Sisters Are For 👶

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😱 Family Feud: Big Sis vs. Little Sis! 👭

Well, well, well... looks like our big sis is in quite the conundrum! 🤯 Her little sis has really gone and done it this time - getting knocked up, testing positive for HIV, and burning bridges left and right! 🔥 Now, the family is in shambles, and big sis is left to pick up the pieces. 😩 Should she take in her wayward sibling, or stand her ground and prioritize her own well-being? 🤔 It's a classic case of tough love vs. family loyalty, and the internet has some thoughts! 💭 Let's dive into the juiciest responses and see what pearls of wisdom the online community has to offer! 🍿

Suggestion to seek therapy for anger towards family's differing treatment.

kucky94 | kucky94

Favoritism in families can be hurtful. NTA for setting boundaries.

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Sister stands up for sibling disowned by parents. 👏

DaiZzedandConFuZed | DaiZzedandConFuZed

Sibling conflict over disowned sister with HIV needing help 😖

getstrongandlean | getstrongandlean

Fighting stigma: Commenter calls out family for disowning HIV+ daughter.

rcmjnbnoe | rcmjnbnoe

Sibling advice on dealing with parents and HIV-positive sister. 👥

Chikinuqqet | Chikinuqqet

Blood isn't always thicker than water. NTA for distancing.

Zoe-the-snekkkk | Zoe-the-snekkkk

Confused readers seek relevance of fuzzy spiders in comment.

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Don't take her in, or she'll do to you what she did to your parents. 😳

tumbleweedLC | tumbleweedLC

Sister leans towards NTA, but needs to support HIV positive sibling 🙏

AyenDrkwing | AyenDrkwing

Navigating family expectations and resentment in a tough situation. 🙏

[deleted] | [deleted]

Not the a-hole for not wanting to take in someone without job/rent.

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Compassionate commenter offers advice for HIV-positive sister's care. NTA.

Whimsical_Mara | Whimsical_Mara

Rejecting her for having HIV is wrong. Stigmatizing tone noted. 👏

jogam | jogam

Families should support, not shun. HIV is not a moral failure. ☹

dragonsnap | dragonsnap

Choosing self-care over toxic family relationships. 👍

kayfeif | kayfeif

Mom blames older child and excuses bad parenting. NTA.

FireEbonyashes | FireEbonyashes

Deflecting resentment onto vulnerable sister with HIV during pandemic 😳

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Balancing family support and personal boundaries 👥

ultradip | ultradip

Parental discrimination due to HIV causes family rift. Sister's perspective.

unsafeideas | unsafeideas

Reject actions, not medical health. Don't judge for others' actions. 🙏

MyFaceSaysItsSugar | MyFaceSaysItsSugar

Sister not responsible for HIV+ sister's poor choices. 🙏

MandeeLess | MandeeLess

Sister defends OP's decision to not take responsibility. 🤝

KaijuAlert | KaijuAlert

Sister's anger towards her HIV positive sister stems from childhood trauma.

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Prioritize your mental health and seek therapy to work through.

ItsaJello | ItsaJello

Sister punished for parents' actions - ESH but sister 🤷‍♀️

Leo_BigSad | Leo_BigSad

Not your responsibility, don't let them make it your problem 👍

poopsiedaisie | poopsiedaisie

Empathetic commenter suggests family intervention for struggling sister. 😢

eboseki | eboseki

Sibling struggles with decision to help HIV+ sister with bad life decisions. 💔

AncientCupcakeFever | AncientCupcakeFever

NTA for building your own life and not being encumbered. 👏

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Sister's past behavior could affect judgment on disownment. 🤔

Schlem22 | Schlem22

HIV diagnosis during pregnancy, sister's disownment, and family drama. 😳

LoveBulge | LoveBulge

Family disowns daughter with HIV, sister not responsible for her.

ninja_talli | ninja_talli

Sister stands up for herself and calls out toxic family culture 💪

Age_of_the_Penguin | Age_of_the_Penguin

Sibling offers NTA judgment and recommends therapy for frustration.

mintyycosplay | mintyycosplay

Fuzzy spiders or a parasitic sister? NTA prioritizes own wellbeing. 💋

LibraryLuLu | LibraryLuLu

Supportive comment on family disowning daughter, encouraging independence and self-care ⭐

Hanxa13 | Hanxa13

Encouraging response to sister's refusal to change 👍

ZacheriahThomas | ZacheriahThomas

Sister supports disowned HIV-positive sibling in NTA comment 👏

Monkey_Face93 | Monkey_Face93

Compassionate yet firm NTA advice for helping struggling sister 🙏

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A heartwarming comment on OP's maturity and positive cultural influence ❤️

highunicorns | highunicorns

When a comment takes an unexpected turn 🤨

Bugsy0508 | Bugsy0508

Blood doesn't equal family, but offer resources for help. NTA.

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NTA. Don't punish sister for parents' mistakes. Consider boundaries and therapy. 👍

strnbll | strnbll

Rejecting for behavior, not HIV status. NTA 👍

AHairlessChicken | AHairlessChicken

Compassion urged for HIV-positive daughter disowned by family 😢

robertjohn014 | robertjohn014

Sister's failure leads to disownment. She's the a**hole, right? 🤔

kepz3 | kepz3

NAH. Commenter empathizes with the situation and encourages therapy.

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Sage advice to seek professional help instead of Reddit comments.

Pro-Masturbator | Pro-Masturbator

Stand your ground and set boundaries, NTA. 💪

Savethedance | Savethedance

Overcoming resentment towards sister after family disowns for HIV. 👍

Whisky-In-Teacup | Whisky-In-Teacup

Including your roommate in household decisions is crucial. NTA.

fallen_star_2319 | fallen_star_2319

Sister's good intentions may lead to financial burnout 🤔

SquirmyBurrito | SquirmyBurrito

Sibling taking advantage of kindness, needs to learn responsibility. NTA

KayskolA | KayskolA

Don't let them eat you up alive. Stand your ground. 💪 #NTA

svnnybvn | svnnybvn

Compassionate comment urges help for homeless HIV-positive minor with child.

bunkbedgirl1989 | bunkbedgirl1989

NTA but shaming your sister for HIV is disgusting 😭

Dredge917 | Dredge917

Navigating favoritism and strict Asian parenting as a sister, and the difficulty of supporting a pregnant sister disowned for HIV. 💔

SeaBlubber | SeaBlubber

Support your sister, don't ostracize her. YTA, sadly.

kcalb89lem | kcalb89lem

Stand your ground. Don't let their bigotry affect your life. 💪

Laughorcryliveordie | Laughorcryliveordie

Overbearing parents and entitled sister leave HIV+ daughter homeless. ESH.

thelastseven | thelastseven

Cutting off toxic family members for self-preservation 🤪

AndrewWaldron | AndrewWaldron

Can't handle her in your house? You'll be uncomfortable forever. 🤔

firefox994 | firefox994

Pressure to be the responsible daughter, but prioritize yourself first. NTA 👏

Cute-Video | Cute-Video

Be true to yourself, not to toxic family expectations. ✨

younghungwon88 | younghungwon88

Sister and commenter agree parents need to step up parenting game 👍

phdoofus | phdoofus

NTA and sister's entitlement is not your burden to bear 👏

batosaur17 | batosaur17

Sibling stands up for family member's right to choose support. 💪

superfunnyredditname | superfunnyredditname

Taking in sister with HIV and baby? NTA says commenter.

randomperson20001 | randomperson20001

NTA commenter suggests parents are dumping financial burden on sibling.

DanerysTargaryen | DanerysTargaryen

Parents gave her leeway, not your responsibility. 🙏

lonedog30 | lonedog30

Struggling with Asian family dynamics, but NTA for setting boundaries. 🙏

Momorara | Momorara

Sister not responsible for HIV+ sibling. NTA 👍

RedFawn00 | RedFawn00

Offering empathy and practical steps to help sister and self.

Clove | Clove

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