Wedding DISASTER! Family DEMANDS Singer Perform Without Asking! 🎤😠

Diply Social Team
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🎤 Buckle up, folks, because we've got a wedding drama that'll make you want to sing the blues! 😱 Our semi-pro singer was invited to a family wedding, but little did she know, they had a surprise in store for her... 🎵 The groom's family assumed she'd perform without even asking! 😲 No performance gear, no band, and not even a haircut since the plague hit! 💇‍♀️ Is she being a diva for refusing, or are the in-laws way out of tune? 🤔 Let's dive into this melodrama and find out! 🍿

🎤 Surprise! You're Singing at Our Wedding! 😱

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🎵 Semi-Pro Singer, Not a Wedding Performer 🙅‍♀️

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🎁 Singing as a Gift, Not a Given 🎂

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🙅‍♀️ It's Not Rude to Refuse 🎤

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💍 Surprise at the Wedding Hotel 😲

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🎸 Entire Agenda Set Without My Knowledge 😡

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👪 His Damn Family, Not Mine! 😤

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👗 No Performance Gear, No Haircut 💇‍♀️

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🤬 Rude and Inconsiderate Assumptions 😠

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🎷 My Band, My Backbone 🥁

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🙅‍♀️ I've Told Them No 🚫

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✅ I Feel Like I'm Being Fair 👍

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🍽️ No Food for the Singer? 😠

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😡 Family Drama Ensues 🔥

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🤷‍♀️ Am I Really the A-hole? 🤔

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🎤 Singer Refuses Surprise Wedding Performance, Family Drama Ensues! 🔥

Our semi-pro singer found herself in a wedding nightmare when her SO's family assumed she'd perform without even asking! 😱 No gear, no band, and not even a haircut since the plague hit! 💇‍♀️ She put her foot down and refused, causing major family drama. 🔥 Some say she's tearing the family apart, others think she's being fair. 🤷‍♀️ The internet has some strong opinions on this one, so let's see what they have to say! 🍿 Get ready for some juicy comments that'll have you hitting those high notes! 🎵

NTA; Don't assume someone will perform just because they're famous. 😍

Briarrose1021 | Briarrose1021

Stand your ground politely, singing is professional. NTA 🎉

dlogos13 | dlogos13

Sing on snowy Thursdays in July, not on demand. NTA 🎶

Cevanne45 | Cevanne45

Singer not asked to perform at wedding, husband should handle it 🙌

nister0 | nister0

Unreal demands and no respect for OP's boundaries. 😡

AbjectPoetry9 | AbjectPoetry9

Entitled family demands singer perform at wedding without invitation. NTA.

XxQueenOfSwordsXx | XxQueenOfSwordsXx

Don't give in to entitled demands! Stand your ground 💪

shawshawthepanda | shawshawthepanda

The entitlement towards creative people is a well-known trope 🎻

I-am-the-trashcan | I-am-the-trashcan

Entitled family demands performance without asking. NTA for refusing.

BriaKhalifa | BriaKhalifa

Unpaid wedding singer treated like a commodity. Definitely NTA.

Sdub4 | Sdub4

Don't fall for their trap, you're NTA in this mess 👍

PhilRiverStreet180 | PhilRiverStreet180

NTA and complimented on writing skills 👍

iaincaradoc | iaincaradoc

Performing without consent? NTA, skip the wedding 🚫

teresajs | teresajs

Wedding singers deserve respect and payment for their services. NTA.

ADawg28 | ADawg28

Set the record straight and stand your ground, NTA 🎤🙅‍♂️

capn_flume | capn_flume

Professional singer shares advice on standing your ground at weddings. 🎤

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NTA. Good idea to share tips on working with musicians.

101Geese | 101Geese

Sarcastic response to entitled family's demand for free service 😂

Eve-3 | Eve-3

Don't undervalue musicians. Respect their time and skill. 💪🎶

slpinaus | slpinaus

Singer not TA, deserves apology for disrespectful family behavior. 🎤

mealteamsixty | mealteamsixty

Family assumes singer will perform without asking, NTA response.

Kinlance | Kinlance

Language barrier not an issue, NTA comment supported.

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Standing up for yourself doesn't always happen smoothly. 🤯

Dull-Community | Dull-Community

Demanding last-minute performance without food? Not the a-hole! 👏

artemis-cellaneous | artemis-cellaneous

Unreasonable family demands last minute performance. OP is NTA 😑

RebelScientist | RebelScientist

Booking a band for a wedding requires advance payment. #NTA

Whenitrainsitpours86 | Whenitrainsitpours86

NTA! Friends try to exploit singer at wedding. Outrageous and selfish.

OneTwoWee000 | OneTwoWee000

Comparing a forced performance to free teeth-cleanings. NTA wins.

InevitableZombie6 | InevitableZombie6

Singer refuses to perform at entitled family's wedding for free.

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Family expects free performance without even offering food? NTA 😍

purplestarsinthesky | purplestarsinthesky

Wedding guest not at fault, but may have overreacted. 😕

rdeincognito | rdeincognito

Language tip for non-native speakers - avoid ambiguous pronouns 📝

testingtestngtesting | testingtestngtesting

Demanding family pulls disrespectful stunt, commenter calls them out 🔥

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Husband should handle demanding cousins. Can't wait for update! 😊

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Guests assuming a singer is to perform without asking? A**holes. 😠

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Don't go! Their rudeness is astronomical 😱 NTA

dreadedwheat | dreadedwheat

Freelance singer explains the importance of setting standards for performances. 💁🎤

kipsterdude | kipsterdude

Demanding a singer to perform without asking? NTA, basic manners!

Sakawatchi | Sakawatchi

NTA for not performing. Don't let them walk over you 💪

kzintech | kzintech

Singer sets out conditions for entitled family. 😎

sunny_in_phila | sunny_in_phila

Standing up against entitled family trying to exploit performer. NTA! 💯

N0_Soliciting | N0_Soliciting

Don't let them bully you into performing at the wedding! 🙏

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Family demands singer, but OP's SO gets the backlash. ESH. 🤷🏼‍♀️

froggyforest | froggyforest

NTA but family tried to manipulate you into performing for free 😠

Tots795 | Tots795

NTA! Entitled family demands free performance without feeding you. 😡

CrocodileHyena | CrocodileHyena

NTA and not obligated to perform at a family member's wedding. 🎤

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Unpaid, unappreciated, and un-fed singer is not the a**hole. NTA 🍕

BillHader2247 | BillHader2247

Musician defends singer against entitled family's unreasonable request. 🎶

tobje | tobje

NTA. Rejecting unreasonable request to perform at a wedding for free. 🙌

Captain_Quoll | Captain_Quoll

Unfair to invite someone to work without offering hospitality 🙅🏻

boudicadabitch | boudicadabitch

NTA suggests a hilarious solution for a demanding family 😂

Theocat77 | Theocat77

Singer stands their ground against entitled family. 💪

37MySunshine37 | 37MySunshine37

Professional musician defends singer against crazy family demands. 🎶

keys752 | keys752

Last-minute singer demands? NTA explains preparation isn't magic. 🤔

As_It_Was_Foretold | As_It_Was_Foretold

NTA! Pack and go home right now 😠👏

Servantofbosco | Servantofbosco

No harm, no foul. NTA comment brings clarity 👍

draconaisev | draconaisev

Don't let them guilt-trip you. Stand your ground. NTA 👏

momochips23 | momochips23

NTA defends against demanding family's wedding singer request 👏

carlocarlow | carlocarlow

Ridiculous demand for free entertainment at wedding. 🤭

RoseGoldHopes | RoseGoldHopes

Husband's family cray, commenter's NTA response obvious 😍

adyring | adyring

Don't feel bad for saying no! You're NTA 👏

FolkySpice | FolkySpice

Family demands singer perform without asking: NTA, they're selfish jerks 😠

Tara_Themis | Tara_Themis

Toxic family demanding free performance? Definitely NTA! 🙌

oopsy-daisy6837 | oopsy-daisy6837

Singer shares experience of being asked to work for free at weddings. NTA.

BrizzelBass | BrizzelBass

No free gigs without consent. Enjoy the chaos. NTA 😎

LRose1825 | LRose1825

Professional singer supports OP against entitled family. Disgusting behavior. 😡

Bellatrix_ed | Bellatrix_ed

Unpaid wedding singer treated unfairly, NTA for refusing.

cocoagiant | cocoagiant

Preparation time is key, family should understand. 🎶

MonkeyHamlet | MonkeyHamlet

Wedding disaster! Commenter supports singer who refused to perform spontaneously 🙏

ebwoods1 | ebwoods1

Uninvited performer deserves fair compensation. NTA! 🎶💸

cariboulou813 | cariboulou813

Last-minute performance demand at a wedding? NTA for refusing! 🙌

adventuresinnonsense | adventuresinnonsense

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