Fed Up GF Takes DRASTIC Action After BF Uses Pricey Present to 'Manipulate' Her 😠

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🙋‍♀️ Hey there, Facebook fam! Get ready for a wild ride because I've got a doozy of a story for you today! 😱 Picture this: a young woman, working her butt off to pursue her dreams of getting a Masters degree. 🎓 Her loving boyfriend of 4 years decides to surprise her with an extravagant Christmas gift - a top-of-the-line computer! 💻 Sounds like a fairytale, right? Well, buckle up, because this gift comes with some serious strings attached! 😬 Let's dive into this juicy tale and see how it all unfolds! 🍿

🎓 Pursuing My Dreams, But at What Cost? 💸

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🙇‍♀️ Struggling to Make Ends Meet 😢

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🎁 An Unexpected Gift... With Strings Attached? 🤔

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💻 The Most Expensive Present Ever! 😲

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💍 Jewelry vs. Computer: Apples and Oranges? 🍎🍊

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💸 The Gift That Keeps on Taking 😒

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🙅‍♀️ Saying No to His Demands 😤

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😡 Enough is Enough! 🛑

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💻 The Computer Conundrum: To Sell or Not to Sell? 🤷‍♀️

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😠 He Said, She Said: The Big Argument 🗣️

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💻 Sold! The Ultimate Power Move 💪

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😡 Furious Boyfriend, Relieved Girlfriend 😌

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🎁 The Gift That Became a Burden: A Shocking Twist! 😲

Well, well, well... who would've thought that a seemingly perfect Christmas present could turn into such a nightmare? 😱 Our determined protagonist found herself in a sticky situation when her boyfriend started using the expensive computer as leverage to get what he wanted. 💸 Talk about a gift with strings attached! 🎁🪢 Despite her best efforts to reason with him, the boyfriend just wouldn't let up. 🙅‍♂️ So, in a bold move, our heroine decided to take matters into her own hands and sell the computer, replacing it with a more affordable option. 💻 But here's the kicker: she gave most of the money back to her boyfriend! 💰 Needless to say, he was not thrilled with this turn of events. 😠 Now, the question on everyone's mind is... was she in the right, or did she take things too far? 🤔 Let's see what the internet has to say about this wild situation! 👀

Red flags flying - NTA sees control issues in BF 😠

MsBaseball34 | MsBaseball34

Red flag alert! Older BF manipulates with gifts. NTA.

popebologna | popebologna

No gift is worth being manipulated over 🎁❌

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NTA. Beware of early red flags and controlling partners. Stay safe 🙏

LillytheFurkid | LillytheFurkid

Generous gift or manipulation tactic? NTA dumps BF and computer 👍

OverallDisaster | OverallDisaster

A $350 purse ruined a relationship 💼😡

throwawayforunethica | throwawayforunethica

Calculating BF uses pricey gift to manipulate; NTA takes action 😠

bigbuttfucker | bigbuttfucker

Taking control: GF stands up to manipulative BF with bold move 😎

sra19 | sra19

Age gap and controlling behavior: NTA, set boundaries early on 👍

idontknowyouhaha | idontknowyouhaha

Watch out for red flags if BF manipulates with 'gift' 🚨

Sammyro518 | Sammyro518

BF's 'gift' was a manipulation tactic; counseling is advised. NTA.

WildCelticRose | WildCelticRose

Age gap, financial control, and gift manipulation - red flags galore! 😱

justthetips0629 | justthetips0629

Age difference and red flags in a manipulative relationship 😠

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Financial control is a red flag 🚨. Time to lose him!

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NTA. 🙅‍♀️ He's 34 and acting super immature. 🙄

anarchyshift | anarchyshift

Don't let anyone manipulate you with gifts. NTA.

Sunnygurrl | Sunnygurrl

Setting boundaries is key. Don't let expensive gifts manipulate you. 🙏

allthekeals | allthekeals

Red flag! Financial abuse is not love 😒

FirebirdWriter | FirebirdWriter

Age difference and warning signs in relationship behavior. NTA.

grandma_visitation | grandma_visitation

Gifts should not be used as manipulation tactics in relationships. 🙏

Ok_Weakness_6273 | Ok_Weakness_6273

Money trouble? This comment calls out a manipulative boyfriend 😕

JibbityJabbity | JibbityJabbity

Age gap raises red flags for commenter, advises leaving 🚩

jamesko1989 | jamesko1989

NTA for selling the computer: taking away control from BF 😠

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BF's manipulation backfires, Pinocchio is finally free 🎉

RedditMeThisBatman | RedditMeThisBatman

BF uses gift to manipulate GF, commenters call him out

canvasshoes2 | canvasshoes2

Don't use pricey presents as bargaining chips! NTA 👍

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Gifts with strings attached aren't worth sh*t 😠

Twasbrillig1 | Twasbrillig1

Expensive gift used to manipulate GF, he's not respecting her 😠

mollyayesha | mollyayesha

No gift should come with strings attached. NTA wins.

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Returning gift = eliminating power move. Big red flag 🚨

Savannahhhhhhhhhhhh | Savannahhhhhhhhhhhh

Good for you for calling out his manipulation tactics 💯

BellaSantiago1975 | BellaSantiago1975

Gift or Loan? NTA stands her ground against 'manipulative' BF 😠

0xEmmy | 0xEmmy

NTA. BF's manipulative behavior towards expensive gift is unacceptable. 😠

Dry_Understanding915 | Dry_Understanding915

Age gap, gift manipulation and red flags. NTA, break up.

xTeddyBearXx | xTeddyBearXx

Power dynamic abuse exposed in pricey gift debacle 😠

J3styr | J3styr

BF's behavior likened to J. Edgar Hoover's manipulation tactics. NTA.

Mrx-01 | Mrx-01

NTA, but warning signs of controlling behavior 🚩

daughterofnarcs | daughterofnarcs

A gift should be a GIFT, free of strings. 💝

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Gifts should not be used to manipulate. NTA. 🚩

MissPeskyFace | MissPeskyFace

NTA for feeling manipulated, but beware of abusive behavior. 😡

manz02 | manz02

NTA for dumping abusive and controlling older boyfriend 🙌

buttercupcake23 | buttercupcake23

NTA - BF uses computer to manipulate. Consider if this behavior is acceptable.

DameofDames | DameofDames

Spotting red flags is crucial in abusive relationships 🚨 NTA

social_sloot | social_sloot

Dump the manipulative boyfriend! NTA 💯👊

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Taking control of the situation and empowering oneself 💪

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Gift turned bludgeon. What else is he using to manipulate?

Charlie_Parkers_Mood | Charlie_Parkers_Mood

Expensive gift turned into a manipulation tool? NTA. Communicate boundaries 👍

Quicksilver1964 | Quicksilver1964

NTA sells pricey gift to recoup money after manipulative BF 👏

kaysa47 | kaysa47

BF uses gift to manipulate GF, NTA for not paying back 💸

squisheekittee | squisheekittee

Gifts should never come with strings attached 🙎

Bigfootsgirlfriend | Bigfootsgirlfriend

Gifts turning into bargaining chips are bad. Money can add a weird power dynamic in relationships. NTA.

LizzyrdCE | LizzyrdCE

NTA, immature BF, reassess his suitability as partner. Good luck 🙂

CatecaenDamnation | CatecaenDamnation

NTA, but consider BF's financial situation before judging his actions. 🤔

bwsmlt | bwsmlt

BF's manipulative gift backfires, NTA for standing up to control.

MurphysLaw1995 | MurphysLaw1995

Cutting ties with manipulative BF over gift string. #NTA 🙌

fromhelley | fromhelley

BF buys unwanted gift, expects compensation, upset when sold. NTA.

urightprobably | urightprobably

Don't let anyone manipulate you with gifts 🙌

WersomeFacts | WersomeFacts

Buying gifts with strings attached? 🚩 No way, NTA.

wndrlnd1978 | wndrlnd1978

BF's manipulative behavior over a gift 🎁 is appalling. NTA

Key_Manner259 | Key_Manner259

Red flags flying high: GF takes stand against manipulative BF 🚨

FountainsOfYarn | FountainsOfYarn

NTA beats BF at manipulation game, should re-evaluate relationship 🤔

Neighborhoodnuna | Neighborhoodnuna

NTA, but is he spying on you with the computer? 🤔

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Red flags 🚩 in relationships should not be ignored.

Johnny_Flak | Johnny_Flak

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