Mom Gives Sister an ULTIMATUM Over Deaf Daughter's Treatment 🚫

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🎭 Buckle up for some serious family drama! 😱 Meet a hearing mom who's married to a deaf man and raising their adorable deaf daughter. 👨‍👩‍👧 While most of the fam is on board with learning sign language, sister Emily just isn't feeling it. 🙅‍♀️ Cue the tension, heated arguments, and one fed-up mama bear ready to lay down the law! 🐻 Will an ultimatum save the day or tear this family apart? 🤔 Let's dive in and find out! 🍿

🎭 Family Drama: Sister's Lack of Interest in ASL Causes Tension! 😱

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🙉 Sister Emily's Refusal to Learn Sign Language Frustrates Niece Cora 😞

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👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Family Makes Effort to Learn ASL, Except for Sister Emily 🤦‍♀️

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🚫 Brother-in-Law Rejects Baby Sign, Fearing It Will "Confuse" His Daughter 😠

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😢 Cora Struggles to Communicate with Cousins, Parents Constantly Intervene

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🗣️ Sister Emily Pushes for Cochlear Implant, Shames Mom's Decision 😡

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🔥 Heated Argument Erupts Between Sister and Deaf Husband Over Implant 😤

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🚫 Sister Excludes Deaf Niece from Game, Claims It's for "People Who Can Speak" 😱

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😡 Furious Mom Confronts Sister, Demands Effort to Include Deaf Daughter

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🔪 Mom Sets Ultimatum: Learn ASL or Face Consequences! 😠

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🤐 Sister Gives Silent Treatment After Confrontation

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🐻 Mama Bear Rage: Was the Ultimatum Too Extreme? 🤔

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🗳️ Who's the A-hole? Mom's Ultimatum Over Sister's Lack of ASL Effort

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📝 Update: Mom Stands Firm on Deaf Daughter's Upbringing, Despite Criticism

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🧏‍♀️ Embracing Deaf Culture: A Hearing Mom's Perspective

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🔥 Mama Bear Rage: Sister's Refusal to Learn ASL Leads to Explosive Ultimatum! 🐻

Well, well, well... looks like we've got a classic case of family drama on our hands! 🍿 This hearing mom is at her wit's end with her sister's lack of effort to learn sign language and include her deaf niece. 😤 From heated arguments about cochlear implants to straight-up excluding the little one from games, it's no wonder Mama Bear's claws are out! 🐻 She's laying down the law with an ultimatum: learn ASL or say goodbye to contact. 🔪 The internet is divided on whether this is a justified move or a step too far. 🤔 One thing's for sure, though - this family's got some serious communication issues to work through! 😬 Let's see what the internet has to say about this juicy drama... 🍿

NTA. Emily's ableism creates obstacles to communication. Keep her in time-out 🚫

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Defending against discrimination, NTA stands up for her daughter 👏

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Supportive comment applauds bilingualism, awards received, and lessons learned.

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Defending a mother's decision to wait for daughter's cochlear implant. NTA 👍

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Emily is an ableist ESH but respect for deaf daughter is important.

emarcomd | emarcomd

A deaf person shares the difficulty of getting an implant later on in life

SeshyGou | SeshyGou

User suggests medical fix for deaf daughter, advises no contact

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Choosing not to teach daughter spoken English limits cultural interaction 🗣️

Usrname52 | Usrname52

Deaf commenter calls out parent's ego in denying daughter implants 👥

Evil_Genius_1 | Evil_Genius_1

Both sides have valid points, but cruelty to a child is unacceptable. 🚫

TheDevilsAdvokaat | TheDevilsAdvokaat

Deaf child's treatment causes family conflict. Should relatives learn ASL?

M0506 | M0506

Insensitive comment receives no support or agreement. 🚫

MisanthropeX | MisanthropeX

NTA. Sister cruel to daughter, good for you for advocating! 🙌

Striking_Description | Striking_Description

Sister's ultimatum to learn sign language - YTA or ESH?

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NTA. Learning ASL is crucial for communicating with Cora 🧭. Emily's kids might regret not doing so later.

fizzbangwhiz | fizzbangwhiz

Sister was an a**hole, but expecting family to learn sign language is unrealistic. ESH.

Legitimate_Mess_6130 | Legitimate_Mess_6130

Comparing hearing aids to glasses is a valid point 👓

Face2098 | Face2098

Deaf daughter's right to communication sparks debate among commenters. ESH.

The-spellmonger | The-spellmonger

Language barrier causes conflict, YTA for blaming daughter.

ben_burnache | ben_burnache

Supporting deaf children is important. Sign language takes practice.

lauribro | lauribro

Aunt's lack of interest in niece's deafness is sad 😢

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ESH. Parent made decision for daughter, Emily discriminating against Cora.

Artemis667 | Artemis667

Deaf culture vs. integration debate sparks fiery response 🔥

UbiquitousWobbegong | UbiquitousWobbegong

ESH, but NTA for expecting respectful treatment despite communication difficulty 🚫

Turbulent-Bar7039 | Turbulent-Bar7039

User calls out OP for hypocrisy in deaf daughter debate 👀

LoremEpsomSalt | LoremEpsomSalt

Consider cochlear implant for daughter's future, despite deaf community backlash. 🔊

madhatter275 | madhatter275

Sister's audist attitude towards niece gets shut down. NTA 👏

Padloq | Padloq

Learning ASL is beneficial, NTA for including deaf daughter. 👍

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Debate over teaching two languages leads to ableist accusations. ESH.

A_Crazy_crew | A_Crazy_crew

Deaf community member criticizes OP's daughter's treatment decision 🤔

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Harsh criticism for a parent's decision to 'cripple' their daughter

cashiousconvertious | cashiousconvertious

A blunt YTA comment suggesting the mother take responsibility.

ArsVampyre | ArsVampyre

Deaf child should not be left out. NTA for advocating 👍

Eleanor_Willow | Eleanor_Willow

Deaf daughter's cochlear implant sparks family feud. ESH, but...

myheadisbumming | myheadisbumming

Deaf child caught in crossfire of language dispute 🤔

bestcmw | bestcmw

Learning sign language as a grown woman is possible 👍

PuzzleheadedLynx6528 | PuzzleheadedLynx6528

Parent conflict over deaf child's treatment, need for communication.

Actual_Tomatillo_540 | Actual_Tomatillo_540

Emily's treatment of Cora is awful, NTA suggests ultimatum 💪

chucker23n | chucker23n

NTA. Asking sister to learn basic ASL for niece is reasonable 👍

Dandibear | Dandibear

Suggestion to teach Signed Exact English is rejected with ESH vibe.

Powerbombfromthemoon | Powerbombfromthemoon

Deaf daughter's language barrier not being used to broaden horizons 🤷‍♀️

Dickeysaurus | Dickeysaurus

Implant adjustment concerns raised, possible gaslighting of child mentioned.

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Deaf daughter's treatment sparks debate on communication tools and inclusion 🤔

Bc2193 | Bc2193

Learning ASL without a consistent partner is nearly impossible 🤷‍♀️

blickyjayy | blickyjayy

Deaf daughter's treatment debated: cochlear implant vs sign language 🤔

PleaseToEatAss | PleaseToEatAss

Signing with kids benefits all, NTA should ignore sister's opinions.

EducatorsTeach | EducatorsTeach

Aunt's nefarious behavior towards deaf niece results in ultimatum. NTA.

No_Blacksmith_4679 | No_Blacksmith_4679

YTA for expecting sister to learn sign language 🤦‍♂️

ukyorulz | ukyorulz

User thinks the mother is the a**hole for not giving implants

Hydrar2309 | Hydrar2309

Sharing personal experience being hard of hearing

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Debate over deaf daughter's treatment leads to judgement and ultimatum 🤔

DevilishRogue | DevilishRogue

Deaf daughter's treatment sparks debate on cultural child abuse 🤔

Goofy264 | Goofy264

Harsh comment suggesting deaf daughter's life is miserable without hearing 🙁

tonyikaros | tonyikaros

Parent criticized for prioritizing personal beliefs over child's health 🤔

allestrette | allestrette

Implants could help, but both sides have communication issues. 😕

jessyv2 | jessyv2

Defending daughter's rights against ableist sister. NTA 👏

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🤔 Seeking information on cochlear implants for deaf daughter's treatment.

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Deaf daughter's well-being or 'community' dilemma? YTA according to commenter 👎

ManuSwaG | ManuSwaG

Deafness and communication is a two-way street 📞

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Excluding a deaf baby is unacceptable. Cutting contact is necessary. NTA.

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Teaching ASL is important & exclusion is heinous. Disabled not broken😊

HeckinZebra | HeckinZebra

It's a tough situation. Both parties need to improve 😔

sailorelf | sailorelf

Deaf daughter's language choice defended by SLP against ignorant family.

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Mother of deaf child advises about child's obstacles and challenges 🤔

Waste_Isopod3368 | Waste_Isopod3368

Grandparent embraces learning ASL, supports deaf individual autonomy. NTA 👍

Smozzie1 | Smozzie1

Denying deaf daughter hearing? Definitely YTA. 🤷‍♀️

Tainlorr | Tainlorr

Controversial comment on deaf culture sparks heated debate.

MyTeaIsMighty | MyTeaIsMighty

Deaf daughter's future - advantages and disadvantages of ASL vs speaking 🗣️


Learning an entire language for your child shouldn't be expected 🚫

andygchicago | andygchicago

Debate about cochlear implant and deaf identity. Everyone sucks here.

MrMcFunStuff | MrMcFunStuff

Compromise suggested, not force ASL but don't exclude Cora.

PirateArtemis | PirateArtemis

Deaf daughter's treatment causes family tension and frustration 🤷‍♀️

nuttyNougatty | nuttyNougatty

Insensitive comment disregarding Deaf culture and child's identity. 😡

q-milk | q-milk

Empathy is key. Learning a language can be daunting. 🙏

Pleasant_Cold | Pleasant_Cold

Debate over daughter's treatment divides family. ESH according to commenter.

blackdragon8577 | blackdragon8577

Both sides have made choices, but cutting off daughter is extreme. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Phantom_Dave | Phantom_Dave

User calls out toxic Deaf culture and defends cochlear implants 🤔

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Deaf cousin's implant shouldn't be a threat to family ties. 🤷‍♂️

T8M8 | T8M8

"Emily gets schooled by NTA commenter on deaf children"😎

ig0t_somprobloms | ig0t_somprobloms

Early sign language learning for infants benefits communication skills! 👍

Aragornargonian | Aragornargonian

Choosing not to learn ASL is SIL's priority, NTA. Protect daughter.

apathetichearts | apathetichearts

A blunt and honest comment about the mother denying her daughter an opportunity to enhance her life.

garbfink | garbfink

NTA but protect your child from discrimination and alteration. 🐻

Fit-Distribution-252 | Fit-Distribution-252

User rejects judgement in judgment-based sub, called AH. 🤔

YeetMyHumanMeat | YeetMyHumanMeat

A harsh YTA judgment on the commenter's ideology and refusal to learn ASL.

RyzenTide | RyzenTide

NTA, sister insulted and disrespected OP's family. Boundaries are necessary.

Pristine-Rhubarb7294 | Pristine-Rhubarb7294

Choosing to get a cochlear implant should be one's choice. NTA.

NotoriousJez | NotoriousJez

Cochlear implants aren't the perfect cure-all, hearing is a hearing-person's solution 🤷‍♀️

grease-monkey-chick | grease-monkey-chick

User calls out parent for neglecting deaf daughter's social life 🚫

Jazzlike_Airline24 | Jazzlike_Airline24

Sister is ableist, but demanding new language is entitled 🤔

Pharmacienne123 | Pharmacienne123

A commenter calls out the sister's ableist behavior. 🤯

gabbydearest91 | gabbydearest91

👍NTA wins! Comment praises mom for standing up against sister's BS.

ElsaAzrael | ElsaAzrael

User disagrees with NTA verdict, urges family to use device and learn ASL to improve daughter's life 👍

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NTA. Teaching children bigotry against a deaf child is cruel 👏

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