Mom's BRUTALLY Honest Take on Having a Baby at 46 😳 Cousin Pursuing Pregnancy in Late 40s STUNNED by Advice!

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🤰 Buckle up, folks! We've got a wild ride of a story for you today. 😲 Our protagonist found herself unexpectedly pregnant at the ripe age of 45, thanks to a little thing called PCOS and the magic of menopause. 🌟 While she and her hubby were financially ready for this surprise bundle of joy, emotions took the wheel. 💗 But now, as she navigates the challenges of being an older parent, she's wondering if she did the right thing by being brutally honest with her cousin who's considering the same path. 🙊 Get ready for a rollercoaster of emotions, hilarious anecdotes, and some tough questions as we dive into this fascinating tale! 🎢

🤰 A Surprise Pregnancy at 45! 😲

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🩺 Doctor's Diagnosis: PCOS & Menopause Miracles 🌟

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💰 Financially Ready, Emotionally Driven 💗

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🙋‍♀️ Cousin's Questions & My Honest Answers 🗣️

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😩 The Challenges of Being an Older Parent 👵

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🩸 Extra Testing & Precautions 🔬

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📬 Kindergarten Paperwork & AARP Cards 😅

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🔍 Staying Up-to-Date for My Child's Sake 📚

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🚨 Emergency Plans & Difficult Conversations 😢

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👵 No Relatable Support System 😞

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💕 I Love My Child, But It's Not Easy 😓

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🤗 Setting the Record Straight 📣

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🤔 AITA for Being Honest? 🙊

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😩 The Bittersweet Reality of Being an Older Parent 👵💕

Our protagonist's journey as an older parent has been filled with love, but also with unique challenges. 😓 From extra testing and precautions to constantly staying up-to-date with the latest trends, it's been a wild ride. 🎢 The fear of not being there for their child's milestones weighs heavily on their minds. 😢 Emergency plans and difficult conversations have become a necessity. 🚨 While money can't buy peace of mind, our protagonist wouldn't trade their little one for the world. 💕 But when her cousin asked for advice, she couldn't help but be brutally honest about the realities of being an older parent. 🙊 Now, she's left wondering if she did the right thing. 🤔 Let's see what the internet has to say about this emotional rollercoaster! 🎡

Hilarious NTA reply that terrifies a 44-year-old pregnant woman 😂

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When honesty isn't what they want, you can't win 🤷‍♀️

Stoat__King | Stoat__King

Age doesn't define when to start a family 🙌

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Honest NTA comment shares experience of having older parent ❤️

BraceBraceBrace | BraceBraceBrace

"Don't let fear dictate your choices." Supportive reply to pregnancy dilemma. 💖

30000PoundsofBananas | 30000PoundsofBananas

Parent shaming for having a baby in 40s is uncalled for 😑

Sassrepublic | Sassrepublic

Honesty isn't always easy, but it's necessary 👍

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Not everyone has the same experience with pregnancies 🙏

CityBride | CityBride

Honesty is the best policy, even when it comes to parenting 👍

SnakesCantWearPants | SnakesCantWearPants

Supportive comment acknowledges pregnancy risks and advises with empathy.

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Honest comment reminds mom of the important things in life 👏

ArtemistheFartimus | ArtemistheFartimus

Supportive comment about having children later in life, respecting personal choices.

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Parenting pressure: who gives a toss about trends and peers? 🤷‍♀️

witchofthewoodland | witchofthewoodland

User calls out OP for unsupportive and judgmental behavior 👍

sachathecatt | sachathecatt

Having children later in life: a patient and happy experience 😊

nobodyherebutusmice | nobodyherebutusmice

Honesty is the best policy, even in support groups. 🙌

ImFinePleaseThanks | ImFinePleaseThanks

User thinks age is not a factor for having a baby 👍

Glittering_Joke3438 | Glittering_Joke3438

Parenting is about adapting to new generations and unconventional families. YTA.

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40-year-old pregnant woman calls out insensitivity towards older parenting.

tielfluff | tielfluff

User disagrees with framing of having a late baby as difficult.

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Redditor calls out commenter for being unsupportive and negative towards cousin's pregnancy. 🙅

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Criticism of comment's comparison to fashion trends sparks backlash.

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Debate on having a baby at 46 sparks controversy 🤔

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Not the a-hole commenter shares experience and reassures cousin 🙌

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Honesty is the best support 👍

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Reassuring response to a concerned mom's view on late-in-life parenting.

clocksailor | clocksailor

Young parenthood has upsides but also drawbacks, including lack of respect 😔

SenselessStatements | SenselessStatements

Honesty is the best policy: NTA for sharing advice 👍

Vulpiny_exe | Vulpiny_exe

Honesty is the best policy! NTA for telling the truth 😊

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Honest advice from personal experience, support your friend's decision 👍

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Older parent offers support and advice to self-conscious mom 👍

Judgypossum | Judgypossum

NTA commenter gets called out for unloading insecurities on OP

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Parenting anxieties not exclusive to older parents, NTA.

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Having a baby at an older age can have pros and cons 🤔

abearofverylittle | abearofverylittle

Age shouldn't stop you from having a child 👨‍🍳, it's a personal choice ❤️

vicariouslyacat | vicariouslyacat

Late parenting is not a problem, as long as you're healthy! 😊

MalC123 | MalC123

User calls out commenter for being too harsh on cousin

dominiqlane | dominiqlane

Child of older parent shares positive experience, disagrees with extreme opinion 👍

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Mild YTA. Unresolved issues dumped on friend asking simple advice 🤷‍♀️

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Harsh criticism for discouraging cousin's pregnancy aspirations. 🙁

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OP receives backlash for oversharing personal issues when giving advice 🤐

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Age is just a number, not all older moms feel same 👍

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Respectful advice given and acknowledged, differences in experience noted.

izzygrtt | izzygrtt

Honesty is the best policy 👍. NTA for giving real advice.

Ardchasm | Ardchasm

Embrace your choices and seek therapy to relieve pressure. 💆

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Don't judge others for their choices. Age is just a number! 🙏

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NTA for honest response, but commenter encourages living in the moment.

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Having a child in your late 30s isn't easy 😢 NTA 👏

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Valid and unique feelings shared about having a baby at 46 👍

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Having a baby in your 40s: pros and cons.

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Mother shares positive experience of having a baby at 43 👍

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A comment on the impact of having older parents.

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Redditor calls out OP for shaming someone for pursuing pregnancy 👎

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Honest take on being an older mom with infertility issues 🙏

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A 22-year-old shares stress of having an older dad and stepmom.

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Supportive comment about being an older parent with real concerns. 👏

PurpleMP12 | PurpleMP12

Growing up with older parents meant missing out on adventures. 🌲

dephress | dephress

Adopted child shares reassuring experience about backup plans. NAH.

ahabentis | ahabentis

Delaying parenthood can have benefits, honesty is appreciated 😊

miranails | miranails

Having parents in their 40s - a personal regret.

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Honesty is key when discussing having kids, NTA commenter agrees 👍

murdocjones | murdocjones

Being honest about difficulties of having a baby at any age 🤰

trash_heap_witch | trash_heap_witch

Having kids later in life can affect retirement plans. NTA.

Sadiesmuffintop | Sadiesmuffintop

Daughter of older mom offers heartwarming advice to worried mother ❤️

Wren2204 | Wren2204

Having a baby at 37 was a lot, but worth it! 👏

keepitloki80 | keepitloki80

Honesty is the best policy, especially when it comes to parenting 👍

ebwoods1 | ebwoods1

Judging someone for getting pregnant naturally in late 40s? YTA.

katmonday | katmonday

Honesty is the best policy 👍. NTA for sharing experience.

Unsolicitedadvice13 | Unsolicitedadvice13

Honesty is the best policy on the difficulties of parenting.

2manycandles | 2manycandles

Parent regrets having kids later in life. NTA.

Dontmindme092 | Dontmindme092

Speaking from experience doesn't make you a hypocrite 👍

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Facing the reality of motherhood at 40, NTA offers empathy.

vosot | vosot

Struggles of having a baby in late 40s, including genetic risks 😳

LadyGrassLake | LadyGrassLake

Parenting reality: no support, honesty is shamed. 😔

MageVicky | MageVicky

Sometimes the truth hurts 😞 but it's better than lies 👍

littlepinkgrowl | littlepinkgrowl

Honest NTA comment about risks of late pregnancies saving families 😳

squishenn | squishenn

Parenting at an older age is harder than expected 😢

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NTA for honest experience; cousin TA for sharing private info.

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Honesty wins! NTA explains why having kids younger is better 👍

NoApollonia | NoApollonia

Young adult shares fears of having older parents with health issues.

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Support for honest answer on conflicted feelings about parenthood later.

DodgeHodge | DodgeHodge

Grateful 19yo praises honesty of parent with older children ❤️

potatobanana0188 | potatobanana0188

Starting a family late affects children in the long run 😔

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Advocating for honesty about the challenges of having a baby late 👏

BDThrills | BDThrills

Heartwarming story of raising stepsons, but fear of leaving them alone ☹️

mmamammamamama | mmamammamamama

Honesty is key, but friendship matters too. 🤝

smokeandlights | smokeandlights

Honesty is the best policy! Shocking story about a 58-year-old mother.

biteme789 | biteme789

Honest advice on pregnancy at 40s. NTA.

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