Family Feud: Grandma Denies Shelter to Pregnant Homeless Ex-Girlfriend and Kids 😲🏠

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Imagine being a widowed woman, living alone in a huge mansion, and watching your son struggle to make ends meet with his growing family. 💔 You decide to offer your son and his wife a chance to move in, but there's a catch: his ex-girlfriend, her kids, and their drama can't come along. 🚫👩‍👧‍👦 This is the story of a 55-year-old woman who's trying to help her son and his family, but not without setting some boundaries. 🏠💕 Is she being reasonable, or is she tearing apart a family in need? 🤔 Let's dive into the story and find out!

Lonely and Widowed 😢

PriorIngenuity69 | PriorIngenuity69

A Complicated Family Tree 🌳

PriorIngenuity69 | PriorIngenuity69

Relationships Fall Apart 💔

PriorIngenuity69 | PriorIngenuity69

Moving On and Growing Families 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

PriorIngenuity69 | PriorIngenuity69

A Desperate Situation 😰

PriorIngenuity69 | PriorIngenuity69

Mental Health Struggles 😔

PriorIngenuity69 | PriorIngenuity69

Real Estate Rescue 🏠

PriorIngenuity69 | PriorIngenuity69

Inheriting a Mansion 🏰

PriorIngenuity69 | PriorIngenuity69

A House Too Big for One 🏠➕👩

PriorIngenuity69 | PriorIngenuity69

A Generous Offer 💕

PriorIngenuity69 | PriorIngenuity69

Setting Boundaries 🚧

PriorIngenuity69 | PriorIngenuity69

Protecting My Home 🏠💪

PriorIngenuity69 | PriorIngenuity69

Angry Ex 😠

PriorIngenuity69 | PriorIngenuity69

Mansion Boundaries: Fair or Cruel? 🏰❓

Our lonely widow has a son with a complicated family situation: an ex-girlfriend with a child from their relationship, a current wife with a child and twins on the way, and the ex-girlfriend's additional children from another man. 😵 When the ex-girlfriend becomes homeless and desperate, the son and his wife temporarily take her and her children in. 💔 But when our widow offers her mansion to her son and his wife, she draws a line: the ex-girlfriend and her kids can't stay. 🚫👩‍👧‍👦 She's worried about the potential drama and stress it could cause, especially with pregnancies involved. 🤰 The ex-girlfriend is furious, accusing our widow of tearing her family apart. 😠 But the widow insists it's her house, her rules. 💁‍♀️ Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🌐💭

Compassionate yet firm response to a difficult family situation. 👏

The_Fangirl_Ley | The_Fangirl_Ley

A critical but fair take on the son's actions. 👍

FormerRunnerAgain | FormerRunnerAgain

Father's custody rights questioned in homeless pregnant ex-girlfriend dispute 🤔

Usrname52 | Usrname52

Grandma advised to encourage son to take custody, not shelter responsibilities.

uwe0x123 | uwe0x123

Curious commenter questions suspicious family situation 👀

Spicy_Traveler94 | Spicy_Traveler94

Offer to help, but be cautious of potential consequences. 🙏

[deleted] | [deleted]

A critical comment on a grandmother's skewed views 🤔

scarletnightingale | scarletnightingale

Offering to shelter the grandchild but not the ex-girlfriend. NTA.

crymson7 | crymson7

Stand your ground and know your rights. Community resources available. 👍

NotyJewel | NotyJewel

Doubting the authenticity of the story 😕

madamecholet14 | madamecholet14

NTA for not sheltering ex-girlfriend and her kids 🙌

Stardust_Shinah | Stardust_Shinah

No obligation to ex-girlfriend's non-related kids, NTA. 👍

USSGato | USSGato

Calling out fake post, are we really this naive? 🤔

JessMoJu | JessMoJu

Setting boundaries with homeless ex-girlfriend sparks agreement.

shammy_dammy | shammy_dammy

Birth control debate in NTA comment section 🤷‍♀️

gingasmurf | gingasmurf

Not the a**hole for refusing to shelter homeless ex-girlfriend.

KronkLaSworda | KronkLaSworda

Ex-girlfriend should get her life straightened out. NTA 👍

VegetableBusiness897 | VegetableBusiness897

Sensible suggestion for pregnant ex-girlfriend and kids. NTA 👍

Kooky_Variation7880 | Kooky_Variation7880

NTA offers practical advice for homeless ex-girlfriend and kids 👍

redneckerson1951 | redneckerson1951

No obligation to help, but finding alternative ways could be kind. 👍

FragrantEconomist386 | FragrantEconomist386

Redditor calls out fake story about mansion-dwelling grandma 😳

lemongrenade | lemongrenade

Grandma's refusal to help homeless ex-girlfriend may result in lawsuit

ssccrs | ssccrs

NTA for house, but ESH for everything else 😡

Alone_Ad3257 | Alone_Ad3257

Grandma's heartless statement receives backlash from commenters 🤯

Troublemaakerz | Troublemaakerz

Is 'mansion' a stretch? Can middle class afford one? INFO

ACanWontAttitude | ACanWontAttitude

Older generation denies responsibility for their son's actions. ESH 💥

L_D_Machiavelli | L_D_Machiavelli

Heartbreaking situation, any other options for the kids? 😢

Odd_Calligrapher_932 | Odd_Calligrapher_932

Grandma's shelter offer reasonable, not expected to house strangers. #NTA

Jenos00 | Jenos00

User doubts grandma's wealth, calls out the OP for being TA 😓

Gattina1 | Gattina1

Grandma raised an a**hole who got a woman pregnant at 15. Now homeless ex-girlfriend and kids are suffering. Teach your son and grandkids about birth control. 😡

candiebelle | candiebelle

Unexpected comment from 'wallet inspector' derails serious discussion 🤷🏻‍♂️

fanatic_xenophile | fanatic_xenophile

ESH, except the wife and kids. Commenter points out OP's son's financial irresponsibility and ex's bad life choices.

UnpopularConclusion | UnpopularConclusion

Bare minimum child support isn't praiseworthy. YTA for denying shelter.

SpaceCrazyArtist | SpaceCrazyArtist

Protecting your family first. Good call 👍

feliscatus_lover | feliscatus_lover

Harsh judgement towards pregnant ex, no sympathy. NTA.

tothemaxillary | tothemaxillary

Completely justified in not wanting his child in a bad environment. 👍

NUredditNU | NUredditNU

Advice on managing a potentially difficult living situation 👍

Bearsandgravy | Bearsandgravy

Grandma is NTA for homeless ex-girlfriend but son is TA 😠

PoppyStaff | PoppyStaff

Judging someone based on their child's mother is wrong. 🤯

ThePennedKitten | ThePennedKitten

NTA but tone is assholish, odd using DIL's feeling as excuse

blameitoncities | blameitoncities

Family drama but NTA, birth control might have helped 😲

Jerseygirl2468 | Jerseygirl2468

NTA for not letting them move in, but OP needs empathy 😔

krendyB | krendyB

No obligation to house son's pregnant ex-girlfriend. Daughter-in-law kind. 😊

bunnybunny690 | bunnybunny690

Setting boundaries doesn't make you heartless 👍

TrainingDearest | TrainingDearest

A tough but necessary decision for the well-being of children. 👏

Grigsbeee | Grigsbeee

Grandma's favoritism may hurt her relationship with her grandson 😞

KindaNewRoundHere | KindaNewRoundHere

Doubting the authenticity of the post 🤔

Radiant-Chipmunk-987 | Radiant-Chipmunk-987

Son's ex-girlfriend seeks shelter, but OP is NTA.

JayHG1 | JayHG1

User calls out lack of comprehension, advises to prioritize family.

DeadBattery-33 | DeadBattery-33

No obligation to help homeless ex-girlfriend and kids 😒

Adventurous-Smile251 | Adventurous-Smile251

You're not responsible for your pregnant ex's poor choices. NTA! 👏

glimmerseeker | glimmerseeker

NTA. Firmly standing by house rules. Avoiding hosting a madhouse 🚫

Prudent_Valuable603 | Prudent_Valuable603

NTA. Concerns about cleanliness and overstaying welcome. 😔

Cassandra_Canmore2 | Cassandra_Canmore2

Don't take the grandma's burden, you're NTA 😊

Fun-Yellow-6576 | Fun-Yellow-6576

Cold-hearted comment discourages compassion 😢

New-Material-3503 | New-Material-3503

Setting boundaries and avoiding a nightmare. NTA 👍

Cannabis_CatSlave | Cannabis_CatSlave

Compassionate comment on the challenges of taking in a homeless family 🙏

SquirrellyGrrly | SquirrellyGrrly

NTA's comment advises against letting the homeless ex-girlfriend in. 🤔

Eladiun | Eladiun

NTA commenter sympathizes with homeless kids and advises protecting them 😢

ImprovementMental646 | ImprovementMental646

Avoiding drama: commenter advises against inviting unstable ex-girlfriend home. 🙌

Cola3206 | Cola3206

NAH - Safety concerns for current family and ex-DIL's family.

Blim4 | Blim4

Support for father seeking custody due to mother's inability.

ProfessionalHat6828 | ProfessionalHat6828

Grandma offers shelter to grandson, not ex's family. NTA 👍

OkJackfruit8310 | OkJackfruit8310

NTA. Ex-girlfriend can't expect permanent shelter from ex's family.

Major-Distance4270 | Major-Distance4270

NTA suggests encouraging son to get custody & offer aid.

kkrolla | kkrolla

User defends pregnant ex-girlfriend, warns about tenant's rights. NTA.

JuiceEdawg | JuiceEdawg

Choose your partners wisely. NTA for denying shelter. 👯🏻

Desperate-Laugh-7257 | Desperate-Laugh-7257

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