Ex-Husband's Fiancée Crosses the Line: Mom Takes a Stand 🚫💔

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Picture this: you're a loving mom, co-parenting with your ex-husband, Tom, who cheated on you with his now-fiancée, Tammy. You've made it clear that outside of the kids, you don't care about their lives, and you don't owe Tammy anything. But what happens when Tom starts pushing for family therapy, and Tammy shows up at your door, crying and begging for forgiveness? 😲 Get ready for a rollercoaster of emotions, as our fearless mom navigates the twists and turns of this wild situation. 🎢

📱 Texting Tom: The Request

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🏠 A Healthier Environment

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📞 Avoiding the Call

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👨‍👩‍👧‍👧 Family Therapy?

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🚫 Shutting It Down

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🕒 Hours of Nowhere

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📞 Calling the Ex-In-Laws

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🤝 Civil Co-Parenting Only

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👵 MIL's Apology

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😱 Tammy's Unexpected Visit

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🚪 Behind Closed Doors

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😭 Tammy's Apology

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🚔 Calling the Police

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👮 No Arrests Made

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🏠 Girls Safe at Home

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⚖️ Lawyer and Restraining Order

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🗣️ Telling Tammy to Leave

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🤷 Why Me?

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🙅‍♀️ Not Jealous or Bitter

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💔 Moved On

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🤯 Ex-Husband's Fiancée Shows Up Uninvited

Our brave mom is just trying to live her life and co-parent with her ex-husband, Tom, but things take a turn for the dramatic when Tom pushes for family therapy with her, Tammy, and the kids. 🙅‍♀️ She stands her ground, refusing to engage in anything beyond what's necessary for the kids. Then, Tammy shows up at her house, crying and pleading for forgiveness. 😱 Our mom keeps her cool, calls the police, and informs Tom that she'll be seeking full custody and a restraining order. 💪 Through it all, she maintains that she's not jealous or bitter, just ready to move on with her life. Let's see what the internet thinks of this wild situation... 🍿

Prioritizing your happiness is key, don't let him bring you down 🙌

DaTruCre | DaTruCre

Standing up to ex-husband's fiancée with grace 👏

blubberfucker69 | blubberfucker69

Fiancée wants to be BFFs after stealing woman's husband 🤯

maidenmothercrone333 | maidenmothercrone333

Protect yourself and your child. Cut all contact. 🚫💔

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Boundaries are important; prioritize your well-being and your children's. 👍

l3ex_G | l3ex_G

Ex-husband's fiancée is not a prize, move on. Period. 👏

WillSayAnything | WillSayAnything

Supportive comment, recommends therapy and applauds protective actions 👏

JmRet2301 | JmRet2301

Supportive commenter praises mom's grace and suggests legal action.

Effective_Door1957 | Effective_Door1957

Handling your ex-husband's fiancée with grace and class 👏, and being indifferent towards her isn't being bitter 🚫. NTA!

AdDue2273 | AdDue2273

Setting boundaries with ex's fiancé, good for OP and kids 👍

No_Astronaut2795 | No_Astronaut2795

Trust your gut, true crime dramas are real 🚨. Don't attend therapy.

InvestigatorClean728 | InvestigatorClean728

Cheating ex's fiancée causes drama, mom protects daughters. 🚫💔

mak_zaddy | mak_zaddy

Handling a delusional ex-husband's fiancée like a boss 😎

tattedupgirl | tattedupgirl

Choosing apathy over hate is healthy. NTA.

Mary707 | Mary707

Don't let anyone walk over your boundaries 👍

Final-Fun3566 | Final-Fun3566

Co-parenting advice with a touch of humor and empathy 😂

Existing_Winter5679 | Existing_Winter5679

Ex-husband's fiancée's behavior is not okay. OP is handling well. 👍

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OP receives support and advice for dealing with fiancee drama 👍

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Supportive comment reminding OP of her blessings and concerns about fiancée's instability.

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Supportive comment advises OP to stand her ground and be cautious 👍

HygorBohmHubner | HygorBohmHubner

Predicting a meltdown for ex-husband's fiancée 😬

rebekahster | rebekahster

Being the adult in a messy situation 🤓👏

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Empowering comment on setting boundaries with ex-husband's fiancee ✌🏻

MidlightStar | MidlightStar

Entitled ex-fiancée demands forgiveness after causing harm and loss 💔

Lazy_Lingonberry5977 | Lazy_Lingonberry5977

"Tammy seems more obsessed with OP than Tom" 🤔

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Support for mom standing up against ex-husband's fiancee's cruel comment 👏

wandering_revenant | wandering_revenant

Supportive comment, wishing the best for the mom and daughters 🙏

Happy_FrenchFry | Happy_FrenchFry

Ex-husband's delusional request for family therapy. Admirable response from OP.

Fit-Secret8346 | Fit-Secret8346

Boundaries crossed: Ex-husband's fiancée demands friendship for absolution 🚫💔

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OP takes a stand against ex-husband's fiancée and sister wives drama 🚫

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User questions ex-husband's fiancée's need for family therapy. Smells like cognitive dissonance 🤔

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NTA's wise decision to get restraining order from unstable Tammy 🚫💔

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Empathetic comment suggests ex-husband's fiancée needs therapy 💜

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Protecting the kids from toxic behavior, good luck! 🙏

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Handling a storm with calmness 🌞‍♀️

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Trust yourself and stand firm. Civility for kids' sake 👍

1SassyTart | 1SassyTart

Set boundaries with your ex and his fiancée. Period. 👍

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OP's lack of response to ex-husband's fiancée is glorious 😂

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Supportive comment for a mom standing up against harassment. 👍

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Standing up for oneself after mistreatment and adultery 💪

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Cheering for OP's victory and invested in updates 👏🏻

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Protecting the kids from toxic ex's fiancée 🚫💔

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Setting boundaries with ex-husband's fiancée 🚫💔

equationgirl | equationgirl

Supportive comment: Don't listen to the haters! Get that restraining order 🚫

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Compassionate support and setting boundaries with ex's affair partner 👏

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Fierce response to ex-husband's fiancée. Restraining order in progress. 💪

ProcedureFun768 | ProcedureFun768

Ex-husband's fiancee wants to be friends? Delusional! Get a restraining order! 🚫💔

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Heartfelt comment offers support to struggling mother and family ❤

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Supportive comment validates OP's concerns about ex-husband's fiancée. 👍

fuxkitall999 | fuxkitall999

Rejection may have confirmed Tammy's guilt, but who cares? 🤷‍♀️ OP is a strong independent woman with more important things to worry about - like keeping her family and fur babies safe! 🦮👶

DarkMoose09 | DarkMoose09

Tammy got what she deserved. Cheaters shouldn't feel entitled 💯

Remarkable-Low-643 | Remarkable-Low-643

The ex-husband's fiancee's obsession is concerning. Seek legal help. 🚫💔

MonikerSchmoniker | MonikerSchmoniker

Ex's fiancée won't take no for an answer 🙄 Restraining order needed.

Excellent-Highway884 | Excellent-Highway884

OP's healthy attitude towards ex-husband's fiancée questioned 🤔

SpecialistAfter511 | SpecialistAfter511

"She didn't take my man from me, she took my problems." 👏

TeachingEmergency | TeachingEmergency

Grieving mother's harsh comment sparks debate 🤔

Saysaywhat91 | Saysaywhat91

Tammy's intentions questioned, commenter supports mom's response 🚫

TrueRelease9447 | TrueRelease9447

Sarcastic comment suggests revenge on ex-husband's fiancée 😂

JuanDiegoCV | JuanDiegoCV

Supportive comment suggests pursuing full custody for safety 👏

TimeEnvironmental687 | TimeEnvironmental687

User suggests Tammy's behavior stems from fear of karma. 🤔

Lyly11559 | Lyly11559

A supportive comment calling the ex-wife 'Wonder Woman' 🦋

QNaima | QNaima

Ex-husband's fiancee apologizes for stealing him, mom denies friendship. 🤷🏼‍♀️

DatguyMalcolm | DatguyMalcolm

Infidelity rarely leads to success, expect the fiancée to leave soon 💔

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User suggests involving police and getting full custody. Adds humorous insult.

Otherwise_Bat507 | Otherwise_Bat507

Ex-husband's preference for immaturity backfires. 🚫🤦‍♀️

Lazy_Lingonberry5977 | Lazy_Lingonberry5977

OP's protective actions against obsessive ex-husband's fiancée applauded 👏🏻

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Doubts about ex-husband's fiancée's stability and intentions 🤔

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Impressed by OP's patience with ex-husband's fiancée's audacity. Encouraged OP to maintain boundaries. 🙌

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Supportive comment acknowledges the challenges, encourages self-care 👍

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Insightful analysis of Tammy's behavior and motivations 👍

mek855 | mek855

Doubts on Tammy's pregnancy, sympathy for OP, and crazy situation 🥴

Edlo9596 | Edlo9596

Protecting her family from a deranged fiancée 🚫💔

Smart_cannoli | Smart_cannoli

Ex-husband's fiancée gets served a dose of Karma 💥

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Ex-husband's fiancée admits malice, demands forgiveness without learning. 🤦‍♀️

nandopadilla | nandopadilla

Moving on is the ultimate freedom 👏

Cholera62 | Cholera62

Putting kids first 👥👤👥: Supportive comment acknowledges the ex's misplaced priorities.

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OP receives support for her stance on ex-husband's fiancée's behavior 👏

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Supportive comment, advises to document for protection ❤️

Crystallover87 | Crystallover87

Co-parenting via text/apps after fiancée crosses the line 🚫

here4theGoz | here4theGoz

Standing firm with boundaries against ex-husband's fiancée 🚫💔

gdrom123 | gdrom123

Divorced mom claps back at critics who call her bitter 👏

One-Public4084 | One-Public4084

Cheating ex's fiancée crosses boundary, mom prioritizes kids and safety 🚫

LastTonight9 | LastTonight9

Therapy for ex, partner, and kids? W T actual F.

Altruistic-Bunny | Altruistic-Bunny

Forgive and forget? No thanks. You're handling this amazingly! 👍

Bitter_Animator2514 | Bitter_Animator2514

Ex-husband and fiancée are delusional narcissists, protect your peace 🚨💔

MizzRizz29 | MizzRizz29

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