We’ve all had our share of secrets, but what happens when your partner demands to know your deepest, most personal one? Meet our protagonist, a 32-year-old man who’s been dating Siobhan, also 32, for six months. She’s always been vague about her job, but he recently discovered she’s a self-published romance and erotica author. Now, he’s desperate to know her pen name, but Siobhan isn’t budging. Let’s dive into the story and see how this heated conflict unfolds!
Mysterious Girlfriend ️♀️

The Big Reveal

The Search Begins

The Pen Name Dilemma

Trust Issues?

The Author’s Defense

Sneaky Moves ️♂️

The Argument Escalates

Furious Girlfriend ️

The Ultimatum

Name Calling

Still Waiting… ⏳

Sister’s Opinion ️

The Battle of the Pen Name ️
Our protagonist is determined to uncover his girlfriend Siobhan’s secret pen name, but she’s not willing to share. After accusing her of not trusting him and even attempting to snoop on her laptop, things take a turn for the worse. Siobhan kicks him out and calls him an a**hole. He’s still waiting for her to call and apologize, but his sister thinks he’s the one in the wrong. What do you think? Let’s see how the internet weighs in on this heated debate…
Demanding partner called out for confusing wants with rights

OP gets called out for being controlling and demanding

Boyfriend is controlling and the asshole in this situation.

Respect her privacy and keep your hands off her work

User calls out entitled boyfriend, predicts breakup.
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YTA demands girlfriend’s pen name and threatens to leak it

Trust issues and privacy invasion. Yikes! ♂️

Redditor calls out irony of demanding pen name from girlfriend
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Demanding boyfriend ignores boundaries and privacy, gets called out.

OP gets called out for demanding girlfriend’s secret pen name

Demanding girlfriend’s pen name, snooping on laptop? YTA, dipshit

Boyfriend demands girlfriend’s pen name, invades privacy, and plays victim. YTA.

Demanding girlfriend’s pen name? YTA. Enjoy being single

“Asshole” pen name reveal causes YTA boyfriend backlash

Fanfic writer defends pen name, calls out demanding boyfriend. YTA.

Snooping boyfriend gets called out for pressuring his girlfriend

Savage reply to demanding boyfriend

Respect her privacy! YTA and proving her point

Demanding to know your girlfriend’s pen name? YTA

Boyfriend demands girlfriend’s secret pen name and gets called out. YTA

Demanding girlfriend’s pen name and violating her privacy? YTA ♂️

Boyfriend snoops on girlfriend’s laptop and gets called out. YTA

A comment calling out manipulative behavior with a question

Demanding pen name? YTA and lost your girlfriend

Boyfriend wants girlfriend’s pen name, called out for disrespecting privacy

Controlling boyfriend demands girlfriend’s pen name, gets called out.

Boyfriend’s demand for girlfriend’s pen name is controlling and immature

Respect privacy. YTA for trying to break into her laptop

Boyfriend tries to force girlfriend to reveal pen name YTA gets called out and roasted

Boyfriend snoops on girlfriend’s laptop, demands pen name. YTA

Demanding girlfriend’s pen name and spying on her? YTA, creep!

Don’t snoop on your partner’s laptop! YTA

User calls out controlling boyfriend, suggests girlfriend break up. YTA

Respect privacy! YTA trying to access her laptop.

Boyfriend gets called out for being an entitled a**hole

Respect her privacy and apologize, YTA for not trusting her

Sassy comment calls out boyfriend’s invasion of privacy.

Trust is key . Don’t violate it by snooping around.

Boyfriend tries to invade girlfriend’s privacy and gets called out. YTA

Demanding partner tries to access girlfriend’s laptop. YTA.

A numbered list of why he’s the a**hole, YTAx8

Boyfriend demands girlfriend’s secret pen name, called out for crossing boundary.

Demanding girlfriend’s personal info? Enjoy being single bubba

Preschool teacher’s secret pen name outed by mother. YTA.

Snooping boyfriend called out for demanding girlfriend’s pen name

Boyfriend invalidates girlfriend’s boundaries and demands pen name, called out

Boyfriend demands girlfriend’s pen name, called out for lack of trust

YTA demands girlfriend’s pen name, gets snake in novel

Boyfriend demands girlfriend’s pen name, called out for entitlement

Insecure boyfriend demands girlfriend’s pen name.

Boyfriend demands girlfriend’s pen name, invades privacy, and demands apology. YTA

Demanding girlfriend’s pen name? YTA and need to learn boundaries

Boyfriend demanding pen name after 6 months, YTA.

Demanding her pen name? Take a hint, YTA

Boyfriend demands girlfriend’s pen name, gets called out for controlling behavior

Writer’s privacy should be respected. Trust is broken.

Boyfriend demands girlfriend’s pen name, YTA and aggressive. Dump him.
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Snooping boyfriend gets called out for entitlement and distrust

Respect your girlfriend’s boundaries and don’t be an a**hole.

Respect her privacy. YTA for demanding to know her pen name.

Boyfriend crosses boundaries by demanding girlfriend’s pen name. YTA called out.

Entitled boyfriend gets called out and dumped.

Respect her privacy and creativity, don’t demand her pen name

Boyfriend wants pen name, sneaks into computer. Commenter calls YTA.

Another a**hole emerges, demanding girlfriend’s pen name. YTA.

YTA called out for demanding girlfriend’s secret pen name

Demanding and controlling boyfriend gets called out. YTA

Boyfriend gets roasted for not respecting girlfriend’s privacy

User calls out controlling behavior in relationship. Yikes!
