Teen Boy Refuses to Visit Dad & Newborn Twins 🤔👶👶

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Imagine being a teenager and your world is turned upside down when your parents divorce. Your dad comes out as gay and moves in with his new partner, leaving you feeling like an outsider. That's exactly what happened to this 16-year-old boy, who now finds himself in a difficult situation. His dad and new husband recently welcomed twin boys, but our young protagonist is hesitant to visit them. Why? Let's dive into his story and find out. 😕

Dad Comes Out & Divorce Ensues

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Suspicion of Cheating

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Weekends with Dad

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New Husband's Indifference

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Marriage & Baby Talk

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Dad's Absence

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Missed Birthday

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Dad's Excuse

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Twin Boys' Arrival

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Family Excitement

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Dad's Invitation

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Father-Son Time

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Dad's Disappointment

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Feeling Unwanted

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Hurt by Dad's Actions

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Family's Reaction

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The Struggle

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A Teen's Struggle: Family Love vs Feeling Unwanted 😔

This 16-year-old boy is caught in a whirlwind of emotions as he grapples with his dad's new life. After his parents' divorce, his dad came out as gay and married a man who seems indifferent towards him. Now, with the arrival of twin boys, the teen feels even more disconnected from his dad, who missed his birthday due to the surrogacy process. Despite the family's excitement, he's hesitant to visit the newborns, fearing his dad's husband doesn't want him there. As the family calls him a spoilt brat, he's left wondering if he's in the wrong. Let's take a look at what people have to say about this emotional dilemma...💔

Supportive comment encourages communication with dad about hurtful behavior.

PrincessWaffleTO | PrincessWaffleTO

Teen feels unwelcome at dad's house due to stepdad's actions. NTA.

Mishy162 | Mishy162

NTA. Dad should put effort into relationship with you and twins.

Snoo_7492 | Snoo_7492

Encouraging reply to a teen feeling neglected by his father.

Ok_Intention_3262 | Ok_Intention_3262

16-year-old boy feels unwelcome at dad's because of stepmom. NTA.

Sks44 | Sks44

Engage in a heart-to-heart with your dad for betterment ❤️

Kebar8 | Kebar8

Teen struggles with dad's new family prioritizing twins over him 😔

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Don't let anger towards your dad affect your relationship with babies 🙏

lacyreif | lacyreif

Set boundaries with honesty, NTA for avoiding uncomfortable situation.

EbbWilling7785 | EbbWilling7785

NTA for not marrying someone who doesn't adore your kids 👏

MichaSound | MichaSound

Is the husband's behavior justified or uncalled for?

Awkward_Un1corn | Awkward_Un1corn

Validated NTA shares personal experience and offers advice for communication 👍

NoBodyCares2000 | NoBodyCares2000

Son feels unwelcome by dad's new family. NTA. 👏

Creatureteacher86150 | Creatureteacher86150

Validated and dismissed: NTA comment suggests talking to dad.

nuts_n_bolts | nuts_n_bolts

Suggesting communication and understanding with stepdad, possibility of misunderstanding.

bluecarnallove | bluecarnallove

Have an honest conversation with dad about his new family 👍

GirlWhoLovesPenguins | GirlWhoLovesPenguins

Father's new family sidelines son. NTA for refusing visit.

Hoplite68 | Hoplite68

NTA. A relatable story of navigating a toxic stepfamily dynamic. 👏

MissingU2Death | MissingU2Death

Encouraging reply suggests family therapy to resolve father-son issues. ✌🏻

AffectionateTruth147 | AffectionateTruth147

Father-son time on weekends could be a compromise 👍

Adorable-Glass6478 | Adorable-Glass6478

Encouraging advice to have a sit down with dad 👍

Mirgroht | Mirgroht

Teen boy rightfully refuses to visit dad and newborn twins 🙅‍♂️

history_buff_9971 | history_buff_9971

Communication is key! 🗣️ Talk to your dad openly and honestly.

Ok-Painting4168 | Ok-Painting4168

User sympathizes with OP and calls out absent father. 👏

bewicked4fun123 | bewicked4fun123

Communication is key. 🗣 Let your dad know how you feel.

mummadai2 | mummadai2

Prioritizing new marriage over son, NTA for not visiting newborns 👍

DynkoFromTheNorth | DynkoFromTheNorth

Communication is key to a relationship with father and siblings. 👍

jounicorn83 | jounicorn83

Communicate calmly with dad to resolve the issue 👍

BobzyBadass12345 | BobzyBadass12345

Encouraging reply to a teen hesitant to meet his newborn siblings 👏

ginama66 | ginama66

Debating if dad's husband dislikes or just not engaging 🤔

blackpawed | blackpawed

Excuses to avoid visiting dad and newborn twins 🙄

ChronicChoas | ChronicChoas

Son confronts father about step-dad's behavior and neglect

KrissAdachi | KrissAdachi

Defending dad's intentions, criticizing commenters for insecurity and insensitivity 😒

Goblin_scum13 | Goblin_scum13

Choosing not to meet new siblings and step-parent, NTA.

BorderlineBadBrain | BorderlineBadBrain

Father misses milestone, NTA for not visiting newborn twins 👶👶

AndriaRenee | AndriaRenee

User sympathizes with commenter's dilemma, suggests talking to dad.

5tar_k1ll3r | 5tar_k1ll3r

OP is NTA for feeling hurt by dad's absence on birthday.

ADHDLifer | ADHDLifer

Stepmom-to-be shares struggles of blending families, offers advice 💔🤝

Either_Ad_8757 | Either_Ad_8757

Open communication is key. Hope they can resolve their differences 👍

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Honesty is key. Explain how you feel to your dad.

Silverkekoa | Silverkekoa

Teen struggles with dad's new family, comment offers helpful advice ❤️

antigamingbitch | antigamingbitch

It's okay to grieve the family you lost, be understanding.

Evening_Produce1070 | Evening_Produce1070

Teen feels unwelcome at dad's due to stepdad's behavior 👍

Divine_Mind257 | Divine_Mind257

Building a relationship with your dad and siblings is important 👍

HopelessLittleTimmy | HopelessLittleTimmy

Validating OP's feelings and suggesting a conversation with dad. 👍

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Stand up for yourself and talk to your dad about it 🗣️

mnhw93 | mnhw93

Supportive comment for teen's family situation. 👏

gerenski9 | gerenski9

Encouraging good communication skills between parents and children 👍

NitroColdbrewCocaine | NitroColdbrewCocaine

Valid feelings, talk to dad. Surrogates compensated with gifts in Canada.

lackofsunshine | lackofsunshine

Teen's dad prioritized surrogacy over custody time, NTA for refusing visit.

Ancient-Transition-4 | Ancient-Transition-4

Communication is key! 🗣️ Sit down with your dad and talk it out.

hammocks_ | hammocks_

Dad's negligence caused son to refuse visit. NTA.

ExternalSpeaker9 | ExternalSpeaker9

Try to enjoy the process and be happy for your family 🙏

sasanessa | sasanessa

Heartfelt advice to a teen struggling with his dad's new family ❤️

guineapickle | guineapickle

Communicate your feelings and stand your ground. You're not obligated. 👍

GonnaBeOverIt | GonnaBeOverIt

Open communication is key with family 💋👍 #NTA

SoloBurger13 | SoloBurger13

Communication is key for a healthy father-son relationship 👍

nice52 | nice52

Suggests family counseling for NTA teen and dad 👨🏻‍👦🏻👨🏻‍👦💻

Sad-Concert3258 | Sad-Concert3258

Advice for a teen struggling with visiting his dad.

Francie1966 | Francie1966

Encouraging response to a teen feeling ostracized by his stepdad.

SluggoJones | SluggoJones

Encouraging comment to a struggling teen, offering support and advice ❤️

Nixie39 | Nixie39

Blended family dynamics: NTA for not bonding with new siblings 👍

UglyDucky_00 | UglyDucky_00

Communication is key. NTA for wanting to talk it out 👍

TickTickAnotherDay | TickTickAnotherDay

Teen refuses to visit dad and newborn twins, NTA suggests solution.

ManaSpellFae | ManaSpellFae

Validated and communicated feelings. Now it's on dad. #NTA

AggravatingResult549 | AggravatingResult549

Communication is key. 🗣️

Accomplished_Row6466 | Accomplished_Row6466

Encouraging comment to connect with new siblings and family. 👍

brit8996 | brit8996

Encouraging comment to talk to dad about stepdad situation 👍

saurellia | saurellia

Teen refuses to visit dad and newborn twins, commenter suggests respectful conversation.

AssaultROFL | AssaultROFL

Father's new family doesn't make son a visitor. NTA 👏

InternationalKick126 | InternationalKick126

Valid feelings, honest communication, and a 'him' problem. 👍

Boobear7676 | Boobear7676

Communicate with dad through a heartfelt letter ✉️

RetMilRob | RetMilRob

Open communication is key for a healthy father-son relationship 👍

GreenGengar1982 | GreenGengar1982

Encouraging response to a teenager's family struggles 👍

pamsellicane | pamsellicane

Stand up for yourself, you're NTA. Have an honest conversation 👍

killbot0224 | killbot0224

Open communication is key to resolving family issues 👍

Aggravating-Dare-707 | Aggravating-Dare-707

Protect your mental health, start therapy early. 🧘‍♂️

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Teen feels neglected by dad, doesn't want to visit new family 👨‍👦‍👦

Knittingfairy09113 | Knittingfairy09113

Therapy could help OP and dad work through assumptions. 👨🏻‍🤷🏻‍👨🏻

Evilbadscary | Evilbadscary

NTA stands up for themselves with fiery response 🔥

RyzenTide | RyzenTide

User defends OP's evidence of cheating, calls step-dad AH. 👏

jayd189 | jayd189

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