🤵🚫 Teen Skips Suit & Wears Noise-Cancellers at Brother's Wedding: Justified or Not? 🎧

Diply Social Team
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We all know that weddings can be stressful, but what happens when one guest's sensory needs clash with the expectations of the bride and her family? One 15-year-old with autism found himself in the middle of a wedding drama when he chose to wear a white polo and jeans instead of the required black suit and red tie, and brought noise-cancelling headphones to his brother's big day. 😲 Despite having his brother's approval, the bride and her family were less than thrilled with his attire and actions. But was he really in the wrong? Let's dive into the story...

Sensory Struggles and a Wedding Dilemma

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Suit Trouble and Loud Music

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Brother's Wedding and Dress Code

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The Teen's Compromise

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SIL's Reaction and Autism Struggles

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Drunk SIL and Headphone Drama

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Waiting Outside

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Post-Wedding Guilt

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The Big Question

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Sensory Needs vs. Wedding Etiquette: Who's in the Wrong? 🤷

So, our sensory-sensitive teen tried his best to navigate the tricky situation of attending his brother's wedding without causing a scene. He followed his brother's advice, ditching the suit and bringing noise-cancellers to help with his autism-related sensory needs. However, the bride and her family were less than understanding, leading to some heated confrontations and post-wedding guilt. Was he really in the wrong, or should the bride's family have been more compassionate? Let's see what the internet has to say about this delicate dilemma... 💬

Wearing noise-cancellers at a wedding: NTA or disrespectful? 🎧

Substantial_Home_257 | Substantial_Home_257

Wearing noise-cancelling headphones to a wedding? NTA, it's self-care 👍

AlbeonX | AlbeonX

Wearing noise-cancellers to a wedding: NTA, but plain black clothes help.

Due_Fix_3900 | Due_Fix_3900

Sibling rivalry and wedding drama 👰‍♀️🤵‍♂️

Jdpraise1 | Jdpraise1

Wearing noise-cancellers to a wedding? NTA, bride was rude 👀

Saraqael_Rising | Saraqael_Rising

Teen wears noise-cancellers at brother's wedding, NTA according to comments. 👏

lostalldoubt86 | lostalldoubt86

Comfortable yet formal attire suggestions for non-suit wearers. 👍

krankykitty | krankykitty

Skipping a suit for noise-cancellers at a wedding: NTA wins!

[deleted] | [deleted]

Skipping the suit and wearing noise-cancellers to a wedding? NTA.

1568314 | 1568314

Wedding drama and family feuds 🤯

dropshortreaver | dropshortreaver

Fashion advice sparks debate on wedding attire etiquette. 👟

ChilindriPizza | ChilindriPizza

Weddings can be uncomfortable, NTA for wearing noise-cancellers.

Terra88draco | Terra88draco

Wearing noise-cancellers to a wedding: NTA or ableist?

SagaciousSagi | SagaciousSagi

Skipping the suit for noise-cancellers at a wedding: NTA

This_Cauliflower1986 | This_Cauliflower1986

Skipping a suit for noise-cancelling headphones at a wedding: NTA

Pheonyx11 | Pheonyx11

👏🏼 NTA deserves respect and understanding for her accommodation needs.

Uncleted626 | Uncleted626

Wearing noise-cancellers to a wedding: NTA or not?

Hyperdohli | Hyperdohli

SIL is TA for shouting, but was wearing noise-cancellers to a wedding justified? 😳

Scion41790 | Scion41790

Wearing noise-cancellers at a wedding? NTA! Lack of communication caused it.

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Noise-cancelling headphones at a wedding? NTA, but maybe earbuds?

Western_Nebula9624 | Western_Nebula9624

Wearing noise-cancellers at brother's wedding: NTA, brother approved 👍

kr0mb0pulos_michael | kr0mb0pulos_michael

Wedding noise-cancellers: practical or faux pas? NTAH!

Realitylyn | Realitylyn

👍 Teen with autism wears noise-cancellers to brother's wedding, NTA.

EastLeastCoast | EastLeastCoast

Wearing noise-cancellers to a wedding: ESH, but SIL was worse 😬

Kinghyrule90 | Kinghyrule90

Teen wears noise-cancelling headphones to brother's wedding. NTA.

Fuzzy-Constant | Fuzzy-Constant

Teen with autism wears noise-cancellers to wedding, but dress code mismatched. ESH.

Playful-Wallaby4097 | Playful-Wallaby4097

ESH for not helping with attire, headphones were fine though 🤷‍♂️

kspicydaddi | kspicydaddi

Teen with autism wears noise-cancellers to wedding, NTA comment supports

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Teen wears noise-cancellers to wedding, SIL called out for abelism. 👏

weebu123 | weebu123

Teen wears noise-cancelling headphones to wedding, gets shamed. NTA.

momomunch | momomunch

👍 NTA. Commenter with autism defends teen's noise-cancellers at wedding.

Opheleone | Opheleone

Teen with autism wears noise-cancellers to brother's wedding, NTA.

The__Riker__Maneuver | The__Riker__Maneuver

Normalize accommodating neurodivergent people and stop ableism. 💪

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Autistic teen wears noise-cancellers to wedding, NTA according to comment.

Delicious_Wish8712 | Delicious_Wish8712

Wearing noise-cancellers at a wedding: justified or not? NTA.

amish__ | amish__

Making accommodations for guests with autism: Yay or nay? 🤔

Griffy_42 | Griffy_42

Teen wears noise-cancellers to brother's wedding, gets support (NTA)

DiddyDM | DiddyDM

Weddings should be about love, not dress codes. NTA 🎉

gypsyqld | gypsyqld

Wearing noise-cancellers at a wedding: justified or not? NTA wins.

IamNotTheMama | IamNotTheMama

Neurodivergent commenter defends wearing noise-cancellers to brother's wedding. 🎧

yarnsprite | yarnsprite

Skipping suit for noise-cancellers at wedding: NTA, but bridezilla beware 😏

another-r-account | another-r-account

Wearing noise-cancellers to a wedding: okay. Blue jeans: not so much.

NancyNuggets | NancyNuggets

Empathetic comment acknowledges lack of understanding towards disabilities.

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Teen wears noise-cancellers at wedding, NTA, SIL out of line 👏

GeneralChaos2005 | GeneralChaos2005

Skipping formal wear at a wedding: NTA or ESH? 🤔

Disastrous_Drive_764 | Disastrous_Drive_764

Teen with noise-cancellers at wedding gets NTA support and advice 👍

Competitive_Team6174 | Competitive_Team6174

Wearing noise-cancellers to a wedding: justified or not? NTA wins.

Anomnomouse91 | Anomnomouse91

NTA! Sibling's spouse is an ableist bully and mean drunk 💯

romantic_elegy | romantic_elegy

Teen wears noise-cancelling headphones at brother's wedding, NTA according to comment.

Thick_Stomach86 | Thick_Stomach86

Wearing noise-cancellers to a wedding: ableist or accommodating? NTA.

ChaosAndMischeif | ChaosAndMischeif

Teen wears noise-cancelling headphones at wedding, SIL lacks empathy. NTA.

kishmishari | kishmishari

Weddings are supposed to be fun, but this bride's behavior...💩

Virhia | Virhia

Autistic commenter shares supportive family experiences, condemns unsympathetic in-laws. 👏

scubahana | scubahana

👍 NTA. The bride overreacted, give them space and talk later.

Moonmold | Moonmold

Noise-cancelling headphones at wedding: NTA, communication error caused rift.

papuvesi | papuvesi

Noise-cancelling headphones at a wedding? NTA, SIL was obnoxious 🎧

OhioGirl22 | OhioGirl22

Wear what you want, bride was mean. You're NTA 👍

RebelWithoutASauce | RebelWithoutASauce

Wearing noise-cancellers at brother's wedding: NTA, sister was controlling.

arcaneth | arcaneth

Wearing noise-cancellers to a wedding with sensory issues: NTA 🎧

MagicUnicorn37 | MagicUnicorn37

Mom of autistic boy asks for advice on jeans, commenter handled situation maturely

Nyx_Shadowspawn | Nyx_Shadowspawn

NTA, but consider visiting a proper suit store for help 🤵🏻

Ignore-Me-K | Ignore-Me-K

Teen wears noise-cancellers to brother's wedding, SIL calls it rude. NTA.

twiddlywerp | twiddlywerp

Bridezilla alert! 🚨 MTA's noise-cancelling headphones cause wedding drama.

SuperD57 | SuperD57

👍 NTA for wearing noise-cancellers at brother's wedding

UnpleasantUntiny | UnpleasantUntiny

👍 NTA for wearing noise-cancellers, SIL needs to learn about autism.

ResponseMountain6580 | ResponseMountain6580

Wearing noise-cancellers at a wedding: NTA or not?

rak1882 | rak1882

Supportive comment from a mother of an autistic adult.

BoyzMom13 | BoyzMom13

👏 Standing up for reasonable accommodations at a wedding. NTA.

SassiestPants | SassiestPants

Wearing noise-cancellers to manage a condition at a wedding: NTA

HexStarlight | HexStarlight

Wedding dress code drama: Commenter deems OP the a**hole

MoogleyWoogley | MoogleyWoogley

Skipping a suit for noise-cancellers at a wedding: NTA

Sweetsmyle | Sweetsmyle

Empathy wins! Bride should be understanding of brother's needs. 👏

Robossassin | Robossassin

Brother's love for comfort trumps bride's irrational behavior. NAH 🤷

haasje83 | haasje83

Brother's wedding, noise-cancellers, and SIL's opinion: NTA wins 🎧

Baph0metX | Baph0metX

👍 NTA. Brother should have filled bride in, no apology needed.

HipposPoopFunny | HipposPoopFunny

Supportive comment validates OP's decision to wear noise-cancellers at wedding. 👏

Dewhickey76 | Dewhickey76

Teen wears noise-cancellers at brother's wedding, SIL's behavior appalling. NTA.

miasabine | miasabine

Wearing noise-cancelling headphones to a wedding: NTA but suggestions given.

Joo_the_troll | Joo_the_troll

👏 NTA stood up for themselves and brother against ableism.

sonicANIME2019 | sonicANIME2019

👍 Not the a**hole for wearing noise-cancellers at wedding

Extra-Visit-8385 | Extra-Visit-8385

Sister advises to come clean to brother about SIL's yelling. 💬

Every_Caterpillar945 | Every_Caterpillar945

Teen wears noise-cancellers at brother's wedding, brother doesn't defend. NTA.

SydlynsMagic | SydlynsMagic

Accepting and respecting sensory issues is important for everyone. 🙌

dopaminehoarder | dopaminehoarder

Wearing noise-cancellers at brother's wedding: NTA. Don't apologize.

jaethegreatone | jaethegreatone

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