👗 Woman Prefers Modesty, Sparks Office Drama! 😲

Diply Social Team
Diply | Diply

Fashion can be a personal choice, but what happens when it leads to conflict in the workplace? Meet our 35-year-old protagonist, who works in a male-dominated industry. She has a mix of both feminine and masculine hobbies, but when it comes to dressing for work, she prefers to keep it modest. Her wardrobe choices never seemed to be an issue, until a new coworker with a more daring fashion sense joined the company. Let's dive into this tale of office fashion drama! 😱

The Modest Dresser 🧥

healthy-working | healthy-working

Not a Tomboy, Just Comfortable 💁‍♀️

healthy-working | healthy-working

Summer Style ☀️

healthy-working | healthy-working

New Coworker, New Fashion 🌟

healthy-working | healthy-working

Daring Outfits 💃

healthy-working | healthy-working

Lunchtime Shopping 🛍️

healthy-working | healthy-working

Unsolicited Fashion Advice 👗

healthy-working | healthy-working

Cornered and Confessing 🙈

healthy-working | healthy-working

No Offense Intended 🤷‍♀️

healthy-working | healthy-working

Offended Coworker 😠

healthy-working | healthy-working

Comfort Over Style 💺

healthy-working | healthy-working

Fashion Clash: Who's in the Wrong? 🤔

Our modest dresser found herself in a sticky situation when her new coworker took offense to her preference for more conservative clothing. The chic coworker accused her of shaming women who want to maintain their femininity in a male-dominated field. But our protagonist insists she's just dressing for her comfort. So, who's in the wrong here? Let's see what the internet has to say about this fashion feud! 📣

Respectful disagreement on appropriate work attire, ends with accusations 🙄

stunning-stasis | stunning-stasis

Modesty vs. Provocative Dressing: NAH, but drama ensues 🤔

smithjojo99 | smithjojo99

Modesty is subjective and should not be imposed on others. 🙏

Alternative_Answer | Alternative_Answer

Respectful comment defends personal dress choices in workplace. 👏

memapski | memapski

Prefering modest clothes is okay, NTA. Make peace in office.

Cylem234 | Cylem234

Respecting a woman's right to choose clothing. 👗

bliznitch | bliznitch

Different styles, same professionalism. NAH, but discuss with empathy.

rachelina | rachelina

Office drama ensues over loaded term 'modesty'. ESH.

PetticoatRule | PetticoatRule

Understanding and empathy can prevent office drama. NTA.

teke367 | teke367

Choosing conservative attire is a personal choice, NTA.

glom4ever | glom4ever

Modesty and its baggage for women discussed in office drama. 🤔

musiclovingcat | musiclovingcat

Modesty wins! NTA for standing up for your preferences 👏

AniMayhem125 | AniMayhem125

Supporting a colleague's modesty in a male-dominated workplace 👏

tamsui_tosspot | tamsui_tosspot

Accused of being judgmental for not liking coworker's comment. YTA.

wafflesforprez | wafflesforprez

Modesty wins, drama ensues. NTA for clothing preference.

BriBriKinz | BriBriKinz

Modesty debate in the workplace handled with tact and respect 🙌

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Choosing words carefully can prevent office drama. NTA.

DungeonsAndDirges | DungeonsAndDirges

Modesty wins! Commenter supports woman's right to dress modestly.

candiedapplecrisp | candiedapplecrisp

Modesty or slut-shaming? YTA for putting her in a box 😕

fuyukihana | fuyukihana

Navigating office dress code can be tricky, but bonding shouldn't.

whatthewhythehow | whatthewhythehow

User criticized for judgmental behavior towards colleague's fashion choices. YTA.

oneyaebyonty | oneyaebyonty

Respectful refusal leads to office drama 🤯

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Respectful comment defends personal preference in office dress code. 👏

k2dadub | k2dadub

Navigating gendered dress codes in male-dominated professions can be tricky.

TotalSeaworthiness6 | TotalSeaworthiness6

Empowerment! Woman stands up for herself against office fashion police. 💪

SouthernMarylander | SouthernMarylander

Choosing words carefully can avoid misunderstandings. 👍

fruskydekke | fruskydekke

Respectful communication is key. ESH for not being clear.

burgundyink | burgundyink

Apologize for sounding judgy, explain your style, and compliment her 👍

Fr0stZero | Fr0stZero

Friendly advice or modesty debate? YTA gets called out.

cornycatlady | cornycatlady

Empowering comment on gender expression and equality. ✌🏻

ohmarlasinger | ohmarlasinger

Judgmental description leads to slight YTA verdict 😕

lianalili | lianalili

Supportive comment defends fashion choice against office drama. 👏


Modesty is a loaded term, jeans and cardigans are comfy 😌

melodypowers | melodypowers

Don't judge your coworker's clothing choices. Be respectful and professional. 🤝

jameane | jameane

Redditor calls out OP for slut-shaming, deems them YTA 🔥

Overlord1317 | Overlord1317

Dress modestly, look great, and don't let anyone judge you! 👗

TX_Farmer | TX_Farmer

Modesty debate at work, but does it really matter? 🤔

iamkhmer | iamkhmer

Defending personal style against office drama with a sassy comeback.

avicioustradition | avicioustradition

Modesty debate causes office drama. NTA wins with clapback 👏

GothPenguin | GothPenguin

Dressing modestly sparks office drama. NTA explains their reasons. 🤔

gianacakos | gianacakos

Woman stands up for her modesty, shuts down workplace drama. 👏

avast2006 | avast2006

Female coworker's intrusive behavior leads to awkward confrontation. ESH.

solnaughty | solnaughty

Value judgement on dressing sparks office drama 😲

whiskeyearz | whiskeyearz

Navigating office dress codes can be tricky. This commenter suggests alternatives.

SomebodyToldMe113 | SomebodyToldMe113

Assertive response shuts down office drama over clothing choice. 👏

ihateusernamecreates | ihateusernamecreates

Modesty debate leads to minor conflict in the office 🤔

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User defends feminine style and criticizes woman's modesty preference. 🤔

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Navigating office dress codes can be tricky 🤔

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Fashionista explains why OP is the a**hole in office drama 😒

Alsbrid | Alsbrid

Misunderstanding leads to drama at work, but NAH in reality 🙂

MrCrowbarMeek | MrCrowbarMeek

Office drama sparked by fashion advice and inappropriate spreading.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Misunderstanding over modesty preference, suggest clarifying and respecting boundaries. 🙂

CaptDeliciousPants | CaptDeliciousPants

Modesty is a personal choice, not a judgement. 👍

BroadElderberry | BroadElderberry

Navigating office drama with kindness and compliments. ❤

explodingwhale17 | explodingwhale17

Calling your style 'modest' can be misinterpreted as judgmental. 😕

LemonCucumbers | LemonCucumbers

Modesty vs femininity: a nuanced discussion on dressing preferences. 👗

happydactyl31 | happydactyl31

Modest fashion is subjective, respect each other's choices. NTA. 👗

sequinedbow | sequinedbow

Judging a coworker's dress style sparks controversy and discomfort 😬

mollyfran | mollyfran

Be mindful of your words to avoid being the a**hole 😕

IncognitoMagnifico | IncognitoMagnifico

Responding rudely to a coworker's clothing choice is unprofessional. #ESH

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Navigating gender norms in the workplace. Empathy is key. 👍

valimars | valimars

Complimenting her style could resolve office drama peacefully 🙌

fake_red13 | fake_red13

Office drama unfolds over modesty debate. ESH, but harsh words hurt.

HalbeardTheHermit | HalbeardTheHermit

Respectful disagreement over wardrobe choices in the workplace. 👍

NoApollonia | NoApollonia

Navigating the nuances of modesty and its implications. 👗

desgoestoparis | desgoestoparis

Misunderstanding over modesty preference, keep it professional moving forward. 😊

snoozebuttonkiller | snoozebuttonkiller

NAH. Poor word choice caused misunderstanding in office dress code. 👍

brainadmage | brainadmage

Modesty preference causes office drama, but apology can fix it! 😊

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Sincere apology can resolve the office drama 🙏

CandleQueen90 | CandleQueen90

Suggest an olive branch with a gift and kind note 💝️

FluffyOwl30 | FluffyOwl30

Ex-Mormon suggests better words than 'modest' for coworker's style. NAH.

insert-smthng-wtty16 | insert-smthng-wtty16

Miscommunication caused drama; talk it out to resolve the conflict. 💬

FlamiaTheDemon | FlamiaTheDemon

Misunderstood intentions lead to office drama. Suggest a bonding activity 😊

tinycommunist | tinycommunist

Woman shamed for modesty preference while shopping. NTA wins.

cherposton | cherposton

Choosing better words can avoid office drama. 👍

torikura | torikura

Dress how you like without attacking others. NTA 👍

hillofjumpingbeans | hillofjumpingbeans

Misunderstandings lead to AH judgement on clothing choices. 🙄

TheGreatNyanHobo | TheGreatNyanHobo

Support for modesty comment, but caution for potential trigger words.

strawberries009 | strawberries009

Gamine vs Modest: A debate on fashion ethics and perception

justsparklinganxiety | justsparklinganxiety

Missed opportunity for connection over fashion choices. Try again! 👟

bettyboopin | bettyboopin

Modesty clash at work resolved with a peace offering ✌️

melonlollicholypop | melonlollicholypop

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