Mom Inherits Fortune, Kids Demand College Debt Payoff

Imagine inheriting a fortune that could change your life, only to have your adult children demand you use it to pay off their college debt. That’s the dilemma one mom is facing after her father’s passing left her with a sizable inheritance. She and her husband have decided to sell the inherited properties and use the money for their retirement and a dream trip around the world. But their kids are not happy about it. Let’s dive into this family drama and see if mom’s decision is justified or if she should reconsider.

A Young Mom’s Sacrifice

Marriage and Middle-Class Life

Three Kids, All Grown Up ‍ ‍

College Funds and Debts

Inheritance: A Ticket to Retirement? ️

Dream Trip Around the World

Kids’ Reaction: Not So Happy

A Heated Argument

Mom and Dad vs. Kids

Edit: Ages and Inheritance Details

Family Tradition

Mom’s Inheritance Dilemma: Dream Trip or College Debt?

This 44-year-old mom of three adult children is facing a tough decision after inheriting a fortune from her late father. She and her husband plan to sell the inherited properties and use the money for their retirement and a dream trip around the world. ✈️ However, their kids are upset that they won’t use the money to pay off their college debts. The mom, who sacrificed a lot for her family, is determined to finally do what she wants and live her dream. But are her kids right in asking for help with their debt? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation.

Kids demand college debt payoff, but NTA says no way!

NTA, enjoy your retirement and life, your kids aren’t entitled.

Inheritance dispute turns ugly over college debt payoff. ESH.

Inheritance is hers, kids have no right to demand payoff

NTA. You’ve worked hard to provide for your kids

Parent refuses to pay off kids’ college debt. NTA

User calls out OP for emotionally manipulative sacrifice comment. ESH.

Inheritance isn’t entitlement. NTA. Go grieve in Paris.

Unanimous ruling surprises commenter, suggests some money be passed down.

Parent struggles with inheritance and kids’ college debt.

Kids demand college debt payoff, but commenter says mom’s NTA.

Education is important, parents should finish the job

Harsh reply to entitled kids demanding college debt payoff

Parenting is a choice, don’t use it as a sacrifice card

Transforming properties into rental pieces for a lifetime income stream

User calls out parent for referring to child as ‘the child’

Parent’s responsibility to prioritize child’s college over personal enjoyment. YTA.

Kids demand college debt payoff, commenter suggests public college alternative. NTA.

NTA, but get financial advice before quitting jobs to travel

Parent called out for not helping kids with debt

Kids expect too much, but mom should consider leaving inheritance.

Entitled kids demand payoff, but commenter says enjoy life instead

Harsh criticism for a parent who won’t pay off college debt

Parental sacrifice can’t be used as a guilt-trip. NTA

Inheriting fortune, choosing travel over kids’ debt, selfish?

Mom refuses to pay off children’s college debt. NTA

Secure retirement > Kids’ college debt. NTA

Parenting comes with sacrifices, but don’t blame your kids. NTA.

NTA – Enjoy the money, but still be there for your kids

Compromise with your kids and offer them a few grand

Parent shares experience of paying for kids’ college with inheritance.

Teach people how to treat you. Entitled kids. ESH

Parental responsibility vs entitlement: A delicate balance ‍

Parent prioritizes inheritance over children’s education

Kids ask for help with college debt, commenters show hostility

Inheritance is a deliberate plan by your father. YTA if you don’t help your own kids.

User warns mom about overspending and suggests starting a business

Expectations of inheritance and generosity questioned. College fund debated.

NTA for inheritance, but AH for blaming children’s birth.

Parenting debate: Who should pay for children’s education? YTA verdict.

Travel and enjoy your money, but don’t burn bridges with family

Paying off kids’ college debt vs. traveling the world

Parental sacrifice can lead to resentment. NTA, but communicate better

Inheritance creates entitlement debate among family

GenXer agrees mom’s NTA, but highlights rising college costs

Fair amount for college, inheritance split may be appropriate

Is prioritizing individualism over generational wealth always bad?

Leaving an inheritance is important, NTA if planned wisely

American education system sucks, but NTA for not paying debt

NTA. Kids need to put on big boy pants and stop entitlement

NTA calls out US education system for leaving students in debt

Be mindful of phrasing to avoid making kids feel unwanted

User calls out selfish mom for not paying off kids’ debt

Broke college students vs. parents touring the world YTA

A scathing comment on OP’s selfish financial decision.

Parental dilemma: pay off kids’ debt or make them pay back?

Parenting goal is a better life for kids. YTA.

Debt entitlement of kids. Cultural differences in higher education systems.

Debt-free mom sparks entitlement debate among commenters

NTA, kids responsible for their debts. Enjoy your fortune

Enjoy your windfall and explore the world! NTA

NTA. Commenter encourages mom to enjoy life after sacrifice.

Kids demand college debt payoff, but NTA dad shuts them down

Enjoy your fortune, NTA. Kids will get over it.

User shares personal experience, supports mom’s decision.

Suggests compromise with a fun twist ️

Generous parent, ungrateful kids. NTA for keeping inheritance.

Respectful comment on inheritance and family values.

Inheritance vs. College Debt: YTA, but legally right

Parent called out for not paying kids’ college debt

NTA. Enjoy your hard-earned money and don’t feel guilty

NTA. Inspiring story of hard work and independence

Redditors agree: OP is NTA for not paying kids’ debt

Kids demand debt payoff, commenter calls them entitled assholes. NTA.

Generous advice on inheritance and family dynamics

Debt-shaming in wealthy families, even after inheritance

Grad student shares perspective on college debt, supports mom’s decision.

Skeptical commenter questions motives behind inheritance reveal

Parenting is a lifetime commitment, but adult children are responsible. NTA

Inheritance is a gift, kids not entitled to it. NAH

Supportive comment reminds mom to prioritize her own happiness

Inheriting fortune, kids demand debt payoff. NTA but expect friction.

NTA. Worked hard to save for kids, not obligated to pay debt.