Imagine being pregnant at the same time as your coworker, only to find out that they're getting a baby shower and you're not. That's exactly what happened to a 31-year-old teacher who was left heartbroken when her school threw a surprise baby shower for her 21-year-old coworker, Kayla, but not for her. Although the teacher and her husband have been trying to get pregnant for years, she was left feeling rejected and hurt when her school failed to include her in the celebrations. Let's dive into this emotional rollercoaster of a story. 😞
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This emotional story of two pregnant teachers highlights the importance of inclusivity and understanding. While one teacher received a surprise baby shower, the other was left feeling rejected and hurt by her colleagues' assumptions. Despite the heartache, our protagonist found solace in the kindness of strangers and ultimately welcomed a beautiful baby boy into the world. Let's see what people think of this bittersweet situation...🤔
NTA. It's insensitive to assume OP didn't want a celebration. 😢
CandylandCanada | CandylandCanada
Colleagues debate if OP or her group is at fault. 😕
MagnumHV | MagnumHV
Coworkers didn't throw a baby shower for her. Reddit celebrates instead 🎉
ShmamBo88 | ShmamBo88
Coworkers assumed OP didn't want a baby shower, but excluding her was wrong 🙅
JudgeJed100 | JudgeJed100
Fairness should have been ensured. Being reserved doesn't mean ungrateful. 🙏
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Private person learns hard lesson about workplace celebrations 😢
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Coworkers threw a joint baby shower for husband's coworker, but not for her. NTA.
loocievanpelt | loocievanpelt
Coworkers threw a baby shower for one pregnant coworker, but not OP. NTA.
Clydefr0g8 | Clydefr0g8
Coworkers suck: NTA stands up for herself at baby shower 🤪
BlueCarnations12 | BlueCarnations12
Unfair treatment at workplace, hold head high and address calmly. 💪
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Being told "you don't need gifts" after a snub is unacceptable. 😡
annamed | annamed
Heartless coworkers snub baby shower, but justice is served. 😊
OhHeyItsShar | OhHeyItsShar
Office etiquette dictates fairness in celebrations for all employees. 😊
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Fair point, NTA. A joint shower could have been nice 🙂
Oldlady0 | Oldlady0
Avoiding favoritism is key in maintaining workplace professionalism. 🤝
Beka_Cooper | Beka_Cooper
Privacy ≠ Dislike of Nice Gestures. NTA 🤰🏻
nameless2640 | nameless2640
NTA is hurt by the baby shower snub and considers pulling back from colleagues. 😔
henchwench89 | henchwench89
Coworkers' cruelty called out in NTA comment 🚨
shawshawthepanda | shawshawthepanda
OP is criticized for being too private and sensitive about baby shower snub. Replies defend OP's right to privacy and criticize workplace inconsistency.
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Coworkers' baby shower snub: NTA, workplace drama sucks 😒
breakfastpitchblende | breakfastpitchblende
OP's pregnancy privacy may have led to the baby shower snub 😕
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Privacy concerns lead to no baby shower, NAH.
mayormegan93 | mayormegan93
Being quiet doesn't make you a bad person. NTA 👍
basura_time | basura_time
Advise to NTA: Communicate with co-workers and Principal for resolution 👍
Kigichi | Kigichi
No shower for the teacher-to-be. Not cool, colleagues! 😒
Cocoasneeze | Cocoasneeze
NAH, they were following your lead. Misunderstanding, not malice 🙂
ZoomAcademyFan | ZoomAcademyFan
Expecting a baby shower while being antisocial? YTA, sorry 🤷♀️
baketwice | baketwice
Coworkers should have asked if she wanted a baby shower 👍
TubiDaorArya | TubiDaorArya
Commenter suggests OP's behavior caused baby shower snub. 🤔
alicedeelite | alicedeelite
Colleagues' inconsideration earns commenter NTA status 👏
FreyaVee | FreyaVee
Supportive coworker throws baby shower for all pregnant colleagues 💜
redraybans123 | redraybans123
School's baby shower snub is cruel and hurtful. NTA 😢
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Coworkers called NTA, but insulted for being insensitive 🤯
UniqueCommentNo243 | UniqueCommentNo243
Coworker's baby shower snub: Mild YTA or just misunderstood? 😐
LittlestSlipper55 | LittlestSlipper55
Fairness matters: Throwing parties for some and not others? NTA 😊
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Respectful privacy or lack of communication? NAH.
CaitiieBuggs | CaitiieBuggs
NTA stands up for herself and calls out coworkers' behavior 👏
Izzy4162305 | Izzy4162305
Commenter suggests the snubbed teacher is partially at fault 🤔
peakofgrace | peakofgrace
Heartless co-workers snub teacher's baby shower, NTA for feeling jealous 😢
BugsRatty | BugsRatty
Fellow teacher agrees, coworkers should have organized a baby shower 👏
PrettyProof | PrettyProof
Office celebrations need clear policies to avoid hurt and confusion 😢
diracpointless | diracpointless
Respectful NTA comment advocates for fair treatment in the workplace 💪
TMK602 | TMK602
NAH, but keep your feelings in check to maintain relationships 🙏
BreakingForce | BreakingForce
Heartwarming comment celebrates pregnancy and motherhood 💛
Pink_T | Pink_T
Validating emotions: Support for NAH feeling excluded from baby shower 👏
MrLuflu | MrLuflu
Commenter sympathizes with OP's baby shower snub. 😢
ultravision_ | ultravision_
Co-workers' baby shower snub is astonishing. Congrats, NTA! 👏
Watsondoggod | Watsondoggod
Principal's assumption leads to rude baby shower snub. NTA's response.
whysmynamegone | whysmynamegone
Misunderstanding resolved with a heartfelt congratulations 💖
Bitch-Im-Adorable | Bitch-Im-Adorable
Empathetic reply to baby shower snub. 😢
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Commenter empathizes but suggests OP may be standoffish 🤔
South_Opportunity_52 | South_Opportunity_52
Commenter sympathizes with OP's unfair treatment at work. 😢
beaglemama | beaglemama
Respectful gesture or hurtful snub? NAH comment sparks debate 🤔
Mishmsh | Mishmsh
Keeping to oneself doesn't justify exclusion from a celebration 🤔
Jlb143 | Jlb143
A considerate response to a baby shower snub. 🙏
LowEffort7 | LowEffort7
Pregnancy sharing is personal but a baby shower snub sucks 😕
strawberryleather | strawberryleather
Supportive comment for pregnant teacher's unfair treatment at work 👏
MsLinzy24 | MsLinzy24
Colleague sympathizes and advises on unintentional exclusion, suggests cake 🍰
princessofperky | princessofperky
Heartwarming comment, no replies needed. 😊
mtngrl60 | mtngrl60