Teacher's Baby Shower Snub: Jealousy or Unfair Treatment? 😢

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Imagine being pregnant at the same time as your coworker, only to find out that they're getting a baby shower and you're not. That's exactly what happened to a 31-year-old teacher who was left heartbroken when her school threw a surprise baby shower for her 21-year-old coworker, Kayla, but not for her. Although the teacher and her husband have been trying to get pregnant for years, she was left feeling rejected and hurt when her school failed to include her in the celebrations. Let's dive into this emotional rollercoaster of a story. 😞

Two Pregnant Teachers, Different Paths 🤰

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Pregnancy Announcements 📣

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Different Approaches to Pregnancy 🤷

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Accused of Being 'Snotty' 🙄

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Surprise Baby Shower... for One 🎁

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Assuming the Worst 😔

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The Heartbreaking Truth 💔

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Unfair Treatment? 😢

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It's Not About the Gifts 🎉

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Update: A New Perspective 🌈

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Maternity Leave & Nesting 🏡

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Welcome, Baby Boy! 👶

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A Tale of Two Pregnancies: Celebration and Heartbreak 💔

This emotional story of two pregnant teachers highlights the importance of inclusivity and understanding. While one teacher received a surprise baby shower, the other was left feeling rejected and hurt by her colleagues' assumptions. Despite the heartache, our protagonist found solace in the kindness of strangers and ultimately welcomed a beautiful baby boy into the world. Let's see what people think of this bittersweet situation...🤔

NTA. It's insensitive to assume OP didn't want a celebration. 😢

CandylandCanada | CandylandCanada

Colleagues debate if OP or her group is at fault. 😕

MagnumHV | MagnumHV

Coworkers didn't throw a baby shower for her. Reddit celebrates instead 🎉

ShmamBo88 | ShmamBo88

Coworkers assumed OP didn't want a baby shower, but excluding her was wrong 🙅

JudgeJed100 | JudgeJed100

Fairness should have been ensured. Being reserved doesn't mean ungrateful. 🙏

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Private person learns hard lesson about workplace celebrations 😢

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Coworkers threw a joint baby shower for husband's coworker, but not for her. NTA.

loocievanpelt | loocievanpelt

Coworkers threw a baby shower for one pregnant coworker, but not OP. NTA.

Clydefr0g8 | Clydefr0g8

Coworkers suck: NTA stands up for herself at baby shower 🤪

BlueCarnations12 | BlueCarnations12

Unfair treatment at workplace, hold head high and address calmly. 💪

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Being told "you don't need gifts" after a snub is unacceptable. 😡

annamed | annamed

Heartless coworkers snub baby shower, but justice is served. 😊

OhHeyItsShar | OhHeyItsShar

Office etiquette dictates fairness in celebrations for all employees. 😊

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Fair point, NTA. A joint shower could have been nice 🙂

Oldlady0 | Oldlady0

Avoiding favoritism is key in maintaining workplace professionalism. 🤝

Beka_Cooper | Beka_Cooper

Privacy ≠ Dislike of Nice Gestures. NTA 🤰🏻

nameless2640 | nameless2640

NTA is hurt by the baby shower snub and considers pulling back from colleagues. 😔

henchwench89 | henchwench89

Coworkers' cruelty called out in NTA comment 🚨

shawshawthepanda | shawshawthepanda

OP is criticized for being too private and sensitive about baby shower snub. Replies defend OP's right to privacy and criticize workplace inconsistency.

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Coworkers' baby shower snub: NTA, workplace drama sucks 😒

breakfastpitchblende | breakfastpitchblende

OP's pregnancy privacy may have led to the baby shower snub 😕

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Privacy concerns lead to no baby shower, NAH.

mayormegan93 | mayormegan93

Being quiet doesn't make you a bad person. NTA 👍

basura_time | basura_time

Advise to NTA: Communicate with co-workers and Principal for resolution 👍

Kigichi | Kigichi

No shower for the teacher-to-be. Not cool, colleagues! 😒

Cocoasneeze | Cocoasneeze

NAH, they were following your lead. Misunderstanding, not malice 🙂

ZoomAcademyFan | ZoomAcademyFan

Expecting a baby shower while being antisocial? YTA, sorry 🤷‍♀️

baketwice | baketwice

Coworkers should have asked if she wanted a baby shower 👍

TubiDaorArya | TubiDaorArya

Commenter suggests OP's behavior caused baby shower snub. 🤔

alicedeelite | alicedeelite

Colleagues' inconsideration earns commenter NTA status 👏

FreyaVee | FreyaVee

Supportive coworker throws baby shower for all pregnant colleagues 💜

redraybans123 | redraybans123

School's baby shower snub is cruel and hurtful. NTA 😢

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Coworkers called NTA, but insulted for being insensitive 🤯

UniqueCommentNo243 | UniqueCommentNo243

Coworker's baby shower snub: Mild YTA or just misunderstood? 😐

LittlestSlipper55 | LittlestSlipper55

Fairness matters: Throwing parties for some and not others? NTA 😊

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Respectful privacy or lack of communication? NAH.

CaitiieBuggs | CaitiieBuggs

NTA stands up for herself and calls out coworkers' behavior 👏

Izzy4162305 | Izzy4162305

Commenter suggests the snubbed teacher is partially at fault 🤔

peakofgrace | peakofgrace

Heartless co-workers snub teacher's baby shower, NTA for feeling jealous 😢

BugsRatty | BugsRatty

Fellow teacher agrees, coworkers should have organized a baby shower 👏

PrettyProof | PrettyProof

Office celebrations need clear policies to avoid hurt and confusion 😢

diracpointless | diracpointless

Respectful NTA comment advocates for fair treatment in the workplace 💪

TMK602 | TMK602

NAH, but keep your feelings in check to maintain relationships 🙏

BreakingForce | BreakingForce

Heartwarming comment celebrates pregnancy and motherhood 💛

Pink_T | Pink_T

Validating emotions: Support for NAH feeling excluded from baby shower 👏

MrLuflu | MrLuflu

Commenter sympathizes with OP's baby shower snub. 😢

ultravision_ | ultravision_

Co-workers' baby shower snub is astonishing. Congrats, NTA! 👏

Watsondoggod | Watsondoggod

Principal's assumption leads to rude baby shower snub. NTA's response.

whysmynamegone | whysmynamegone

Misunderstanding resolved with a heartfelt congratulations 💖

Bitch-Im-Adorable | Bitch-Im-Adorable

Empathetic reply to baby shower snub. 😢

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Commenter empathizes but suggests OP may be standoffish 🤔

South_Opportunity_52 | South_Opportunity_52

Commenter sympathizes with OP's unfair treatment at work. 😢

beaglemama | beaglemama

Respectful gesture or hurtful snub? NAH comment sparks debate 🤔

Mishmsh | Mishmsh

Keeping to oneself doesn't justify exclusion from a celebration 🤔

Jlb143 | Jlb143

A considerate response to a baby shower snub. 🙏

LowEffort7 | LowEffort7

Pregnancy sharing is personal but a baby shower snub sucks 😕

strawberryleather | strawberryleather

Supportive comment for pregnant teacher's unfair treatment at work 👏

MsLinzy24 | MsLinzy24

Colleague sympathizes and advises on unintentional exclusion, suggests cake 🍰

princessofperky | princessofperky

Heartwarming comment, no replies needed. 😊

mtngrl60 | mtngrl60

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