Imagine living with an autoimmune disease that causes arthritis in your hips, back, and chest, and then surviving a car accident that leaves you with nerve damage and limited use of your left arm. Now, imagine your spouse accusing you of playing the victim and not being a real man for showing your pain. That's the heartbreaking situation one man finds himself in. 🥺💔 Let's dive into his story.
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The Unfortunate Backstory 🤕
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A Life-Changing Accident 😨
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A Ray of Hope: Surgery 🏥
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The Pain Intensifies 😖
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Working Through the Pain 💪
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A Fight Erupts 🥊
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Harsh Accusations 😡
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His Defense 🛡️
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Wife's Unsympathetic Response 😔
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Is He Wrong for Showing His Pain? 🤔
This man is caught in a painful predicament, both physically and emotionally. His autoimmune disease and car accident have left him in constant agony, and his wife accuses him of playing the victim and not being a real man for showing his pain. Despite working tirelessly on her online store's content, she calls him lazy and claims his behavior is making her depressed. With surgery on the horizon, he hopes for relief and a return to normalcy. But is he wrong for not hiding his pain? Let's see what the internet thinks of this heart-wrenching situation... 💬
Wife's behavior is unacceptable, NTA. Is her business worth it? 😕
Stravinsky00 | Stravinsky00
Chronic illness and infidelity rates discussed. NTA, supportive replies 🙏
DisappointingPoem | DisappointingPoem
Wife accuses husband of playing victim, commenters call her inconsiderate 😱
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NTA, suffering from chronic pain and wife's behavior is unacceptable 😠
Hot_Communication467 | Hot_Communication467
Wife insults husband's pain, commenters remind her of vows ❤️
Ok-Image-5514 | Ok-Image-5514
Sick husband accused of playing victim? Divorce seems inevitable 😢
ExtremeEntertainer66 | ExtremeEntertainer66
Supportive comment calls out entitled wife, advises surgery and lawyer 👏
nighte324 | nighte324
Supportive comment advises OP to leave self-centered partner 👍
that-bro-joshy | that-bro-joshy
Spouse accuses of playing victim, commenters call her callous. NTA.
Geekfreak2000 | Geekfreak2000
Commenter advises to leave toxic relationship with red flag warning ⚠️
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Supportive comment urges leaving toxic spouse for own recovery 👏
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Wedding vows apparently one-sided. Time for new photographer 📷
eelzelton | eelzelton
Commenters discuss guilt and abuse in emotional trauma situations 🤔
Cameronk65914 | Cameronk65914
When silence speaks louder than words... 🤷♂️
riaboll | riaboll
NTA. Chronic illness is not an excuse for laziness 😒. Consider counseling.
mistakenaquarius | mistakenaquarius
Red flags in a marriage. NTA but tread carefully 🚨
dbohat | dbohat
Commenter sympathizes with OP and criticizes his wife's behavior 👍
Snowballs95 | Snowballs95
Supportive comment and reply show empathy for OP's situation 🙏
the-triple-wide | the-triple-wide
Toxic gender stereotypes perpetuated by wife, NTA for experiencing pain 😱
meloettalover213 | meloettalover213
Commenter calls out fake story and defends poster. 💪
llsmall | llsmall
Toxic masculinity called out in support of husband's pain 👏
happycoffeebean13 | happycoffeebean13
Living with chronic pain and a spouse who doesn't understand 😢
ShannonBananon | ShannonBananon
Compassionate reply reminds us to treat others with kindness 🙏
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Commenter sympathizes with man's chronic pain and advises to leave wife.
Xdeciever_ | Xdeciever_
Toxic wife accused him of playing victim. NTA. Reconsider relationship 😕
Honeynubbles | Honeynubbles
Toxic spouse? NTA. Keep your head up 👍
kalekayn | kalekayn
Commenter sympathizes with man accused of playing victim 🤝
CameraLarge4749 | CameraLarge4749
Partner's ableism and selfishness towards chronic pain warrants therapy. 😱
JustheBean | JustheBean
Supportive comment reminds OP to prioritize health over martyrdom. 🙌
Wondernerd194 | Wondernerd194
Toxic masculinity and an uncaring spouse. NTA. Wishing recovery 🙏
throwaway807807 | throwaway807807
Spouse accuses man of playing victim for medical condition. NTA.
wontonfrog | wontonfrog
Stand up for yourself! Don't let anyone bring you down. 💪
MysticalTurnip | MysticalTurnip
Fellow 'sick person' sympathizes with NTA husband's unsympathetic wife 😢
ReinaRocio | ReinaRocio
Questioning the wife's love 😔. NTA but unhappy marriage 😢
Electrical_Turn7 | Electrical_Turn7
Commenter defends man and calls out wife's ableism 🔥
Horny_in_main | Horny_in_main
Commenter defends OP and questions wife's behavior. 🤔
carola19 | carola19
Power through, get surgery, divorce horrible wife. NTA 👍
The__Riker__Maneuver | The__Riker__Maneuver
NTA stands up for himself and his vows 👏
Primary_Interest_1 | Primary_Interest_1
Forgetting vows? 🤔 Commenter says NTA in marriage dispute.
alaynamul | alaynamul
Living with chronic pain takes a toll on both partners 😢
Rhidds | Rhidds
Suffering in silence? NTA, but consider counseling for verbal abuse.
Blondieonekenobi | Blondieonekenobi
Work-life balance advice for a suffering husband. 🙌
primeirofilho | primeirofilho
Empathy for victim of spouse's emotional abuse 😢
Unlikely-Ad-4283 | Unlikely-Ad-4283
Vows broken? Netizens react to wife's accusation 🤷
101-25fixit | 101-25fixit
Commenter sympathizes with man's pain, calls wife 'a**hole' 😠
Defan3 | Defan3
Expressing pain is valid. Don't volunteer for unsupportive people 🙏
cmlobue | cmlobue
🚩 Divorce on the table? Comment suggests it might be best
Pacific_MPX | Pacific_MPX
NTA defends himself against unsupportive spouse 🤷♂️
internetpointsiguana | internetpointsiguana
OP's wife accused of abuse, needs therapy. Reddit supports OP. 🙌
Sgmirror | Sgmirror
NTA. Toxic masculinity sucks, men should be able to express themselves 👏
Blobfish_Blues | Blobfish_Blues
Supportive comment calls out toxic behavior in relationship 👏
Barry_McKackiner | Barry_McKackiner
Empathetic comment validates pain, suggests therapy for ableism. 🙏
forest_fae98 | forest_fae98
Supportive comment encourages prioritizing recovery and self-reflection 💪
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Compassion is key 🙏 Your pain is valid, NTA
sami_leigh | sami_leigh
Wife accuses husband of playing victim with chronic pain 😱
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Supportive comment encourages documentation and offers well wishes for surgery 🙏
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NTA comment slams selfish and insensitive wife. 😱
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