Imagine the heartbreak of losing a loved one, only to have your fiancé refuse to attend the funeral. That’s what one woman experienced when her uncle, who was like a father to her, passed away. Instead of supporting her during this difficult time, her fiancé insisted on visiting his family, leaving her to grieve alone. Let’s dive into this emotional rollercoaster of a story and see how it unfolds.
The Loving Uncle

The Heartbreaking News

Fiancé’s Reaction

The Unbelievable Plan

The Argument

His Priorities

Leaving Alone

The Email

The Aftermath

Funeral Skipped, Forgiveness Wanted
In a whirlwind of emotions, this woman’s fiancé chose to prioritize his family visit over attending her uncle’s funeral, leaving her heartbroken and grieving alone. After a heated argument, she left for the funeral without him, and he sent her mother an email with his condolences and excuses. Now, he’s calling her and trying to get her family to convince her to forgive him. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA. Fiancé prioritized family over grieving partner’s uncle’s funeral. Huge red flag
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Fiancé’s absence at funeral sparks outrage and disbelief

Fiancé chooses family over funeral, NTA. Commenters agree

Fiancé chooses family over funeral, gets called out for red flags

Commenter advises reconsidering marriage due to fiancé’s family prioritization.

Fiancé’s selfishness and email condolences criticized by commenters.

Fiancé prioritizes family visit over funeral ❌

Fiancé chooses vacation over funeral
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Cut your losses and move on.

Fiancé chooses family visit over funeral, gets called out for selfishness

Fiancé’s lack of support during grieving raises red flags

Partner’s lack of support during family tragedy is concerning.

Prioritizing family is important. Don’t marry someone who won’t.

Commenter questions why OP referred to partner as ‘fiancé’

User defends OP’s decision and criticizes fiancé’s actions

Fiancé prioritizes family visit over uncle’s funeral, NTA comment agrees.

Family over funeral? NTA according to commenters

Family visit over funeral? NTA. Death takes priority ✨
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Fiancé prioritizes vacation over funeral, is he selfish?

NTA. Prioritizing family visit over estranged uncle’s funeral.

Partner should support you in times of need. NTA ♀️

Fiancé chooses family visit over uncle’s funeral, is he the a**hole?

Red flags in fiancé’s behavior, reconsider marrying him.

Let him go You’ll resent it forever

Fiancé chooses work over funeral, called out for lack of empathy

Fiancé prioritizes vacation over grieving fiancée’s deceased uncle. NTA.

Commenter calls out person’s lack of empathy. NTA verdict.

Funerals are for the living, not for choosing family over uncle. NTA

NTA and don’t fall for emotional manipulation

NTA – Choosing family over funeral

Fiancé chooses family over funeral, commenters urge to break up

Fiancé chooses vacation over funeral, and starts a fight

Fiancé prioritizes family visit over uncle’s funeral – NTA comment

Fiancé chooses family over funeral, commenters support decision.

Fiancé chooses family over uncle’s funeral. Commenters side with OP.

Spouse didn’t attend father’s funeral, poster advises against forgiving him.

Red flag alert! Emotional abuse and control. Don’t ignore it.

NTA commenter offers to cancel plans with family for partner’s uncle

Partner’s absence at funeral: Commenter offers sympathy and support. NTA

Heartwarming story of supportive long-distance boyfriend ❤

Savage response to fiancé’s family over funeral dilemma

Spouse prioritizes family in times of crisis.

Fiancé skips funeral, shows no remorse. OP might lose him.

Prioritizing family over partner in a tough time?

Red flag alert! Emotional support is crucial in relationships.

Fiancé skips uncle’s funeral, called out for selfishness. NTA.

Choosing family over funeral – NTA or a**hole move?

Fiancé prioritizes plans over partner’s grief, guilt trips afterwards.

Is the fiancé really insensitive?

Prioritizing family over partner during crisis can end relationships

Fiancé skips funeral, lacks empathy. NTA for sure.

Overcoming hardship within a hardship. NTA

Fiancé chooses family over funeral, commenters advise to drop him

Fiancé prioritizes family over funeral, lacks empathy. NTA.

True friends show up for the funeral, NTA

Partner chooses family visit over funeral, not supportive.

Funerals trump plans. Fiancé’s selfishness shows lack of support. #NTA

Partner lacks basic human compassion. NTA for attending funeral.
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Fiancé chooses family over funeral, but is he heartless?

Heartless fiancé chooses family visit over supporting grieving partner.

Ending an engagement over a funeral? ♀️

A comment with no replies… mysterious

A heartwarming story of true love and support during mourning. ❤️

NTA and move on.
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Fiancé skips funeral, prioritizes family. Commenter advises breaking off engagement.

Red flag : Fiancé chooses family visit over funeral, not supportive
