We've all heard about exes causing drama, but what happens when an ex tries to be nice? A woman found herself in hot water after sending her ex-boyfriend's current girlfriend a present she couldn't afford. The exes, who remained friends after their breakup, still chat and send each other photos. The woman, now happily married, had no ill intentions when she decided to use her employee discount to buy a sweater her ex's new girlfriend couldn't afford. But things took an unexpected turn when the new girlfriend accused her of trying to outshine her and make her look bad. 😳 Let's dive into this sticky situation...
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A Well-Meaning Gesture Gone Wrong 😬
In an attempt to help her ex's new girlfriend, a woman generously used her employee discount to buy a sweater the girlfriend couldn't afford. But instead of being grateful, the new girlfriend lashed out, accusing her of trying to outshine her and suggesting she wasn't over her ex. The woman's husband and some friends supported her, while others felt she crossed a line. Despite the backlash, she maintains that her intentions were good and that she's friendly with most of her exes. So, was this a genuine act of kindness or a boundary-crossing move? Let's see what the internet has to say about this situation... 🤔💭
NTA sends gift to ex's new girlfriend via mutual friend
TheCookie_Momster | TheCookie_Momster
Ex's gift to boyfriend's new girlfriend causes drama 😕
nannylive | nannylive
Ex's gift to BF via GF causes tension, opinions divided 🤔
idrow1 | idrow1
Ex-girlfriend sending gift to new girlfriend: YTA, it's out of bounds 🙄
PrettyNothing | PrettyNothing
Generous gesture or overstepping? Commenter says YTA without permission 😕
ktldybug | ktldybug
Ex's gift to new girlfriend oversteps boundaries, sparks conflict. 🤷♂️
deadlevel213 | deadlevel213
Communication is key! But was the ex overstepping boundaries? 🤔
corvidcastles | corvidcastles
Ex overstepped boundaries with gift, but OP could have helped. 🤔
mockingbird82 | mockingbird82
Ex sends expensive gift to boyfriend's new girlfriend, deemed manipulative. YTA.
Kaiisim | Kaiisim
Sending gifts to ex's new partner: Soft YTA, not the norm 😔
thegreatestmeow | thegreatestmeow
Commenter calls out YTA for overstepping boundaries. 🙌
BDThrills | BDThrills
Buying a gift for your ex while married? YTA 🤔
bunny3665 | bunny3665
Ex's gift to new girlfriend causes upset, commenter says YTA 😕
Suupafitguy | Suupafitguy
Soft YTA: OP overstepped and took away Jenni's agency 😲
ChaoticBeauty26 | ChaoticBeauty26
Ex's gift to new girlfriend deemed inappropriate and overstepping. YTA.
PM_UR_FELINES | PM_UR_FELINES
Ex's gift and note to new girlfriend: Generous or Overstepping? 🤔
KardalSpindal | KardalSpindal
ESH overstepped, she overreacted 🤷🏼♀️
OffWhiteDevil | OffWhiteDevil
Being a good friend or overstepping? NTA explains.
ohbuddywhy | ohbuddywhy
Ex's gift to new girlfriend without asking: NAH or overstepping? 🤔
supra-nova- | supra-nova-
Offering a discount instead of buying gift could avoid conflict 👍
poohbearwithme | poohbearwithme
Commenter receives criticism for overstepping boundaries with gift giving.
[deleted] | [deleted]
Commenter calls out manipulative behavior, warns against excusing it. 🤔
dctrimnotarealdoctor | dctrimnotarealdoctor
Sending a gift to ex's new girlfriend? YTA according to comments 😕
[deleted] | [deleted]
Curious commenter wants to know who footed the bill 🤔
Connolly156 | Connolly156
Ex's gift to new girlfriend: YTA or just generous? 🤔
youfailedthiscity | youfailedthiscity
Ex buys gift for new gf's bf: Commenter thinks it's intrusive 😒
SnooBananaPoo | SnooBananaPoo
Ex's gift to new gf: YTA comment calls out overstepping
No-Wind-7800 | No-Wind-7800
Ex's gift to new girlfriend: YTA or generous gesture? 🤔
atesme | atesme
Ex's gift to boyfriend's new girlfriend: YTA or generous? 🤔
leal_diamante | leal_diamante
Ex's gift to new girlfriend: YTA for overstepping boundaries 😑
CitrusandMint | CitrusandMint
Ex's gift to new girlfriend: Generous or overstepping? YTA verdict.
[deleted] | [deleted]
Ex's gift to new girlfriend: Creepy or generous? 🤔
ChairmanMeow24601 | ChairmanMeow24601
Giving free stuff to ex's new girlfriend is weird and overstepping. YTA.
Bridalhat | Bridalhat
Ex sending gifts to current partner = YTA. Messy and wrong. 😒
Flipnsip | Flipnsip
Generous gesture or overstepping boundaries? Ask before gifting 🤔
40Taurus80 | 40Taurus80
Sending an expensive gift without context can be inappropriate. NAH 😐
starshine1988 | starshine1988
OP called stupid for thinking ex's gift is okay 🤯
ConfusedMoe | ConfusedMoe
Sending an expensive gift to ex's new girlfriend: YTA.
EmMeo | EmMeo
Ex's gift gesture crosses boundary, soft YTA verdict.
YourfavMILF1228 | YourfavMILF1228
Ex-girlfriend oversteps boundaries by sending gift to new girlfriend 😑
orchidsandcheesecake | orchidsandcheesecake
Well-intentioned gesture, but wrong approach. NTA, just misinformed. 🙏
Official_loli | Official_loli
Sending a gift to your ex's new girlfriend: YTA or NAH?
SchrodingerEyes | SchrodingerEyes
User thinks ex overstepped by sending gift without permission. 💁♂️
ms_channandler_bong | ms_channandler_bong
Ex's gift to new girlfriend backfires. Commenter calls out bad move. 🤨
schottenring | schottenring
Ex's gift to new girlfriend through third party is YTA move 😑
Flipnsip | Flipnsip
What does YTAH mean? We need context here! 🤔
QuiksGroovecpt | QuiksGroovecpt
Unintentional YTA: Ex's gift implies girlfriend is inadequate 😕
[deleted] | [deleted]
Ex's gift to boyfriend's new girlfriend causes tension. ESH.
[deleted] | [deleted]
Commenter points out potential ulterior motives behind gift-giving gesture 🤔
RedRixen83 | RedRixen83
Buying a gift for your ex's new girlfriend without her input? 🤔
unaotradesechable | unaotradesechable
Commenter feels conflicted about soft YTA verdict in gift-giving situation 🤔
[deleted] | [deleted]
Commenter calls out OP for rubbing wealth in ex's face 😑
moonshadowfax | moonshadowfax
Ex's gift to new girlfriend causes drama and confusion 🤷♀️
[deleted] | [deleted]
Ex's gift to new girlfriend: YTA for overstepping boundaries 😑
ruffresia9 | ruffresia9
Ex sends gift to new girlfriend based on sex? YTA confirmed 😂
jenniet2002 | jenniet2002
Offering a discount would have been better than condescending gift 🤔
scamper1266 | scamper1266
Ex's gift gesture: well-intentioned but overstepping boundaries. Soft YTA.
NovaScrawlers | NovaScrawlers
Ex's gift to new GF: Soft YTA, gesture crossed boundaries 😕
Mailowness | Mailowness
Commenter calls out red flags, warns against ignoring them. 🚨
rockytop24 | rockytop24