We’ve all had our fair share of drama with friends, but what happens when a friend goes too far? One woman found herself in a tough situation when her best friend, who enjoys a luxurious lifestyle, tried to guilt-trip her for not visiting often. The twist? The friend used her own daughter to do it! As a widowed mother of two, our heroine is struggling to make ends meet and has no time for games. Let’s dive into this wild story!
The Luxurious Best Friend

Complaining Despite the Luxury

The Struggling Heroine

A Friendship Drifting Apart?

Understanding, or So It Seemed…

Promises, Promises

The Daughter Gets Involved

The Manipulation Exposed

The Aftermath: Was It Necessary?

The Manipulation Game: Who’s the Real A**hole?
Our heroine, a widowed mother of two, is struggling to make ends meet and has no time for games. Her best friend, living a life of luxury, tries to guilt-trip her for not visiting often by using her own daughter as a pawn. When the manipulation is exposed, our heroine loses it on her friend, who then claims the blow-up was unnecessary. So, who’s the real a**hole in this situation? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this wild rollercoaster of emotions and drama!
NTA. Friend weaponized child to emotionally manipulate OP, not a friend

Friend manipulates OP’s daughter, commenters suggest setting boundaries. NTA.

Friend manipulates child to guilt you – NTA and justified

One-way friendship with a negative, manipulative person. NTA

Stop burdening your child with petty issues. NTA

NTA. Concerns about income aside, mismatched friendship and boundaries crossed.

Commenters agree: Niece on FB was likely an imposter

Commenter sympathizes with OP and calls out manipulative behavior

Commenter clarifies relationship, supports OP, and faces pushback.

Commenter empathizes with OP and suggests a clever comeback

Commenter asks for more context and suggests solutions

Friend’s manipulation exposed, commenter supports OP’s actions.

NTA commenter suggests explaining workload to entitled friend
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NTA and a helpful tip for an easier evening routine

Comment defends friend, but reply questions her actions.

Supportive comment defends against manipulative best friend

Toxic friend guilt trips and emotionally abuses child. NTA.
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Cutting off toxic friends: NTA’s best option

Perspective matters – friend may not have been intentionally manipulative

Debating the feasibility of friend’s lifestyle on 140k salary

Sassy response to friend’s manipulative behavior

Toxic ‘best friend’ never offers help, NTA for calling out

Questioning the meaning of friendship in a toxic relationship

Commenter calls out attention-seeking behavior and supports NTA decision

Friendship over kidney, pull the plug. NTA
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Financial struggles on $140k income, NTA for confronting friend

Supportive comment suggests finding new friend, offers help

Commenter thinks OP is not the a**hole

Using kids as weapons is disgusting and manipulative

Putting kids in the middle is never okay

NTA, but a tough decision on whether to keep toxic friend

Navigating cross-class relationships is tough . NTA for setting boundaries.

Girlfriend suggests violent revenge for comment with no context

Commenter calls out gaslighting and labels friend ‘psychotic’

Commenter calls out post for not fitting AITA format

Friendship tested: Commenter supports OP and criticizes ‘bored’ friend

Friend expects too much, commenter defends NTA with empathy

Friend manipulates daughter, commenter advises to end friendship. NTA verdict.

Be a positive influence in your niece’s life

Cut toxic friend loose , NTA for protecting daughter

NTA commenter suggests reevaluation of situation handling

NTA commenter suggests reevaluating friendship with manipulative ‘friend’

Friend manipulating daughter, time to re-evaluate friendship.

Friend’s emotional manipulation causes NTA to lose it

NTA but don’t sugarcoat it, tell her how it is

Friend lies to child, gaslights parent. NTA stands up.

Friend manipulates daughter, commenter advises finding better friends

Agreeing with NTA commenter’s anger

Friendship and availability – NTA comment gets straight to point

Friend emotionally manipulates child, commenter rethinks friendship.

Friend crosses the line by manipulating daughter. NTA stands up.

Friend crosses the line with niece, commenter says NTA

Commenter sympathizes with OP’s work schedule and parenting stress

Friend’s manipulative behavior sparks sympathy and anger from commenter.

Friend refuses to help but wants to manipulate your daughter? NTA
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NTA calls out friend’s manipulation, suggests re-evaluating friendship
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Friend takes advantage of nanny, commenter suggests calling her out.
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Friend’s manipulation called out, NTA takes a stand

Stay-at-home mom sympathizes with OP, calls friend ridiculous.

Commenter believes OP is not the a**hole

NTA calls out cruel behavior towards a child

Friend not being supportive during tough times. NTA

NTA suggests distancing from manipulative friend.

Starbucks pays $15/hr now? NTA for calling out friend’s manipulation.

Cutting toxic friends is necessary
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Friendship advice: let her drift, try volunteering

Encouraging comment, NTA. Friend needs to reevaluate behavior

Supportive comment validates OP’s decision to end toxic friendship

Friend’s entitlement crosses line, OP distances self.

Cutting ties with a manipulative ‘friend’

Friend lies to manipulate child, gets called out. NTA

Friend not understanding busy schedule, making situation about herself

Cut ties with manipulative friend. NTA
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NTA stands up for daughter against manipulative ‘friend’

Friend uses child for manipulation, commenter supports OP. NTA

Real friends lighten your load, not add to it

Friend prioritizes herself, blames OP for not making time. NTA

Commenter defends OP’s actions and calls for reflection on privilege

NTA calls out emotional manipulation of a child

Friend manipulates daughter, NTA suggests therapy
