Divorced couple's unconventional parenting arrangement causes conflict with new boyfriend

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A divorced couple's decision to buy two semi-detached houses with a door connecting them for the sake of co-parenting their daughter has caused friction with the mother's new boyfriend. The boyfriend, who knew about the arrangement when they started dating, has become uncomfortable with the close proximity of the ex-husband and has asked the mother to move in with him instead. However, the mother has refused, citing their daughter's need for stability and the success of their unique co-parenting arrangement. The disagreement has raised questions about the boyfriend's role in the family and whether or not he has a right to be called the daughter's father. Readers are left wondering if the mother is being unreasonable, or if the boyfriend is stepping out of bounds.

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When a divorced couple decided to buy two semi-detached houses with a door in between to co-parent their daughter, they thought it was the best solution for everyone involved. However, now that the mother has a new boyfriend who wants her to move away from her ex-husband's house, things are becoming complicated. The boyfriend is upset that he can't be a father figure to the daughter, but the mother is hesitant to disrupt the stable upbringing her daughter has in the current arrangement. Is the mother the A-hole for not moving for her boyfriend, or is the boyfriend being unreasonable? Let's take a closer look at the situation and the reactions of the readers.

Parenting arrangement causes conflict with new BF. NTA wins.

lalafia1 | lalafia1

Mixed reactions to divorced couple's unconventional parenting arrangement 😕💔

mcmurrml | mcmurrml

NTA. Co-parenting arrangement was clear from the beginning. 🙌

The_Cost_Of_Lies | The_Cost_Of_Lies

Boyfriend's controlling behavior causes conflict over co-parenting arrangement. NTA.

ChilindriPizza | ChilindriPizza

Putting your child first is always the right decision 🙌

rangerman2002 | rangerman2002

Unconventional parenting arrangement sparks debate on resale value and convenience 🤔

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NAH. Unconventional parenting works for them, but not for boyfriend.

Relevant-Position-43 | Relevant-Position-43

Dating a divorced parent with unconventional parenting arrangement: deal breaker? 🤔

Trevors-Axiom- | Trevors-Axiom-

Divorced couple's unique parenting arrangement challenges new boyfriend 🤔

lfkor | lfkor

Partner's ultimatum prioritizes his needs over daughters - NTA

Recent-Astronaut-515 | Recent-Astronaut-515

Commenter points out unrealistic expectations and manipulation by boyfriend.

SKETCHBENDER | SKETCHBENDER

Boyfriend can't handle co-parenting? 🤔 Maybe he's not the one.

littlevexus | littlevexus

Single mother expresses concern over boyfriend's desire to replace father figure 🤔

xsamimariex | xsamimariex

Unconventional parenting arrangement causes conflict with new boyfriend 🤔

Pristine_Editor_6656 | Pristine_Editor_6656

Putting daughter first 💯👌. Boyfriend needs to respect that. #NTA

soul_reddish | soul_reddish

Divorced couple's co-parenting works, but new boyfriend left out 😕

umadhatter_ | umadhatter_

Commenter defends OP's new partner as not a replacement dad.

MandyTRH | MandyTRH

ESH couple's unconventional parenting causes conflict with boyfriend. Valid points raised.

AustinYQM | AustinYQM

Support for unconventional co-parenting arrangement and leaving unsupportive partner.

NotchoUserName | NotchoUserName

New boyfriend's possessiveness raises red flags, ex's wife approves arrangement.

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Curious about the parenting arrangement aftermath? Here's what's planned 🤔

Violediciple | Violediciple

Empathy is key. 🤝 Think twice about this relationship. 💔

Pinkie_Flamingo | Pinkie_Flamingo

New boyfriend tries to change pre-agreed parenting terms. NTA.

nursepenguin36 | nursepenguin36

Putting daughter first after divorce causes conflict with new partner ❤️

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Mature co-parenting sparks conflict with immature boyfriend 🤦‍♂️

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New boyfriend disregards agreed upon parenting arrangement, puts relationship at risk 💔

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Divorced couple's unconventional parenting arrangement causes conflict with new boyfriend. Commenter calls OP the a**hole and explains how her daughter and boyfriend will never be able to have a normal relationship due to the proximity of her ex-husband. Replies mention uncomfortable situations and potential privacy issues.

Carameldark | Carameldark

Unconventional parenting raises concerns for child's well-being. 😔

thefrizz6 | thefrizz6

Friendly but bizarre co-parenting dynamic raises eyebrows among commenters.

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Divorced couple's parenting arrangement causes conflict with new boyfriend.

spandexcatsuit | spandexcatsuit

New boyfriend wants to isolate mom & daughter. 🤔 Watch out!

cthulus-baby-mama | cthulus-baby-mama

Unconventional parenting arrangement causes conflict with new boyfriend. NTA.

Imkode8719 | Imkode8719

Boundaries are important, but is the boyfriend justified in feeling left out? 🤔

UnicornKitt3n | UnicornKitt3n

Choosing unconventional parenting arrangement causes conflict with new boyfriend

Buffalo-Empty | Buffalo-Empty

Unconventional parenting arrangement causes conflict with new boyfriend. 🤔

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Unconventional parenting arrangement causes conflict in doomed relationship 💔

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Unconventional parenting arrangement gets support, but causes conflict.

ItzAboutTom | ItzAboutTom

Unconventional parenting arrangement leads to amusing situations 😂

yellowblanket123 | yellowblanket123

Mature co-parenting praised, bonus dad not replacement. ❤️

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You do you! Boyfriend needs to accept your unconventional arrangement. ✌️

smash_pops | smash_pops

Unconventional parenting arrangement causes conflict with partner. 🤔

YunoWhoMan | YunoWhoMan

New boyfriend trying to change parenting arrangement. NTA. Draw the line 👏

Aradene | Aradene

Unconventional parenting arrangement causes conflict with new boyfriend. 🤔

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Putting your child first always wins ❤

Rtrnr | Rtrnr

🤔 Unconventional parenting arrangement raises eyebrows

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Stay strong! 💪 You're not the a**hole in this situation.

JoannaRe | JoannaRe

Putting the kid first: NTA receives mixed feedback on parenting arrangement.

Loud_Platypus_4835 | Loud_Platypus_4835

Supportive comment for divorced mom's parenting choices ⭐

Astroboyblue | Astroboyblue

Rumors aside, NTA but boyfriend has a tough decision ahead 🤔

Arisia118 | Arisia118

New boyfriend demands priority over daughter, 🚩red flag alert🚩

20Keller12 | 20Keller12

Divorced couple's parenting arrangement works, new boyfriend unhappy. NTA.

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Equal consequences in both houses for grounded daughter. 🤔

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