Man's wife causes chaos at his workplace and he's left to apologize

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A man who was recently promoted in his dad's friend's restaurant was almost fired after his wife caused chaos there. Despite being told that he was not the manager, she went ahead to tell everyone he was and also embarrassed a waitress by refusing to pay for a meal she had ordered. She then went ahead to send a message to the restaurant's staff 'firing' the waitress on her husband's behalf, which almost caused him to lose his job. The man blew up at his wife when he found out what she had done, leading to her packing her things and leaving. However, her parents are now insisting that he was wrong to yell at her. Was he in the wrong, or was his reaction justified?

Employee promoted to restaurant manager but wife causes chaos 🤦‍♂️

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Juggling work and personal life can be tricky sometimes 😅

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Supportive wife causes chaos at husband's workplace 🤦

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Wife causes chaos by falsely claiming husband is manager 👀

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Wife causes chaos at husband's work, refuses to pay bill 😠

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Waitress fired over FB message she didn't receive 🤔

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Wife causes chaos at husband's work by 'firing' waitress 🤯

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Employee's wife causes chaos at work, but manager shows grace 🙏

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Man's wife causes chaos at his workplace over a message 😠

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Wife causes chaos at workplace, leaves after being asked to apologize 😳

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Dealing with in-law drama at work 🤯

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Man forced to apologize to wife despite not being at fault 😕

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Wife's behavior at husband's workplace causes chaos 😡👩‍👦

A man's rise to management at his dad's friend's restaurant turned into chaos when his wife caused a scene. Despite being a supportive partner, the wife took things too far by publicly announcing his new role and even bringing her friends to the restaurant. She refused to pay for the food and embarrassed a waitress, who was later 'fired' through a message sent by the wife on the husband's Facebook account. The man was left facing the wrath of his employer and had to explain the situation. His wife's actions were unacceptable, and he demanded that she apologize to the waitress. When her parents called to defend her, he stopped talking to them. The aftermath of this incident is yet to be resolved, but the man is required to apologize to his wife for yelling. Read on for comments and reactions to this outlandish behavior.

NTA, but wife sprinted across the line while cackling. Firing waitress on FB is wrong and grounds for lawsuit. Apologies should come to you, not from you.

Seelvor | Seelvor

Family drama ensues, in-laws side with wife. 🙄

5115495 | 5115495

Commenter calls out wife's immature behavior, age confirmed at 33.

rajuabju | rajuabju

Commenter offers support to man after wife's outrageous behavior 🤝

Capital-Philosopher6 | Capital-Philosopher6

Divorce papers and a ban from the restaurant. 👏

2n1spook | 2n1spook

Wife's behavior puts husband's job at risk and triggers relapse 😔

twizzlersfun | twizzlersfun

Wife's entitled behavior almost ruined husband's career. NTA.

NYCMusicalMarathon | NYCMusicalMarathon

Spouse's overstep costs husband and waitress their job. 😬

[deleted] | [deleted]

Is it a medical situation or just an isolated incident? 🤔

millers_son | millers_son

Commenter sympathizes with OP, but criticizes wife's behavior 👍

buckyroo | buckyroo

🤔 Re-examining the marriage after entitled behavior at workplace

agamemnon420 | agamemnon420

Wife causes chaos at husband's work, but should he apologize?

IcedChaiLatte_16 | IcedChaiLatte_16

Don't apologize! The waitress and you deserve apologies instead. 💐

Knivennn | Knivennn

Divorce or therapy? NTA, blame the parents? 🤔

Whowhatnowhuhwhat | Whowhatnowhuhwhat

Customer's entitled behavior causes chaos at husband's work

Hexanthia | Hexanthia

Stand your ground and demand an apology from your wife 💪

gemini3890 | gemini3890

Spouse causes chaos at work, commenters side with husband.

Okredditornot | Okredditornot

Wife's entitled behavior puts husband's job at risk. NTA.

Bookish4269 | Bookish4269

Man's promotion causes chaos at work. Wife's entitlement exposed. NTA.

RonitSarangi | RonitSarangi

Commenter doubts authenticity of story, suggests divorce as solution.

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Redditors suspect post is stolen, call out OP on plagiarism 🤔

cluelessbobcat | cluelessbobcat

Firing the entitled wife? 🤔 NTA has a point.

Few_Story3588 | Few_Story3588

Surviving a workplace disaster caused by an entitled spouse. #NTA

Flippn_Freddy | Flippn_Freddy

Former waitress agrees that wife's behavior was unacceptable. 😬

Panhead_Chick | Panhead_Chick

Be respectful, even if you're the boss's wife 😇

Sparkle__M0tion | Sparkle__M0tion

Commenter defends OP's actions and calls out wife's behavior 💪

yachtiewannabe | yachtiewannabe

Commenters agree, wife's behavior was unacceptable. 🙅‍♂️

terpischore761 | terpischore761

Assessing our moral compass: Are you the a**hole or not?

zemorah | zemorah

Advice to take back control of a chaotic spouse. 🌺

votemarvel | votemarvel

Age is irrelevant, this behavior is unacceptable. 🤷‍♂️

Captain-Tripps | Captain-Tripps

NTA commenter advises putting fear into manipulative in-laws.

EvanWasHere | EvanWasHere

Commenter questions manager position without title and pay 💼

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Commenter suggests drastic solution to marital problems. 🤔

MKAnchor | MKAnchor

Restaurant workers agree: wife's entitled behavior was embarrassing 👀

dandeliongum420 | dandeliongum420

Supportive comment tells man to not let wife move back in 😕

Laramila | Laramila

Wife causes chaos at husband's work and he apologizes. NTA.

Kempeth | Kempeth

Supportive spouse turns into workplace saboteur 🤦‍♂️

gatorfan8898 | gatorfan8898

Confused newcomer questions judgement of story's antagonist.

Hawkings_WheelChair | Hawkings_WheelChair

Wife's arrogance almost cost him his job. NTA for apologizing.

GothPenguin | GothPenguin

Commenter advises to end the marriage due to wife's behavior 👀

curiousbelgian | curiousbelgian

Commenter calls wife a power-hungry witch 👀🔮

Traumatized_Foodie | Traumatized_Foodie

Escaping a toxic marriage and in-laws 👏

-SkarchieBonkers- | -SkarchieBonkers-

Spouse's behavior at work reveals deeper relationship issues. 💔

CodFatherFTW | CodFatherFTW

Commenter calls out wife's bad behavior and lack of maturity 👏

glamgal50 | glamgal50

Lunch party expenses causing trouble? 💸💼

WaDaEp | WaDaEp

Retail veteran sympathizes with OP and questions spouse's behavior 💼

Scarecrowqueen | Scarecrowqueen

When your spouse causes chaos at work, it's not cool 😒

Newauntie26 | Newauntie26

Commenter suggests leaving spouse after workplace outburst. 🚶‍♂️

ArabicToenails | ArabicToenails

Changing passwords after a chaotic spouse leaves: Cybersecurity 101 👨‍💻🔒

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Divorce papers might be a better apology 📜💔

M3g4d37h | M3g4d37h

Divorce papers for the wife and flowers for the waitress 💐📄

PingtheAPB | PingtheAPB

Man's wife causes chaos at his workplace, he's NTA.

TheGuy1977 | TheGuy1977

Doubtful comment calls out restaurant owner's behavior, ATA 🤔

lcmamom | lcmamom

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