Woman refuses to clean bed after husband repeatedly wets it, causing him to sleep on the floor

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When your partner is incontinent, it can be a difficult situation for both parties involved. But what happens when one partner refuses to take responsibility for cleaning up the mess? In this AITA post, a woman is faced with this very issue. Her husband has a medical condition that causes him to wet the bed, and he refuses to wear adult diapers. The woman has cleaned up after him over 40 times, but when she finally refuses to do it again, her husband is left sleeping on the floor. Is she a monster for refusing to clean up after him, or is he in the wrong for not taking responsibility for his own bodily functions? Read on to find out what the Reddit community thinks.

Wife discusses caring for husband with medical condition 💕

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Managing medical side effects causing marital issues 💊💦

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Husband's stubbornness causes wife to sleep alone. 💤

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Husband refuses to use adult diapers; wife won't clean bed.

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Wife tired of cleaning up after husband's bedwetting problem 💦

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Wife stands up to husband's bed-wetting demands at 2am ⏰

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Wife's revenge by refusing to clean wet bed angers husband 😡

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Wife faces backlash for not cleaning bed after husband wets it 💦

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Husband refuses to wear diapers, wife fed up with excuses 😒

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Wife refuses to clean bed after husband wets it. AITA?

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Wife refuses to clean bed after husband repeatedly wets it 😬

A woman has sparked a debate online after revealing that she refused to clean the bed after her husband repeatedly wet it. The woman explained that her husband has a medical condition that causes him to urinate excessively, but he refuses to wear adult diapers. As a result, the woman has cleaned the bed over 40 times in the middle of the night. However, one night, when her husband demanded that she clean the bed at 2 am, she finally refused and went back to sleep. The next morning she found her husband sleeping on the floor and he was furious, calling her nasty and heartless. The woman argued that it was her husband's fault for refusing to wear adult diapers and that she was tired of cleaning the bed every night. The situation has caused a rift between the couple, with the husband's sister even getting involved. Many people online are divided over who is in the wrong, with some sympathizing with the woman and others with the husband. Check out some of the reactions in the comments below.

NTA for refusing to clean husband's constant bedwetting. Boundaries needed.

Allaboutbird | Allaboutbird

Spousal caregiver shares solidarity and advice for managing caregiver abuse.

SharkClub12 | SharkClub12

Practical solutions suggested for husband's incontinence issue with empathy.

RafRafRafRaf | RafRafRafRaf

Spouse refuses to take responsibility for their actions despite inconvenience 🤔

mademoiselletal | mademoiselletal

Sister should clean the bed for a month 😂👌 NTA

involuntary_cynic | involuntary_cynic

Wife refuses to clean bed after husband wets it repeatedly. NTA.

MinimumGovernment161 | MinimumGovernment161

NTA. Leave the abusive and selfish husband, hire a nurse.

PetiteGardener144 | PetiteGardener144

Husband wets bed, wife refuses to clean. Suggestions for solutions.

Yui_Ma | Yui_Ma

Neglecting his health or just being lazy? 🤔

Kris82868 | Kris82868

Commenter questions husband's behavior and abilities, receives thoughtful replies 💭

CalmFront7908 | CalmFront7908

Spouse wets bed, but expects partner to clean it? NTA

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Supportive commenters rally behind OP against judgmental sister-in-law 👏

Furion85 | Furion85

CNA advises woman to not let her lazy husband shame her ❤️

LadyNCO | LadyNCO

Recognize abuse, seek help. 💔

Characterde | Characterde

Wet bed, dry ego. NTA's refusal to clean causes conflict.

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Empathize with frustrated husband, but in-laws intervention was wrong 😕

avocadotoast996 | avocadotoast996

NTA. Nurse suggests bed pads and skilled nursing help. 💼💡

twinmom06 | twinmom06

Spouse refuses to clean up after himself, needs therapy 🤷‍♀️

FloatingPencil | FloatingPencil

NTA: Commenter calls out husband's hypocrisy in bed-wetting situation 🤔

Equivalent_Pizza_837 | Equivalent_Pizza_837

Setting boundaries is crucial for caregivers. 💪

ChicagoFly123 | ChicagoFly123

Encourage use of diapers, prioritize your well-being. 💪

rosarevolution | rosarevolution

Partner with medical conditions treats wife like a nurse 💉

azewonder | azewonder

Wife caring for incontinent husband but can't neglect her own sleep 💤

WalthamRoast27 | WalthamRoast27

Incontinence pants are medical equipment. NTA for suggesting them.

beeedw | beeedw

Gratitude for partner's help in health issues, not rudeness. 🙏

sarah280590 | sarah280590

Medical professional confirms NTA and offers advice to OP. 💊

Runnrgirl | Runnrgirl

Stand your ground! 🙌 No one should be responsible for adult bed-wetting.

MommaGuy | MommaGuy

Commenter suggests medical issue may be causing husband's bedwetting.

PsillyGecko | PsillyGecko

Husband's bedwetting behavior resembles that of a defiant toddler 🙈

paul_rudds_drag_race | paul_rudds_drag_race

Setting boundaries is important. NTA for making him clean up.

bakesgirls | bakesgirls

Leave that disrespectful husband 🚫🧹🛏️ and find happiness elsewhere 💔

Flimsy-Field-8321 | Flimsy-Field-8321

Hiring a professional caregiver can save your sleep and sanity ✨

missveronicaleigh | missveronicaleigh

Helpful suggestion for waterproof mattress topper for husband's issue. NTA.

hepburn17 | hepburn17

Taking a stand against a bed-wetting husband 🛏️💦

sylvanwhisper | sylvanwhisper

Caring for incontinence is a marathon, not a sprint. Set boundaries.

Cat_got_ya_tongue | Cat_got_ya_tongue

Empowering response! 🙌 NTA chose wisely in this situation.

PattersonsOlady | PattersonsOlady

Not the a**hole for refusing to clean bed 💦🛏️

CarelessSky5867 | CarelessSky5867

Husband's illness used as an excuse for manipulating and mistreating wife 😔

Old-Cry- | Old-Cry-

A helpful suggestion for a difficult situation 👍

geordiehippo | geordiehippo

Not the a**hole for refusing to clean after husband's accidents 💦

Zanetti616 | Zanetti616

Refusing to clean after husband repeatedly wets bed is NTA 👏

ameeelia13 | ameeelia13

Commenter shares personal experience with diuretic medication.

Fantastic_Tale_5816 | Fantastic_Tale_5816

Husband's weaponized incontinence and gaslighting - NTA for upholding boundaries 😤

skeetzmv | skeetzmv

Wife not at fault for husband's bedwetting problem. 🛌

Punkinpry427 | Punkinpry427

Refusing to clean urine-soaked bed, but still the good guy 🦸‍♀️

Straight-Example9126 | Straight-Example9126

Spouse wets bed, partner refuses to clean. Divorce?

domatesx | domatesx

Handling gastrointestinal issues with dignity and hygiene. 💪

acadia171223 | acadia171223

Husband's bed-wetting makes wife refuse to clean. NTA wins.

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