Wife Humiliates Sick Husband in Front of Their Children

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A woman's husband has been wetting the bed after being released from the hospital. Despite medication suggestions, he refuses to wear adult diapers, leaving his wife to clean up after him. After reaching her limit, the woman showed their kids the state of the bed and accused her husband of throwing tantrums when asked to wear a diaper. The husband was embarrassed and accused the woman of being cruel and trying to turn the kids against him. Is she the a**hole?

Wife refuses to use adult diapers for sick husband 💩

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Wife lashes out at husband for wetting bed 🛏️

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Wife embarrasses sick husband in front of their children 😳

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Defending myself against accusations while humiliating sick husband - 🙄

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Wife shames husband for bedwetting in front of their children 💩

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Husband's health confession leads to wife's cruel humiliation 😔

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Advice from sister leads to guilt over involving kids 😔

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Wife publicly shames ill husband in front of kids. AITA?

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🚨Wife humiliates husband for wetting bed🚨

A wife vents about her sick husband who refuses to wear adult diapers despite wetting the bed. One day, she loses her patience and humiliates him in front of their children. The husband feels terrible and accuses the wife of being cruel and trying to turn the kids against him. The wife is feeling conflicted and wonders if she did the right thing. Read on for comments and reactions.

Caregiver burnout is real. Hiring outside help is best. 👍

Hope4-2morrow | Hope4-2morrow

Healthcare worker offers alternative solution to diaper for incontinence.

roadblokswifey | roadblokswifey

Caregiving for sick family members can be tough. Husband and OP both suck, but husband slightly more.

PussyBoogersAuGraten | PussyBoogersAuGraten

Wearing adult diapers can be embarrassing, but it's a simple fix 😳

mugofanxitea | mugofanxitea

Husband refuses diapers, wife sleeps on the couch. NTA

Lea_R_ning | Lea_R_ning

Wife receives mixed YTA comments for humiliating sick husband.

bug9678 | bug9678

NTA. Man should wear diapers to avoid humiliation in front of kids.

__kartoshka | __kartoshka

Caregiving is hard, but humiliating your spouse isn't the answer 😕

Spare-Article-396 | Spare-Article-396

Choosing pride over practicality: NTA for calling out husband's behavior.

Pseud-o-nym | Pseud-o-nym

Defending a caregiver's decision to call out a husband's ego.

Substantial-Event441 | Substantial-Event441

Husband refuses to wear diapers, wife burnt out caring. NTA.

Hot_Lemon8733 | Hot_Lemon8733

Spouse refuses to address his health; wife exposes his irrationality 🤢

No-Satisfaction-1878 | No-Satisfaction-1878

👍 Spouse should wear diapers to ease burden on exhausted mom.

KIWI-456 | KIWI-456

Husband refuses to wear adult diaper, wife humiliated in front of kids. ESH.

Expat_89 | Expat_89

Commenter calls out husband's hypocrisy about wearing diapers. ESH.

nana_banana2 | nana_banana2

Husband refuses diaper, wife refuses to clean. Who's the AH?

Booklovergirl-123 | Booklovergirl-123

Wife frustrated with husband's refusal to wear diapers, NTA.

josephinesparrows | josephinesparrows

Commenter sympathizes with the wife's frustration and suggests a solution 💡

Mabelisms | Mabelisms

Spouse struggles with cleaning up sick partner's messes 💩

dragon34 | dragon34

Couple's marital issues escalate as they humiliate each other. 🤦‍♀️

agIets | agIets

Spouse snaps after husband repeatedly wets bed; ESH.

Tinderella80 | Tinderella80

Cleaning up bodily fluids daily destroys bed, but humiliating husband? ESH.

Accomplished-Cheek59 | Accomplished-Cheek59

ESH but the wife's intentional humiliation was unforgivable 💔

ArbitraryAngelfish | ArbitraryAngelfish

A caregiver's exhaustion vs a sick man's pride. 👀💼🏖🛏️

agathafletcher | agathafletcher

Supporting independence while respecting boundaries 🙌

Conscious_Fold2374 | Conscious_Fold2374

Husband refuses to wear protective garments, wife snaps in front of kids - ESH.

DrMominator | DrMominator

Suggesting solutions for incontinence, calling out the wife's behavior. 🩲

Empress_LC | Empress_LC

Caregiving is a demanding job, even for those who love deeply 💔 NTA

Infinite-Variation31 | Infinite-Variation31

Venting to family is fine, but involving kids is wrong 🙅

lepposplitthejooves | lepposplitthejooves

Spouse refuses to follow medical advice, wife reaches breaking point 💔

lmno2050 | lmno2050

When dealing with tough situations, involving kids is an ESH move 😕

redvood00 | redvood00

Communication is key 🔑. Don't embarrass your partner in front of kids.

Condorman73 | Condorman73

Both parties at fault, but involving kids is not okay 😕

Lost-Concept-9973 | Lost-Concept-9973

Both sides should be more considerate. 😔

SevereAd1962 | SevereAd1962

Managing a sick spouse's condition isn't easy. 💊

lmno2050 | lmno2050

Spouse shames sick partner for bedwetting, but he needs empathy 💔

Stargazer86F | Stargazer86F

Wife struggles with caretaking while husband refuses to wear diapers 💩

Elle3247 | Elle3247

Caregiving can be exhausting, NTA for reacting but involve kids? 🤔

cutestlesbian | cutestlesbian

A helpful suggestion for urinary incontinence amidst ESH. 🩲💦

Hello_Bardoit | Hello_Bardoit

Depressed husband and ESH judgment in family humiliation incident

ElderberryTrick7495 | ElderberryTrick7495

Commenter deems both parties at fault, suggests solution 💩

LoupGarou95 | LoupGarou95

Parents argue over diapers in a cringey family moment 😬

My_genx_life | My_genx_life

Wife shames husband for bed-wetting; commenter supports her actions. 💩

Ok_Razzmatazz_7844 | Ok_Razzmatazz_7844

Sick husband, reusable bed pads, and kids as therapists. ESH.

Greyeyedqueen7 | Greyeyedqueen7

Taking responsibility for cleanliness may save this marriage 💍🧹

Sea-Ad9057 | Sea-Ad9057

Honesty is the best policy 🤷‍♀️

witchesbeslytherin | witchesbeslytherin

Involving kids is wrong, but he should wear a diaper 🥴

EmiliusReturns | EmiliusReturns

ESH: Husband needs to help himself, wife shouldn't involve kids.

tgordon0622 | tgordon0622

Normalize health issues and communicate with your kids. 💪

pom-pom-ahoy | pom-pom-ahoy

Managing incontinence requires exploring options like waterproof covers and mats.

Nefarious-kitten | Nefarious-kitten

Using adult diapers shouldn't be shameful. NTA.

pittsburgpam | pittsburgpam

Husband's embarrassment isn't the problem, but kids don't deserve this 😔. Practical tips for bedwetting included 🛌.

penguinliz | penguinliz

Spouse refuses to wear diaper, NTA for exposing his mess.

rainbow_mak3r | rainbow_mak3r

Setting boundaries without involving kids is important, ESH agrees.

oOo_a_Butterfly | oOo_a_Butterfly

A difficult situation for both parties, but kids shouldn't be involved 😔

Vivid-Network-3893 | Vivid-Network-3893

Wetting the bed due to a medical condition is nothing shameful 💦

TruCat87 | TruCat87

Humorous reply suggests treating childish behavior with humor 🤣

PapagenoRed | PapagenoRed

Compromising on a waterproof cover may ease the stress. 🙏

kathrynpowers | kathrynpowers

Sick husband refuses diaper, wife refuses to clean sheets. 💩

Mumfiegirl | Mumfiegirl

Spouse shaming sick partner in front of kids: ESH 🤔

Eggs-Eggs | Eggs-Eggs

Husband's unreasonable behavior calls for tough love parenting. ESH.

nemma88 | nemma88

Both parties at fault in this family feud. 💔

Sk111W | Sk111W