A woman’s husband has been wetting the bed after being released from the hospital. Despite medication suggestions, he refuses to wear adult diapers, leaving his wife to clean up after him. After reaching her limit, the woman showed their kids the state of the bed and accused her husband of throwing tantrums when asked to wear a diaper. The husband was embarrassed and accused the woman of being cruel and trying to turn the kids against him. Is she the a**hole?
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Wife humiliates husband for wetting bed
A wife vents about her sick husband who refuses to wear adult diapers despite wetting the bed. One day, she loses her patience and humiliates him in front of their children. The husband feels terrible and accuses the wife of being cruel and trying to turn the kids against him. The wife is feeling conflicted and wonders if she did the right thing. Read on for comments and reactions .
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Husband refuses diapers, wife sleeps on the couch. NTA
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NTA. Man should wear diapers to avoid humiliation in front of kids.
Caregiving is hard, but humiliating your spouse isn’t the answer
Choosing pride over practicality: NTA for calling out husband’s behavior.
Defending a caregiver’s decision to call out a husband’s ego.
Husband refuses to wear diapers, wife burnt out caring. NTA.
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Spouse should wear diapers to ease burden on exhausted mom.
Husband refuses to wear adult diaper, wife humiliated in front of kids. ESH.
Commenter calls out husband’s hypocrisy about wearing diapers. ESH.
Husband refuses diaper, wife refuses to clean. Who’s the AH?
Wife frustrated with husband’s refusal to wear diapers, NTA.
Commenter sympathizes with the wife’s frustration and suggests a solution
Spouse struggles with cleaning up sick partner’s messes
Couple’s marital issues escalate as they humiliate each other. ♀️
Spouse snaps after husband repeatedly wets bed; ESH.
Cleaning up bodily fluids daily destroys bed, but humiliating husband? ESH.
ESH but the wife’s intentional humiliation was unforgivable
A caregiver’s exhaustion vs a sick man’s pride. ️
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Husband refuses to wear protective garments, wife snaps in front of kids – ESH.
Suggesting solutions for incontinence, calling out the wife’s behavior.
Caregiving is a demanding job, even for those who love deeply NTA
Venting to family is fine, but involving kids is wrong
Spouse refuses to follow medical advice, wife reaches breaking point
When dealing with tough situations, involving kids is an ESH move
Communication is key . Don’t embarrass your partner in front of kids.
Both parties at fault, but involving kids is not okay
Both sides should be more considerate.
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Spouse shames sick partner for bedwetting, but he needs empathy
Wife struggles with caretaking while husband refuses to wear diapers
Caregiving can be exhausting, NTA for reacting but involve kids?
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Depressed husband and ESH judgment in family humiliation incident
Commenter deems both parties at fault, suggests solution
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Sick husband, reusable bed pads, and kids as therapists. ESH.
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Involving kids is wrong, but he should wear a diaper
ESH: Husband needs to help himself, wife shouldn’t involve kids.
Normalize health issues and communicate with your kids.
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Using adult diapers shouldn’t be shameful. NTA.
Husband’s embarrassment isn’t the problem, but kids don’t deserve this . Practical tips for bedwetting included .
Spouse refuses to wear diaper, NTA for exposing his mess.
Setting boundaries without involving kids is important, ESH agrees.
A difficult situation for both parties, but kids shouldn’t be involved
Wetting the bed due to a medical condition is nothing shameful
Humorous reply suggests treating childish behavior with humor
Compromising on a waterproof cover may ease the stress.
Sick husband refuses diaper, wife refuses to clean sheets.
Spouse shaming sick partner in front of kids: ESH
Husband’s unreasonable behavior calls for tough love parenting. ESH.
Both parties at fault in this family feud.
